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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Has there been an influx of TRAs to Mumsnet recently?

151 replies

ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 16:08

I'm a long time reader. Only recently started to participate.

I very rarely saw any TRAs on here over the years. But in the past few weeks, I've noticed a lot of them coming here.

You can generally tell by the absolute shite coming out of their mouths, such as being avid apologists for sex offenders.

What's their deal with coming here? Are they saying that their 'womanhood' is reliant on us conforming to their belief, so they're trying to get us to agree with them? If that's so, then welcome!!! You're going to have to get used to reality real quick if you stick around.

Has anyone else noticed this, or just me?

OP posts:
BiologicalRobot · 17/06/2026 22:51

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

I thought there was only rapist gender. Are you telling me Nicola got it wrong and there's more?? 😱

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:54

BiologicalRobot · 17/06/2026 22:51

I thought there was only rapist gender. Are you telling me Nicola got it wrong and there's more?? 😱

One of them seemed to imply it wasn't just rapist gender but criminal gender too!

BridgetPhillipsonIsACowardlyJobsworth · 17/06/2026 23:31

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:54

One of them seemed to imply it wasn't just rapist gender but criminal gender too!

Yes, now that you mention it, this is coming up a lot lately. "Criminal gender" is going on the list!

SwirlyGates · 17/06/2026 23:35

Maybe they're having a competition. Go on mumsnet, post something stupid and see how many replies you can get, with a point per quoted post.

I'm going to have to stop responding to the batshittery.

murasaki · 17/06/2026 23:37

SwirlyGates · 17/06/2026 23:35

Maybe they're having a competition. Go on mumsnet, post something stupid and see how many replies you can get, with a point per quoted post.

I'm going to have to stop responding to the batshittery.

Could well be.

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

DeanElderberry · 17/06/2026 16:12

school holidays, very predictable

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

murasaki · 17/06/2026 23:40

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

A lot of kids finished their gcses this week.

IwantToRetire · 18/06/2026 01:13

I think one of the problems is that there has been an increased number of threads about TW / TRAs. Speculating etc., etc..

As though they were interesting.

Personally I dont think women, let alone gender critical feminists who believe in women's sex based rights need to "understand".

All that is important is that they, and all the hangers on understand and accept that women have the right to self determination about their lives.

It likes spending time discussing why men are violent. Unless you are one of those men we dont know. But we do know that women have the right not to be the victim of male violence.

Equally women have the right not to have their sex based rights impinged on by men.

I think (given the male ego) having threads about them just implies to them that really we are interested.

Far better to take up FWR posts with news, ideas, actions, frivolity, etc., etc., that are centred on women.

Or maybe ask MNHQ who have already divided the feminist forum into a third one for Feminist Analyis of Trans - FAT.

NumberTheory · 18/06/2026 02:50

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

It’s already the summer break for most in the USA - where a hell of a lot of the TRA energy and (un)reasoning comes from judging by the language used.

Maaate · 18/06/2026 07:31

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

But absolutely no one would go to all the trouble of pretending to be trans...

...except when they do, apparently 🤷‍♀️

Soontobesleeping · 18/06/2026 07:43

Keeptoiletssafe · 17/06/2026 18:35

Toilets
Toilets
Toilets

But they only want to be left to take photos, masturbate next to women and rifle through the sanitary bin in peace!

Sausagenbacon · 18/06/2026 07:44

I come on here regularly because I'm GC and there's generally interesting and well-informed posts on here to support my position.
If i see boring or wind-up ('please explain all this to me') posts i don't bother with them.
I fail to see the point of
You can generally tell by the absolute shite coming out of their mouths, such as being avid apologists for sex offenders.
Just why?
It's like going from the FT to the Sunday Sport.

TheBafflingIsGenerallyComplete · 18/06/2026 07:46

It’s also Pride month (although, when isn’t it?) so they are probably whipped up by that too. Sex is real, gender is nonsense. And I say that as a Christian.

TheHateUGive · 18/06/2026 07:49

ByTheRiverside · 17/06/2026 21:31

What are you talking about? I've already said here that it's a good thing if the TIMs and TIFs come here, because it'll burst their little fantasy bubbles.

Given that their egos can't usually handle it, I'm just asking the question of "What's their purpose if they're all showing up now?"

Honestly, I dont think coming here would burst any bubbles.

I think perhaps the reason they are staying longer is because moderation has become more fair and/or better generally.

DeanElderberry · 18/06/2026 07:54

moltopianissimo · 17/06/2026 23:39

School holidays where? Even schools in Scotland don't break up for a couple of weeks.

My bad, secondary school holidays in Ireland since the end of May. College and university vacations. Silly young people with time on their hands and absolutely no idea that they are not being original.

Helleofabore · 18/06/2026 08:00

murasaki · 17/06/2026 22:46

The latest batch seem to think TiMs are only male when they've committed a crime. I think they think this is some sort of compromise we can agree on. It is not.

I don’t believe that this is new at all.

I remember posts where one poster who kept telling us how highly qualified in this field of study would take this position. That person would then deny that they were personally arbitrating who was and wasn’t trans.

Helleofabore · 18/06/2026 08:02

OP. People name change all the time. I think that there is not as many new ones as it might seem because most of them have styles that are familiar.

Diverze · 18/06/2026 08:02

This is a mean spirited little thread. "Hairy knuckled punch to the jaw"? Really?

Didn't you get taught that "two wrongs don't make a right"?

I used to think I agreed with FWR. I am glad I see things differently now.

highame · 18/06/2026 08:05

For a good number of years we were asking for debate, we were thrown 'no debate' as the response. It was very frustrating. I welcome any and all who want to participate. We have great arguments and need to keep our skills honed. This debate isn't over and I, for one, want to know what others are thinking.
If we're shying away from confrontation, then, are we worthy of calling ourselves feminists? Just askin

SwirlyGates · 18/06/2026 08:39

@highame I'm happy to debate, but I don't think the recent influx of posters are posting in good faith. They just want to provoke.

Veilsofmorning · 18/06/2026 08:42

Just for the record, another one this morning- so obviously bad faith, now deleted

Taztoy · 18/06/2026 08:44

I’d really like a proper debate with a TRA to see if there could be any understanding of trauma from and to them, and any workable solutions to identifying trans individuals in a way that isn’t just internal to them and a discussion around why it’s so important that they take over single sex spaces of the opposite sex. I’ve tried multiple times.

I don’t ever get that though.

highame · 18/06/2026 08:45

There was never good faith. Nothing has changed, except we are now in a much stronger position and TRA's are having to make an attempt. Worrying for them is that their arguments don't stand against reality, they never did. It's the new kid on the block - you don't have to justify anything if you are the most persecuted against. However, it no longer works, well done us

relaxitsok · 18/06/2026 08:46

Veilsofmorning · 18/06/2026 08:42

Just for the record, another one this morning- so obviously bad faith, now deleted

That one was hilarious - ‘on JKR’. I had to look the name up in case he was a podcaster or someone I should know, with that megalomaniac thread title.

Bertiebiscuit · 18/06/2026 08:52

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 22:07

Bingo! Echo chamber!
I called it in my post at 16:23.
I win!

Indeed you did, well done, 💐💐💐🏆

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