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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transwomen - pseudumenopausal symptoms due to hrt - asked to approve work policy

308 replies

GrimDamnFanjo · 15/03/2026 17:36

I have to comment on a paper that’s come for approval. It’s a policy regarding menopause at work.
theres detail regarding the experience of black women, women with disabilities, trans men and those who identify as non binary and a line that transwomen may experience pseudomenopausal symptoms due to taking hrt.
is this true?
is this any different to anyone having side effects for drugs they take or am I missing something?

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Lougle · 16/03/2026 13:21

ProfessorBinturong · 16/03/2026 12:11

There's some evidence that black women experience, on average, more severe menopause symptoms than white women. And also (especially in the US, where a lot of the research comes from) that they are less likely to engage with medical care or more likely to experience poor medical care. There's also some evidence that Asian women tend to have fewer symptoms, although there's uncertaintly about how much is genes and how much is diet and lifestyle - and therefore whether it translates to women with Asian heritage but living elsewhere.

So it may be worth mentioning. But only if there's an explanation of why it's being mentioned and how the policy may need to be adapted. And it also needs to be clear that these are averages.

But could you imagine (rightly) the uproar if someone decided that because a woman is Asian, they shouldn't get as much accommodation because they are 'on average' going to have a less severe menopause? This could be neatly covered by 'Every woman will have an individual experience of menopause and may require workplace adjustments during this time.'

@GrimDamnFanjo could you approach it by saying 'I'm sure that there are negative symptoms associated with the use of cross-sex hormones, but including these in a policy about the menopause is likely to be confusing and may lead to both groups receiving inadequate consideration. I suggest that if you want to write a policy for transgender staff who are using cross-sex hormones, that is kept separate from the policy about biological women reaching the end of their fertile years.'

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 16:32

RedToothBrush · 16/03/2026 11:56

If you were Onepostwonder's GP who had concerns about his health and taking drugs that could harm how would you approach it.

Remember GP insists that it's transphobic to insist he is male - he insists he is biologically female. If the GP decides to talk about sex, they run the risk of being reported for being transphobic... So to appease men like onepostwonder who are behaving in this manner, how can the GP protect themselves and their patient in this climate. This is why I have previously used the example of a doctor treating a trans patient in reference to the SC ruling before because if sex doesn't mean sex they are put in this awful position of being at risk of being culpable if they harm a patient who is prepared to lie so much it leads to self harm and they are also personally at risk if they don't go along with gender from a career point of view (which puts a whole load of other patients at risk because this doctor is actually a good doctor doing what they should be in terms of recognising the health risks).

The GP is effectively going to sell coming off cross sex hormones to a cohort of men who don't take no for an answer and are not willing to engage with sex in the only way possible by saying "oh well if you come off the drugs you are being like a woman" even though women of that age are going onto the drugs!

It's a lie to deal with men in total denial. And it's yet another lie that actively harms women in the process.

None of this is ok.

Sex realists have the most wonderful imaginations. I'm surprised more aren't hugely successful in the creative fields...

Back to the OP: If you are seeking a political solution to your workplace question, these women have provided numerous angles to remove trans women from the policy/process. If you are looking for an equitable medically-based answer, you will not find it here.

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 16:43

If you are looking for an equitable medically-based answer, you will not find it here.

When is it medically based to treat a male person’s personal and elective decision to take hormones in levels not meant for the male body and be treated as if that person was in fact going through a uniquely female body process? That is neither ‘equitable’ nor should it be considered ‘medically based as a female body process’.

stapletonsguitar · 16/03/2026 16:51

It’s posts like this that make me grateful I don’t work in an office environment 🤦‍♀️ sorry you’re having to deal with this nonsense OP.

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 16:51

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 16:43

If you are looking for an equitable medically-based answer, you will not find it here.

When is it medically based to treat a male person’s personal and elective decision to take hormones in levels not meant for the male body and be treated as if that person was in fact going through a uniquely female body process? That is neither ‘equitable’ nor should it be considered ‘medically based as a female body process’.

Trans medical care involves treatments and diagnoses across sex boundaries. If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace, then they have found the right place to form the foundations.

JellySaurus · 16/03/2026 16:55

What is needed here: an ‘equitable medically-based’ answer, or an answer that reflects UK law?

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 16:59

Pointing out that men lack entirely the ability to pause the menses they never possessed the anatomy for is going to 'limit women's access' to menopause support is it. Mhm. Yes.

I'll file that in the same box as John McDonnal MP declaring beating up women as a respectably left wing thing.

JellySaurus · 16/03/2026 16:59

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 16:51

Trans medical care involves treatments and diagnoses across sex boundaries. If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace, then they have found the right place to form the foundations.

Pretending that men can be women limits women’s access to accommodations in the workplace.

Pretending that men can experience bodily processes that occur exclusively in the female sex limits women’s access to accommodations for those processes.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 17:06

I suppose that might mean 'if women don't shut up and pretend men pause menses they never had and lack all the mechanics for, then men with gender identities will just burn all menopause provision down and leave them with nothing'?

I mean it's not an uncommon belief, but it's a little lacking in secure hinges.

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:09

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 16:51

Trans medical care involves treatments and diagnoses across sex boundaries. If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace, then they have found the right place to form the foundations.

If 'trans medical care' involves falsehoods such as treating a male person’s personal and elective decision to take hormones in levels not meant for the male body and be treated as if that person was in fact going through a uniquely female body process, then people receiving that medical care should be campaigning for better standards of care.

