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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true

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mardirousse · 10/04/2026 15:21

You would expect Trans Rights Activists to be concerned about the physical mental health of gender questioning children, yet I haven't seen a single TRA express the slightest concern that gender affirming care might be causing harm to young kids, who they see as transgender. Not here, not on r/transgenderuk, not on x.
They are attacking the credibility of the study, but given its size and the very shocking findings, why aren't at least some of them expressing a little concern that there might be something in it? I mean, these are vulnerable kids, and they're taking really powerful drugs with major long-term consequences, and now it looks like there's evidence that it may be doing the opposite of what it's supposed to...
How could you not be concerned, whatever your agenda? They're kids!
Aren't trans rights activists interested in the right of trans kids to be safe and healthy?
Am I missing something?

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onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 15:54

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 12/04/2026 14:42

Thank you. To be honest, I can't remember what was going through my mind. I presume onepostwonder thought I was being sarcastic, which is also possible.

What I do know is that I have been trying to understand trans worldviews for years, and I haven't yet come across any that don't appear to be denying physical reality. So many versions of "I am whatever I say I am", "sex is a spectrum", "binary is bad", "women just need to accept that I'm in their spaces and suck it up", "transwomen are women", "woman means what I say it means", "you have to call me what I demand or you're a bigot". Honestly I have never come across such an authoritarian ideology outside the most fundamentalist sects I have crossed paths with. And they at least didn't threaten to shite on anyone's head or rape women with a splintery rolling pin.

Unless your child is a teen who is just beginning puberty, there is very little that would apply in the answers I would provide to the questions you asked.

Littlepurpleinsect · 12/04/2026 15:55

For some, I should think it is very hard to accept that you have been advocating for something that causes harm to children. Especially if you have been actively involved in causing that to happen.

For your own psychological state, its easier to deny the evidence, especially if you move in a tribe of people similarly motivated to deny the evidence.

I once read an interview with a psychologist who worked with sex offenders and pioneered group treatment therapy. When it was finally evaluated, it was found to have harmful effects in that it increased participants normalisation of their behaviour and propensity to reoffend.

The psychologist said that report had been a very hard read and she had to believe that it had worked for at least some offenders.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:00

Males who received treatment to become females were psychologically healthier than all other cohorts entering the study

There isn't any treatment which turns males into females, though.

It is not biologically possible to change sex.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:01

.........others will presumably be living as the opposite sex for the remainder of their lives

How does someone "live as the opposite sex" @onepostwonder?

Littlepurpleinsect · 12/04/2026 16:04

kiopsd · 12/04/2026 15:29

I’ve long suspected that many trans people, who’ve experienced awful side effects from medications and surgeries, remain silent because they know they have to uphold the trans joy manifesto. Anyone who’s spoken up about side effects has been aggressively knocked down. There will be many permanently injured and damaged people out there who can’t discuss their pain because it’s contrary to TRA agenda.

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Its also very hard to admit you have made a life damaging mistake.

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:08

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:01

.........others will presumably be living as the opposite sex for the remainder of their lives

How does someone "live as the opposite sex" @onepostwonder?

Your beliefs prevent discussion of non-SR/GC definitions and applications of the word sex. I cannot answer this within the narrow limitations of SR/GR beliefs.

Littlepurpleinsect · 12/04/2026 16:11

I have to say that there are many people advocating for transing children who genuinely believe they are doing the right thing by those children. I know two mothers who have transed their very young children. One mother who sees this as a permanent settled status and the other whose child moves in and out of trans status. Both have always been huge trans advocate ( huge coincidence their children are trans!). But there is no doubt they think they are doing the right thing by their children. One has had serious mental health issues of her own in the past and I imagine she is vulnerable to be susceptible to the ' better a live daughter than dead son' narrative.

