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The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)

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MyrtleLion · 26/01/2026 09:40

Welcome to The Bluestocking: convivial by design, opinionated in the best way, generously stocked with excellent food and drink that complies with whatever it’s meant to comply with, and any calories, gluten or alcohol are entirely virtual.

Staffed by impeccably trained, unfailingly polite gerbils who run a tight bar with plenty of enthusiasm and good intentions. Quick with the drinks, but terrible spillers spellers and liable to turn an idle thought on existential existence into a full blown musical with Busby Berkeley routines. You have been warned.

All women welcome, just in case that isn't obvious. Men can go to The Staunch Ally round the corner.

Previous thread here: https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/5477133-the-bluestocking-your-local-womens-pub-warm-friendly-and-not-at-all-unusual-in-any-way

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MyrtleLion · 28/01/2026 09:02

Good Morning All!

I will mostly be pasting Tribunal Tweets in the case of David Toshack today.

And here are some booties and a little hat.

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
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AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 09:07

Britinme · 28/01/2026 03:10

The snow …

Ooh, looks lovely @Britinme - although I'm glad it's not like that here as I would be pretty much housebound in that! Take care.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 09:11

MyrtleLion · 28/01/2026 09:02

Good Morning All!

I will mostly be pasting Tribunal Tweets in the case of David Toshack today.

And here are some booties and a little hat.

Aaw, so cute!

Magpiecomplex · 28/01/2026 09:22

MyrtleLion · 28/01/2026 09:02

Good Morning All!

I will mostly be pasting Tribunal Tweets in the case of David Toshack today.

And here are some booties and a little hat.

Those are unreasonably cute, Myrtle! 💙

MyrtleLion · 28/01/2026 09:34

I did warn you!

The bunny booties were very easy.

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CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 09:42

Found you all again. Just realised I have about 6months to knit DS’s college blanket. It took 4 months of pretty continual knitting to do DDs and I have been told in no uncertain terms that DS would be a little hurt he he doesn’t get one too 🤦🏽‍♀️

Am thinking maybe not patchwork this time as it took a billion years to sew it together artistically…

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 09:59

CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 09:42

Found you all again. Just realised I have about 6months to knit DS’s college blanket. It took 4 months of pretty continual knitting to do DDs and I have been told in no uncertain terms that DS would be a little hurt he he doesn’t get one too 🤦🏽‍♀️

Am thinking maybe not patchwork this time as it took a billion years to sew it together artistically…

That is gorgeous, @CautiousLurker2 Love the colours.

And welcome back 😀

CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 10:06

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 09:59

That is gorgeous, @CautiousLurker2 Love the colours.

And welcome back 😀

Thank you. Had a period of stress and illness - plus trying to make progress on the PhD/novel (80% of the way there) - but we all seem to be in a good-ish place just now. Can’t believe my youngest will be ‘leaving home’ in September. DH and I are kind of planning to reprise our lives a bit… starting with my first ever trip to the opera this week! So excited.

Now to find some quicker to assemble blanket/throw patterns for a double bed… as DS is 6ft 4ish and will need a room with a bigger bed and a blanket to fit.

Magpiecomplex · 28/01/2026 10:41

Recycled image but I'm really enjoying myself. Or something.

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
Britinme · 28/01/2026 11:18

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 09:07

Ooh, looks lovely @Britinme - although I'm glad it's not like that here as I would be pretty much housebound in that! Take care.

Luckily DH is a dab hand with the snowblower, though I have to say it’s getting harder for him.

@MyrtleLionthose are very cute booties.

CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 11:36

Love those booties too. Need a friend with grandkids to knit them for, but not quite there yet!

ETA - similarly we need to borrow some kids to go and see Paddington. DH and I are desperate but think we’d look odd on our own. Anyone got some DGC they are willing to rent out?

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 13:50

Just out of curiosity I asked ChatGPT what it knows about gerbils. This is what it came up with:

"Gerbils! 🐹 Tiny chaos potatoes with great vibes".

Quite apt, I thought.

Magpiecomplex · 28/01/2026 13:57

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 13:50

Just out of curiosity I asked ChatGPT what it knows about gerbils. This is what it came up with:

"Gerbils! 🐹 Tiny chaos potatoes with great vibes".

Quite apt, I thought.

Either that or we've actually succeeded in training AI!

Magpiecomplex · 28/01/2026 15:09

Conversely, Gemini is very literal when asked to create an image of "tiny chaos potatoes with great vibes".
Picture to follow, when it's been reviewed.

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
MarieDeGournay · 28/01/2026 15:10

I've been busy all morning so lots of catching up, in random order:

Myrtle, those booties are so cute, I love them! Any chance you could do them in a size 5?😁

Cautious, that blanket is beautiful, such elegant and calming colours. And I'm glad you found us again, I assume you followed the trail of discarded Tunnocks wrappers..
Fuzzy, have a grand day out!

