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Disappointed at Andrew Garfield remarks about JKR

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2021x · 28/03/2026 22:44

In recent press for the Magic Faraway Tree, Andrew Garfield was trying to make the point that people who worked on HP projects should be respected for their art. He refused to use JKR name, and called her "she should remain nameless".

This for some reason has hit me a bit harder than I thought it would, and I am confused as to why. His PR is very rainbow-adjacent i.e. does Drag-race. He has always has picked "sensitive-man roles" that appeal to men rather than women. So even if he isn't actully gay-gay, he obviously much prefers the company of men- even when they are dressed as women. So there really is no reason for me to think that he actually cares about women and their safety and dignity at all.

Maybe because we are the same-ish age and similar cultural backgrounds that I thought he would have seen through all the misogynist bullshit. I think its fine to say you disagree with JKR but to demonise her to the same level as Voldemort... seems a bit.. culty?

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DrBlackbird · 29/03/2026 12:24

Bobbymoore123 · 29/03/2026 11:24

All of these "very intelligent" and "highly articulate" people are always so pro-trans... It's such a shock each and every time.

Re Andrew Garfield, it’s clear he sees himself as a #bekind and inclusive person. His whole identity rests on being a ‘progressive’ thinker. The kind of man to as likely wear a t-shirt that said ‘l’m a feminist’ as much as wearing one that said ‘protect the dolls’. Without thinking through the implications.

Entrenched in Hollywood liberalism and living a rarified life completely removed from domestic refuges, prisons, hospital wards, or even any ordinary experience of toilets, changing rooms, or spas.

Hollywood has either been manipulated by TRAs (the Wachowski brothers) or bought into gender ideology on the back of inclusivity but underpinned by a dose of misogyny. It’s a shock for them to face an issue that requires some thinking when, for years, actors have been lauded for speaking out on causes like women’s rights, the environment, civil rights. Now they’ve been caught out, like others, in naively believing trans ‘rights’ was similar.

This one issue really has stumped the so-called intelligentsia.

buffyajp · 29/03/2026 12:35

Lemonthyme · 29/03/2026 09:34

I was at a theatre recently where there were mixed gender toilets. Even as a victim of rape at the hands of three different men, in no way did I feel vulnerable. It was quite funny watching men have to queue for the first time in their lives though.

Thing is, not all trans women are physically imposing in any way. Many very much are not. You will have shared a public toilet with a trans woman and not known. What is your solution then to ensuring only cis women use them?

In the kindest way possible please don’t speak for all rape victims. I am sorry you experienced that and I am glad you are perfectly comfortable in mixed sex toilets but you don’t get to tell me what I should be comfortable with. I also have been raped and sexually assaulted and I’m sick to the back teeth of being told my concerns are secondary to someone else’s feelings of being validated.

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 12:37

FlirtsWithRhinos · 29/03/2026 11:46

Oh they do. They see us as resources, as scenery and as helpmeets.

Our role in their heads is keep on womanning in the old way so they have something to identify into, even though their very claim to be "women" undermines the basis on which womanning "in the old way" is anything to do with being a "woman" at all.

Once you see it you can't unsee it. The whole edifice is nothing more than sexism wrapped in a progressive facade.

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But that's not a woman, I'm not trying to be perdantic, I'm literally just saying seeing human beings as placeholders for roles that are unseen and unpaid, is not the same as seeing that we have intrinsic rights outside of those roles that are defined by, maintained by and solely benefit, the patriarchal systems that hold us down, exploit us and then deny our very essence

Kimura · 29/03/2026 12:49

loislovesstewie · 29/03/2026 10:03

I find it deeply troubling that some think that it was OK to allow Khelif into a boxing ring to batter a female opponent. The woman could have suffered an horrendous injury in those boxing matches. If any of us saw that on the street, we would be horrified. And take the appropriate action. But, instead we are supposed to show sympathy for the man who has got into the ring, knowing he was male. What about his opponent? What does that tell her?

