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Robin Ince quits working for the BBC over his support for men in dresses and terrorists

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 13/12/2025 09:29

Shame really he’s a nice guy, a huge bibliophile, met him a few times at book signings, the last live show of his I saw he did shoehorn in “and of course trans women are real women” or some such nonsense.

guessing the infinite monkey cage is cancelled now, that was in my top five podcasts.

can’t do a popular science show and think women can have a penis though. Wonder what Brian thinks?

the video of his love resignation , presumably at the end of a monkey cage recording, is here
https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1plg02g/bbc_presenter_robert_ince_claims_he_has_been/

notably he doesn’t say how men in dresses are being treated badly. Everyone has a blind spot.

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HeadyLamarr · 17/12/2025 18:51

I blame my Catholic upbringing, when I was told that if I didn’t believe in what I was told I would burn in Hell for all eternity. This seemed stupid, cruel and unfair, so I rejected it and am very glad I did so.

For me it was a religious friend who asked me to actually read the bible. So I did. Pain in childbirth through history as punishment for Eve was my first massive stumbling block.

SionnachRuadh · 17/12/2025 19:02

JanesLittleGirl · 17/12/2025 18:15

There is a god. However, he's a rather shoddy IT consultant who's determination to complete the project in 6 days meant that corners were cut during testing and most of the bugs were left in.

This is the backstory of Time Bandits, so it must be true.

silverwrath · 17/12/2025 19:03

ArabellaSaurus · 17/12/2025 14:52

One person's lack of faith is also another person's delusion, though.

The point about faith is the act of it, in my understanding. It's a choice, and it can have powerful consequences.

'One person's lack of faith is also another person's delusion, though.'

😂... yeah, okay.

silverwrath · 17/12/2025 19:13

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 15:36

If the 'delusion' enables people to do things that would otherwise be impossible, doesn't it have a purpose?

Absolutely. I'm not denying that believing in something that doesn't exist can't at times be a positive for the human condition. But (imho) that doesn't make it any less of a delusion.

ArabellaSaurus · 17/12/2025 19:42

Abhannmor · 17/12/2025 18:50

So you're saying your indecision is final ?
😆

I wouldn't go that far.

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 22:03

Abhannmor · 17/12/2025 18:44

It's very big in atheist circles. Free will is an illusion. So is consciousness in fact ; you only imagine it all. This is why hardcore materialists are called Illusionists , whereas you'd think that title would fit the devout believers in some sort of purpose.

Keith Ward is a philosopher who later became an Anglican vicar. He was taught by the great AJ Ayer , who was an atheist of course. He recalls Ayer saying we can't really have thoughts , rather they are merely an epiphenomenon blah blop de bloo. Ward : ' I'd be sitting across from him having perfectly rational thoughts!'

Pays yer money and takes yer choice. I agree with Dr Johnson on this one - ' we know we have free will and there's an end on it.'

It was a joke.

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 22:18

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 17:02

Faith based science isn't science, however scientists need faith in an idea to keep going in the face of adversity.

Small nitpick re the distinction between "faith" & "confidence" here. Sure, in common speech we often conflate the two but in this discussion it seems worthwhile to distinguish between them.
One can have sufficient confidence in an hypothesis to deem it worthy of testing without that requiring faith. (I'm fond of Kierkegaard's view of faith as a conscious leap into the absurd.)

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nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 22:29

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 22:18

Small nitpick re the distinction between "faith" & "confidence" here. Sure, in common speech we often conflate the two but in this discussion it seems worthwhile to distinguish between them.
One can have sufficient confidence in an hypothesis to deem it worthy of testing without that requiring faith. (I'm fond of Kierkegaard's view of faith as a conscious leap into the absurd.)

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I do mean faith, not confidence.

Obviously many things done by scientists are step by step processes that are completely rational, but the decision to invest large amounts of time and money in new research sometimes requires a leap of faith.

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 22:36

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 22:29

I do mean faith, not confidence.

Obviously many things done by scientists are step by step processes that are completely rational, but the decision to invest large amounts of time and money in new research sometimes requires a leap of faith.

Do you work in scientific research? Because I don’t remotely recognise what you assert.

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 23:06

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 22:36

Do you work in scientific research? Because I don’t remotely recognise what you assert.

My job is actually far more bean countery, so I'm used to being asked to make predictions. But whatever the enterprise there is always a question mark, and the bigger the risk the more faith is required. At some point you have to just jump. I suppose you could call this gambling, but gamblers have faith that they will win, often against the odds, and most successful businesses started with a gamble.

Do you think Elon Musk knows that manned flights to Mars are possible? (No idea why anyone would want to go, but apparently some people do).

Do you think that everyone who funds cancer charities knows that they will find a cure for lung cancer?

Faith is belief without proof, so where knowledge is lacking, the gap must be filled by faith.

Faith can be bat shit crazy, so it isn't always positive, but it does have power.

I haven't had to cross a continent with a hand cart, but I have been in situations, that, to quote Deborah James, require 'rebellious hope', and if that is all you have, that is what you use.

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 23:11

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 22:29

I do mean faith, not confidence.

Obviously many things done by scientists are step by step processes that are completely rational, but the decision to invest large amounts of time and money in new research sometimes requires a leap of faith.

I appreciate that TQ & the hopelessly misnamed "critical theory" have very recently bled into the science & medicine faculties but as FWR threads repeatedly show, those are abnegations of the scientific method.

