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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Does the guardian really not see?

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 09/05/2026 07:37

"We work tirelessly to establish the facts – and when we get them wrong, we correct them. For democracy to survive, for society to progress, we need a shared foundation of facts. If we cannot broadly agree that the grass is green, we cannot have a conversation about what to do about the pollutants that are killing it"

https://www.theguardian.com/media/ng-interactive/2026/may/06/how-to-survive-the-information-crisis-we-once-talked-about-fake-news-now-reality-itself-feels-fake

this is a good article about the importance of facts, connection and how society might navigate the current crisis of mis and dis information

and yet Viner has written the above with clearly straight face while editing a paper that hounded out journalists who said that no one can change sex and continues to relentlessly push the TWAW/ppl especially women who don't believe are nasty bigots and to put it kindly misrepresent the law in this area

dors she reallly not see or is she just as much of a victim of all the things she points out in her article?

How to survive the information crisis: ‘We once talked about fake news – now reality itself feels fake’

In this age of crisis, technology is pulling us apart. At its best, journalism can bring us together again, writes Guardian editor-in-chief Katharine Viner

https://www.theguardian.com/media/ng-interactive/2026/may/06/how-to-survive-the-information-crisis-we-once-talked-about-fake-news-now-reality-itself-feels-fake

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Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 02:59

FlirtsWithRhinos · 10/05/2026 02:01

In that case, why do you require that the word you want to use to label "people of either sex expressing social stereotypes associated with women" has to be the exact word that previously meant "adult human female", and only that word will do?

Surely if you genuinely believed that "We don't tend to accept the existence of groups based on their societal convenience" you would accept that the overlapping groups of "people of either sex expressing social stereotypes associated with women" and "adult human female" are both valid, and should have different names so that we can speak clearly about the different needs and rights of each group?

Firstly, unless you can educate yourself on the difference between stereotypes & typical behaviours you won't have the ability to fully understand & engage in this conversation proficiently. Maybe you don't really want to anyway?

Secondly, as I have already mentioned, I don't make the 'rules' on appropriate language usage, society does. When a term gets picked up & widely used it becomes common parlance. Widespread usage is a result of the utility in association. So the question you seem to be asking about is why such an association to women was successfully made to maintain its usage. I suspect because there is an association in terms of typical behavioural characteristics.

I get why this upsets many women given typical behaviours can also be stereotypes (expectations) but that doesn't change the fact that the sexes share typical behaviours that are more common to one sex than the other hence associations to a particular group. However wrong or right you believe this to be, its how language works that isn't by any nefarious plan but the basic utility in associations used to classify phenomena.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:02

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 02:15

If you are proposing an improved system, then you need to describe it. What are these gendered inclinations, and which groups are they assigned to?

You tell me what drives these choices?

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:10

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:02

You tell me what drives these choices?

What choices? If you don't describe what you mean, how can anyone have a serious conversation about it, let alone agree with it.

Please describe the gendered inclinations and what groups they are assigned to. I want to hear your point of view.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:17

Heggettypeg · 10/05/2026 02:23

So if I am naturally inclined to spend my money on beads, feathers and buckskins, have a special interest in spending my weekends on vision quests and sweat lodges, and choose to go to work in a casino on a tribal reservation, that makes me in fact a Native American and the actual Native Americans just have to suck it up and give me tribal privileges?

False equivalence AKA apples & oranges. A native American is not born with an innate preference for their culture. They maybe raised in one & may form an attachment but their socially constructed classification depends on them being part of that culture by blood. A trans man much like a butch woman has an inborn inclination towards a masculine temperament/aesthetic. Their social classification depends on a different set of criteria.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:26

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:10

What choices? If you don't describe what you mean, how can anyone have a serious conversation about it, let alone agree with it.

Please describe the gendered inclinations and what groups they are assigned to. I want to hear your point of view.

Are you seriously suggesting there are no gendered differences in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices?

Clue: I don't have to list what those inclinations are that drive those choices to prove that gendered differences in behaviour exist. The evidence of different choices existing speaks for itself.

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:30

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:26

Are you seriously suggesting there are no gendered differences in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices?

Clue: I don't have to list what those inclinations are that drive those choices to prove that gendered differences in behaviour exist. The evidence of different choices existing speaks for itself.

I'm not suggesting anything. I'm waiting for you to describe what you mean. Your inability to do so is not helping your argument.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:44

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:30

I'm not suggesting anything. I'm waiting for you to describe what you mean. Your inability to do so is not helping your argument.

