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Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true

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mardirousse · 10/04/2026 15:21

You would expect Trans Rights Activists to be concerned about the physical mental health of gender questioning children, yet I haven't seen a single TRA express the slightest concern that gender affirming care might be causing harm to young kids, who they see as transgender. Not here, not on r/transgenderuk, not on x.
They are attacking the credibility of the study, but given its size and the very shocking findings, why aren't at least some of them expressing a little concern that there might be something in it? I mean, these are vulnerable kids, and they're taking really powerful drugs with major long-term consequences, and now it looks like there's evidence that it may be doing the opposite of what it's supposed to...
How could you not be concerned, whatever your agenda? They're kids!
Aren't trans rights activists interested in the right of trans kids to be safe and healthy?
Am I missing something?

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onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:00

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 09:34

so, could you please remind us what makes you female?

Nothing that sex critical people will ever acknowledge. Wider society has never had any difficulty.

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 16:01

auserna · 14/04/2026 15:56

This wasn't Robin Moira White, was it? Regardless, what an utterly crazy thing for a lawyer to admit to.

The cognitive dissonance is astounding.

No. Sam Kane if I remember correctly

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 16:03

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:00

Nothing that sex critical people will ever acknowledge. Wider society has never had any difficulty.

So are you saying it is society belief then?

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:03

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 10:22

”The fact that my body has no gametes or reproductive system hasn't impacted that grouping at all”

This is an undeniable aspect of categorising human bodies into sex classes. The removal of the reproductive system partially or fully doesn’t impact the sex category of a human. Because their body’s formation around the production of those gametes still remains .

A male person removing testes does not mean they are no longer a male person. They are still a male person, never a female person. So no, removing gamete production capability doesn’t impact the ‘grouping’ of male people into the male sex category of humans.

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Sex development occurs into adulthood. Reducing the definition of sex in a way that restricts acknowledging this creates falsehoods and impossibilities.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:04

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 16:03

So are you saying it is society belief then?

No.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:05

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:03

Sex development occurs into adulthood. Reducing the definition of sex in a way that restricts acknowledging this creates falsehoods and impossibilities.

Well, it's impossible for people to change sex.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:05

Helleofabore · 14/04/2026 11:19

You know I am reminded just how many distortions are required when a male person attempts to convince others that he is in anyway female.

I, and I doubt any other female, don't have to do this at all. Everything that we say is based on material reality and it is supported by clear and accurate language with no obfuscation and no theoretical underpinnings that attempt to make a subjective reality into material reality. Just accurate and truthful facts. That is authenticity.

When intersectionality is ignored, words have a hard time conveying meaning where no context is shared.

MissGendering · 14/04/2026 16:06

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:00

Nothing that sex critical people will ever acknowledge. Wider society has never had any difficulty.

Is it a formless miasma?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:06

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:05

When intersectionality is ignored, words have a hard time conveying meaning where no context is shared.

Love a bit of word salad.

MissGendering · 14/04/2026 16:07

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:05

When intersectionality is ignored, words have a hard time conveying meaning where no context is shared.

Whut.

Can you not express it in words? Do you need special intersectional words?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 14/04/2026 16:10

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:05

When intersectionality is ignored, words have a hard time conveying meaning where no context is shared.

Ha! We have a magic word, divorced from its actual meaning.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 14/04/2026 16:10

MissGendering · 14/04/2026 16:07

Whut.

Can you not express it in words? Do you need special intersectional words?

It's far too complicated for us

But the rest of society doesn't have a problem understanding it

Just the silly sex realists on MN

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:14

solerolover · 14/04/2026 10:59

Or "I know I'm not male because I've never penetrated anyone." That was eyebrow raising and a doozy of a read I must say.

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I didn't write this, but I see it lives on.

I wrote "I've never penetrated anyone, nor did I ever had the urge to do it" in a context where I could have better said "I've never experienced sex as man. I fooled around with boys, I dated gay men during transition. I dated men after transition."

What's the deal guys?
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5492207-whats-the-deal-guys?page=5&reply=150597923

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:17

GreyskySexRealistsky · 14/04/2026 16:10

It's far too complicated for us

But the rest of society doesn't have a problem understanding it

Just the silly sex realists on MN

It's called physical reality. You should try it.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:18

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:05

Well, it's impossible for people to change sex.

That is the sex critical belief, yes.

murasaki · 14/04/2026 16:18

There is no physical reality where you are a woman.

GreyskySexRealistsky · 14/04/2026 16:18

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:17

It's called physical reality. You should try it.

Try it?
I live it.
You...not so much.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:19

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:14

I didn't write this, but I see it lives on.

I wrote "I've never penetrated anyone, nor did I ever had the urge to do it" in a context where I could have better said "I've never experienced sex as man. I fooled around with boys, I dated gay men during transition. I dated men after transition."

What's the deal guys?
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5492207-whats-the-deal-guys?page=5&reply=150597923

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Don't you have sex with your husband, then?
Not that it's any of my business, but you are saying that you've never experienced sex as a man.

But you are a man.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:21

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:19

Don't you have sex with your husband, then?
Not that it's any of my business, but you are saying that you've never experienced sex as a man.

But you are a man.

You're just going to have to imagine it as gay sex then.

auserna · 14/04/2026 16:22

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 09:57

Well, if we're being pedantic........

I am 69 years old. I am a woman.
For the avoidance of doubt, I was observed to be female at birth.

For over 20 years I've been using a combination of transdermally-applied oestradiol gel and a slow-release oestrogen pessary (in my vagina, replaced every 12 weeks).

This is to mitigate the effects of the menopause on my female body and also to stop osteoporosis from causing any further damage to my bones.

I also have a mirena coil in my uterus to release progestogen. I will need all these treatments until I die.

Don't try to patronise me (or any of the other women on this thread) by telling us all about oestrogen @onepostwonder

You know nothing about it.
Nothing. Because you're not a woman.

NB I am a fully paid-up TERF and agree with pretty much everything you post on this topic.

However, I think here you're straying dangerously close to the "lived experience" argument whereby we believe that you cannot have any understanding or knowledge of, or expertise in, anything of which you don't have direct personal experience. By that reasoning we're saying the "cis" people cannot possibly understand anything about the nature of being trans (so how can we comment?); therapists who have never been sexually assaulted cannot counsel rape victims; gynaecologists must by definition be female.

I have a female DSD so do not produce, and never have produced, oestrogen. I can certainly tell you about the affects that it has had on my body since I've been taking it (and the affects of not having it during adolescence).

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 16:23

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:21

You're just going to have to imagine it as gay sex then.

That is what it is.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:24

murasaki · 14/04/2026 16:18

There is no physical reality where you are a woman.

And this is why FWS will ultimately be modified. Not because of physical reality, but because cultural enforcement of sex realist beliefs identify only black and white. Reality is messy.

murasaki · 14/04/2026 16:25

No, it won't.

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:40

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 14/04/2026 11:04

Hey @onepostwonder you know that committee you chaired?

(supposedly as the first woman on it)

You claimed that you co-opted more women on to it. Would that be actual women, or more men like yourself, who only think they're women?

You haven't been following along, have you. I wasn't the first woman on the committee. What do you believe the statistically probable answer to your question to be?

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 14/04/2026 16:59

onepostwonder · 14/04/2026 16:21

You're just going to have to imagine it as gay sex then.

I doubt if the people on this thread are interested in imagining you having sex.

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