I think both of these women would struggle to move away from their very committed beliefs. It would mean abandoning an entire world view and community they are very enmeshed in and committed too, and at least for one of them, admitting that she may have caused harm to the child she loves very much. I also imagine it would be socially humiliating to backtrack.

anyolddinosaur · 12/04/2026 16:13

To return to the point of the thread - Herndon Graddick, former president of GLAAD said “We need to correct what’s wrong, “particularly the medicalization of children.”
He continued: “I just think that we should completely stop doing anything that might harm children, even if it admits that we’ve gotten something really wrong. And my understanding is that we have.”

So yes there may be some, even if not on mumsnet.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:14

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:08

Your beliefs prevent discussion of non-SR/GC definitions and applications of the word sex. I cannot answer this within the narrow limitations of SR/GR beliefs.

There's nothing narrow about the knowledge (not belief) that humans can't change sex, dude.

It's just a biological fact.

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:21

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:14

There's nothing narrow about the knowledge (not belief) that humans can't change sex, dude.

It's just a biological fact.

There is a lot of narrowing when you restrict the definition of sex to a person's gametes (or lack thereof) or one pair of chromosomes.

TriesNotToBeCynical · 12/04/2026 16:27

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:21

There is a lot of narrowing when you restrict the definition of sex to a person's gametes (or lack thereof) or one pair of chromosomes.

There's actually quite a large number of phenotypical differences between men and women, only the most superficial of which can be changed by surgery or drugs.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:29

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:21

There is a lot of narrowing when you restrict the definition of sex to a person's gametes (or lack thereof) or one pair of chromosomes.

Well, how do you decide what sex a human being is?
What criteria do you apply?

Littlepurpleinsect · 12/04/2026 16:46

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:21

There is a lot of narrowing when you restrict the definition of sex to a person's gametes (or lack thereof) or one pair of chromosomes.

Definitions are restricting. That’s literally how they work. They restrict the meaning of a word to a clear definition, so that we can communicate with each other effectively.

Also, there is only one primary sex characteristic and that’s the gamete. Everything else is a secondary sex characteristic.

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:49

TriesNotToBeCynical · 12/04/2026 16:27

There's actually quite a large number of phenotypical differences between men and women, only the most superficial of which can be changed by surgery or drugs.

I agree.

Outside of gestational development of primary sex characteristics and fertility (which seems to form the entirety of sex realist definition), sex hormones also affect development of the brain, secondary sex characteristics and skeleton which are much deeper than superficial.

Throughout life, hormones direct the activation of genes that heal wounds, maintain bone health, maintain heart and circulatory health, maintain healthy skin and hair, fat location and composition, muscle location and composition, veins, and the brain.

I became an estrogen dominant person in puberty when I flooded my body’s estrogen receptors. Puberty blockers weren’t around, but the estrogen I took did a really good job of blocking testosterone and giving me a growth spurt I was overjoyed to finally experience. I went from 4’10” and 80 lbs to 5’5” and 110 lbs in two years.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:53

I became an oestrogen-dominant person in puberty when I flooded my body’s oestrogen receptors

Did you?
You still didn't become a woman.

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:55

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:53

I became an oestrogen-dominant person in puberty when I flooded my body’s oestrogen receptors

Did you?
You still didn't become a woman.

I disagree.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:57

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:55

I disagree.

You believe that you changed sex?

mardirousse · 12/04/2026 16:57

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 15:41

If I recall, the median age of those entered into that study were over 18? They're hardly children. There are far more studies published by authors who are not members of organisations formed to prevent trans people from accessing treatment. The studies tend to ask trans youth and their families directly whether children are happy, adjusting and thriving rather than fold contextless numbers together to manufacture a crisis in mental health.

But, you asked about concern about the mental health of trans children. I am really concerned that they are being harmed by the absence of healthcare access in this country. I am concerned that they have been excluded from care because there is a larger cohort of non-trans children who have requested and received trans-oriented treatments that should not be receiving treatment. Some of these children ultimately detransition, others will presumably be living as the opposite sex for the remainder of their lives.

As far as I know, living life as the opposite sex and growing old is not currently illegal in this country, as much as some have made realising the goal their life's focus. It's not a death sentence. It's not a horrible existence. And no, it is not impossible.

Males who received treatment to become females were psychologically healthier than all other cohorts entering the study, according to the framing.