The woman could have suffered an horrendous injury in those boxing matches. If any of us saw that on the street, we would be horrified

I don't think anyone other than biological females should be competing in women's sports, to be clear. But can you recall a Khelif fight where the opponent was noticably physically outmatched? Let alone to the point that we'd be horrified if we saw it on the street?

Khelif has had close to 60 amateur bouts, and has only stopped 8 opponents. None of those 60 opponents suffered horrendous injuries, or were knocked unconscious. There isn't evidence to suggest that Khelif posed some kind of additional risk to opponents as a fighter.

But, instead we are supposed to show sympathy for the man who has got into the ring, knowing he was male.

I sympathize with anyone who boxed Khalif unaware of the issue, and anyone who felt compelled to compete against someone they believed had an unfair advantage. Neither of those are ok.

But to claim that Khalif is a man, who deliberately competed against women knowing that he was a man is false. Khalif was born and raised a woman. It is believed - but not yet established - that she carries the SRY gene. This caused her to have higher levels of testosterone, which were medically reduced to the standard required by the testing bodies. It does not make her a man, and no credible test has ever established that she is biologically male.

Multiple female Olympians have tested positive for the SRY gene over the years, while being confirmed to be biologically female and cleared to compete.

I will have sympathy for Khelif until it's established that she's done anything wrong.

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 12:51

Kimura · 29/03/2026 12:49

The woman could have suffered an horrendous injury in those boxing matches. If any of us saw that on the street, we would be horrified

I don't think anyone other than biological females should be competing in women's sports, to be clear. But can you recall a Khelif fight where the opponent was noticably physically outmatched? Let alone to the point that we'd be horrified if we saw it on the street?

Khelif has had close to 60 amateur bouts, and has only stopped 8 opponents. None of those 60 opponents suffered horrendous injuries, or were knocked unconscious. There isn't evidence to suggest that Khelif posed some kind of additional risk to opponents as a fighter.

But, instead we are supposed to show sympathy for the man who has got into the ring, knowing he was male.

I sympathize with anyone who boxed Khalif unaware of the issue, and anyone who felt compelled to compete against someone they believed had an unfair advantage. Neither of those are ok.

But to claim that Khalif is a man, who deliberately competed against women knowing that he was a man is false. Khalif was born and raised a woman. It is believed - but not yet established - that she carries the SRY gene. This caused her to have higher levels of testosterone, which were medically reduced to the standard required by the testing bodies. It does not make her a man, and no credible test has ever established that she is biologically male.

Multiple female Olympians have tested positive for the SRY gene over the years, while being confirmed to be biologically female and cleared to compete.

I will have sympathy for Khelif until it's established that she's done anything wrong.

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard. This DSD only affects males. Khelif is male.

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 12:51

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 11:58

This interview with him and Claire (who I normally like) is teethgrindingly twee. And the normal zeal of cancellation/divorcing of a creator from their creation/calling them nasty names has been handwaved away by a lovely made up scenario that dear old Enid would have been persuaded by her present day descendants of the error of her ways. Despite there being no such evidence of this (even on a fantasy level) being the case.

https://www.independent.co.uk/arts-entertainment/films/features/andrew-garfield-claire-foy-magic-faraway-tree-interview-b2942626.html?test_group=lighteradlayout

Far better for him to follow the usual crowd and slag off JKR than actually address the various controversies with Enid. But then, he's got a movie to promote, doesn't he?

Disappointed by Claire Foy too, normally love her work. It's a tangent again for another thread but I also don't think people from a position of majority social position of power (White British) can decide what might or might not be worth of a cancellation on racist source material, or as I'm calling this, an uncancellation, (I'm tweaking Orwell) . It's exactly the same process behind a male bodied person deciding for us what is and is not a threat to a female bodied woman living in an environment where her lived experience is invalidated and she's told her opinions by males.

