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The Gerbil World Cup at the Bluestocking!

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Magpiecomplex · 14/06/2026 15:00

New thread.

No pushing at the back, please, we have plenty of scones and kilts for everyone.

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DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 08:07

Same with Murder She Wrote, if I know the actor s/he dunnit.

That idiotic Emily bloke is relentlessly daft. I wonder is he chemical-assisted?

Magpiecomplex · 22/06/2026 08:19

One would probably worry if he wasn't - there's got to be something fuelling it.

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EmpressaurusKitty · 22/06/2026 09:21

I’ve just been looking at the RTFT thread & thinking what the Bluestocking would be like if everyone only read the first post of each thread.

In this one, we’d have pages of random remarks about scones & kilts.

DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 09:27

You say that like it's a bad thing?

DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 09:34

I'm not sure about the 'look at me nae knickers' kilt styling, but at least changing my spelling to cream instead of bream removed the incongruous fish.

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MarieDeGournay · 22/06/2026 10:04

AngleofRepose · 21/06/2026 15:13

I thought the poster who had bought a car from the Sisters of Mercy had bought it from the band.
Not the actual Sisters of Mercy.

<<sigh>
I was momentarily awestruck, like a FanGirl idiot...

Maybe I do have a fever!

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Just catching up on the thread - yesterday turned out to be a horrible day in all sorts of ways, from not feeling well, to being locked out of a website I needed to access for important admin stuff, to the family of my dear late neighbour calling with a memento she had left me - lovely and treasured but lots of tears...

Angle, you may have felt embarrassed about your mistake, but don't be - it was a wonderful one! Polyvalent! Multifactorial!

Not only the image of SoM the band gathered around a 2nd hand car and pointing out its virtues to some random would-be buyer, which is good enough, but if you are an Irish catholic female of a certain age -
The even better image of classrooms full of little girls being taught their times tables by SoM the band, not the nuns😁
And then there's .. an expectant hush falls over the crowd... the lights dim ...'Give it up for.. THE SISTERS OF MERCY'😂

Thank you for the fun and the smiles this morning, Angle💙

MarieDeGournay · 22/06/2026 10:16

....and then I read on and was reduced to helpless laughter by the Belgium conundrum, and wondering about how the very supportive letter will be received by the Belgian team... it will be in both French and Flemish I hope, gerbils? diplomatic incident otherwise.

And the the laughter got even more helpless when I saw Woley's m. Poirot😂

And Deano's pescatarian treat - a 'bream tea'😂

Honestly, I don't know why I ever leave the Bluestocking at all, it's so much more fun in here than out thereSmile💙

ErrolTheDragon · 22/06/2026 10:32

Spartipus (she’s been suspiciously quiet for a while) has made it known that she thinks a bream and cream tea would be lovely. Colin agrees.

ErrolTheDragon · 22/06/2026 10:41

Actually they’d quite like it for elevenses.

AngleofRepose · 22/06/2026 10:45

MarieDeGournay · 22/06/2026 10:04

Just catching up on the thread - yesterday turned out to be a horrible day in all sorts of ways, from not feeling well, to being locked out of a website I needed to access for important admin stuff, to the family of my dear late neighbour calling with a memento she had left me - lovely and treasured but lots of tears...

Angle, you may have felt embarrassed about your mistake, but don't be - it was a wonderful one! Polyvalent! Multifactorial!

Not only the image of SoM the band gathered around a 2nd hand car and pointing out its virtues to some random would-be buyer, which is good enough, but if you are an Irish catholic female of a certain age -
The even better image of classrooms full of little girls being taught their times tables by SoM the band, not the nuns😁
And then there's .. an expectant hush falls over the crowd... the lights dim ...'Give it up for.. THE SISTERS OF MERCY'😂

Thank you for the fun and the smiles this morning, Angle💙

It was funny. After I recovered 😀

Not as funny as "bream tea" though!

Off out into the heat soon to see what the pharmacist says, although I think at this point it's past any remedy (medical, I mean). I'm definitely much better, but the rash certainly is taking a long time to go away <sigh>

MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 10:53

MarieDeGournay · 22/06/2026 10:04

Just catching up on the thread - yesterday turned out to be a horrible day in all sorts of ways, from not feeling well, to being locked out of a website I needed to access for important admin stuff, to the family of my dear late neighbour calling with a memento she had left me - lovely and treasured but lots of tears...