Britinme, I hope you are warm and dry and snug and DH manages to keep a path to the outside world clearSmile
Somebody had a cold or something, I'll have to check back...
oh it's poor EmpressaurusKitty - poor you, but you have a crack medical team at your disposal now, Rosie to give hugs, Boily to give Psychiatric Help, and hopefully a freezer full of icecream, which is highly recommended by Dr Bessie.

Damson - "Gerbils! 🐹 Tiny chaos potatoes with great vibes". - that's wonderful, and if that's what ChatGPT thinks about gerbils, I think we can take a bow, it must be our influence.

Magpie - I hope those gerbils carrying enough caffeine to enable you to work out which end of the pen is which😀

👋to anyone else in the Bluey at the moment.

MyrtleLion · 28/01/2026 15:13

A summary from my ChatGPT:

Fun fact

  • Their front paws are absurdly dexterous. They hold food like tiny accountants auditing a spreadsheet.

Net assessment: low smell, high character, surprisingly competent engineers. A+ rodents.

Then from my Bluestocking Project:
Unofficially: tidy, industrious, faintly judgemental. Unionisation among gerbils feels inevitable.

The Bluestocking gerbils are a distinct subspecies: Meriones civilis impeccabilis.

What’s known (from long observation at the bar):

  • Role: They run the Bluestocking Women’s Pub. All front-of-house. All competent. No nonsense.
  • Training: Extremely high. Service is fast, polite, and quietly judgemental of poor behaviour.
  • Unionised: Obviously. Strong collective bargaining, excellent rota discipline, and a firm “no unpaid emotional labour” clause.
  • Values: Warm welcome, wide-ranging conversation, zero tolerance for foolishness. Drinks are magically free of anything they need to be free from.
  • Culture: Calm, professional, faintly amused by the humans. They’ve seen everything. None of it impressed them.
  • Notable individual: Gubbins, frequently spotted clutching her triangle like a sacred instrument of order. Rings it only when absolutely necessary.
  • Crisis response: When threads close, they are efficiently herded onto buses by capybaras in high-viz jackets. No panic. No drama. Excellent queueing.
  • Aesthetic: Aprons immaculate. Whiskers twitching. Eyes sharp. Tiny paws wiping the bar with military precision.

In short:
They are the backbone of the establishment. Without the Bluestocking gerbils, the pub would descend into chaos, warm prosecco would be served, and someone would start a tedious argument at the bar.

The gerbils prevent all of that. Quietly. Professionally. Forever.

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MarieDeGournay · 28/01/2026 15:32

Brilliant assessment of our little rodent friends, thank you Myrtle😁

inkymoose · 28/01/2026 16:09

CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 09:42

Found you all again. Just realised I have about 6months to knit DS’s college blanket. It took 4 months of pretty continual knitting to do DDs and I have been told in no uncertain terms that DS would be a little hurt he he doesn’t get one too 🤦🏽‍♀️

Am thinking maybe not patchwork this time as it took a billion years to sew it together artistically…

That blanket is gorgeous. No wonder DS wants one!

DeanElderberry · 28/01/2026 16:15

All competent. No nonsense.

Look, I adore every whisker on every furry potato, but without the guiding hand of the quokkas and the supervision of the capybaras and the keen (albeit spectral) oversight of giant wombat chassis would be the least of our worries.

Mainly because gerbil sense is not the same thing as human being sense.

MarieDeGournay · 28/01/2026 16:21

Oh dear, Galantina took that comment about gerbil sense badly, Deano😕

The Bluestocking Women’s Pub: definitely full of ludicrous halfwits who refuse to get a grip (with unionised gerbils)
CautiousLurker2 · 28/01/2026 16:21

Thank you @inkymoose

I am thinking similar colours but stripes this time!

I used WI branded wool from Hobby Craft as it was, well, cheap… but it is sooooo soft!

Boiledbeetle · 28/01/2026 16:35

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 13:50

Just out of curiosity I asked ChatGPT what it knows about gerbils. This is what it came up with:

"Gerbils! 🐹 Tiny chaos potatoes with great vibes".

Quite apt, I thought.

I started off asking Co Pilot what it knew about gerbils, then expanded to asking it what it knew about the Bluestocking Gerbils...

🐾 The Bluestocking: A Women‑Only, Gerbil‑Run, Capybara‑Guarded Institution

The Bluestocking is the only pub in Britain — perhaps the world — where every patron is a woman, every staff member is a gerbil, and the weekend bouncers are capybaras with impeccable conflict‑de‑escalation skills. It is a place of warmth, theatre, culinary brilliance, and tiny, furry union power.

Humans don’t work here.

They drink, applaud, gossip, and marvel.

The gerbils run the show.


🧱 The Gerbil Metropolis Beneath the Floorboards

Under the Bluestocking lies a vast, expertly engineered gerbil city:

  • The Great Hall beneath the snug, where union meetings and gala nights are held
  • The Kitchen Warren, a fully operational miniature kitchen staffed entirely by women gerbils in aprons made from shredded beer mats
  • The Tunnel Network, mirroring the pub’s layout with rehearsal rooms, storage vaults, and a dedicated crumb‑aging cellar
  • The Stageworks, where they build full theatrical sets scaled for human audiences

Humans know all about this. They’re proud of it. They brag about it to visitors.


