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Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge

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RolledDahl · 21/06/2026 08:37

Anyone here work in a Library?
For those of you who don't, you may know that every summer we promote the Summer Reading Challenge from the Reading Agency. It's a lovely way to encourage children to keep reading over the summer holidays.

This year the Reading Agency have chosen Harry Woodgate as the illustrator - he is the author of the controversial book Grandad's Pride, which included images of fetish wear...many of you may remember the concerns over some of his illustrations.

I shouldn't be surprised, knowing how captured the literary (& library) arena is in general, but it does seem to be a very deliberate decision.
And I'm not entirely convinced that his use of baby blue and pink as predominant background colours in the posters was completely accidental 😒

Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge
Author/illustrator of 'Grandads Pride' chosen as artist for the Summer Reading Challenge
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EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:38

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:34

Nor am I entertaining this GCSE level reverse psychology 😂

Enjoy your Sunday eve x

I thought it might be too hard for you. Quicker with the usual insults than just a clear answer.

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:38

SideboobToYouToo · 21/06/2026 19:36

Crikey, I got deleted and assuming it's because I used the word rooming, with a g in front.
WTF?

Hmm I wonder why

IsThisTheReaLife · 21/06/2026 19:42

There are some lovely toddler books that describe different families, with out the use of bondage.

This one is great.
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Family-Book-Todd-Parr/dp/0316070408

My challenge is if you are putting adult images in books, who is the real audience?

I am not sure this illistrator ahould be 'cancelled', but he should have a good hard think.

Amazon

Amazon

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Family-Book-Todd-Parr/dp/0316070408?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-womens-rights-5545035-5545035-authorillustrator-of-grandads-pride-chosen-as-artist-for-the-summer-reading-challenge

thelongesday · 21/06/2026 19:44

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:18

I actually use the word transphobe, usually. I don't believe there's such a thing as gender critical any more than race critical. But manners cost nothing :)

What I've said about the Vatican is verifiable fact. They're also responsible for the term 'same sex attracted'.

Evidence of both please because I'm struggling to find any.

'I am not entertaining this pathetic attempt at a gotcha' just means you don't have an answer really doesn't it.

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:48

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:38

I thought it might be too hard for you. Quicker with the usual insults than just a clear answer.

Did ye aye? 😂

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:50

thelongesday · 21/06/2026 19:44

Evidence of both please because I'm struggling to find any.

'I am not entertaining this pathetic attempt at a gotcha' just means you don't have an answer really doesn't it.

Weird. Because I googled "Where did the term gender ideology come from?" and there it was. So I'm guessing you didn't really struggle you just didn't bother :)

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:51

thelongesday · 21/06/2026 19:44

Evidence of both please because I'm struggling to find any.

'I am not entertaining this pathetic attempt at a gotcha' just means you don't have an answer really doesn't it.

Yep. If they had an answer to a basic question maybe they’d have a point. But no. How bad can it be for it to crumble so quickly

Adults using dc as part of the ideology doesn’t wash though.

Arran2024 · 21/06/2026 19:51

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 18:57

The term?
Absolutely.

I mean, the amount of people I've witness banging on about safeguarding in adult changing rooms, just leaves me bewildered.

Safeguarding applies to young people and vulnerable adults. Not someone who wants to ban trans people from public lol.

Same as referring to toilets as safe spaces.... Eh????? 😂

You do know that vulnerable adults and children use changing rooms?

Vulnerable adults include the elderly.

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:53

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:51

Yep. If they had an answer to a basic question maybe they’d have a point. But no. How bad can it be for it to crumble so quickly

Adults using dc as part of the ideology doesn’t wash though.

I have neither the energy nor the inclination to respond to a load of long-exhausted, silly, reductive tropes - with someone who refuses to acknowledge anything beyond the propaganda and misinformation, you've so happily and greedily gobbled down.

No thank you 😂

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:55

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:53

I have neither the energy nor the inclination to respond to a load of long-exhausted, silly, reductive tropes - with someone who refuses to acknowledge anything beyond the propaganda and misinformation, you've so happily and greedily gobbled down.

No thank you 😂

Yes I think that about your posts. But it still doesn’t address simple questions.

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:55

Arran2024 · 21/06/2026 19:51

You do know that vulnerable adults and children use changing rooms?

Vulnerable adults include the elderly.

Being elderly does not automatically make someone a "vulnerable adult" in a legal OR a safeguarding sense.

Thank you for proving my point xx

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:56

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 19:55

Yes I think that about your posts. But it still doesn’t address simple questions.