The clinic I was in did not provide psychologic support services either.

If I apply the protocol to myself, I would have increased the morbidity numbers because I saw a psychiatrist for a number of things after my rape. I knew others who saw people for depression and develop coping skills while they were dealing with hate and abuse. 60.7% is a really big number, but it is wrapped with no further information.

The study authors didn't address the categories of morbidity at all or the number of visits to a psychologist made, and yet they had access to all the data. Not all morbidities would preclude entering into gender treatment. Were those same morbidities excluded in the post-treatment morbidity triggers? No one knows.

So yes, OP. I am really concerned. I'm concerned about health of children and adolescents who have the right to treatment from clinical experts who are currently prevented from accessing care by political legislation influenced by the lobbying efforts of religious conservatives, political conservatives and a few women, who latched on to a culture war that diverts focus from actual issues impacting women.

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What's wrong with you?
You are concerned about kids who might not have access to healthcare, you say, but have expressed no concern that children might be harmed by powerful medications that have no reliable evidence base and many known and serious risks of long term harm?

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onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 17:00

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 12/04/2026 16:57

You believe that you changed sex?

I believe my sex, as it is relevant socially, is objectively female.

TheKeatingFive · 12/04/2026 17:03

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 17:00

I believe my sex, as it is relevant socially, is objectively female.

You can believe what you want, the rest of us know you're a man and always will be 😉

Shedmistress · 12/04/2026 17:04

So no then.. A big fat nope.

Pasta4Dinner · 12/04/2026 17:06

believe, objectively…..but not a woman though.

Children have been used as they think it’s much easier to break down these barriers using them, look at all the GG nonsense and these poor children (boys).

My friends DD has ‘transitioned’ and been on testosterone for several years. She’s now morbidity obese and has fucked her bones (she’s had multiple major breaks) but they suggest it’s all been super successful. If people aren’t concerned with their own health they aren’t going to care about others.

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 17:09

mardirousse · 12/04/2026 16:57

What's wrong with you?
You are concerned about kids who might not have access to healthcare, you say, but have expressed no concern that children might be harmed by powerful medications that have no reliable evidence base and many known and serious risks of long term harm?

You are inferring that I lack concern on a topic I am intimately personally experienced with. Trans healthcare is required by trans children and youth. Sex realist beliefs about risk and long term harm are often warped and do not reflect reality. Trans people are living long happy lives.

I am concerned that there are children and youth being harmed by whatever has driven them to request and acquire treatment that they should not have been pursuing. Those harmed require and should receive support. Clinicians and experts should have done better and if treatment is ever restarted in this country, need to do better.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 12/04/2026 17:11

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 16:49

I agree.

Outside of gestational development of primary sex characteristics and fertility (which seems to form the entirety of sex realist definition), sex hormones also affect development of the brain, secondary sex characteristics and skeleton which are much deeper than superficial.

Throughout life, hormones direct the activation of genes that heal wounds, maintain bone health, maintain heart and circulatory health, maintain healthy skin and hair, fat location and composition, muscle location and composition, veins, and the brain.

I became an estrogen dominant person in puberty when I flooded my body’s estrogen receptors. Puberty blockers weren’t around, but the estrogen I took did a really good job of blocking testosterone and giving me a growth spurt I was overjoyed to finally experience. I went from 4’10” and 80 lbs to 5’5” and 110 lbs in two years.

Testosterone produced a huge growth spurt for me. I went from the bottom height centile for my age to well above average height for a man, in about four years.

Helleofabore · 12/04/2026 17:13

onepostwonder · 12/04/2026 17:00

I believe my sex, as it is relevant socially, is objectively female.

And there again is a male person demanding his subjective belief about sex categories of humans that doesn’t reflect material reality is treated by anyone else and by organisations in society as being material reality.

You have artificially deconstructed what defines being female so that it fits your personal purpose, to include you. It doesn’t change material reality though that you are not female at all. Any extreme body modification is simply you investing in extreme body modification as a male person making you a male person with extreme body modification.

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