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Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true

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mardirousse · 10/04/2026 15:21

You would expect Trans Rights Activists to be concerned about the physical mental health of gender questioning children, yet I haven't seen a single TRA express the slightest concern that gender affirming care might be causing harm to young kids, who they see as transgender. Not here, not on r/transgenderuk, not on x.
They are attacking the credibility of the study, but given its size and the very shocking findings, why aren't at least some of them expressing a little concern that there might be something in it? I mean, these are vulnerable kids, and they're taking really powerful drugs with major long-term consequences, and now it looks like there's evidence that it may be doing the opposite of what it's supposed to...
How could you not be concerned, whatever your agenda? They're kids!
Aren't trans rights activists interested in the right of trans kids to be safe and healthy?
Am I missing something?

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TriesNotToBeCynical · 15/04/2026 18:01

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 17:20

I made the appointment to get refills on my existing prescription. I agree it is unhinged because he had access to records of my previous medicine use. But I'm somewhat used to misogynistic treatment from male doctors.

But that was actually misandrist treatment! If you were a woman it might have been appropriate.

GaIadriel · 15/04/2026 19:12

I wish people would link the study they're talking about. Not moaning, just makes it easier than having to go and search for it.

TakeTheCuntingQuichePatricia · 15/04/2026 19:22

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 17:16

That's a cool story. But you already know I am a 5'4" woman who weighs in the 120s and has been without any significant levels of testosterone since puberty.

What's your weight to do with anything? Is that another area where I'm failing at "female"?

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2026 19:24

My own father is 5 foot 1. Mem can be short. Men can be light. What on earth is the point of referencing this?

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2026 19:50

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 19:48

I take issue with being told I have a very good chance of surviving any assault, really. Perhaps I should have just said that.

Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5515170-is-there-any-concern-among-trans-rights-activists-for-the-health-wellbeing-of-adolescents-receiving-gender-affirming-drugs-that-the-findings-of-the-finnish-study-might-be-true?page=36&reply=151722627

You've a better chance than most women.

Again, your point?

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 19:54

TheKeatingFive · 15/04/2026 19:50

You've a better chance than most women.

Again, your point?

How do you derive the conclusion that I personally have a better chance at what exactly?

My point is I am a woman. Middle aged, without the strength or socialisation of men. This scenario where I have some ability to survive violence is a nonsensical belief and abusive, really.

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anyolddinosaur · 15/04/2026 20:00

@thestudio the study does include separate information for males and females. Females have more comorbidites, both sexes show evidence of mental health getting worse,

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seXX · 15/04/2026 20:06

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 00:59

My feelings about this go so far beyond identity. I am not perceived as a man. You have difficulty in believing this and I doubt you will ever be convinced.

My experiences with men are anchored in sexual abuse, physical abuse, intimidation, stalking, constant boundary transgression and it's not worth bothering to start revisiting the other ways sex perception has limited my participation in life. I'm not going to use the word transactional, but before I had longer relationships with men, it felt very transactional.

My experiences with women are inclusive, welcoming, shared, celebrated and made me feel valued, supported and belonged. More importantly I am also able to contribute back.

I know where I fit and so do others.

"My experiences with men are anchored in sexual abuse, physical abuse, intimidation, stalking, constant boundary transgression "

I know this was a few pages back but I've just been catching up... Onepost has managed to confirm here that he does have male characteristics, from his own definitions. He likes to transgress women's boundaries by using female single sex spaces!

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:12

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 16:47

I had one doctor at a walk-in clinic prescribe a month's worth of HRT with a demand I return following a blood test to confirm I was in need of HRT before he would write a year's worth. I was in my early 40s. The tests were firmly in the menopausal range. That was the worst hoop I've had.

Also, if you've been taking cross sex hormones for 30 years, why would your results be in menopausal range? That is surely worrying that your dose isn't high enough?

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:15

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 15:58

(It seems some posters identify with the sex realist label. “Gender critical” seems less descriptive to me.)

To be clear. I don’t dispute a definition of sex as used by sex realists as being one definition of sex.

I disagree with the sex realist belief that requires the application this biological root as significant or sufficient to replace social implications of sex (and I suppose gender) in day to day cultural interaction.

There is no scientific basis for replacing the social implications of sex with conformance to biological roots. Human life has evolved beyond gametes and reproduction unlike other animals.

Again, I respect that many of you hold the belief. It is your right. But I personally disagree with the belief.

"Human life has evolved beyond gametes and reproduction "

How and when did that happen? I'm pretty sure we reproduce in the same way we always have.

thestudio · 15/04/2026 20:27

anyolddinosaur · 15/04/2026 20:00

@thestudio the study does include separate information for males and females. Females have more comorbidites, both sexes show evidence of mental health getting worse,

but doesn't divide males into homosexual and heterosexual?
Because if the majority of adolescent males who are presenting with both dysphoria and comorbitieis are homosexual, that would tell the world quite clearly that late-transitioning heterosexual TIMs have literally nothing to say about this group and shouldn't be allowed a voice.

The only 'lived experience' that should be considered in the wider cultural/social conversation should be that of older homosexual TIMs.

I can imagine that some of you might be thinking WTF are you on about, this has nothing to do with women's rights. But I think this question could be the thing that cracks the thing open. If you can say 'almost all male pre-adolescents presenting with gender dysphoria are gay' and then also possibly 'the ones with the most comorbity are gay' then you have something which a. centres children and b. discounts late-transitioning adult TIMs as stakeholders.