The point you are spectacularly (conveniently) missing is its not necessary I do & any precise claims as to why would be speculative anyway as opposed to the fact gendered behaviour exists by virtue of the evidence of different choices existing.

Of course you can attempt to avoid all of this by forcing a diversion to speculative claims but it won't save you.

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:50

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:44

The point you are spectacularly (conveniently) missing is its not necessary I do & any precise claims as to why would be speculative anyway as opposed to the fact gendered behaviour exists by virtue of the evidence of different choices existing.

Of course you can attempt to avoid all of this by forcing a diversion to speculative claims but it won't save you.

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Perhaps you could start with a summary of what 'the evidence of choices existing' means and what conclusions can be made from it? Or you could continue to refuse to answer. Your choice.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:53

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:50

Perhaps you could start with a summary of what 'the evidence of choices existing' means and what conclusions can be made from it? Or you could continue to refuse to answer. Your choice.

Ive already listed the different choices several times as in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices.

You can google for a plethora of evidence proving women & men on average make different choices in these areas. That you are being obtuse about the bleedin' obvious doesn't do your credibility any favours.

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 03:58

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:53

Ive already listed the different choices several times as in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices.

You can google for a plethora of evidence proving women & men on average make different choices in these areas. That you are being obtuse about the bleedin' obvious doesn't do your credibility any favours.

Yes. You've named some vague categories. Start with consumerist. Which consumer choices? Which ones are assigned to which groups?

Rather than make people guess what you mean and go searching online for information that you may or may not agree with, it would be more helpful if you simply describe what you mean. If you can.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 04:03

Seriously? I have explain to you the difference in fashion choices & other obvious categories the sexes make? What la la land are you living in?

Fidgetbreak · 10/05/2026 04:07

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 04:03

Seriously? I have explain to you the difference in fashion choices & other obvious categories the sexes make? What la la land are you living in?

I'm asking you to describe what you mean. You are suggesting that there is a better way to classify people. You need to be able to describe it.

The saddest part of this, is that I genuinely want to hear your opinion. It's a shame that you are either unwilling or unable to do so. If you are hoping to change people's minds then this won't help you.

WarriorN · 10/05/2026 06:27

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 08:51

On average behaviours that differentiate them from men. For example, like the violence that GC women like to claim should disqualify men from using their spaces.

Following through this sexist position that men can be considered women, and the structured reasoning thereafter by this poster, this post is objectively incorrect.

The evidence is from prison data that TW have a much higher rate of sexual offences.

As such shouldn’t be in women’s loos. Are not women and are objectively a danger to women.

the only reason single sex loos exist is because of the male habit of sexual abuse against women which appears to be more prevalent amongst this subset of males.

GeneralPeter · 10/05/2026 06:48

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 00:18

Reporting isn't offending. See rape. And murder reporting doesn't include missing persons. In any case, particularly in the case of murder, the perpetrator may be suffering from some form of psychopathy, severe personality disorder/mental illness where they may under the delusion they are trans, the antichrist or under the instructions of god & not be.

Again, there's also the matter of statistical insignificance & broad group attribution.

But tell me what you think about this. Why would it be that straight men are more violent than gay men, lesbians are more violent than straight women & lesbians are more violent than straight women? Is it masculine characteristics of aggression/(disagreeability personality trait) that the more violent groups share? And what does this mean for transwomen who probably share more agreeable personality traits than disagreeable?

I suspect what drives offending is a lot more complicated than people think.

Sorry I can’t take you seriously while you continue to do two things simultaneously:

Seek to discredit homicide offending stats for increasingly bizarre and esoteric reasons. Someone being psychotic or whatever does not prevent their sex being accurately recorded, and homicide is the most well-documented crime type. You’ve heard an argument that offending rates are unreliable and are continuing to apply it where it really doesn’t fit.

Then turn round and make hand-wavy claims of your own based entirely in claims about relative offending rates.

This is schrodingers crime stat. All very complicated and difficult when it doesn’t suit your argument. But conclusive and unproblematic when you think it supports your argument.

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 07:03

GeneralPeter · 10/05/2026 06:48

Sorry I can’t take you seriously while you continue to do two things simultaneously:

Seek to discredit homicide offending stats for increasingly bizarre and esoteric reasons. Someone being psychotic or whatever does not prevent their sex being accurately recorded, and homicide is the most well-documented crime type. You’ve heard an argument that offending rates are unreliable and are continuing to apply it where it really doesn’t fit.

Then turn round and make hand-wavy claims of your own based entirely in claims about relative offending rates.

This is schrodingers crime stat. All very complicated and difficult when it doesn’t suit your argument. But conclusive and unproblematic when you think it supports your argument.

