Its a matter of interpretation, surely?
People on here (mostly) want women to be able to have spaces away from men. You call that "segregation" because you believe some men are women and its wong to segregate the male women from other women. People on here think all men are men, so its perfectly reasonable to allow women spaces away from all of them.
If TIM are not permitted to access womens spaces, some claim they will not be able to go out, play sports etc. You call "driven from society" people on here would point out that TIM can fully participate in society, provided they use unisex spaces or those designed for their sex. And given that most aspects of society are unisex by default, there would be very limited restriction anyway.
People on here are concerned about the transition of children, particularly medical transition and want this stopped. You call this "detransition". People on here call it protecting children from irreversible bodily modifications at an age too young to give fully informed consent. I have never once seen any poster on here argue that anyine should be forced to "detransition".
People on here are (mostly) fully accepting there are people who wish to live in accordance with the stereotypes of the opposite sex and have no wish to prevent them.
Most are GC which means being opposed to forcing people to conform to sex based stereotypes. So there would be no wish to "eradicate" people who do this.
However, people on here are mostly sex realist, and so don't accept that living in accordance with opposite sex stereotypes makes one that sex. This means that where sex matters, they will not support a person who claims to be the opposite sex to access spaces for their preferred sex. This is not "eradicating" them as people, but simply protecting single sex provisions.