The whole thing is a shit show. It should be The As Far Away As Possible Tree.

In a decade we'll look back and be mystified.

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 12:52

lcakethereforeIam · 29/03/2026 12:14

I think he's trying to raise his profile. After all he's the third most popular Spiderman (that's discounting the cartoons and comics) and the second most popular Garfield.

Can we just refer to him from now on as TSMPG (the second most popular Garfield)

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 12:53

Who is Andrew Garfield, and why should we care much about what he says?

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 12:54

Lemonthyme · 29/03/2026 09:34

I was at a theatre recently where there were mixed gender toilets. Even as a victim of rape at the hands of three different men, in no way did I feel vulnerable. It was quite funny watching men have to queue for the first time in their lives though.

Thing is, not all trans women are physically imposing in any way. Many very much are not. You will have shared a public toilet with a trans woman and not known. What is your solution then to ensuring only cis women use them?

You may not have felt vulnerable, but other women would have done.

Do they not count? Is it only your reaction that matters?

Surely you understand that you don't get to give consent on behalf of other women?

Women have single sex spaces for their own safety and dignity. On what grounds would we let one specific group of men into them?

Onebattleafteramother · 29/03/2026 12:55

I'm also not a cis woman..I'm just the only kind of woman there is. Do not label is all as such please ty

Waitwhat23 · 29/03/2026 12:56

Kimura · 29/03/2026 12:49

The woman could have suffered an horrendous injury in those boxing matches. If any of us saw that on the street, we would be horrified

I don't think anyone other than biological females should be competing in women's sports, to be clear. But can you recall a Khelif fight where the opponent was noticably physically outmatched? Let alone to the point that we'd be horrified if we saw it on the street?

Khelif has had close to 60 amateur bouts, and has only stopped 8 opponents. None of those 60 opponents suffered horrendous injuries, or were knocked unconscious. There isn't evidence to suggest that Khelif posed some kind of additional risk to opponents as a fighter.

But, instead we are supposed to show sympathy for the man who has got into the ring, knowing he was male.

I sympathize with anyone who boxed Khalif unaware of the issue, and anyone who felt compelled to compete against someone they believed had an unfair advantage. Neither of those are ok.

But to claim that Khalif is a man, who deliberately competed against women knowing that he was a man is false. Khalif was born and raised a woman. It is believed - but not yet established - that she carries the SRY gene. This caused her to have higher levels of testosterone, which were medically reduced to the standard required by the testing bodies. It does not make her a man, and no credible test has ever established that she is biologically male.

Multiple female Olympians have tested positive for the SRY gene over the years, while being confirmed to be biologically female and cleared to compete.

I will have sympathy for Khelif until it's established that she's done anything wrong.

'Non e giusto'

Disappointed at Andrew Garfield remarks about JKR
TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 12:57

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 12:53

Who is Andrew Garfield, and why should we care much about what he says?

Edited

We have to stop listening to actors. Most of them are thick as mince.

He's awful in the Faraway Tree movie. Strange because I thought he was a relatively decent actor, but I haven't seen him in anything for a while, maybe I was mistaken. 🤷‍♀️

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:00

I'll never understand the out pouring of sympathy for cheating men like Khelif, but never a mention of the women he punched, the women he denied an Olympic place to, the women he took Olympic medals from.

Is it just because he's a man and people are programmed to care about men more?

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:01

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 12:51

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard. This DSD only affects males. Khelif is male.

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard.

This has not been confirmed. At this stage it's just speculation.

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 13:04

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:01

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard.

This has not been confirmed. At this stage it's just speculation.

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published. Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

If he had CAIS he wouldn't need to reduce his testosterone

Coatsoff42 · 29/03/2026 13:16

I saw this interview and my heart sank as I was looking forward to taking the kids to it, but I don’t really want to watch it knowing what a smug know-it-all he was in that interview. It’s me who’ll be organising the cinema trip, and I can’t be bothered now, the shine has gone off it. Stupid to comment so patronisingly like that at a promo interview for a film aimed at British families. Most cinema going over the Easter hols will be organised by British women, and they are generally not in favour of gender ideology and certainly not in favour of over-privileged, over-opinionated, self satisfied men.

