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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Man wants men to have free access to women and girls when they are vulnerable or in a state of undress.

32 replies

WallaceinAnderland · 24/05/2026 18:25

It's a reddit one

Cis man here. I want to do what I can to help, so I'm asking what you need, and what you advise. I am happy to use my privilege where possible too.

I made it clear that this is a red line for me, and I will not be voting Labour unless they change course.

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1tkgmnk/what_can_cis_allies_do/

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KnottyAuty · 26/05/2026 09:31

The incoherence would be entertaining if it weren’t so worrying

From the Reddit thread:

Oh yes, I'm definitely going to refuse to disclose it now. In fact I've been putting "prefer not to say" on forms for a while, mostly due to data protection, but I'm expanding it. I should add pronouns to my emails too.

So on forms where it is ostensibly private matters for statistics and service provision - no giving the information

In public - outing themselves when simply omitting pronouns would be far better for personal privacy

what?

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 26/05/2026 09:55

KnottyAuty · 26/05/2026 09:31

The incoherence would be entertaining if it weren’t so worrying

From the Reddit thread:

Oh yes, I'm definitely going to refuse to disclose it now. In fact I've been putting "prefer not to say" on forms for a while, mostly due to data protection, but I'm expanding it. I should add pronouns to my emails too.

So on forms where it is ostensibly private matters for statistics and service provision - no giving the information

In public - outing themselves when simply omitting pronouns would be far better for personal privacy

what?

Clearly trans-logical

Justme56 · 26/05/2026 10:03

The only thing I know about trans Reddit is that a massive percentage of posters seem to have 18+ warnings linked to their names.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/05/2026 10:04

Justme56 · 26/05/2026 10:03

The only thing I know about trans Reddit is that a massive percentage of posters seem to have 18+ warnings linked to their names.

It’s a highly salient point.

Coatsoff42 · 26/05/2026 10:40

HauntedHouseWife · 26/05/2026 09:29

The only way you could help is by working towards making men's toilets more inviting to your trans brothers. I don't know what goes on in men's toilets that makes it so scary for trans people but you need to sort it out because it shouldn't be our problem.

Absolutely this, ‘cis man’ why don’t you work towards making other men nicer and more accepting, able to pee with gender non conforming men without being overwhelmed by a desire to beat them up or have sex with them? Instead of applying pressure to women to buckle and give in on safe spaces.

MohavePenstemon · 26/05/2026 12:01

He wants to "use his privilege" as a male to advance trans rights? He is chatting about how to politik against women in what amounts to a men's social club. The irony is breaking my bones.

Anyway, the obvious answer would be to stop trying to legitimize prostitution, since that's what leads to violence against transwomen- sorry, da dolls. But I'm guessing that any suggestion that he, a man, ostracize his fellows when they buy sex from anyone at all, would be some kind of step towards genocide.

AspiringDreadfulMiddleAgedWoman · 26/05/2026 17:32

FarewelltotheHorse · 24/05/2026 19:13

Why are you hanging out on a transgender reddit?

I occasionally pop over to read some of the various trans reddits to see what their concerns are, after all, we have so often been encouraged to listen to trans people. So I do.

I don't post, as that's their space and I think it's very important trans people, particularly trans women, have spaces where they can be fully open about their thoughts and concerns about anything related to transgenderism.

Very enlightening places the trans reddits.

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