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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Robin Ince quits working for the BBC over his support for men in dresses and terrorists

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 13/12/2025 09:29

Shame really he’s a nice guy, a huge bibliophile, met him a few times at book signings, the last live show of his I saw he did shoehorn in “and of course trans women are real women” or some such nonsense.

guessing the infinite monkey cage is cancelled now, that was in my top five podcasts.

can’t do a popular science show and think women can have a penis though. Wonder what Brian thinks?

the video of his love resignation , presumably at the end of a monkey cage recording, is here
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1plg02g/bbc_presenter_robert_ince_claims_he_has_been/

notably he doesn’t say how men in dresses are being treated badly. Everyone has a blind spot.

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Beerlzebub · 18/12/2025 11:43

Stopbringingmicehome · 18/12/2025 09:45

Back to the religious aspect of trans activism , they also are hot on blasphemy against the identity caste.
I've seen in another thread that Sainsbury's have had to withdraw a Christmas card which pictures a man (did I assume his gender) identifying as the Grinch.

Oh, that's a whole other basket of fun.

Sophie Molly/Sparkles/Weddell kicked up a fuss about the card. Got the TRAs all riled up. So the people who make it to withdrew it and pulped it. Turns out they are a small, inclusive company 😆

It turns out that the card in question was made by an inclusive company and artists. It was oversight on their part and I fully accept their apologies. Thank you Sophie Perry for working on this with me.

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3ma6humzfvs2l

Sophie Molly (@sophiemolly.co.uk)

It turns out that the card in question was made by an inclusive company and artists. It was oversight on their part and I fully accept their apologies. Thank you Sophie Perry for working on this with me. https://www.thepinknews.com/2025/12/17/christ...

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3ma6humzfvs2l

Lalgarh · 18/12/2025 12:43

So an actual card made by an inclusive collective of artists gets pulled because it offends people from that same community.

Bluesky gonna Bluesky. After the initial round of congratulations from followers:

‪Andre Harris‬

"Is the irony that you posted this on twitter lost on you? It's an inoffensive card but you took to the most transphobic social media site to complain about it and had an article written by an outlet thay only last year was called out for being transphobic"

Stopbringingmicehome · 18/12/2025 12:58

The Peoples Front of Judea has really got it in for the Judean People's Front.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 18/12/2025 14:20

Beerlzebub · 18/12/2025 11:43

Oh, that's a whole other basket of fun.

Sophie Molly/Sparkles/Weddell kicked up a fuss about the card. Got the TRAs all riled up. So the people who make it to withdrew it and pulped it. Turns out they are a small, inclusive company 😆

It turns out that the card in question was made by an inclusive company and artists. It was oversight on their part and I fully accept their apologies. Thank you Sophie Perry for working on this with me.

https://bsky.app/profile/sophiemolly.co.uk/post/3ma6humzfvs2l

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Not all TRA's are happy with Euan complaining about the Xmas card.

Again, this whole thing making such a mountain over a Christmas card is exactly the kind of thing that gives people ammo against the community

Lalgarh · 18/12/2025 14:44

I do wonder how they choose their lady names. There is a preponderance of Emily's Sophie's and Sarah's

SionnachRuadh · 18/12/2025 15:00

I think it's one of those mysteries, like teen girls wanting to be called Cameron or Felix.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 15:03

Lalgarh · 18/12/2025 14:44

I do wonder how they choose their lady names. There is a preponderance of Emily's Sophie's and Sarah's

Maybe it’s the names of girls they fancied when they were boys?Confused

borntobequiet · 18/12/2025 15:21

Lalgarh · 18/12/2025 14:44

I do wonder how they choose their lady names. There is a preponderance of Emily's Sophie's and Sarah's

I think it’s a subconscious desire for a sort of fragrant 1950s ladylikeness, as demonstrated by the transsexuals featured in this programme, kindly linked to by someone else a few days ago. I was 20 in 1973 and would have considered them utterly awful as well as dreadfully old fashioned if I had met them then.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p0jy43dv/open-door-transex-liberation-group

Open Door - Transex Liberation Group

A programme from 1973 by the Transex Liberation Group who discuss the many difficulties they endure.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p0jy43dv/open-door-transex-liberation-group

UtopiaPlanitia · 18/12/2025 18:02

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 14:21

Whether the ‘free won’t’ is any more free than ‘free will’ is unclear.

I like to think that I exist in a Schrödinger-style superpostion of multiple eigenstates until I collapse the waveform with my choice. I'm special, me 🧐 (and I've watched/read a lot of hard sci-fi) 😬

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 18:20

UtopiaPlanitia · 18/12/2025 18:02

I like to think that I exist in a Schrödinger-style superpostion of multiple eigenstates until I collapse the waveform with my choice. I'm special, me 🧐 (and I've watched/read a lot of hard sci-fi) 😬

Yeah, but your perception of ‘choice’ is just some combination of deterministic causality spiced with random events at the quantum level over which the structured heap of atoms forming ‘you’ has no agency.

Probably.😂

Abhannmor · 18/12/2025 18:58

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 22:18

Small nitpick re the distinction between "faith" & "confidence" here. Sure, in common speech we often conflate the two but in this discussion it seems worthwhile to distinguish between them.
One can have sufficient confidence in an hypothesis to deem it worthy of testing without that requiring faith. (I'm fond of Kierkegaard's view of faith as a conscious leap into the absurd.)

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Then I don't believe in eg Gravity or Quantum Physics. Certainly there are no propositions with which I can agree. I am not competent to judge them . However I have faith in them. Or perhaps in the clever people who understand them.

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:04

TempestTost · 18/12/2025 01:03

You know, people say that about religion being based on faith all the time like it's definition, and particular to religion, but it isn't particularly.

