Man wants men to have free access to women and girls when they are vulnerable or in a state of undress.

[WallaceinAnderland]

It's a reddit one

Cis man here. I want to do what I can to help, so I'm asking what you need, and what you advise. I am happy to use my privilege where possible too.

I made it clear that this is a red line for me, and I will not be voting Labour unless they change course.

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1tkgmnk/what_can_cis_allies_do/

That's what it all boils down to, doesn't it?
The obvious question to ask campaigners is: why? apart from unproven risks to transwomen in men's toilets [not our problem], sheer bloodymindedness about not letting women have anything of our own, or something more nefarious, what valid reason do men have to use women's toilets?
Just why?

Rhetorical question, obviously, but I like to cut through waffle and simplify things down to the basics - e.g. an entire campaign focused on getting men into women's toilets? Seriously?

Actually, the activists should be thinking (if they were ever so inclined to do such a thing) that with friends like that, who needs enemies? A few more men like this one could really bring sunlight to the issues, and the activists couldn't claim transphobia when people complain about the men.

...interesting...

I think CisMan is taking the piss and winding the TRAs up with his plea for ideas.

Oh I see! I didn't get as far as clicking on the Reddit link because I'm lazy. I'm not a fan of That Place.

Damn it, almost had a plan for worldwide domination.

I can’t believe that one of their suggestions is for him to stop disclosing his sex to others. They really think we can’t tell what sex people are unless they tell us, don’t they?

I've given up wondering now. Is it mass psychosis or are they all really just that stupid?

Why are you hanging out on a transgender reddit?

Why not? We have plenty of transwomen who hang out here.

Why not. TIM come here all the time

@FarewelltotheHorse and we’re always being told we’re in an echo chamber so surely it’s a good thing that we look at the other side and see what transpeople are saying?

They’re educating themselves. Obviously.

He can take his privilege and shove it up his arse. I'm so sick of these men.

It’s always good to get another view point. Then you can weigh up both sides of an argument.

It's not impossible, being Reddit - it could also simply be a bot. But I've seen many similar posts on that sub before with similar suggestions; so my feeling is that it's legit.

Totally agree. When he says "I love the idea of wearing a pride pin or something", - said no heterosexual man ever.

And if he's homosexual he knows he doesn't want to fuck trans-identifying women.

The two things aren’t mutually exclusive.

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1tkgmnk/what_can_cis_allies_

I would say to educate yourself about trans science, transphobia, and especially transmisogyny. The language you use is important. Please don't use phrases like 'identifies as', 'biological fe/male', etc. because these are both harmful and inaccurate. I think the majority of cis allies, while they're supportive because they want trans people to be happy, also don't understand that trans people genuinely are what they say they are, and that biological sex is mutable - there is no categorical 'biological sex'.

Trans science... bears a striking similarity to flat earth science. In that both are horse 💩

Transmisogyny doesn't exist.

“Don’t understand” doing some heavy lifting there. More like “don’t believe but humour you because they don’t want to fall out or be caught in a wrongthink”

trans science WTF

It sounds more and more like a cult, like Creationist, they're own science, which funny enough, proves all their batshit crazy stuff is 'real'. 🤥
For people who refuse to accept that sex is real, they sure do go to a lot of trouble to claim you can be whichever one of the two you want. 🤯

Yes we all have to believe there is no biological sex… thats the next plan, it’s based on measurable hormone levels and fat distribution. Because without disclosing those to other people, we are all just confusing blobs of humanity. How on earth young people hook up and manage to luckily get together with the right sexed person to get pregnant without a battery of hormone tests and fat scans to double check, is crazy.
Trans people on Reddit are another level. It’s like listening to drunk people on the train.

Disagree. Drunk people on a train are bastions of reason and logic compared to this lot.

And much more amusing.

I'm not so sure he wants to help. If he doesn't know that 'cis' is a slur then he hasn't been paying even a scrap of attention.

The only way you could help is by working towards making men's toilets more inviting to your trans brothers. I don't know what goes on in men's toilets that makes it so scary for trans people but you need to sort it out because it shouldn't be our problem.