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Bluestocking Women’s Pub - it’s Maytime!

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ErrolTheDragon · 01/05/2026 08:48

Welcome to any women who want the company of women!

Thats it really….ok so this place is staffed by gerbils with the occasional quokka or capybara but it functions like a friendly pub where you don’t have to know what’s going on all the time.
The drinks don’t intoxicate and the food is delicious yet healthy so please do come in.

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ErrolTheDragon · 03/05/2026 19:08

I hope in real life as well as here you can now flop down in a comfy chair with a large glass or cup of whatever you want @PastaAllaNorma

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MarieDeGournay · 03/05/2026 19:08

I remember that kind of experience, Pasta, the incredible burst of energy you can summon up to make coming home to their own home a possibility for a parent.

I could never summon up a similar degree of energy, or organisational efficiency for myself, but I somehow managed to do it for my elders... who were in a different country, so it was extra tricky.

But you are rewarded - not that we do it for a reward but you know what I mean - now to see you Dad unexpectedly well, and happy to be in familiar surroundings which you've worked so hard to make safe and comfortable.

You need to take care of yourself nowSmile
Take it easy, be kind to yourself, get yourself a really nice treat, something like.... a teal velvet jacket or... I dunno, just a random suggestion off the top of my head: maybe an enamel stock pot from the 1960s from Finel of Finland, their Vegeta range, or something? Grin

EdithStourton · 03/05/2026 19:11

Ah, Hedgey, I spent a chunk of the afternoon ripping out Spanish bluebells. It was VERY satisfying. They're such thugs.

EdithStourton · 03/05/2026 19:15

Enjoy some time off, Pasta. No wonder you're knackered.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 03/05/2026 19:17

It's good that you were able to make your Dad's home more comfortable and convenient for him @PastaAllaNorma as well as preventing him from poisoning himself with out-of-date food! Time to take a breather and look after yourself for a while nowFlowers

ErrolTheDragon · 03/05/2026 19:19

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 03/05/2026 18:56

I've have a good day out today. The rain kept off, though it was cloudy for most of the day. I met up with some friends for a lovely brunch at a farm shop near Northwich, then for a walk around the gardens at Arley Hall. They are always beautiful but I think they are at their best in Spring, with the azaleas and rhododendrons in bloom, as well as a lovely bluebell wood. Then time for tea and cake before the drive home again.

Welcome to the newcomers to the Bluestocking <waves>

We went to Arley on Friday - DH has a particular fondness for the scent of golden azaleas and that’s one of the best places for it.

It’s been one of our favourite gardens for many years, in part because they’ve always allowed dogs in and ours loved it. When we took our last dear old boy there again after Covid he bounded across the grassy corner as you go in like a puppy. We took him again for his 16th birthday.

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Bluestocking Women’s Pub - it’s Maytime!
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AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 03/05/2026 19:21

I've had a visit from one of Boily's relatives today - a cockchafer (no sniggering at the back!). At least I assume it was here all day as it was on my kitchen windowsill when I went out and is still there. They are huge and look quite scary when you first see one, but are quite harmless, unless you're a plant - <there go my lupins>

Also known as maybugs or doodlebugs, because they sound very loud in flight. I didn't take a photo as I didn't want to open the door in case it decided to fly in, but here's one someone else took earlier 😁

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Magpiecomplex · 03/05/2026 19:23

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 03/05/2026 19:21

I've had a visit from one of Boily's relatives today - a cockchafer (no sniggering at the back!). At least I assume it was here all day as it was on my kitchen windowsill when I went out and is still there. They are huge and look quite scary when you first see one, but are quite harmless, unless you're a plant - <there go my lupins>

Also known as maybugs or doodlebugs, because they sound very loud in flight. I didn't take a photo as I didn't want to open the door in case it decided to fly in, but here's one someone else took earlier 😁

I love talking about cockchafers to my students. The glow of professional pride in not even cracking a smile is great!

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/05/2026 19:25

MarieDeGournay · 03/05/2026 18:55

I thought that it was unwise because he'd get his lovely coat and especially tail all mucky!
Glad to see Colin and Hunter amiably sharing some doggie treats outside, and Horti inside having a nice drink in amiable company💙

That dress is beautiful, Woley! Lucky the little one who will wear itSmile

Your Finnish stock-pot is fantastic, Pasta, and cost a lot less than that Reiss velvet jacket, so you have actually saved money by buying it and not the jacket.
Impeccable logic there, n'est-ce pas?Grin

My friend’s mum always used to say “Just think how much you save by not buying the shoes to match!” That line never worked on dh - hard hearted man that he is.

