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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Are We Really 'Women' On The Inside?

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HazelLemur · 27/04/2026 17:39

Dear friends,

As anyone paying attention to current trans affairs knows, the anti-trans brigade like to throw around what they think is the “killer question”.

"What is a woman, then?"

These people will often engage in triumphal sneering as they further insist "Your chromosomes are what you are; XX are women and XY are men. It's science, innit?"

And as a confident trans-woman I say to these people "Absolutely! What is a woman? Great question! Let's examine that".

To begin, let's consult three definitive sources:

First, the Cambridge Dictionary of the English Language.
Then, modern genetics and neurophysiology.
And finally, up to date research on brain structure in cisgender and transgender women.

First, the dictionary.
For this, let's go with the Cambridge Dictionary of the English Language:

Woman (noun)

  1. an adult female human being
  2. an adult who lives and identifies as female though they may have been said to have a different sex at birth

As we can see from #2, despite the recent social backlash and disproportionately loud screeching from certain murky corners of the internet, Western culture as a whole is moving toward accepting the validity of trans peoples' inner gender identity. No person with a working moral compass would consider this a bad thing.

Next, let’s summarize genetics and neurophysiology.

Modern society routinely treats all the following “XY” humans as WOMEN, however...
-You can be a woman because you have X & Y chromosomes but your body is insensitive to androgens and you have female anatomy & gender identity.
Ah, so much for the childishly simplistic “But women = XX and men = XY".
-You can be a woman with X & Y chromosomes but your Y is missing the SRY gene, so you have a female body and gender identity (yes, this is a real thing despite your denials).

People who have X & Y chromosomes, but their Y is missing the SRY gene, develop a female body.
Should we treat such people as men, in society, when they have the body of a woman, simply because simpletons insist that XY = Male?
Only an inveterate bigot with some weird religious and/or psychosexual axe to grind would say yes.

You can be a woman with XXY or XXXY chromosomes, giving you a male body but female brain/body map and gender identity.
-You can be a woman with XY chromosomes but a mutation called CBX2 that blocks the influence of the SRY gene.
-You can be a woman because you have 46,XY in some cells but 46,XX in other cells, or 47, XXY.

These are all valid, scientifically obervable genetic variations that highlight the "But XX = women and XY = men" mantra for the simplistic, unscientific nonsense that it is.

And lastly, there are studies of brain structure.
These show that in the section of the brain that determines one’s sense of gender identity.

The brains of transgender women are almost identical to those of cisgender women.
The brains of trans men also align more with cisgender men than they do with women.

And so, to summarize

Modern science, which is how rational people resolve differences of opinion.
It is not about referring to holy books, written in pre-scientific ages past.
It is not about regurgitating simplistic, binary statements that you learnt in the 4th grade.

This shows us that, genetically and biologically speaking, there are many types of women; including transgender women like me.

P.S. In this essay we have a summary of the cutting edge science which validates transgender womens' biologically determined, inner sense of gender identity.

As I’ve said, a rational society follows rational explanations, and doesn’t define its people via outdated religious or cultural ideas.
But beyond that, there is simply human courtesy and kindness.

It’s cruel, hateful and rude for the transphobic bigots to demand that people be forced to conform to their anti-scientific notions.

No one's life is affected negatively by honoring a transwoman as a woman, as the historical record of many trans accepting societies have shown.

Good people will see the very challenging dilemma that transwomen are in, and their natural empathy, coupled with scientific insight, will make them want to support their fellow human beings in being who they know they are.

And so, I ask all of you:

Should we as a society treat trans-women as the women their brain and neurobiology tells us they are? And, if not, why on earth wouldn’t we?

P.P.S. The image in this post is of women who have XY chromosomes, but an androgen insensitivity syndrome which causes their bodies to develop as female.
Would anyone in their right mind insist we treat them as males, simply because of their chromosomal makeup?
The bigots might, but you know you're better than that, right?

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PrizedPickledPopcorn · 27/04/2026 21:03

Nothing I do makes me female. Nothing men do makes them female.

Hard, but true.

And all the things men do to attempt to look a bit like a woman, draw attention to the fact they are not.

There’s a young man in Florida currently straddling the border of trans/non binary. He’s wearing Goth clothes and claiming elf masculinity. Make up, floaty clothes, long hair as a very masculine style and statement. He’s still a total TRA but he’s so close to understanding. Ash Arden, his name.

DialSquare · 27/04/2026 21:03

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:02

Now I'm jealous. Not of the quantity but of the size of your living room.

If I had two sofas AND two recliners in the living I wouldn't actually be able to get in the room. I'd just have to stand outside looking in pitifully!

It’s pretty long (ooh err!)

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:04

DialSquare · 27/04/2026 21:03

It’s pretty long (ooh err!)

Bet you say that to all the beetles.

Igneococcus · 27/04/2026 21:07

We have two sofas but if I'd add a recliner nobody would be able to move anymore (early 1980s built ex-council house in Scotland, tiny).

Judellie · 27/04/2026 21:10

Pathetic title

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 27/04/2026 21:11

DH loves a bargain. As armchairs cost almost as much as two seaters, and two seaters cost as much as three seaters, we always get two three seater sofas which hugely dominate the space and are really inflexible position wise.

I push for a 2 and a 3. But 3 and 3 are much better value, he says!

Hedgehogforshort · 27/04/2026 21:11

The first time i encountered a reclining chair was when i was a teenager when we emigrated to Canada in 1976.

We arrived at our accommodation and dad occupied the reclining chair, immediately.

TV was duly switched on (via another novelty the remote) and we were confronted with an advert for “panty hose”

where two women pranced across the screen singing flatten your fanny today!!

