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British Orienteering has peaked!

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ArabellaScott · 17/06/2026 10:38

https://www.britishorienteering.org.uk/news/6799/british_orienteering_transgender_policy

'Entry Classes for female competitors are prefixed by “W” and are restricted to those whose biological sex at birth was female.
An Entry Class prefixed by “M” is unrestricted by sex.
Those whose biological sex at birth was not female are only allowed to enter an Entry Class prefixed by “W” if they declare themselves non-competitive..'

News

https://www.britishorienteering.org.uk/news/6799/british_orienteering_transgender_policy

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ArabellaScott · 17/06/2026 13:59

lornad00m · 17/06/2026 13:43

@FlowersInDenmark 'Anyway. You all suck. So much.'

If all else fails, spit your dummy out. That'll show them.

Beth Behrs Success GIF by CBS

There's a reason the TRAs struggle to come up with any arguments.

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ArabellaScott · 17/06/2026 14:00

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 17/06/2026 13:53

Forgive me for going off piste a bit but I can't help wondering if the trans identified man who plays outside second desk in the first violin section isn't allowed to use the ladies in the interval does that mean that women are no good at music?
Or is is genocide?
It's just so difficult to keep up.

That seems to be the claim.

If we won't allow cross-dressers in the changing rooms, it obviously means that we are saying women are bad at swimming.

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Treaclewell · 17/06/2026 14:10

Treaclewell · 17/06/2026 13:46

Thank you for those references. There are reasons for my not orienteering which are nothing to do with map reading. As my mother said, Ihave ploughman's legs, thick and slow. (They used to be strong muscles - couldn't run with them, but if I came across anyone who fell into a mire, I was your woman. Not muscles now.)
My dad taught me map reading as a useful skill - I still have his army protractor. I can turn maps in my mind, don't need to turn the paper. Can even turn it in 3D, useful if I know the geology. Or without the physical map, if it's an area I know.
But what really made the difference was walking about Folkestone as a child, with an obvious base line in the hills, which I could always see. I almost never see girl children out playing - we can all imagine why - but frequently see boys, who thus have the opportunity to build their own internal maps, as I did, and still know the location of every girl's house whose mother said she couldn't come and play, 70 years ago. Probably rightly suspecting me of enticing Violet-Elisabeth into damming streams and climbing trees.
I really enjoyed it when the PE curriculum included an orienteering module, not off the premises at Y4, but I think they had as much fun as I did devising it.

Should add, I have no absolute recognitiion of North, I have to tranafer it to my internal map from OS etc. I had terrible trouble navigating round Clacton when I went to college, as I thought it faced E when it was the same angle as the sea at Dover, SE, and the flipping place is flipping flat. I could walk to Jaywick or Frinton, but away from the sea, nothing. And when men give me directions based on pubs, cannot process them.

ArabellaScott · 17/06/2026 14:16

I have a fucking tip top sense of direction and stellar map reading skillz.

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MissyGirlie · 17/06/2026 14:22

FlowersInDenmark · 17/06/2026 11:18

Yes, I agree. Fun thing is that extending a helping hand to trans women for those same reasons doesn't diminish us. Banning trans women, on the other hand, says women are dumb at maps. Yay!!!

I haven't RTFT but this is just dense.
Orienteering is to do with map-reading and then reaching the next point as fast as possible.
With sexes can read maps but - get this - men run faster than women. Hence women's world records being slower than men's world records.

I never thought I'd feel the need to explain this to a grown-assed human, but here we are.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 17/06/2026 14:33

Iwanttobeafraser · 17/06/2026 12:37

I have theories on this..... Grin. It's a theory I developed re driviing. The sexist stereotype is that women are poorer drivers/more nervous drivers. I actually think that this is true.....

.... but not because of poor little women's brains being incompetent.

It's because of the way (overall - as always, it's not consistently true), women are TAUGHT to drive and the expectations for them. Teenage girls admitting they are scared of driving are likely to get support, accomodations may be made, they may be "let off" certain things. Teenage boys, overall, less so. There's a subtle, but real, expectation that boys will like driving, be good at it, even be TOO enthusiastic and likely to take too many risks.

Baically, societal wide sexism is so engrained it even affects this. Similarly to that research I saw a few years back that said if you ask girls how good they are at maths, even as young as 7, they'll say they're less good, even if objectively they are performing at the same level as the boys.

And I suspect with map reading, it's that same unconsious bias/sexism at play. This idea of "women being bad at navigation" that then infiltrates everything.

