Thank you ! I think many of the women on here are gender non-conforming too, so it's not just me.
If you've researched the social history of sex and stereotypes, you'll know that the women's movement in the 1970s and early 80s managed to reduce the impact of gender stereotyping - photos from that period will show school children with similar clothes and haircuts, women were taking up trades and professions which had been closed to them previously, there were campaigns - often humorous - against blatantly sexist advertising
[e.g. an ad for a car that said 'If this car was a woman, it would have its bottom pinched' was graffitied with 'If this woman was a car, she'd run you over'😄]
On a more serious note, it was also the era of women's refuges, rape crisis centres, Reclaim the Night, Women against Violence against Women, etc.
Gender stereotyping was consigned to the bin - David Bowie, Marc Bolan, and later Annie Lennox are examples of how people could present themselves without denying biological sex.
But there was a backlash against the modest gains of the women's movement.
Disney princesses. Fairies. Butterflies. Pink. Glitter. Sparkles. Once again 'femininity' was associated with this kind of stereotype.
We are still in the tail end of that glitter-washing. Boys who are not comfortable being male seem to be taking the glittery stereotype of femininity as the model for 'feeling like a woman' and seeking to transition.
When men say they 'feel like a woman' they seem to have a limited opinion of what a woman is, and it owes more to the sparkly backlash than to the women's liberation women of the 1970s and 80s, or the reality of most women's lives in the 2020s.
I feel very sorry for children who are presented with 'this is what a boy should be like' and 'this is what a girl should be like' and if they don't fit the stereotypes, they are the problem, not the stereotypes. and need 'care', in your opinion of the gender-affirming kind.
You said previously I agree we need to remove gender stereotypes, but until that day, they are there and they affect everyone.
If we had to wait until the world was perfect to do the right thing, we'd never achieve anything.
Women in the recent past did a pretty good job of removing many gender stereotypes, so you shouldn't be so pessimistic
Until such time as we reach the day you think marks the end of gender stereotypes, I'm not prepared to accept the damage they do to children, who are led to believe - not by you, but by a very influential and powerful movement - that they have an inherent gender, rather than a socially constructed model of one, which may be at odds with their biological gender, and that it is possible for them to change sex so it accords with their inherent gender.
I'm against anybody young or old being encouraged to believe things that aren't true.