My dad nearly fell of his reclining chair given the English sensibilities of the day.

As an aside why does nobody discuss what it feels like to be a man, i mean i knew my dad was a man because he took possession of the remote and the reclining chair, without question.

DialSquare · 27/04/2026 21:18

Hedgehogforshort · 27/04/2026 21:11

The first time i encountered a reclining chair was when i was a teenager when we emigrated to Canada in 1976.

We arrived at our accommodation and dad occupied the reclining chair, immediately.

TV was duly switched on (via another novelty the remote) and we were confronted with an advert for “panty hose”

where two women pranced across the screen singing flatten your fanny today!!

My dad nearly fell of his reclining chair given the English sensibilities of the day.

As an aside why does nobody discuss what it feels like to be a man, i mean i knew my dad was a man because he took possession of the remote and the reclining chair, without question.

Mothers Day Lol GIF by reactionseditor

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OneFunLilacLemur · 27/04/2026 21:22

Woman just means adult human female. Its that simple.

Hallywally · 27/04/2026 21:23

Why do we have to empathetic and understanding when men have killed, raped and abused women throughout the ages and are still doing it. Wars, violence, murder and sexual crime are due to men. We owe them sod all.

Instructions · 27/04/2026 21:25

My mum and dad replaced their reclining armchairs with a reclining sofa. My mum does not like the sofa. We await updates on the next soft furnishings purchase.

TheHereticalOne · 27/04/2026 21:26

So to sum up:

  1. We recently had the dictionary changed after Posie Parker used the original on billboards and the men didn't like it and that is why I, a man, am a woman;
  2. DSDs exist (and are sex-specific) and that is why I, a man with none of those conditions, am a woman;
  3. Some male brains (subject to all the same hormones that the rest of the male body was) differ very slightly from the average male brain, more closely resembling those of homosexual men, and continue to bear vanishingly little resemblance to the average female brain, and that is why I definitely have a Ladybrain (TM) stuck in a man's body.

Well, thanks for stopping by.

I think I miss the days of "nO dEbAtE!!!&£@".

@Boiledbeetle I have a pull-out sofa that turns into a bed WHICH I REGULARLY USE FOR TV WATCHING EVEN WHEN I'VE NO INTENTION OF SLEEPING ON IT. And I DO want to brag about it. Sometimes I pull the duvet through too. Maybe a pillow. You can see how my moral compass could go astray in all that fabric. I like to think it's keeping my plot company, wherever they may be.

PoachedSmoke · 27/04/2026 21:36

@TheHereticalOne This is a perfect summary.

(And can I just say I am very jealous of your pull-out, and I am sure your plot will re-emerge soon).

SidewaysOtter · 27/04/2026 21:38

We can skip right to the end of OP's drivel first post to this:

Should we as a society treat trans-women as the women their brain and neurobiology tells us they are? And, if not, why on earth wouldn’t we?

No. Because they are men.

HTH.

p.s. People with DSDs aren't some kind of Trojan horse in which to sneak your trans ideology through.

ApplebyArrows · 27/04/2026 21:39

I remain bamboozled as to why a hypothetical male-bodied person with a female brain should be allowed to use women's toilets. We segregate based on bodies, not brains.

nocoolnamesleft · 27/04/2026 21:41

ApplebyArrows · 27/04/2026 21:39

I remain bamboozled as to why a hypothetical male-bodied person with a female brain should be allowed to use women's toilets. We segregate based on bodies, not brains.

Because affirmation of males is more important than the safety and dignity of females?

sayitisntsoo · 27/04/2026 21:45

It's really offensive to conflate people with DSD's with trans people.

My brain doesn't need to tell me I'm a woman, because I actually am one.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 27/04/2026 21:47

nocoolnamesleft · 27/04/2026 21:41

Because affirmation of males is more important than the safety and dignity of females?

And females are a lesser kind of human who walk around in meat sacks that males have an entitlement to because they have 'needs'?

I would so like to hear such people's views on marital rape being made illegal, I'm sure they don't approve. If a man NEEDS to use a woman she obviously shouldn't be allowed to er - what is it again? 'gate keep her vagina' I think was one of the older transactivist phrases.

SmellycatSmelllycat · 27/04/2026 21:49

Sssshhhh OP 🤫 don’t be such a silly billy.

You know a man can’t become a woman the same as a zebra can’t become a horse.

It’s just down to biology and no amount of “womanly” thoughts is going to make up for the fact that you were born with a penis - even if you do decide to have it lopped off and turned inside out - although I suspect you haven’t due to the tiny percentage of men that do.

I would have phrased things more sensitively and eloquently but your badly written AI drivel meant I didn’t want to waste my time.

Evoker · 27/04/2026 21:53

Not RTFT
That is so obviously AI written, I'm embarrassed for you. Unless this is a parody: in that case, well played.

BettyBooper · 27/04/2026 21:54

Man - I am a WOMAN! Listen to me, WOMEN!

Women - 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. No.

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:57

Well.... I do actually have

3

reclining chairs.

Dusting all those knives each week's though is a real bitch. I get through so many plasters!

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:57

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:57

Well.... I do actually have

3

reclining chairs.

Dusting all those knives each week's though is a real bitch. I get through so many plasters!

Bugger.

Forgot my image.

Are We Really 'Women' On The Inside?
Helleofabore · 27/04/2026 21:58

Blimey.

So much misinformation in one post. Well done to you, OP.

Helleofabore · 27/04/2026 21:59

Boiledbeetle · 27/04/2026 21:57

Bugger.

Forgot my image.

love the different coloured crocs BB

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