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:00

I'll never understand the out pouring of sympathy for cheating men like Khelif, but never a mention of the women he punched, the women he denied an Olympic place to, the women he took Olympic medals from.

Is it just because he's a man and people are programmed to care about men more?

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:20

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport. This is following two failed sex eligibility tests for previous competitions

You know all this of course.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues.

I have no words really. It's been utterly and depressing eye opening,

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:24

spannasaurus · 29/03/2026 13:04

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published. Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

If he had CAIS he wouldn't need to reduce his testosterone

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published.

I'm sorry, but it simply hasn't.

Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

Khelif has done no such thing.

Can you provide a source for either of the above?

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 13:24

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 12:57

We have to stop listening to actors. Most of them are thick as mince.

He's awful in the Faraway Tree movie. Strange because I thought he was a relatively decent actor, but I haven't seen him in anything for a while, maybe I was mistaken. 🤷‍♀️

Can't say I'm aware of him. I don't tend to watch mainstream or american films. I prefer European/Iranian/Turkish etc But , even so, surely the only way anyone would know what such actors have said is if they are following social media - the function of which is to generate gossip and tittle tattle and promote vacuous self revelation.

zehrkyBerlun · 29/03/2026 13:28

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:24

It has been confirmed. Lab reports have been published.

I'm sorry, but it simply hasn't.

Even Khelif has confirmed he has a Y chromosome.

Khelif has done no such thing.

Can you provide a source for either of the above?

The lab reports gave been published in the media

Shortshriftandlethal · 29/03/2026 13:29

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:01

Khelif is confirmed to have 5ard.

This has not been confirmed. At this stage it's just speculation.

It not having been formally admitted by Khelif's team though it having been confirmed by sex testing is a different matter.

Khelif's team have maintained the denial throughout ( it won them a gold medal), even though their behaviour, and Khelif's obvious masculine appearance and physicality, confirm otherwise.

Khelif has been presenting, living ( socially) and training as a male for many years.

ArabellaScott · 29/03/2026 13:39

TheKeatingFive · 29/03/2026 13:20

The 'test' to compete in the Olympics was an F on his passport. This is following two failed sex eligibility tests for previous competitions

You know all this of course.

Yet the sympathy for the man who knowing went into a ring and beat up women continues.

I have no words really. It's been utterly and depressing eye opening,

Beatings will continue until morale improves.

ThePoshUns · 29/03/2026 13:41

Kimura · 29/03/2026 13:16

I'd say any sympathy has been balanced out by attacks and vitriol, inside and outside the boxing world.

So of course there's a mention and consideration for Khelif's opponents. I think everyone in this conversation has expressed sympathy for them.

But the fact is, Khelif passed every test required in order to compete at the Olympics, so until it's established that she wasn't eligible to compete as a woman and is stripped of her medals, they're rightfully hers.

He didn’t because he refused to be tested

ArabellaScott · 29/03/2026 13:42

Cailleach1 · 29/03/2026 11:13

Ugh, and it seems such perverts (or poor vulnerable sweetiepies) are now being lauded. Now women have to deal with creepy males doing these things everywhere. There is no refuge anywhere in public spaces, or services. Maybe that is by design of these men and their cheerleaders. Or at least without any concern whatsoever for women and girls.

I was just thinking about a miscarriage I had at work. I can’t even imagine having to deal with creepy men in the toilet as I discovered I was bleeding. Now of course they’d be able to put those camera’s under the partitions and doors.

And, there are women advocating for them to be in a position of such proximity from which they can carry out their fetishes.

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To give full context, this was thirty years ago. When they say 'trans people have always existed', this is what comes to mind.