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"Someone being psychotic or whatever does not prevent their sex being accurately recorded, and homicide is the most well-documented crime type."

Err, this discussion is about whether the perpetrators are trans remember which by all accounts isn't recorded or recorded consistently or may not be an accurate description when reported.

You’ve heard an argument that offending rates are unreliable and are continuing to apply it where it really doesn’t fit.

Um, no. I'm making the argument that offending rates are the only accurate measure of crime rates of which WE CAN'T KNOW FOR SURE because of under reporting.

For the love of god…….

www.bbc.com/news/articles/c5y0el00j75o

GeneralPeter · 10/05/2026 07:39

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 07:03

"Someone being psychotic or whatever does not prevent their sex being accurately recorded, and homicide is the most well-documented crime type."

Err, this discussion is about whether the perpetrators are trans remember which by all accounts isn't recorded or recorded consistently or may not be an accurate description when reported.

You’ve heard an argument that offending rates are unreliable and are continuing to apply it where it really doesn’t fit.

Um, no. I'm making the argument that offending rates are the only accurate measure of crime rates of which WE CAN'T KNOW FOR SURE because of under reporting.

For the love of god…….

www.bbc.com/news/articles/c5y0el00j75o

Ah I see where you are confused now. The trans offending/victimhood stat from the paper we are discussing is not taken from general crime stats but rather required a lot of additional research. So your argument that “but you can’t just use the crime stats for that!” is well-acknowledged. I hadn’t realised that you hadn’t realised.

But let’s go right back to where this thread started: you argued, contra the Guardian, that calling different names for things doesn’t need to obscure important policy discussions.

You then proceed to make a day’s worth of arguments about why it does.

Underthinker · 10/05/2026 07:40

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:17

False equivalence AKA apples & oranges. A native American is not born with an innate preference for their culture. They maybe raised in one & may form an attachment but their socially constructed classification depends on them being part of that culture by blood. A trans man much like a butch woman has an inborn inclination towards a masculine temperament/aesthetic. Their social classification depends on a different set of criteria.

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It is impossible for trans people to have an innate attachment to a certain masculine or feminine temperament or aesthetic if, as TRAs frequently remind us, these things are not fixed but change over time and place depending on society, e.g. pink used to be associated with boys.

BonfireLady · 10/05/2026 07:44

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 00:57

"This confusion was a conscious contruction of post modernist theories which postulated that you could revolutionise society through the manipulation of language. That we could be anything we wanted to be through altering the social meaning of words."

This comment shows a profound misunderstanding of what post modernism is which is basically a critique of how narrative is exploited by the powerful …so the opposite of what you are claiming. And in any case, the fact 'trans' is a word that distinguishes females at birth from males doesn't in any way conflate the two.

"An adult male, a man is free ( in our society, anyway) to express all of his potential - within the bounds of social rules of behaviour - as is a woman. We can do this without having to so self consciously role play opposite sex 'performances' - but we are also free to do that should we like ( within certain social constraints)"

The fact that you consider organic personality inclinations/preferences as a 'performance' is more a reflection of your own rigid expectations of conformity rather than any credible analysis of human behaviour. That you seriously believe there's no biological naturally occurring autonomy that drives preferences is quite the tell.

But I suggest that denying the reality of biological sex and the consequences of it is a fool's game. To a large extent we are our bodies; we are our circumstances. We are not all 'free spiritual beings' or 'souls' floating around in a world of dense and restrictive matter looking for a place to call home. We are all born into a certain set of conditions which shape our experience. We didn't 'choose' any of them.

Sex Matters, and it matters to women, especially......which is why we have developed certain protections and safeguards. You cannot change your sex...though as you intimate....our sex does determine and shape our life experiences and choices...no matter how much we long to be transcendent beings with no restriction.

Noone is denying the reality of biological sex. If trans people did they wouldn’t need to go to the extent to change their bodies medically. What you are attempting to do here is conflate this strawman with conflicting rights. Again as mentioned upthread, groups experiencing conflicting rights isn't a licence to deny their existence nor is there an inability to manage them.

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And in any case, the fact 'trans' is a word that distinguishes females at birth from males doesn't in any way conflate the two.

Yes! I was assigned female at birth and I now recognise that this was wrong. 'Trans' is the word that distinguishes me from males because I'm a transwoman. And yes, this is not a conflation.

The fact that you consider organic personality inclinations/preferences as a 'performance' is more a reflection of your own rigid expectations of conformity rather than any credible analysis of human behaviour.