Angle, you may have felt embarrassed about your mistake, but don't be - it was a wonderful one! Polyvalent! Multifactorial!

Not only the image of SoM the band gathered around a 2nd hand car and pointing out its virtues to some random would-be buyer, which is good enough, but if you are an Irish catholic female of a certain age -
The even better image of classrooms full of little girls being taught their times tables by SoM the band, not the nuns😁
And then there's .. an expectant hush falls over the crowd... the lights dim ...'Give it up for.. THE SISTERS OF MERCY'😂

Thank you for the fun and the smiles this morning, Angle💙

Hello, John. Got a new motor?

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MarieDeGournay · 22/06/2026 11:46

MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 10:53

Hello, John. Got a new motor?

Perfect, thank you Myrtle!
The little girls in the classroom are probably saying 'These Sisters of Mercy are sweet and cuddly compared to the other kind!'😄

Hope you get the mystery rash explained/sorted, Angle.

I think you can only get shingles if you've had chicken-pox, it's the same virus that lies dormant .

Record-keeping wasn't big when I were a nipper, so I had no idea what childhood illnesses I had - measles? chicken-pox? anything else that was going around? probably, but even my mother wasn't sure!

Then I got shingles, so I knew retrospectively that I had had chicken-pox.

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/06/2026 12:15

ErrolTheDragon · 22/06/2026 10:41

Actually they’d quite like it for elevenses.

Kitty would like some too please.

MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 12:29

I had shingles when I was eight. Youngest case they’d seen. I’d had chickenpox twice, once at nine months and then again at 18 months. All recorded on my records. And ai had rubella eight times until the vaccination at 11 stopped.

Now I know I have a rare genetic condition, this doesn’t surprise me as much as it used to. I just hope I don’t get shingles again.

DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 12:34

For Kitty and Spartypus.

I'm afraid I recoiled in horror, but Bing never forgets.

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MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 13:07

The Belgium Situation

The letter from the International Gerbil Football Federation arrived on a Tuesday. It was, by any measure, a remarkable document.

It opened with three paragraphs of warm congratulation on Belgium’s squad selection. It described the squad as “exemplary,” “admirably thorough,” and “a credit to the nation.” It used the word “impressive” four times. It noted that seventeen was, historically, a significant number in international football. It did not specify how. It cited no sources.

The fourth paragraph expressed, with considerable delicacy, that the album template had been designed with great care to accommodate squads of seventeen. It described the template as “an achievement of some distinction.” It said the template had feelings about this, then crossed that out, then left the crossing out visible, which Gwendoline felt was a mistake but Greta felt was essential.

The letter did not tell Belgium to leave six players out. It simply described, at length, the experience of having exactly seventeen players in a sticker album. How complete it looked. How satisfying. How every space filled was a small moment of resolution. How the eye travelled across the page and found, in seventeen faces, something approaching harmony.

It was, Griselda said, reading the draft, deeply manipulative.

“Thank you,” said Greta.

Belgium’s response arrived four days later. It was courteous, precise, and professionally formatted. It thanked the Federation for its kind letter. It noted that Belgium had given the matter careful consideration. It confirmed that Belgium’s squad would be seventeen players.

It did not say which six had been removed. It did not explain the process. It simply enclosed an updated list, alphabetically ordered, and wished the tournament every success.

Gwendoline read it twice. “They sound fine.”

“They are not fine,” said Greta. “But they are participating.” She smoothed the letter. It didn’t need smoothing. She did it anyway. “That,” she said, “is what matters.”

Greta read the letter again the following morning. She refolded it along its original crease and placed it in the correct file. Then she sat for a moment with the expression of someone revising a theory they had held for some time. “They sent it alphabetically,” she said eventually.

“Yes,” said Gwendoline.

“That means someone made a list. Sorted it. Looked at six names at the bottom.” A pause. “And took them off.”

“I want to know,” said Greta, “who the six were.”

“We could ask,” said Gwendoline.

“We absolutely could not ask.”

This was understood to be correct. Some things were more powerful as mysteries.

The six unnamed Belgians who had been alphabetically sacrificed for the integrity of a sticker album existed now in a particular kind of administrative limbo — real enough to have been removed, absent enough to be imagined. Greta found this more interesting than their inclusion would have been.

