The point is that it is humans who created AI.
And just as in the fictional world of robotics there were laws that would be programmed into a robot, eg dont kill humans, you could and should do the same with AI.
Admittedly like bringing up a child you would hope that telling it it should not produce pornography, depict gross acts of violence, there will always be rogue or underground versions willing to do that.
The real fear is not that this couldn't be done, and isn't because the dominate male culture just isn't bothered about it, but that at some time in the future, we will all have become so dependent on AI that in fact we no longer know how to think or create for ourselves. And rely on AI to do our thinking for us.
There have been newspaper stories, which may or may not be true, of AI programs becoming independent of human control.
And that no one will now how to challenge that.
ie the sort of future as shown in the film Idiocracy where humans rely on preprogrammed systems and have no idea how they are created or how to change them.
And that will happen if we as humans choose not to challenge the dominant male narrative.