We can’t understand the literal framing of believing you have changed sex (or possibly you believe you were always female?) It’s not clear.
Sex realists cannot understand because changing sex is literally an impossibility under their beliefs. There will never be any framing.
The core problem which can’t be bridged is that you seem to believe that someone’s sex is defined by how they feel. Or possibly by how they identify. But it is via some interior knowledge.
I don't believe someone's sex is defined by how they feel. Or, even by how they identify. It is absolutely not interior knowledge. I have never said any of the above.
Most women here believe that a person’s sex is a physical thing, much as it is defined without much difficulty across the whole animal and plant kingdoms. We don’t see why the definition of human sex should work in a different way to all other life forms.
I believe a person's sex is a physical thing. I believe my sex is a physical thing. Sex realists deny my existence because they must fit me into 'men,'
I don’t doubt that you had/have strong feelings about not being male/really being female and it is completely understandable that you would therefore want/need to define sex as a mental rather than physical state of being to reduce your own distress. So don’t assume no-one is capable of comprehending this.
I really don't have strong feelings about this. It just is. It's hardly a mental state. I have been in my body my whole life. More than long enough to understand how I am grouped and to realise that grouping's affect on everything in my life. The fact that my body has no gametes or reproductive system hasn't impacted that grouping at all. In a similar way that clothing choice has no impact on that grouping at all.
But most people will not agree that sex is a matter of someone’s belief about themselves.
You can include me in this. No one here is clearly capable of comprehending my life.