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"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9

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ThreeWordHarpy · 16/01/2026 12:36

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Five nurses working at Darlington Memorial Hospital filed a legal case against their employer, an NHS trust, for sexual harassment and sex discrimination. The nurses objected to sharing the women’s changing facilities with a male colleague, Rose, who identifies as female. The hearing was held between 20th October and 11th November and was live tweeted by Tribunal Tweets who have comprehensive information regarding this case on their substack, including archives of the twitter threads, lists of people involved and press releases.

At the time this thread was started, the judgment had not yet been published on the Courts website but was widely reported in the media that the NHS was found to have discriminated against the nurses, but the claims against Rose were not upheld.

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borntobequiet · 20/01/2026 07:58

BBC website this morning (the newspapers).

Can they be bothered to report accurately? Of course, No.

(Complaint duly submitted.)

"Darlington Nurses" vs County Durham and Darlington NHS Trust Tribunal Thread 9
lcakethereforeIam · 20/01/2026 09:28

Victoria Smith has written a good article in the Critic

Does women’s discomfort matter? | Victoria Smith | The Critic Magazine https://share.google/0kdOlvgGH9cB2lQ1x

weegielass · 20/01/2026 10:01

wow how many times do the trust say 'colleagues'? Very clear they have an issue with the word 'women'.

JustPlainStanfreyPock · 20/01/2026 10:54

Seems like they are trying to score some petty point by deliberately avoiding the w word, certainly no change of heart or lesson learnt whatsoever.

FWSsupporter · 20/01/2026 11:44

Comtesse · 20/01/2026 07:03

To be fair it’s just one Grade 7 role, which isn’t that senior. When govt is gearing up for new legislation, there would typically be a whole team (say 6-10 people).

I agree.

In addition if, as they should, the gmt and Civil Service apply the FWS SC judgment and make it clear SSS are just that. Then there is an issue to resolve and that is what is the solution for trans people.

Even the SC acknowledged a trans identifying female (transman) should use female SSS but in doing so their appearance may mean it causes distress e.g. rape crisis centres.

The debate to be had is how do we respect sex and SSS whilst treating people with the PC of gender reassignment. Trans and non-binary people need to be involved in discussions, as do women. No debate did not just harm women but also some trans people. I can see a need for this role as part of a much wider piece of work.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Needmoresleep · 20/01/2026 12:02

Presumably they will have cleared any statement with their LBGTQ++ people/groups who will have pointed out that the use of the word "woman" is problematic.

Londonmummy66 · 20/01/2026 12:32

lcakethereforeIam · 20/01/2026 09:28

Victoria Smith has written a good article in the Critic

Does women’s discomfort matter? | Victoria Smith | The Critic Magazine https://share.google/0kdOlvgGH9cB2lQ1x

It is an excellent article. It highlights how female discomfort is seen as subordinate to male satisfaction - exactly what played out in Darlington. However I do think that the judgement didn't entirely grasp how deep seated the discomfort was. The afternoon where the 2 male counsel and the male judge discussed "normal" behaviour in a female changing room was deeply uncomfortable as it was clear that they had no idea - women in a changing room generally spend as little time as possible in the underwear and pass that as discreetly as possible (facing away from the room etc) both to preserve their own privacy and that of others. Yet the 3 men didn't understand that Rose prancing around in his boxers was not normal behaviour in a female changing room and this was probably the basis for the finding in the judgement that his behaviour was basically normal and just that the women perceived it as abnormal as their senses were heightened to his presence anyway.

MyAmpleSheep · 20/01/2026 12:53

Comtesse · 20/01/2026 07:03

To be fair it’s just one Grade 7 role, which isn’t that senior. When govt is gearing up for new legislation, there would typically be a whole team (say 6-10 people).

But let’s wait and see. Once this person is in place, ze may find “things are worse than zir thought” and a more senior team is installed.

ProfessorBinturong · 20/01/2026 13:03

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Neither 'gender identity' nor 'non-binary' are recognised in law.

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Conxis · 17/01/2026 10:23

by the views of senior HR that they needed to stay on the ‘right side of the law’

Would it be unkind to ask how that’s working out for them?