My father had zero tolerance for any suggestion that basic skills like map reading or driving were impacted by our sex. His view was that these were important skills and you needed to learn them, and learn them properly like many other core life skills from reading to cooking.

I'd agree with this.

DP (female) and I (male) would both agree that I'm the better driver. But that's not true. We're both good drivers. In 25 years of driving, I've had no accidents and she's had one, but it wasn't her fault. If anything, she's probably actually a slightly safer driver than me.

What I am however, is a far more confident driver. I am unbothered by unfamiliar roads, whether big scary motorways or tiny little lanes. I'll happily drive on the other side of the road abroad. I drive on and off the ferry when we visit my brother on the Isle of Wight. And if I fuck up while parallel parking, then I say "Fucked that up didn't I!, and do it again.

DP doesn't like unfamiliar motorways, or little country lanes. She won't drive abroad, and does not want to do the ferry. And if she fucks up while parallel parking, then it embarrasses her immensely and she gets all stressed about re trying it.

And she can get away with it, because all her life she's been able to say "Nope, don't want to do that" and get someone else to do it. Me, previous boyfriends, her Dad. I've never had that option, people would look at me stupid if I said I was scared to do the driving abroad. And so I just have to do it, or it wouldn't get done.

I taught DD to drive last year, and she's not getting away with it. I can't turn DP into a confident driver, but I can sure as shit show DD that you don't just become one as if by magic. You do it, because you have to, and you build that confidence slowly. We're heading to the Isle of Wight this weekend. She's driving onto the ferry, whether it scares her or not.

Cailin66 · 17/06/2026 14:59

SwirlyGates · 17/06/2026 12:25

My husband is a lifelong orienteer, and always turns a map to match the direction he is facing.

I've no idea what's right or wrong. But for me I have to turn it in the direction I'm heading or it doesn't make sense to me. In my married life my husband was the driver and I'd have the big map out of France or Spain out beside him, upside down or sideways, telling him where to do. The 'youth' nowadays can't find their way home without their phones .....

I think men tend to not move the map around.

One thing I most certainly know, the difference between a man and a woman. Sadly lacking in some posters on here.

Cailin66 · 17/06/2026 15:03

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 11:41

Fabulous post! Please, nobody report this for deletion. It's priceless.

Please please PM me what was said - this thread is hilarious ...

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 15:12

Cailin66 · 17/06/2026 15:03

Please please PM me what was said - this thread is hilarious ...

I don't have a copy but it was really long and very muddled and ended with "you all suck!" 😄

The poster just wanted to have a go at "feminists".

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 15:14

FlowersInDenmark · 17/06/2026 11:14

I mean, there is no need for male and female categories, except the societal pressure that makes women feel they're dumb at maps which means that a more supportive approach is helpful to overcome that. Which is also helpful for trans women who face transphobia as well as misogyny.

Also I've just finished volunteering at an ultra which was won outright by a woman. She managed, staggeringly, to overcome her Q angle and triumph using all those other bits of psychology and biology that are relevant to longer distances. But no, you're right, the Q angle is literally the only important thing, women suck, we will literally always lose at every single thing, and, did I mention, we're dumb at maps?

Yay feminism.

Are you drunk?

Mapletree1985 · 17/06/2026 15:17

FlowersInDenmark · 17/06/2026 11:03

What's great about all this feminist campaigning is it's forcing organisations to enshrine feminist principles like 'women are dumb at reading maps' into the heart of what they do. I know I, as a cis woman who likes orienteering, definitely feel like this is a victory for feminism. Yay feminism!

You use of the term ciswoman suggests you'd have no problem with a woman's class if transwomen were allowed to enter competitively. Hey maybe it was the trans orienteers' inability to read a map that first cracked their egg and let them know they were actually female. Science is awesome!

CraftandGlamour · 17/06/2026 15:18

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 11:23

@FlowersInDenmark The only person saying "women are dumb at maps" is you. Repeatedly.

If a man transitions to a woman, does he automatically become "dumb at maps"? That's quite a theory you have there.

Edited

Or "cis" on here. Cos that's my theory.

Great news OP, common sense slowly coming back into the room after a long fashionable absence.

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 15:20

Namingbaba · 17/06/2026 11:52

Sorry just saw a more recent post so editing. Do you think women and men would achieve the same at events at the Olympics if it weren’t for sexism?