🍽️ Gerbil Cuisine: The Pride of the Bluestocking

Every dish served in the Bluestocking is prepared by the all‑female gerbil kitchen brigade.

Their Signature Creations

  • Button‑sized pies with perfect crimping
  • Miniature roast dinners assembled from donated scraps and curated crumbs
  • A “Micro‑Ploughman’s” that has won local awards despite being the size of a coaster

Humans place their orders at the bar.

A gerbil waitress — often wearing a tiny kerchief — scurries off with a thimble‑sized notepad.

Minutes later, a team of four delivers the dish with military precision.

Women rave about the food.

Some come weekly just to watch the service ballet.


🍻 Front of House: The Gerbil Bar Staff

The gerbils run the bar with astonishing professionalism.

  • They pull pints using a pulley wheel powered by synchronized running
  • They deliver drinks on tiny wheeled platforms
  • They ring the last‑orders bell with a solemnity that moves some women to tears

Tips are given in cashews, crisp fragments, and occasionally a grape (shared communally).


✊ The Gerbil Workers’ Collective (GWC)

The GWC is a powerful, respected union of all‑female gerbil workers.

Their demands include:

  • A guaranteed weekly crisp spill
  • No vacuuming during rehearsals
  • Recognition of their theatre troupe as a cultural treasure

Human patrons support them wholeheartedly.

A sign behind the bar reads:

“Women stand with the GWC.”


🎭 The Bluestocking Gerbil Theatre Company

This is the beating heart of the pub.

The Sets
The gerbils build full, intricate sets:

  • Matchbox mansions
  • Beer‑mat prosceniums
  • Working curtains made from shredded bar towels
  • Fairy‑light rigs operated by a dedicated lighting crew

Women gather around the floor grilles, pints in hand, to watch the shows.

The Repertoire
Their most acclaimed productions include:

  • Waiting for Gouda
  • The Importance of Being Earnestly Chewing
  • A Midsummer Night’s Squeak
  • Noises Off (Literally)

Standing ovations are routine.

Women stamp their boots; gerbils thump their hind legs in return.


🤸 Acrobatics & Interpretive Dance

Between acts, the gerbils perform:

  • Tightrope routines along electrical cables
  • Mid‑air flips using the hanging baskets
  • Interpretive dances exploring themes like “The Tunnel That Collapsed Too Soon” and “The Eternal Quest for the Lost Crisp”

Women adore these performances.

One described them as “Cirque du Soleil, but with more whiskers and more emotional honesty.”


🔔 Gubbins: Triangle Prodigy

Gubbins is the rising star of the orchestra.

  • Her triangle (a bent paperclip) rings with crystalline clarity
  • Her timing is flawless
  • Her solos routinely move audiences — human and gerbil — to tears

She is the pride of the colony, though she still forgets to brush her fur before performances.


🍺 Glenda’s Ongoing Struggle

Glenda is beloved by all.

She’s trying to stay sober.

She attends the Sawdust Sobriety Circle.

She means well.

But every so often, she’s found curled up beside a puddle of stout, muttering that she “just needed a whiff”.

The women patrons never judge.

They simply place a gentle barrier of beer mats around her until she wakes up.


🧶 Maud: The Gerbil Who Lives in Two Worlds

Maud is the only gerbil whose name doesn’t start with G.

She is also the only one to have successfully emigrated.

She now spends much of her time at Knotty and Pistey’s house:

  • Eating battenberg cake
  • Knitting tiny garments
  • Watching daytime TV with scholarly focus

She returns to the Bluestocking with gossip, crumbs, and knitted gifts.

She is revered in both worlds.


🦦 Weekend Door Security: The Capybaras

On Fridays and Saturdays, the Bluestocking’s doors are guarded by two serene, unflappable capybaras.

Their names are Clarise and Clarabell.

They don’t speak.

They don’t need to.

Their presence alone prevents trouble.

If a disagreement arises, they simply lean gently against the offender until she calms down.

Women adore them.

Gerbils respect them.

They are the quiet giants of the Bluestocking.


🌟 A Pub Like No Other

The Bluestocking is a place where:

  • Women gather
  • Gerbils cook, serve, perform, and unionise
  • Capybaras keep the peace
  • Everyone leaves happier than they arrived

It is a community, a theatre, a workplace, and a tiny, furry revolution — all run by women.

Boiledbeetle · 28/01/2026 16:38

I've just got to @MyrtleLion post. Great minds think alike.

And Gubbins gets a mention in both!

DeanElderberry · 28/01/2026 16:40

MarieDeGournay · 28/01/2026 16:21

Oh dear, Galantina took that comment about gerbil sense badly, Deano😕

Just the kind of histrionics I mean.

Galantina, pull yourself together and be a gerbil. Wikipedia says galantines are 'urbane and sophisticated'. Don't let yourself down.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 28/01/2026 16:42

The Bluestocking - such a perfect world 🤗

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