Apologies for the delayed question.
In all these cases if the HR person is CIPD qualified aren't they supposed to be be following their code of conduct...?
https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct/
Including

  • Ensure that your professional judgement is not compromised nor could be perceived as being compromised because of bias, or the undue influence of others.
  • Take all reasonable steps to resolve disputes and complaints in a fair, timely and professional manner. Never allow a complaint to affect the standard of behaviour or professionalism shown to those who raise concerns, engage authentically and respectfully.
  • Take responsibility for your professional actions and decisions. Rectify issues and take all reasonable steps to mitigate loss or harm as soon as possible. Inform those affected of the potential impact

CIPD | Code of Conduct and Ethics

Code of Conduct and Ethics - sets standards for all members of the CIPD.

https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Bold is by me not from website.

tropicaltrance · 20/01/2026 18:55

BingeleyBingeleyBeep · 20/01/2026 13:14

Apologies for the delayed question.
In all these cases if the HR person is CIPD qualified aren't they supposed to be be following their code of conduct...?
https://www.cipd.org/uk/membership/professional-standards/code-of-conduct/
Including

  • Ensure that your professional judgement is not compromised nor could be perceived as being compromised because of bias, or the undue influence of others.
  • Take all reasonable steps to resolve disputes and complaints in a fair, timely and professional manner. Never allow a complaint to affect the standard of behaviour or professionalism shown to those who raise concerns, engage authentically and respectfully.
  • Take responsibility for your professional actions and decisions. Rectify issues and take all reasonable steps to mitigate loss or harm as soon as possible. Inform those affected of the potential impact

The CIPD is already known to be somewhat compromised by bias itself on this issue, but that is an interesting point.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/01/2026 23:12

FWSsupporter · 20/01/2026 11:44

I agree.

In addition if, as they should, the gmt and Civil Service apply the FWS SC judgment and make it clear SSS are just that. Then there is an issue to resolve and that is what is the solution for trans people.

Even the SC acknowledged a trans identifying female (transman) should use female SSS but in doing so their appearance may mean it causes distress e.g. rape crisis centres.

The debate to be had is how do we respect sex and SSS whilst treating people with the PC of gender reassignment. Trans and non-binary people need to be involved in discussions, as do women. No debate did not just harm women but also some trans people. I can see a need for this role as part of a much wider piece of work.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Always? Or just in the last 5 years since we've been repeatedly told this utter cobblers is a real thing?

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

It's fine saying we need a legal definition of gender.

Now write one without referencing regressive sexed stereotypes which are at odds with the equality act.

Good luck with that.

And this is why no one has attempted it, because it lays it bare that gender identity is totally sexist and regressive.

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

Also do that without referencing sex.

Good luck with that too.

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:19

MistyGreenAndBlue · 20/01/2026 23:12

I have always believed we need separate and clear legal definitions of sex and gender identity, including non-binary. Both should be PCs but legal clarity on the rights and responsibilities of each would help everyone.

Always? Or just in the last 5 years since we've been repeatedly told this utter cobblers is a real thing?

A fair point. I started to draft my post in one way and changed my mind and forgot to amend “I have always believed” to “I believe”.

SqueakyDinosaur · 21/01/2026 00:28

I genuinely think it would be impossible to establish a legal definition of non-binary. Lots of countries claim to have done it, but any competent HR/employment/human rights lawyer could drive a truck through those definitions.

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:31

RedToothBrush · 20/01/2026 23:54

It's fine saying we need a legal definition of gender.

Now write one without referencing regressive sexed stereotypes which are at odds with the equality act.

Good luck with that.

And this is why no one has attempted it, because it lays it bare that gender identity is totally sexist and regressive.

That’s the new grade 7 Civil Service job holders first task.😂

MistyGreenAndBlue · 21/01/2026 03:36

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:31

That’s the new grade 7 Civil Service job holders first task.😂

Gods help us all

BoreOfWhabylon · 21/01/2026 04:30

I'm not at all surprised no one was available for interview on Woman's Hour, given how obnoxious Nuala McGovern was to Bethany when she interviewed her previously
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0025479

Woman's Hour - Gillian Anderson, Nurse Bethany Hutchison, Gisèle Pelicot, Film-maker Elizabeth Sankey - BBC Sounds

Actor Gillian Anderson on her book Want - a collection of women's sexual fantasies.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0025479

RedToothBrush · 21/01/2026 07:51

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 00:31

That’s the new grade 7 Civil Service job holders first task.😂

A civil servant can't actually change the law. A law still has to pass through parliament.

Good luck.