Mind you, he did take me to Waterstones, the M&S Food hall and Hotel Chocolat yesterday, so now I have a cloth bound classic version of Jane Eyre, a pack of cappuccino teacakes and a small pack of chocolates, so I am a very happy wolef.

Hedgehogforshort · 03/05/2026 19:25

Magpiecomplex · 03/05/2026 19:23

I love talking about cockchafers to my students. The glow of professional pride in not even cracking a smile is great!

😂

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/05/2026 19:27

@PastaAllaNorma - you have done an amazing job for your dad - I hope you can rest and recuperate now. The gerbils have refilled the hot chocolate bowser, and added optional Baileys and whipped cream - but if you don’t want it, I will throw myself in front of it in the style of a bodyguard protecting the King, and save the rest of the Bluestockingers from it.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/05/2026 19:33

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/05/2026 19:27

@PastaAllaNorma - you have done an amazing job for your dad - I hope you can rest and recuperate now. The gerbils have refilled the hot chocolate bowser, and added optional Baileys and whipped cream - but if you don’t want it, I will throw myself in front of it in the style of a bodyguard protecting the King, and save the rest of the Bluestockingers from it.

Magpie can fly over you to get to that bowser, you know. Though as it’s not a workday hopefully she’s not in absolute need of drowning herself in it today.

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ChristmasStars · 03/05/2026 19:34

ifIwerenotanandroid · 03/05/2026 13:04

👻I've missed about 100 posts

Story of my life in the Blue Stocking 🤣

DeanElderberry · 03/05/2026 19:51

A couple of years back I told the story of Teddy meeting a Maybug and AI came up with quite an accurate image, but couldn't show the startled whiffling yelps and that his jumps were all backwards.

it's still in the album.

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MarieDeGournay · 03/05/2026 20:00

EdithStourton · 03/05/2026 19:46

I've just stumbled across this on YT.
One for the cat fans.
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Oh that's very good - clever multitalented chappy, isn't he?Smile

RandomHypatia · 03/05/2026 20:05

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/05/2026 18:32

One baby dress finished - apart from the button at the neck, but I’ve lost the sodding buttons. I guarantee that, if I buy more, the original ones will turn up.

That is gorgeous. Well done!

RandomHypatia · 03/05/2026 20:09

Great news @PastaAllaNorma . Hopefully you can relax this evening

Magpiecomplex · 03/05/2026 20:15

ErrolTheDragon · 03/05/2026 19:33

Magpie can fly over you to get to that bowser, you know. Though as it’s not a workday hopefully she’s not in absolute need of drowning herself in it today.

Restrained sips only, today. I'm prepping for this interview, and currently trying to get my head round the fiendishly complicated new Ofsted framework.

AsWithGlad · 03/05/2026 20:29

Congratulations, Woley, (or should it be Wolef?). Such a beautiful dress.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/05/2026 20:30

I answers to either, @AsWithGlad. ❤️

EdithStourton · 03/05/2026 20:35

Woley, I would not have had the patience to frog and restart the way that you did. Your DGDs are very lucky.

Hedgehogforshort · 03/05/2026 20:58

Just came across a joke oldie but goodie

Yorkshire man rushes into vet

“Summat up wi’ t’cat”

Vet “is it a tom”?

Yorkshire man “nah it’s ere int basket”

EdithStourton · 03/05/2026 21:04

Even though I wish we could have some decent rain - two nights of deluge would be perfect - I can't pretend that I haven't been enjoying the sunshine. It's been perfect weather for walking.

There is a hill that I often go down with B&B with a wonderful view, reminiscent of a Ronald Lampitt illustration in an old Ladybird book: a wide shallow bowl, with houses in the distance, hedges, copses, reeds, ponds, pasture, farm tracks - the landscape 'plotted and pieced'. I've been watching the crops since I chatted to the farmer last autumn, as he tried to get his drill to plant the wheat at the right depth on the slope next to the curving track downhill.

Last week, between Monday morning and Wednesday morning, the barley at the bottom of the hill came into the ear, and its bright green awns make it a striking contrast to the green of the knee-high wheat, which has tones of blue and grey. It's wonderful to stand looking out at it all, watching the wind stir the wheat and the barley and listening to the birds. The hawthorn is coming out, the cow parsley is flourishing, and despite the lack of rain everything is growing.

I'm so lucky to have all this so close to home. It was less lovely when it was muddy, but even then, on a clear evening, I loved to stand there and see lights glittering in the distance.

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MarieDeGournay · 03/05/2026 21:08

You are lucky to live in the place where you live, dear Edith, and we are lucky to be able to read your wonderful descriptions of itSmile

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