Thank you ❤️ I am not 'performing' as a transwoman. I am one.

Noone is denying the reality of biological sex.

Now that I am my authentic self, I recognise that the reality of biological sex doesn't matter. Bioessentialism doesn't help anyone.

If trans people did they wouldn’t need to go to the extent to change their bodies medically.

Point of order: trans people do not need to change their bodies medically because nobody should obsess about genitals.

Again as mentioned upthread, groups experiencing conflicting rights isn't a licence to deny their existence nor is there an inability to manage them.

There were some posters on this thread who tried to deny my existence as a transwoman earlier, calling it "parody". Thank you for not doing this 🙏 The fact that you have not denied my existence means a lot.

borntobequiet · 10/05/2026 07:55

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 00:18

Reporting isn't offending. See rape. And murder reporting doesn't include missing persons. In any case, particularly in the case of murder, the perpetrator may be suffering from some form of psychopathy, severe personality disorder/mental illness where they may under the delusion they are trans, the antichrist or under the instructions of god & not be.

Again, there's also the matter of statistical insignificance & broad group attribution.

But tell me what you think about this. Why would it be that straight men are more violent than gay men, lesbians are more violent than straight women & lesbians are more violent than straight women? Is it masculine characteristics of aggression/(disagreeability personality trait) that the more violent groups share? And what does this mean for transwomen who probably share more agreeable personality traits than disagreeable?

I suspect what drives offending is a lot more complicated than people think.

Why would it be that straight men are more violent than gay men, lesbians are more violent than straight women & lesbians are more violent than straight women?

You must be very confident in these statistics, which I suspect you just made up, to say the second one twice. If you didn’t make them up, where did you get them from?

ThatBlackCat · 10/05/2026 07:57

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 08:51

On average behaviours that differentiate them from men. For example, like the violence that GC women like to claim should disqualify men from using their spaces.

Well considering that per prison data transwomen sexually offend 5 times higher than men, that would definitely disqualify them.

ThatBlackCat · 10/05/2026 08:01

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 09:12

Like Rachel Dolezal? Her "passing" was a deception. Dolezal, a white woman, actively misrepresented her background, lied about her parentage, and used physical alterations (hair, makeup) to create a false persona to "pass" as Black.
Transgender Identity is authentic inclination & expression of behavioural characteristics similar to women.* *Transgender people transition to align their outer life with their internal, lived reality. Transitioning is widely seen as a necessary move toward authenticity, not a fraudulent act designed to deceive

Transwomen 'passing' (not that they really do) is a deception. They misrepresent themselves create a false persona. You are fooling yourself and full of cognitive dissonance if you truly genuinely believe there is a difference between transracialism and transgender.

BonfireLady · 10/05/2026 08:06

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 01:16

There's this word called 'trans' that we use to distinguish the two. Hope that helps.

It definitely helps. I am a transwoman. It is the word "trans" which explains how I am distinguished from women.

ThatBlackCat · 10/05/2026 08:07

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 09:36

No they don't. That's been long debunked. The fact is the numbers used to pretend this misinformation to be true were based on incarceration rates not offending rates. Big difference. For example we have no idea how many violent crimes are committed because most aren't reported. See: rape. Not to mention the trans community is so minuscule its impossible to draw any meaningful statistical conclusions.

Wrong. The trajectory is clear across four (4) countries. The fact it's based on incarceration rates means there are many that are not getting caught, so it's even higher. But the point is they have five (5) times higher the incarceration rate PER CAPITA than other males. And they certainly don't have the same offending rates as women, do they. So your attempt at a flailing rebuttal has been long debunked.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/05/2026 08:11

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 03:53

Ive already listed the different choices several times as in consumerist, employment, special interest & life choices.

You can google for a plethora of evidence proving women & men on average make different choices in these areas. That you are being obtuse about the bleedin' obvious doesn't do your credibility any favours.

Now make your case using the statistical evidence you have proving these men fit this ”woman” criteria.

Catiette · 10/05/2026 08:14

Aisha176 · 10/05/2026 01:16

There's this word called 'trans' that we use to distinguish the two. Hope that helps.

This is why you're not convincing us, Aisha. That ongoing, often patronising, assumption that we're missing something, when instead, your replies often just skim the surface of the far more complex and nuanced point a poster's making. And we can see that.

I'm just not entirely sure whether you can see it or not.

I'm inclined to think you do on some level because of this frankly silly, avoidant sarcasm. It makes it very clear indeed that you're running scared from the point I'm making - that you won't (can't?) engage with it.

Answers like this don't help your argument.

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