There are a lot of people who are theists and idealists for what they would consider rationalist reasons, and that has been the case since philosophy was invented. It's sill the case, there are plenty of philosophers who are Christians or platonists etc for philosophical reasons.

And every thought system in existence rests on unproovable first principles, that's not particular to religion.

There are also many people who would say they are religious for reasons of direct experience.

Some religions, like Christianity, but not all, talk about faith as being a necessary component - what they mean by that however is more like trust. Very much like the idea that you trust, but can't know by rational argument, that your spouse loves you.

I'm Christian myself but I don't think trust in a spouse loving you is a good comparison. Presumably you can see, hear and feel a loving spouse, and things they do will suggest that they love you.
God doesn't provide any of those things in any major religion, or rather, not in a straightforward way.

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:05

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 15:03

Maybe it’s the names of girls they fancied when they were boys?Confused

🤣 Sounds likely

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:06

SionnachRuadh · 18/12/2025 15:00

I think it's one of those mysteries, like teen girls wanting to be called Cameron or Felix.

If I were a boy I think I'd think Felix was a good name. Cameron otoh is incomprehensible due to negative associations with the PM..

ErrolTheDragon · 19/12/2025 23:22

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:06

If I were a boy I think I'd think Felix was a good name. Cameron otoh is incomprehensible due to negative associations with the PM..

Cameron has, afaik, been used as a girls name in the US for some time so it may be an import. And a prime minister from when they were in primary school is likely to be completely irrelevant to teenage girls.

SionnachRuadh · 19/12/2025 23:46

ErrolTheDragon · 19/12/2025 23:22

Cameron has, afaik, been used as a girls name in the US for some time so it may be an import. And a prime minister from when they were in primary school is likely to be completely irrelevant to teenage girls.

Cameron Diaz must be the one who popularized it.

Many years ago I did some work in youth training, and I could tell whose parents had been big Dynasty fans, because there was a spike of teen girls with names like Fallon and Alexis, and that spike only lasted for about two years before those names disappeared from the registers again.

These days, if I encountered names like that, I'd assume they were middle aged blokes returning from Malaga.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/12/2025 00:18

Ha, yes the only ‘Fallon’ I can think of is from the Archers - exactly right era and I don’t doubt Jolene was a dynasty fan.Grin

EweProfessorSurnameDoctorProfessor · 20/12/2025 00:30

Fallon Fox is the other Fallon that comes to mind

TempestTost · 20/12/2025 00:55

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:04

I'm Christian myself but I don't think trust in a spouse loving you is a good comparison. Presumably you can see, hear and feel a loving spouse, and things they do will suggest that they love you.
God doesn't provide any of those things in any major religion, or rather, not in a straightforward way.

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I mean, I think quite a lot of people would say they experience God in various ways, however, I'm not really comparing, I'm just trying to give a sense of what the word faith means.

For some reason a lot of people are taught that it means "believing in something that there is no evidence for." which is really not the sense of it at all.

Carla786 · 20/12/2025 02:17

ErrolTheDragon · 19/12/2025 23:22

Cameron has, afaik, been used as a girls name in the US for some time so it may be an import. And a prime minister from when they were in primary school is likely to be completely irrelevant to teenage girls.

True .. my family were no fans of Cameron so he had negative associations when I was a younger child (uni student now) & I haven't really been impressed by him since. Younger teens now wouldn't have that impression.

TheAutumnCrow · 20/12/2025 02:37

Carla786 · 19/12/2025 22:05

🤣 Sounds likely

I think it’s their mothers.

Well, for some of them. A reinvention and improvement of the woman who gave them life, their ego, their memories, their sense of self.

Carla786 · 20/12/2025 02:44

TempestTost · 20/12/2025 00:55

I mean, I think quite a lot of people would say they experience God in various ways, however, I'm not really comparing, I'm just trying to give a sense of what the word faith means.

For some reason a lot of people are taught that it means "believing in something that there is no evidence for." which is really not the sense of it at all.

I know what you mean....I like to think they do, but I remain a bit sceptical. Mystics etc have produced wonderful accounts sometimes, but questions remain. As CS Lewis & others noted, mystical accounts seem similar across cultures. As do psychedelic experiences, among other things. This doesn't mean God is NOT involved, but it does raise issues.
There's also the fact that auditory hallucination may be a common thing for people to experience once or twice in their life, without mental illness, so while simplistic 'they're mentally ill' explanations often fail, this doesn't necessarily mean it's divine.
Tanya Luhrmann's books are interesting on this. She's a sociologist who spent long periods with various religious people who claim to experience God, and while she's doesn't state definitely that they aren't (which ofc no one can), she does note that psychological techniques they're encouraged to practice probably facilitate traits like higher absorption which could generate sensed presences without these presences necessarily existing.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/12/2025 08:43

TempestTost · 20/12/2025 00:55

I mean, I think quite a lot of people would say they experience God in various ways, however, I'm not really comparing, I'm just trying to give a sense of what the word faith means.

For some reason a lot of people are taught that it means "believing in something that there is no evidence for." which is really not the sense of it at all.

It’s a word with multiple meanings including the latter - liable to be said by someone meaning one thing and heard as another I suppose.

BareBelliedSneetch · 20/12/2025 11:44

Has Brian Cox made any sort of statement/response to Robin Ince yet?

I don’t do X/Bluesky and haven’t seen anything.

TheKeatingFive · 20/12/2025 11:45

BareBelliedSneetch · 20/12/2025 11:44

Has Brian Cox made any sort of statement/response to Robin Ince yet?

I don’t do X/Bluesky and haven’t seen anything.

I don't think so - and I can see why dignified silence is a good approach right now