Edited

I think flowers would say that having sex categories for games like tennis is a joke because women have good eyes too, it’s so sexist to pretend we don’t, there is nothing more to tennis than seeing the ball so Case. Closed and let women into the men’s category for Olympic tennis. Yay feminism.
(i think men’s eyesight probably differs from women’s but im ignoring that for the purpose of my hilarious post)

ArabellaScott · 17/06/2026 15:23

99bottlesofkombucha · 17/06/2026 15:14

Are you drunk?

I'm hoping Flowers will come back and join in with the thread because their input was entertaining.

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GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 15:26

Aside from the "entertaining input" (😄) I've also learnt a lot of interesting things from knowledgeable posters. Great thread!

SoImAHorseThenTed · 17/06/2026 15:46

Cioccoholic · 17/06/2026 13:34

Ok, you might all be right. I did have an overprotective upbringing which probably did produce the effect of me being passed some stereotypical “girl traits” even whilst my parents were trying to do the opposite.

But I am not convinced. I always considered my own dd (now 16) had inherited her dad’s genetic sense of direction and that this was a bit unusual. I will never forget that at age 3 she corrected me when I turned the wrong way - “mummy this is going to the park, not the doctor.” And she was right of course. She is the map reader for her DofE group, and is exasperated that the other girls in her group and the wider population (30 or more) all seem to get lost very easily. They go to an all girls school so there’s not really a concept of “this is for boys”.

You could read the two studies I linked to, both of which state that there is no evidence that a sense of direction is an evolutionary or genetic feature. The fact that you cannot map read and your DD can while ‘all the other girls can’t’ does not mean that she has inherited this as a genetic trait from her father. Looking into evolutionary advantages, ie the ‘survival of the fittest’ theory, all men throughout history by default must be adept at map reading and have a good sense of direction if this was necessary to survival. Basic genetics would suggest that they would pass this trait on in the same way as they would pass on their hair colour, not to all offspring but equally likely to male and female offspring. But studies have shown this not to be the case, and further studies have shown repeatedly that an ability to read a map is much more prevalent in men as a result of societal expectation and upbringing.

So just because you don’t happen to believe it doesn’t change the facts - navigation is a learned skill. And by persisting with the theory you can be born with a sense of direction you are contributing to the ongoing belief that women can be naturally poor at it if not born with the correct genetic material. Which disadvantages us all.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/06/2026 16:26

Hoardasurass · 17/06/2026 11:24

Transwomen are men so they dont suffer misogyny.
Women often make the best navigators due to our observational skills honed over a lifetime of having to threat asses every male we come across and every environment that we enter.
If transwomen face barriers which prevents them from taking part in orienteering then they should start a 3rd category with support tailored to them not try and shoehorn themselves into groups and categories tailored to women.
You can keep denying biological reality all you want but in a race men will always have an advantage over women.
Oh and there no need to respond because I wont be engaging further with you misogynistic nonses

Actually I'd say trans women both suffer from and exhibit misogyny.

They suffer from misogyny in that patriarchy devalues, rejects and (perhaps as a psychological result of the first two) often actively hates female humans. This then transfers onto anything that is female-associated or coded.

IMO both homophobia and "Transphobia" - the latter not of course the entirely reasonable statement that trans people are not in fact members of the opposite sex so we shouldn't pretend they are, but the real thing, the base emotional reaction of fear/hated of trans presenting people, especially men presenting as women, because their cross gender presentation is perceived as weird or wrong - are both simply different expressions of underlying sexism and misogyny.

The patriarchal subconcious (which both men and women have as a consequence of living in a patriarchy) believes male trumps female and therefore has the right to power and privilege that female does not, so reacts very strongly to a deliberately feminine male as a traitor to men.

As an analogy, in the 50s and 60s many white musicians playing blues were subject to abuse for playing "black" music. To that degree, despite not being black and so never facing the lifetime of racism that black musicians faced as an unescapable consequence of the immutable colour of their skin, they nevertheless were attacked and devalued because what they did offended racist values.

And yet, while recognising the above, it is ultimately undeniable that to believe in transgender identies one must first believe that there are mental aspects to of being "a woman" or "a man" which are the primary differences between the sexes not just consequences of ones life experiences of being one sex rather than the other. So primary indeed that one can be "really" the other sex based on ones mind alone.

And that also ultimately rests on the patriarchal constructs of the masculine and the feminine mind.

