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Paloma Faith being even more of an idiot than she usually is

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deadpan · 19/02/2026 08:49

Obviously I'm happy for her that she's happy to be having a baby. But when she was in her mum's stomach waiting to come out, did the world think she'd decided what gender she was when she was older?
You're right Paloma, gender doesn't matter at all, so why enter in to the gender debate, why mention gender at all.
All the videos people make of their "gender reveals" are actually of sex reveals but understandably people don't want to say "come to my sex reveal party", because let's face it most people would think it involved keys in a bowl.

https://x.com/DreyfusJames/status/2023778973726233059

James Dreyfus (@DreyfusJames) on X

I sincerely hope that she has a safe,easy delivery, & that she finds herself with a happy, healthy baby. However, baby will still either be male or female, no matter it being 2026. Seems odd to directly insult your own audience in this way… Sti...

https://x.com/DreyfusJames/status/2023778973726233059

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DramaAndBullshit · 22/02/2026 10:17

“It’ll be whatever it wants to be when it’s old enough to decide its own identity” is actually true. Boy or girl is biological reality, but how this child chooses to live is not determined by its sex, and that statement is something that alleged TERFS like me wholeheartedly agree with.

I do think Paloma Faith is a bit silly, she’s clearly neurodiverse and needs some help with coping strategies, and I vividly remember her struggling to breastfeed her last child but completely ignoring all the advice on resolving the issues and then spouting ‘fed is best’ when she predictably switched to formula.

But on this she’s right, just not in the way she thinks she is. It doesn’t matter if her baby is a boy or a girl, and we shouldn’t be doing the pink & blue gender stuff. It’s the stereotyping from birth that is causing the ‘gender confusion’ in children. Let kids be kids, let toys be toys and let clothes be clothes.

Bertiebiscuit · 22/02/2026 10:20

You think?

Igmum · 22/02/2026 13:05

Never heard of her but on the basis of that video, what an unpleasant woman.

sanityisamyth · 22/02/2026 23:38

deadpan · 19/02/2026 11:11

You can be, I was using a more polite word, just like the youngsters say 'gender' reveal instead of sex reveal.

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What’s wrong with uterus?!

sanityisamyth · 22/02/2026 23:42

Paloma Faith is a moron. She did a concert near where I used to live a few years ago and she talked for a bit between each song. Some of it was about politics and it was very clear she had no idea what she was talking about, but was trying to get the audience to shout out in agreement.

Thick as too short planks.

MissCooCooMcgoo · 22/02/2026 23:46

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 19/02/2026 09:56

Cannot stand the women

What? All of us?

ProfessorRedshoeblueshoe · 22/02/2026 23:54

Can you imagine on AIBU
My MiL called my unborn baby IT - Should I go NC ?
WTF is wrong with celebs ?

WarriorN · 23/02/2026 07:02

Her kid will see that in 14 years time and cringe.

The whole trans thing will be so not cool by then.

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deadpan · 23/02/2026 08:07

sanityisamyth · 22/02/2026 23:38

What’s wrong with uterus?!

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It was a bit of a joke, if you see my op. Ffs

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deadpan · 23/02/2026 08:14

DramaAndBullshit · 22/02/2026 10:17

“It’ll be whatever it wants to be when it’s old enough to decide its own identity” is actually true. Boy or girl is biological reality, but how this child chooses to live is not determined by its sex, and that statement is something that alleged TERFS like me wholeheartedly agree with.

I do think Paloma Faith is a bit silly, she’s clearly neurodiverse and needs some help with coping strategies, and I vividly remember her struggling to breastfeed her last child but completely ignoring all the advice on resolving the issues and then spouting ‘fed is best’ when she predictably switched to formula.

But on this she’s right, just not in the way she thinks she is. It doesn’t matter if her baby is a boy or a girl, and we shouldn’t be doing the pink & blue gender stuff. It’s the stereotyping from birth that is causing the ‘gender confusion’ in children. Let kids be kids, let toys be toys and let clothes be clothes.

I thought we were finally getting to that point (wear what you like etc) but the trans insistence on stereotypes is pushing us backwards

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ThePoshUns · 23/02/2026 08:43

She is an idiot. Is she friends with Olivia Coleman and David Tennant? That would be my nightmare dinner party right there.

Bertiebiscuit · 23/02/2026 10:33

🤣🤣🤣I would choke on the tofu

Bertiebiscuit · 23/02/2026 10:38

When she's changing the nappies she will know - here's a clue - if the baby pisses into her face she'll not be able to ignore that she gave birth to a boy.

GreenEyesIsBack · 23/02/2026 11:21

Don't be so transphobic @Bertiebiscuit girls can do that too, with their penis.

NebulousSadTimes · 23/02/2026 13:50

Bertiebiscuit · 23/02/2026 10:38

When she's changing the nappies she will know - here's a clue - if the baby pisses into her face she'll not be able to ignore that she gave birth to a boy.

Go on, lad, you can do it often 👏

AskingQuestionsAllTheTime · 23/02/2026 13:56

Bertiebiscuit · 23/02/2026 10:38

When she's changing the nappies she will know - here's a clue - if the baby pisses into her face she'll not be able to ignore that she gave birth to a boy.

Mine waited until he had a particularly know-it-all doctor laying down the law about him as he examined him.

Got the doctor in the eye. I still don't know how I managed not to cheer my darling son on.

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