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 23:16

HildegardP · 17/12/2025 23:11

I appreciate that TQ & the hopelessly misnamed "critical theory" have very recently bled into the science & medicine faculties but as FWR threads repeatedly show, those are abnegations of the scientific method.

I am distinguishing between the science itself and the decision to invest time and money in research and to take risks.

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 23:42

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 23:16

I am distinguishing between the science itself and the decision to invest time and money in research and to take risks.

In both the examples you cite - manned missions to Mars, cancer research - you can have a high probability of making progress towards your goal. They’re incremental processes. I suppose with the former the likes of musk have a belief it’s a good idea and many of us can’t see the benefit. Idk if that’s ‘faith’ or more like ‘obsession’.

TempestTost · 18/12/2025 01:03

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 12:48

A good point made by the 'Book of Mormon' musical is that to survive, humans have to do seemingly impossible things that have very little chance of success.

The whole point of religion is that it is based on faith, not logic.

You know, people say that about religion being based on faith all the time like it's definition, and particular to religion, but it isn't particularly.

There are a lot of people who are theists and idealists for what they would consider rationalist reasons, and that has been the case since philosophy was invented. It's sill the case, there are plenty of philosophers who are Christians or platonists etc for philosophical reasons.

And every thought system in existence rests on unproovable first principles, that's not particular to religion.

There are also many people who would say they are religious for reasons of direct experience.

Some religions, like Christianity, but not all, talk about faith as being a necessary component - what they mean by that however is more like trust. Very much like the idea that you trust, but can't know by rational argument, that your spouse loves you.

TempestTost · 18/12/2025 01:18

With regard to free will - it's worth knowing, I think, that from a Christian perspective, although humans have free will by nature, in fact we mostly don't have it at all.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/12/2025 07:37

silverwrath · 17/12/2025 19:13

Absolutely. I'm not denying that believing in something that doesn't exist can't at times be a positive for the human condition. But (imho) that doesn't make it any less of a delusion.

I think 'faith' and 'belief' are two different things. For me 'faith' is steadfastness of the heart, whereas 'a belief' is more the construction of a narrative in which one may place one's faith. We can place our faith in any number or type of narrative or belief system.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/12/2025 07:39

TempestTost · 18/12/2025 01:18

With regard to free will - it's worth knowing, I think, that from a Christian perspective, although humans have free will by nature, in fact we mostly don't have it at all.

We can only make choices within the set of conditions in which we live or inhabit...so we are always bound, to some degree, by that we have not chosen.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/12/2025 07:58

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 23:42

In both the examples you cite - manned missions to Mars, cancer research - you can have a high probability of making progress towards your goal. They’re incremental processes. I suppose with the former the likes of musk have a belief it’s a good idea and many of us can’t see the benefit. Idk if that’s ‘faith’ or more like ‘obsession’.

Though when one does have faith there can often be accompanying 'signs' which verify one's choice/commitment/endeavour. 'Signs' verify the path one is on, or perhaps warn one against something. Human beings tend to seek 'meaning' in life and in life's events and to that end we construct narratives.

So, if a Spacex craft bursts into flames upon take off - then if one has enough faith in the project one will take that as a lesson or as a mere hurdle; but if one does not have faith then one might be tempted to give up and stop wasting money on such an indulgent project.

ArabellaSaurus · 18/12/2025 08:30

nicepotoftea · 17/12/2025 22:29

I do mean faith, not confidence.

Obviously many things done by scientists are step by step processes that are completely rational, but the decision to invest large amounts of time and money in new research sometimes requires a leap of faith.

Hm. the idea that something is possible can be based on various things - a scientific view would suggest looking at context and history to assess likelihood, a faith based view may rely more on hope and feelings.

drspouse · 18/12/2025 08:32

ErrolTheDragon · 17/12/2025 17:26

Did they? Confused Well, I suppose eg the gold rush folk weren’t maybe entirely rational but those who saw a lot of ‘unclaimed’ land for the taking may well have been making a pretty rational choice vs putting up with wherever they’d come from.

I'm inclined to think that was also a leap of faith. You had to trust the people who said it was unclaimed, and in your right to have it (as against the Native Americans who were already there) and in your ability to work the land.
Most people didn't migrate across America - they stayed in the Eastern cities/farms. Most of their forbears didn't emigrate to the Americas.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 08:36

drspouse · 18/12/2025 08:32

I'm inclined to think that was also a leap of faith. You had to trust the people who said it was unclaimed, and in your right to have it (as against the Native Americans who were already there) and in your ability to work the land.
Most people didn't migrate across America - they stayed in the Eastern cities/farms. Most of their forbears didn't emigrate to the Americas.

this is getting a long way from ‘faith’ in a religious context imo. People will give credence to what suits them.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/12/2025 08:39

ArabellaSaurus · 18/12/2025 08:30

Hm. the idea that something is possible can be based on various things - a scientific view would suggest looking at context and history to assess likelihood, a faith based view may rely more on hope and feelings.

Yes… I’d say cancer research and SpaceX are the former type. The prime example of the latter which occurs to me is Theranos.

Stopbringingmicehome · 18/12/2025 09:45

Back to the religious aspect of trans activism , they also are hot on blasphemy against the identity caste.
I've seen in another thread that Sainsbury's have had to withdraw a Christmas card which pictures a man (did I assume his gender) identifying as the Grinch.

nauticant · 18/12/2025 11:00

An episode of TIMC is just about to start on Radio 4 but I stopped listening a while back out of sheer irritation at Ince.