So while one can understand and accomodate the reality of transmisogyny within Feminist analys, ultimately Feminist analysis has to reject the primary existence of trans identies, understanding them as a phenomenon within patriarchy not a challenge from outside it.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/06/2026 16:31

Clarifying the above re:homophobia - not suggesting LGB people necessarily have a cross gender social presentation, but that under patriarchy homophobia is at root linked to the idea of someone taking the "wrong" role for their sex.

MarieDeGournay · 17/06/2026 16:47

I can not only read maps, I can refold them perfectly.
Just sayin'😎

MandyMotherOfBrian · 17/06/2026 16:50

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 15:12

I don't have a copy but it was really long and very muddled and ended with "you all suck!" 😄

The poster just wanted to have a go at "feminists".

I can't help but think FlowersInDenmark reported it themself. More than once. Just to get rid of it.

EmpressDomesticatednottamed · 17/06/2026 16:50

The Ordnance Survey will (or used to) print you a map with where you live right in the middle, not for free mind, they make you pay for it.
Anyway, twas was very useful after moving house and finding we live on the corners of about 4 different ones!
I like a proper map, spread out on the floor and looking at where everything is in relation to everything else.

MandyMotherOfBrian · 17/06/2026 16:53

GreyskySexRealistsky · 17/06/2026 15:26

Aside from the "entertaining input" (😄) I've also learnt a lot of interesting things from knowledgeable posters. Great thread!

Me too. I never realised that Orienteering was so interesting and, seemingly, right up my strasse. I've now been off to Google my local club, there's two, and plan to have a lovely day out, trying it with DD.

Hoardasurass · 17/06/2026 17:02

FlirtsWithRhinos · 17/06/2026 16:26

Actually I'd say trans women both suffer from and exhibit misogyny.

They suffer from misogyny in that patriarchy devalues, rejects and (perhaps as a psychological result of the first two) often actively hates female humans. This then transfers onto anything that is female-associated or coded.

IMO both homophobia and "Transphobia" - the latter not of course the entirely reasonable statement that trans people are not in fact members of the opposite sex so we shouldn't pretend they are, but the real thing, the base emotional reaction of fear/hated of trans presenting people, especially men presenting as women, because their cross gender presentation is perceived as weird or wrong - are both simply different expressions of underlying sexism and misogyny.

The patriarchal subconcious (which both men and women have as a consequence of living in a patriarchy) believes male trumps female and therefore has the right to power and privilege that female does not, so reacts very strongly to a deliberately feminine male as a traitor to men.

As an analogy, in the 50s and 60s many white musicians playing blues were subject to abuse for playing "black" music. To that degree, despite not being black and so never facing the lifetime of racism that black musicians faced as an unescapable consequence of the immutable colour of their skin, they nevertheless were attacked and devalued because what they did offended racist values.

And yet, while recognising the above, it is ultimately undeniable that to believe in transgender identies one must first believe that there are mental aspects to of being "a woman" or "a man" which are the primary differences between the sexes not just consequences of ones life experiences of being one sex rather than the other. So primary indeed that one can be "really" the other sex based on ones mind alone.

And that also ultimately rests on the patriarchal constructs of the masculine and the feminine mind.

So while one can understand and accomodate the reality of transmisogyny within Feminist analys, ultimately Feminist analysis has to reject the primary existence of trans identies, understanding them as a phenomenon within patriarchy not a challenge from outside it.

@FlirtsWithRhinos could you try saying that again only leaving out the word salad.

Men however they identify can't suffer from misogyny as its literally the hatred of women and girls ergo no man can be the victim of it

MyAmpleSheep · 17/06/2026 17:15

Hoardasurass · 17/06/2026 17:02

@FlirtsWithRhinos could you try saying that again only leaving out the word salad.

Men however they identify can't suffer from misogyny as its literally the hatred of women and girls ergo no man can be the victim of it

I think that's overly simplistic. White people can suffer from anti-black racism either by perception ("she looked black, I thought she was") or by association ("she likes 'black' things or has black friends"), both of which are recognized in the Equality Act 2010. There's also the harm that racism does by diminishing our society to everyone's detriment.

I think @FlirtsWithRhinos makes a good point.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 17/06/2026 17:23

These pathetic trans activist ‘arguments’ make me laugh. It’s all they have got as truth is obviously not on their side.

The above nonsense reminds me of when a man who called himself a woman announced that since ‘transition’ he was no longer able to park.

It just makes them sound pathetic. I can park and tow and reverse a trailer so the tras can stick that in their pipe and smoke it.

I am very pleased that orienteering has seen sense and made a proper women category though.