Of course it is superficially attractive, but note how it destroys the secular narrative. This is supposed to be a solid secular thing, something you can analyse and label and have rules for.
In reality it is the worst thing of all a religious system which doesn't accept it is religious. There are special magic people to whom rules don't apply. As soon as you look at it makes no sense.
There are all sorts of weird, but often ok people doing pagan stuff, witchcraft, and being obsessed with fairy lore. They get to do it, others get to criticise them. You can go round being ultra magical or religious in all sorts of ways, we as a society have designed ways to limit the power of supernatural religion. For safeguarding reasons and also because religion can be really really dumb.
You can say you are medusa, a wizard, a Priest whatever, but the rules the laws always apply. Notice trans types are often drawn to fringe religious beliefs, but they can undermine the useful aspects of religion how at its best can form community and support our lives. Look at the way they are desperate to claim feminine witchcraft has nothing to do with women's bodies and have tried to wreck the pagan community. Witch hunting witches who thing wwomen are a thing. The pattern always repeats.
A lot of trans people thirty years ago would have been religious types, some of them predator religious people, or power hungry ones, others harmless. The thing is you would be able to call them out for their abuses and cult like behaviour. There is a space for religious sceptics. It took centuries to create it.
We had to do that all over again for gender ideology.