Your attempts to characterise female people expecting and asking for policy decisions based on accurate information as being somehow being the problem is very telling. If you cannot be honest with yourself, I guess no one should expect accuracy from you.

"If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace".

In what way explicitly does accurately describing female body processes 'limit female people's access to accommodations in the workplace'?

Please list the exact ways this limits us.

Otherwise, this is just more sparple from you.

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:11

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 17:06

I suppose that might mean 'if women don't shut up and pretend men pause menses they never had and lack all the mechanics for, then men with gender identities will just burn all menopause provision down and leave them with nothing'?

I mean it's not an uncommon belief, but it's a little lacking in secure hinges.

As Billings says very clearly 'who is going to stop them?'

The menacing and threatening that comes with female people saying 'no' is consistent. If you don't agree with us, then bad things will happen to you and you will deserve it.

RedToothBrush · 16/03/2026 17:11

JellySaurus · 16/03/2026 16:55

What is needed here: an ‘equitable medically-based’ answer, or an answer that reflects UK law?

The law is based on equality. The problem is the dickheads who insist that biology isn't an issue and that women don't have sex based issues and that men can be women and vice versa.

The SC agreed there could only be equality and equity if you recognise sex - because the only way you can have legal protection for women, men, homosexuals and transpeople is by recognising sex - otherwise the very definition is meaningless.

Trans people have no rights if they erase sex because no one can see they are trans and have legal protections that stem from that.

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 17:13

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:09

If 'trans medical care' involves falsehoods such as treating a male person’s personal and elective decision to take hormones in levels not meant for the male body and be treated as if that person was in fact going through a uniquely female body process, then people receiving that medical care should be campaigning for better standards of care.

Your attempts to characterise female people expecting and asking for policy decisions based on accurate information as being somehow being the problem is very telling. If you cannot be honest with yourself, I guess no one should expect accuracy from you.

"If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace".

In what way explicitly does accurately describing female body processes 'limit female people's access to accommodations in the workplace'?

Please list the exact ways this limits us.

Otherwise, this is just more sparple from you.

Sex realists lack the ability to acknowledge any facts relating to trans medical treatment, or trans lives in general. I would not rely on their beliefs of trans experience within any venue, especially one involving bodily function.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 17:13

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:11

As Billings says very clearly 'who is going to stop them?'

The menacing and threatening that comes with female people saying 'no' is consistent. If you don't agree with us, then bad things will happen to you and you will deserve it.

See Lundy Bancroft for details.

Why does he do it?

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:14

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 16:59

Pointing out that men lack entirely the ability to pause the menses they never possessed the anatomy for is going to 'limit women's access' to menopause support is it. Mhm. Yes.

I'll file that in the same box as John McDonnal MP declaring beating up women as a respectably left wing thing.

I look forward to us being informed about exactly what will happen to us that will 'limit women's access to menopause support' if we don't include male people who demand to be included in menopause support when they in no way experience menopause.

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 17:14

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:09

If 'trans medical care' involves falsehoods such as treating a male person’s personal and elective decision to take hormones in levels not meant for the male body and be treated as if that person was in fact going through a uniquely female body process, then people receiving that medical care should be campaigning for better standards of care.

Your attempts to characterise female people expecting and asking for policy decisions based on accurate information as being somehow being the problem is very telling. If you cannot be honest with yourself, I guess no one should expect accuracy from you.

"If the OP's goal here is to start building walls limiting women's access to accommodations in the workplace".

In what way explicitly does accurately describing female body processes 'limit female people's access to accommodations in the workplace'?

Please list the exact ways this limits us.

Otherwise, this is just more sparple from you.

sea lion photo here

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 17:15

Sex realists focused on provision for menopause are not thinking about men with gender identities very unique medical needs because they are wholly irrelevant to that provision.

In about the same way that the kidney unit is not dealing with teeth.

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2026 17:17

I think he means it limits women's access because it doesn't expand it to include men.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 16/03/2026 17:17

Sorry about your thread, OP. Hope you got some useful answers in the early pages.

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:17

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 17:13

Sex realists lack the ability to acknowledge any facts relating to trans medical treatment, or trans lives in general. I would not rely on their beliefs of trans experience within any venue, especially one involving bodily function.

So, you have nothing?

Just empty accusations to emotionally manipulate female people to be kind and nice and allow some male people's subjective reality to be treated as if it is an accurate representation of facts.

I think you will find that quite a few of us, including me, advocated that male people who have the need for a policy that specifically covers them should have that discussion. So, at this point your emotional manipulation tactics of making vague false representations must be making you feel better, but shows that you seem to have not read that actual thread.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 16/03/2026 17:18

InSlovakiaTheCapitalOfCourseIsBratislava · 15/03/2026 19:57

Since there are transwomen who believe they get periods it really shouldn’t surprise me that there are some who can also apparently experience the menopause
Takes delulu to new levels

You need to write this in your submission on this policy @GrimDamnFanjo
Says it all, succinctly.

Helleofabore · 16/03/2026 17:18

onepostwonder · 16/03/2026 17:14

sea lion photo here

Mate, if you cannot answer questions to clarify your own accusations I suspect that this is yet another emotionally manipulative accusation.

Climbingrosexx · 16/03/2026 17:20

A biological male cannot go through menopause so whatever they are experiencing it has no place in a menopause policy. Having said that the world has gone mad and I'm no legal expert

ParmaVioletTea · 16/03/2026 17:24

Sex realists have the most wonderful imaginations.

I'm confused @onepostwonder - are you a sex realist now? Because your fertile imagination causes you to act out being a woman ...