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Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true

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mardirousse · 10/04/2026 15:21

You would expect Trans Rights Activists to be concerned about the physical mental health of gender questioning children, yet I haven't seen a single TRA express the slightest concern that gender affirming care might be causing harm to young kids, who they see as transgender. Not here, not on r/transgenderuk, not on x.
They are attacking the credibility of the study, but given its size and the very shocking findings, why aren't at least some of them expressing a little concern that there might be something in it? I mean, these are vulnerable kids, and they're taking really powerful drugs with major long-term consequences, and now it looks like there's evidence that it may be doing the opposite of what it's supposed to...
How could you not be concerned, whatever your agenda? They're kids!
Aren't trans rights activists interested in the right of trans kids to be safe and healthy?
Am I missing something?

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Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:19

solerolover · 14/04/2026 10:59

Or "I know I'm not male because I've never penetrated anyone." That was eyebrow raising and a doozy of a read I must say.

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You know I am reminded just how many distortions are required when a male person attempts to convince others that he is in anyway female.

I, and I doubt any other female, don't have to do this at all. Everything that we say is based on material reality and it is supported by clear and accurate language with no obfuscation and no theoretical underpinnings that attempt to make a subjective reality into material reality. Just accurate and truthful facts. That is authenticity.

TWETMIRF · 14/04/2026 11:24

solerolover · 14/04/2026 10:59

Or "I know I'm not male because I've never penetrated anyone." That was eyebrow raising and a doozy of a read I must say.

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Wow, I had no idea that all boys are female until they lose their virginity and magically turn male.

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:24

I remember listening to women who identify as transmen and the discussion is rather different. They are usually pretty up front that they are not men. The ones who come to FWR are not seeking to shame women for rejecting their claims that they are 'men' or 'male' because they know it and if they ever believed it, they generally admit to the gradual realisation that they really never were men / male but have found their own way to live with the truth.

There are now many detransitioners, some of them very recent who had been identifying as men for years, who describe the process where they finally came to that realisation.

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:25

TWETMIRF · 14/04/2026 11:24

Wow, I had no idea that all boys are female until they lose their virginity and magically turn male.

yep.

And all those celibate men too.

It was a cracker of a statement.

RedToothBrush · 14/04/2026 11:45

All Incels are women?!

That's a revelation.

Shedmistress · 14/04/2026 11:50

Can it get any more absurd?

RedToothBrush · 14/04/2026 11:51

Shedmistress · 14/04/2026 11:50

Can it get any more absurd?

Is that a question or a challenge?

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:58

Well, hang on... Remember Willoughby is a woman 'let that penetrate!'

solerolover · 14/04/2026 11:58

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:19

You know I am reminded just how many distortions are required when a male person attempts to convince others that he is in anyway female.

I, and I doubt any other female, don't have to do this at all. Everything that we say is based on material reality and it is supported by clear and accurate language with no obfuscation and no theoretical underpinnings that attempt to make a subjective reality into material reality. Just accurate and truthful facts. That is authenticity.

Oh, 100%, Helle. If I recall correctly, the same poster also said something along the lines of, well let's all compare fat distributions, waist to hip ratios and q-angles, as if that would be the thing to convince us that he's anything other than a man😅. The irony being that only an outsider to female history, would behave like that and the funny thing is, he doesn't even see it.

An actual female person has no need to do any of that, because, as you point out, everything we say is based on material, not subjective reality and scientific fact, no amount of pretzelling, double speak or obfuscation is necessary.

I've posted this excerpt from Raymond's The Transsexual Empire before, but it seems especially fitting here:

But in some very real senses, female biology shapes female history—a history that men don’t have because of their sex—including the history of menstruation, the history of pregnancy or the capacity to become pregnant, the history of childbirth and abortion, the history of certain bodily cycles and life changes, and the history of female subordination in a male-dominant society. Note that I keep saying history. To deny that female history is, in part, based on female biology is like denying that important aspects of Black history are based on skin color. As with biological skin color, female biology doesn’t confer an essential femininity; rather it confers a historical reality about what it means to be bom with XX chromosomes.

And again, even surgeons who perform such cosmetic operations on male people can't deny material reality:

Georges Burou, a Casablancan physician who has operated on over 700 American men, expressed the superficiality of sex-conversion surgery in these words: “I don’t change men into women. I transform male genitals into genitals that have a female aspect. All the rest is in the patient’s mind.”

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 12:06

Good quote solero

DialSquare · 14/04/2026 13:19

It’s the insistence that gives it away. If anyone told me I wasn’t a woman, I’d shrug my shoulders and say “whatever” because I don’t need anyone to validate me.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 14/04/2026 13:24

RedToothBrush · 14/04/2026 11:51

Is that a question or a challenge?

😄

auserna · 14/04/2026 13:36

DialSquare · 14/04/2026 13:19

It’s the insistence that gives it away. If anyone told me I wasn’t a woman, I’d shrug my shoulders and say “whatever” because I don’t need anyone to validate me.

I saw an interview with a TIM who said something along the lines of, "I know I'm a woman because my friends and colleagues tell me I am." A bit like saying to a small child, "Yes of course you're the best at dancing, Mary."

TWETMIRF · 14/04/2026 14:25

So if his friends and colleagues tell him he's a man he'll know he's a man? What if they tell him he's a sexist pig? Or even a smelly poo poo head? Is it always the case that people are whatever other people call them?