Okay?

Good for you then?

Off you pop x

Grammarnut · 21/06/2026 20:15

Waheymum · 21/06/2026 09:38

All this thread has achieved is to make me want to read the book to my toddler! I'm sure all this stuff just goes over children's heads.

The book in question includes men in fetish gear and women with mastectomy scars (i.e. trans men, TiFs) who are part of the pride parade. There is also an illustration of an attic with some interesting codes, the one that stood out was the word map capitalised - which stands for minor attracted people - as well as several other slightly more subtle red flags. Not for small children because it normalises what is not only not normal but not in the least acceptable in a public setting where there are safeguarding issues.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 20:15

Imnobody4 · 21/06/2026 18:05

I wish I hadn't got into this. The thread is about Harry Woodgate being employed as illustrator for the Summer Reading Challenge not a rehash of a discussion of a specific book. But OK I'll respond to your interrogation.

Do you know any father who, knowing the illustrations that the book contained, would want to read it to, and explain it to, his three or four year old child? Because children see things, then they ask questions about things they don't understand. And, from my experience, good men will see things for what they are, and would be horrified at having to explain something like that illustration to their child. I've seen it in a male cousin, just newly a father, wanting to protect his baby from everything. I thought he was clueless. Turns out he was not. I think most decent men know exactly what's right or wrong when it comes to children.

I think it is the responsibility of parents to read books for under 5s before sharing them. If they don't think the content is appropriate they shouldn't share it. I don't know any fathers of young children at the moment. Obviously some may be happy with book as a whole and deal with that picture if asked in any number of age appropriate ways.
Now, do you know any father who would see that illustration and think that was appropriate for children?
If so, do you think that's right?

As I've said before it was ill judged

If not, then why are you excusing the man who imagined the image in the first place, then drew it, then submitted it for publication? For a children's book.
I am not excusing. It was ill judged but in the context of Pride it's accurate.
If he could do it again, do you think this man would continue to "imagine" and "draw" illustrations just like that one, for children's books?

He's an illustrator who has worked on other books. He's also written a couple of others. I see no reason to 'imagine' his mission is to introduce under 5s to S&M porn.

Would you be uncomfortable if he were allowed to keep doing so, and then did so?

His work should be judged by the same standards as other children's authors and illustrators.

How many of these kinds of illustrations would he need to draw before you decided you weren't comfortable with them?

Let me know when he produces something else like this. Meanwhile perhaps you should look at some of his other work, do you object to his art work for the Reading Challenge?

I think it is the responsibility of parents to read books for under 5s before sharing them.

Sadly, they’d be silly not to these days. I also think that the publishers should have a duty of care to not advertise books for children that have sexual content. I’m amazed and saddened that this has to be pointed out but here we are.

His work should be judged by the same standards as other children's authors and illustrators.

Yes it should be. There is a big question about why his Granddad book clearly wasn’t held to the same standards as other authors. That is a problem.

Let me know when he produces something else like this. Meanwhile perhaps you should look at some of his other work, do you object to his art work for the Reading Challenge?

Or perhaps, as he doesn’t appear to understand the problem, he should just not be given a privileged position that I’m sure lots of safeguarding aware people would love? Why should he get more chances?

Anyway, thanks for providing some highly illuminating insight into how these books and unsuitable materials come to be produced and these disordered men given repeated opportunities they don’t deserve.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 20:18

Imnobody4 · 21/06/2026 18:27

Well that's a bit 'when did you stop hitting your wife'
Maybe check your facts if you think your memory may need correcting

So no answer to my question then.

I understand, it probably doesn’t sound too great when you say it out loud.

I can’t face trawling his ‘trans rights’ posts right now but feel free to dig out any apology if he has made one. It would be a small relief.

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 20:23

Waheymum · 21/06/2026 09:38

All this thread has achieved is to make me want to read the book to my toddler! I'm sure all this stuff just goes over children's heads.

You do that. The problem with the book gets worse. References to MAP for one.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 21/06/2026 20:25

NecklessMumster · 21/06/2026 19:09

Thank you for raising this, I am a volunteer for the summer reading challenge and am interested to know this, we were shown the new illustrations etc in training recently. What I am wary of is the data collection, we are told to ask if the child is male or female or identifies as 'something else'. This is for 0 to 11 year olds. The parent has to give the details as under 13 yrs not allowed to give consent for data yet still supposed to ask. Last year I just put the obvious answers down but another volunteer got a talking to for not taking it seriously ( think one of the other volunteers reported him)

Oh my goodness. So this material is being used to indoctrinate kids into thinking there is something other than male and female. It gets worse. I am horrified that a library would allow itself to be used like this.