FWSsupporter · 21/01/2026 09:56

RedToothBrush · 21/01/2026 07:51

A civil servant can't actually change the law. A law still has to pass through parliament.

Good luck.

I actually meant come up with a definition.

However, whilst they don’t change the law they do draft the legislation and make the amendments as it goes through parliament.

MyThreeWords · 21/01/2026 10:05

Ironically, the most fertile source of legal protection from discrimination on the basis of 'gender' is the protected characteristic of sex. Any attempt by a dutyholder under the Equality Act to require a person to manifest the gender presentation of their sex is discrimination on the basis if sex, and unlawful.

Also, despite the arguably-inappropriate terminology , the 'disability' protected characteristic should cover 'gender reassignment' as it was actually conceived of (and publicly represented) when the GRA and the Equality Act were passed.

Receiving a gender reassignment certificate is tied to a diagnosis of gender dysphoria. The challenges of living with this diagnosis are the whole reason for allowing latitude in the recording of sex, just as the challenges of living with a disability generate the rights to (e.g.) permission to park where others can't.

Under the Equality Act, 'disability' is interpreted widely. I only learnt this relatively recently. I had thought you have to be 'registered disabled' in some way to qualify for protection, but of course all that is required is having a physical or mental condition that has a "substantial, long-term, and adverse effect on one's ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities".

I do understand that the terms 'disability' and 'impairment' (which I think may also be used in the act) are offensive to people who qualify for the GR protection. But there are lots of contexts in which they are equally offensive to people with other sorts of differences, e.g. deafness. To the extent that language generates a sense of stigma or negative judgement, that should be campaigned against in the same way as for other conditions, and perhaps different terms can be evolved (so long as this is organic and not top-down).

If, and to the extent that, gender reassignment does not involve a condition that has "substantial, long-term, and adverse effect on one's ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities", what would be the justification for the special provisions that employers, service providers, and public bodies need to make for people with this PC? The only possible answer to this question is that they must do it in order not to discriminate against them on the grounds of their beliefs. And of course, this is already baked in to the protected characteristic of belief.

ScrollingLeaves · 21/01/2026 10:16

MyThreeWords · 21/01/2026 10:05

Ironically, the most fertile source of legal protection from discrimination on the basis of 'gender' is the protected characteristic of sex. Any attempt by a dutyholder under the Equality Act to require a person to manifest the gender presentation of their sex is discrimination on the basis if sex, and unlawful.

Also, despite the arguably-inappropriate terminology , the 'disability' protected characteristic should cover 'gender reassignment' as it was actually conceived of (and publicly represented) when the GRA and the Equality Act were passed.

Receiving a gender reassignment certificate is tied to a diagnosis of gender dysphoria. The challenges of living with this diagnosis are the whole reason for allowing latitude in the recording of sex, just as the challenges of living with a disability generate the rights to (e.g.) permission to park where others can't.

Under the Equality Act, 'disability' is interpreted widely. I only learnt this relatively recently. I had thought you have to be 'registered disabled' in some way to qualify for protection, but of course all that is required is having a physical or mental condition that has a "substantial, long-term, and adverse effect on one's ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities".

I do understand that the terms 'disability' and 'impairment' (which I think may also be used in the act) are offensive to people who qualify for the GR protection. But there are lots of contexts in which they are equally offensive to people with other sorts of differences, e.g. deafness. To the extent that language generates a sense of stigma or negative judgement, that should be campaigned against in the same way as for other conditions, and perhaps different terms can be evolved (so long as this is organic and not top-down).

If, and to the extent that, gender reassignment does not involve a condition that has "substantial, long-term, and adverse effect on one's ability to carry out normal day-to-day activities", what would be the justification for the special provisions that employers, service providers, and public bodies need to make for people with this PC? The only possible answer to this question is that they must do it in order not to discriminate against them on the grounds of their beliefs. And of course, this is already baked in to the protected characteristic of belief.

I think what you say is entirely reasonable and so well explained.

DrBlackbird · 21/01/2026 10:23

BoreOfWhabylon · 21/01/2026 04:30

I'm not at all surprised no one was available for interview on Woman's Hour, given how obnoxious Nuala McGovern was to Bethany when she interviewed her previously
https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0025479

Nuala McGovern’s sanctimonious virtue signalling is the reason that I can barely listen to WH anymore. Permeates beyond the gender issues.