CraftandGlamour · 14/04/2026 14:44

kiopsd · 14/04/2026 10:39

have any trans rights activists actually expressed any concern in this thread yet?

Of course not.

However, and I hope this isn't too grand a derail, I came across this article on why some people cannot engage when their sense of reality is threatened. And its not about gender but UFOs! Enjoy the parallels - and I'm not talking universes...
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/202512/why-is-no-one-talking-about-the-aliens

Why Is No One Talking About the Aliens?

Why have disclosures from government officials about non-human intelligence been met with silence? Psychology explains the fear and the limits of the human mind .

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/202512/why-is-no-one-talking-about-the-aliens

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 14:52

auserna · 14/04/2026 13:36

I saw an interview with a TIM who said something along the lines of, "I know I'm a woman because my friends and colleagues tell me I am." A bit like saying to a small child, "Yes of course you're the best at dancing, Mary."

Yes. That basis of a call to authority is not uncommon.

I remember last year a male barrister in a TV interview who actually thought that admitting that he had sex by deception with a man who thought that he was having sex with a woman was a great example of how he could authoritatively say he was a woman. He actually believed that admitting to sex by deception on TV would give him public support.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 14/04/2026 15:33

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 07:40

I actually don't. If so, everyone would be doing it.

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No we wouldn't. Some of us accept the cards we were dealt, and neither ask for a re-deal nor practice a poker face in order to deceive.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:45

Mmmnotsure · 14/04/2026 09:37

Please do not take it upon yourself to decide how I am using language, or police my tone. It was accurate vocabulary. Please do not read into my words things that are not there.

Perhaps you should consider why you jumped to that conclusion, why you replied with the particular adjective you used, and why a word affected you in that way.

I've lost count at the number of times I've had my words or the intent I am trying to convey twisted in this forum. If you were not framing the question in that way, I apologise.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:48

Shedmistress · 14/04/2026 08:53

You do tend to chop and change the facts on a minute by minute basis. Maybe try being consistent for one day and see how that goes?

At least you realise that sex is reality.

That is your belief. My posts have been warped to fit a narrative that does not exist.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:49

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 09:47

"I believe a person's sex is a physical thing. I believe my sex is a physical thing."

This is a glimpse into the contortions that are used by this poster to claim to be female.

This is a play on words though.

Sure, it can be said that sex is a 'physical thing' in that the sex category of a human relates to a specific body formation. One that cannot be changed. However, using a common phrase such as 'physical thing', this leads the reader to think that this body formation 'might' be what is being referred to, when it is clearly not.

Can you please inform us female people how you are a female person?

The post I was responding to used the words 'physical thing.' I was agreeing.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:51

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 09:42

It affects me zilch

Yes, we know.

It affects you zilch because you're a man @onepostwonder

That could be translated as:

"I am a man and anything negative that happens to women is of no interest to me"

You are wrong. But sex realist orthodoxy constrains 'reality' in a way that disposes alternate sex development into the 'man' group.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:54

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 09:57

Well, if we're being pedantic........

I am 69 years old. I am a woman.
For the avoidance of doubt, I was observed to be female at birth.

For over 20 years I've been using a combination of transdermally-applied oestradiol gel and a slow-release oestrogen pessary (in my vagina, replaced every 12 weeks).

This is to mitigate the effects of the menopause on my female body and also to stop osteoporosis from causing any further damage to my bones.

I also have a mirena coil in my uterus to release progestogen. I will need all these treatments until I die.

Don't try to patronise me (or any of the other women on this thread) by telling us all about oestrogen @onepostwonder

You know nothing about it.
Nothing. Because you're not a woman.

I am glad to hear that they are considering post-menopausal HRT treatments a life-long SoC now.

auserna · 14/04/2026 15:56

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 14:52

Yes. That basis of a call to authority is not uncommon.

I remember last year a male barrister in a TV interview who actually thought that admitting that he had sex by deception with a man who thought that he was having sex with a woman was a great example of how he could authoritatively say he was a woman. He actually believed that admitting to sex by deception on TV would give him public support.

This wasn't Robin Moira White, was it? Regardless, what an utterly crazy thing for a lawyer to admit to.

The cognitive dissonance is astounding.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:57

MissGendering · 14/04/2026 09:59

'The fact that my body has no gametes or reproductive system hasn't impacted that grouping at all.'

Sigh.

It has, does, and always will.

'The fact I am not impacted by female puberty, periods, pregnancy, the risk of pregnancy, birth, motherhood, infertility, miscarriage, menopause, has no impact on my identity as a woman' is such a bloody nonsensical assertion.

Tits and lipstick do not make one a woman.

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It has, does, and always will.

Yes, but not in ways that are of sex realist concern.

'The fact I am not impacted by female puberty, periods, pregnancy, the risk of pregnancy, birth, motherhood, infertility, miscarriage, menopause, has no impact on my identity as a woman' is such a bloody nonsensical assertion.

Tits and lipstick do not make one a woman.

I agree 100%. Absolutely none of that causes anyone to identify me as a woman.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 15:58

MissGendering · 14/04/2026 10:04

Fwiw a male's classification as male is a simple fact, whatever anyone on this board thinks or says. Males will require prostate exams, and their male skeleton will be identifiable as such long after any of us have finished debating.

Yes, I agree.

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