EasternStandard · 21/06/2026 20:27

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 20:23

You do that. The problem with the book gets worse. References to MAP for one.

Why would adults want dc to see that normalised.

I mean not really to you as we agree, just generally

Willowspaw · 21/06/2026 20:31

In my library there is a question when we register people called gender: the options are male female transgender or prefer not to say.
I have never asked anyone the question as I am assuming the data they are collecting is actually sex and I can see that without having to ask.
We are only allowed to collect and hold data that is useful and relevant.
As to the subject of the thread, it would have been better for someone else to be given the opportunity to illustrate the summer reading challenge.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 20:35

DandelionFarmer · 21/06/2026 20:23

You do that. The problem with the book gets worse. References to MAP for one.

Oh for fucks sake no it does not reference MAP. It has a picture of a map in it, as part of a box of Grandad's stuff, many of which seem to be momentos of travel. Including - shock horror - a map of somewhere he had visited.

I remember the original thread a few years ago precisely because of the absolute batshit claim from some that this was somehow a veiled reference to paedophilia, it was just so absurd and would be hilarious if it wasn't so offensive to automatically assume a picture of a map in a book about a gay man is a reference to paedophilia.

SabrinaThwaite · 21/06/2026 20:36

SinnerBoy · 21/06/2026 13:06

It's not only all the BDSM gear he wears, there is also the Love is Love paedophile motto, as well as a book with MAP - code for paedophiles, used by people who want to normalise paedophilia.

It was this’ nod nod, wink wink, look what I’m doing, ha ha’ that was shocking.

NecklessMumster · 21/06/2026 20:36

I don't want to ask a child whether they want to call themselves a boy or a girl, it implies there's choice, which I dont agree with..

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 20:37

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 20:35

Oh for fucks sake no it does not reference MAP. It has a picture of a map in it, as part of a box of Grandad's stuff, many of which seem to be momentos of travel. Including - shock horror - a map of somewhere he had visited.

I remember the original thread a few years ago precisely because of the absolute batshit claim from some that this was somehow a veiled reference to paedophilia, it was just so absurd and would be hilarious if it wasn't so offensive to automatically assume a picture of a map in a book about a gay man is a reference to paedophilia.

These people are bona fide conspiracy theory level deluded.

Zoonosis · 21/06/2026 20:47

Willowspaw · 21/06/2026 20:31

In my library there is a question when we register people called gender: the options are male female transgender or prefer not to say.
I have never asked anyone the question as I am assuming the data they are collecting is actually sex and I can see that without having to ask.
We are only allowed to collect and hold data that is useful and relevant.
As to the subject of the thread, it would have been better for someone else to be given the opportunity to illustrate the summer reading challenge.

We are only allowed to collect and hold data that is useful and relevant.

Fascinating you're pretending to care about GDPR when you've admitted at least 3 violations of it in this post:

  • People have a right to be informed what data you are collecting, so by not asking the question but still recording an answer you are denying them this information
  • People have a right to "prefer not to say" even if you think the answer is obvious, you are denying them this option by not actually asking them the question
  • People have a right to data being held about them being accurate - you are not actually checking accuracy, you are just recording your best guess
  • People have the right to answer these questions themselves, it is not for you to do it on their behalf, even if your answer matches theirs you've still overstepped

And GDPR aside, your employer has asked you to collect certain data including the number of library users who identify as trans (demographic data about library users is useful for planning resources) and you are refusing to do so because you apparently have an ideological opposition to the existence of trans people. You're going to have some explaining to do to both your GDPR officer and your manager if you ever get found out.

Arran2024 · 21/06/2026 20:47

MyBlueCritic · 21/06/2026 19:55

Being elderly does not automatically make someone a "vulnerable adult" in a legal OR a safeguarding sense.

Thank you for proving my point xx

You said "Safeguarding applies to young people and vulnerable adults". Vulnerable adults includes the elderly, disabled, learning disabled, autistic, children.

Let's ignore the elderly for now since not all of them are vulnerable.

But women with learning disabilities - my daughter- are vulnerable. It isn't OK to dismiss people like her as a sort of theoretical footnote whose needs for safety in changing rooms etc is inconvenient.

Safeguarding affects enough women to mean it cannot be ignored, dismissed as irrelevant.

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