And it also - and it's shit that it has come to this, but we live and campaign inside a patriarchy so it is what it is - provides an argument that de-centres women's rights. Rights which, as we know, don't play well in white liberal-progressive culture, ie the part of liberal culture most responsible for driving the niche TIM agenda into the mainstream [because it protects the rest of liberal culture, which protects the whole of global capitalism, but that's another discussion].

Disclaimer: I am not suggesting that the broader GC movement (hollow laugh) decentres women's rights. I'm saying that it could be another string to the bow, and one which might ultimately, to all our shame, prove most effective.

thestudio · 15/04/2026 20:31

@onepostwonder are you attracted to men or women?

MabelAnderson · 15/04/2026 20:33

NotBadConsidering · 12/04/2026 22:06

The paper cannot state conclusions about children because the subjects of the study weren't children.

What are you talking about? The study followed children into adulthood.

This !
If you asked a child how things had progressed post treatment, how can they judge, in the middle of it ? I was still growing at 19, I hit puberty late, ages of puberty and development vary . 18 is young to look back and assess how your feelings may have shifted, and how treatment may have affected you.

Kiminki · 15/04/2026 20:55

MabelAnderson · 15/04/2026 20:33

This !
If you asked a child how things had progressed post treatment, how can they judge, in the middle of it ? I was still growing at 19, I hit puberty late, ages of puberty and development vary . 18 is young to look back and assess how your feelings may have shifted, and how treatment may have affected you.

Not read this conversation but if you are running a trial you would never ask a child how things had progressed with treatment, how a treatment had affected them or how their feelings might have shifted! The whole point of blinding in trials is to remove bias and children involved in a trial will be incredibly biased about their treatment. You need standardised validated assessments that are carried out by researchers who are independent to the provision of the intervention (those providing the intervention will also be biased). Ideally who know nothing about the intervention the child has received. You then compare these to the baseline and control/alternative intervention group.

Wearenotborg · 15/04/2026 21:08

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:15

"Human life has evolved beyond gametes and reproduction "

How and when did that happen? I'm pretty sure we reproduce in the same way we always have.

He never did tell me how he believes babies are made these days…

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:24

thestudio · 15/04/2026 17:23

I wonder who are the children with dysphoria and co-morbid psychiatric issues, and who are those without co-morbidities, and what other factors are common in each group ?

For example, homosexual male children who seem dysphoric are responding to a completely different set of internal drives from a heterosexual TIM adult or young adult who is seeking a narrative to explain what began as a sexual interest in women's clothing or in themselves as feminised sexual objects.

It would be really interesting to know how many male children presenting with dysphoria are homosexual vs heterosexual. It seems to me to be insane that Blanchard's typology has been thrown in the bin - I can imagine that effeminate boys who are under social/family pressure not to be gay are over-represented in childhood presentation compared to adult presentation. And are equally over-represented in the 'co-morbid psychiatric issues' group, for obvious reasons.

Does that information exist anywhere and did it inform the Finnish study? And what about sex - surely they're dividing by sex, since t's almost universally accepted that social pressures can create psychiatric disorders, and that girls and boys socialisations are completely different? And that this would have an impact on what I expect is an over-representation of neurodivergence in the girls group?

I understand whose interests have been served by the bundling together of these vastly different typologies but I'm surprised that their is not more work being done to challenge it, both at an activist level and an academic one (most of the latter I hope will look back on this era with absolute shame for how quickly they abandoned the most basic principles of science and materialism).

For what it's worth, I was also diagnosed with ADHD, depression and was demonstrably self-harming in multiple ways as a child. Transition resolved everything, I thought... but as I've aged the ADHD may be reasserting itself.

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:30

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:12

Also, if you've been taking cross sex hormones for 30 years, why would your results be in menopausal range? That is surely worrying that your dose isn't high enough?

Oestrogel and Prometrium are daily use. Stop using them and their half-lives are relatively short. I use an oestrogen with far longer half-life now so that I only need to take it once every 4 weeks.

thestudio · 15/04/2026 22:31

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:15

"Human life has evolved beyond gametes and reproduction "

How and when did that happen? I'm pretty sure we reproduce in the same way we always have.

Yes.

Just as dogs are still ... dogs. Dogs that cannot speak or have opposable thumbs or drive - or do any of the things that would be broadly good for their development as a species which, had they 'evolved' in the way you say humans have, they might at least have had a good go at.

PS I would love a dog that could speak but not a driving one with opposable thumbs.

thestudio · 15/04/2026 22:31

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:24

For what it's worth, I was also diagnosed with ADHD, depression and was demonstrably self-harming in multiple ways as a child. Transition resolved everything, I thought... but as I've aged the ADHD may be reasserting itself.

Edited

That's very much not the question I asked.

Are you attracted to biological males or biological women?

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:33

thestudio · 15/04/2026 20:31

@onepostwonder are you attracted to men or women?

Does it matter?

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:34

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:33

Does it matter?

Edited. Ugh.

Meant to send this to @thestudio

I am attracted to men.

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 22:40

seXX · 15/04/2026 20:15

"Human life has evolved beyond gametes and reproduction "

How and when did that happen? I'm pretty sure we reproduce in the same way we always have.

The dawn of community and civilisation would be a good start? Maybe throw in the addition of culture.

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