Griselda had already allocated Belgium their seventeen spaces. The pages looked, she had to admit, exactly as described in the letter. Complete. Settled. Each space waiting for its face.

“What if they were the best six?” said Gwendoline.

A longer silence.

“Then Belgium,” said Greta, “have made a significant sacrifice for a sticker album.”

She did not sound displeased about this.

Griselda looked at the letter. She looked at the template. She looked at the letter again.

The template had always had twenty spaces. It had twenty spaces when Greta proposed the album. It had twenty spaces when the Federation wrote to Belgium with such delicate, carefully constructed sympathy about the profound satisfaction of seventeen. It had twenty spaces now. It had never, at any point, had seventeen spaces. Belgium had removed six players, alphabetically, from an international tournament, submitted eighteen stickers for the remaining seventeen, and wished the Federation every success.

“We will not,” said Greta, “be writing to Belgium again.”

https://myrtlelion.substack.com/p/the-belgium-situation

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AsWithGlad · 22/06/2026 13:20

The Belgium Situation

Ooops!

FuzzyPuffling · 22/06/2026 14:50

My DH had shingles in his face, due to his compromised immune system. It turned into Ramsay Hunt syndrome ( Google it - rare enough for doctors to be super- interested) which permanently paralysed half his face.
Shingles can be an absolute bugger.

JanesLittleGirl · 22/06/2026 15:16

I got shingles in my mid twenties. It has left me with a scar right round my neck. My GP explained it as chickenpox for grown-ups. I felt like shit for a month. Not recommended.

AngleofRepose · 22/06/2026 15:30

MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 10:53

Hello, John. Got a new motor?

This is just never going to die, is it? 😆

Pharmacist says yes, shingles, yippee. However, since it's been a week, there is nothing they could prescribe that would help, so now I wait for my body to heal itself. If the pain increases, I go see my GP.

Really, I'm fine, and the rash is definitely decreasing, and never was more than a few patches of what looked like eczema. I'll mend.

DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 15:33

Sympathy.

If it is too late for antivirals, ask if you can have a course of vitamin B12 injections - that will help you feel less ill, and more importantly speed the recovery of the nerve endings and stave off long term pain.

AngleofRepose · 22/06/2026 15:35

MyrtleLion · 22/06/2026 12:29

I had shingles when I was eight. Youngest case they’d seen. I’d had chickenpox twice, once at nine months and then again at 18 months. All recorded on my records. And ai had rubella eight times until the vaccination at 11 stopped.

Now I know I have a rare genetic condition, this doesn’t surprise me as much as it used to. I just hope I don’t get shingles again.

Oh Myrtle! sounds horrendous for poor little Myrtle 😯

My sister and I were only just the right side (age-wise) of all the vaccinations, so I've definitely had the MMR. I remember my mother telling us about two school friends she'd lost to polio, and one childhood friend to diphtheria. We thought she was talking about the Dark Ages, but it really wasn't much before my time.

AngleofRepose · 22/06/2026 15:43

DeanElderberry · 22/06/2026 15:33

Sympathy.

If it is too late for antivirals, ask if you can have a course of vitamin B12 injections - that will help you feel less ill, and more importantly speed the recovery of the nerve endings and stave off long term pain.

Oops didn't know I could ask for that! I'm not going out in this heat again this week unless it's an emergency, so I'll have to see how I do. I'm not particularly worried, I have seen the pictures online and it's not remotely like those! But, maybe I'll make an appointment with my GP anyway just to go over things in more detail. I'm not old enough for the vaccine in Wales, you have to be 65, but we'll see what the doctor says.

AngleofRepose · 22/06/2026 15:45

That smoothing by Greta is confident and yet evil at the same time, isn't it?

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/06/2026 18:41

Next step in the blanket saga: it’s wider at one end than at the other so if it survives its trial by washing machine tomorrow morning, I have to block it to get it even (pin it down in the right shape while it dries).

The two challenges here are that it’s bloody big, & that it has to be safe both for & from marauding paws.

I scoured the high street for safety pins at lunchtime. Asda looked blank, B&M said ‘We haven’t stocked them for years. Try Boots.’

Boots had some in their first aid section, so all good. Once the blanket’s washed tomorrow I’m going to safety pin it to my duvet & leave it on the bed until it’s dry.

And if my aunt doesn’t like it I’m giving it back to Boily!!!

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