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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Ofcom will now investigate Talk Tv re transphobia.

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Imnobody4 · 04/12/2025 21:33

Here we go again.

From Good Law Project:

We said we’d sue over Ofcom’s decision to dismiss 22,000 complaints about transphobia on TalkTV – now the regulator has caved.

But we had monitored its output for July 2025, a month in which it carried 11 discussions on trans people. And in every discussion, its hosts and guests consistently spouted transphobic views. TalkTV’s stance mirrors the broader editorial position of its sister newspaper The Times, whose toxic and intellectually dishonest campaign against trans people we believe to be a contributor to the rise in hate crime against them.

x.com/JuliaHB1/status/1996576537894703427?t=VgmnlP9LETiwrihlgEkCqA&s=09

Among my misdeeds, apparently, is that I said this on air: "By definition, if you’ve had to get a piece of paper to say that you are a woman, you must accept then that you are man."

I'm happy to be found guilty of defending women's rights and safety, knowing the actual law, understanding basic biology and knowing what a woman is. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 20:45

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 20:40

I don't understand the utility of the experiment. It appears to have no relevance or application in the real world?
I was discussing about how we identify sex/ gender in the real world, which to me is much more important.

The utility of this experiment is for you to give me a chance to understand your concepts of male and female, since you can't define them with words.

There's literally no point in you explaining how you identify sex/gender in the real world, if I have zero idea what you mean by sex and gender in the first place.

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 20:48

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 20:39

They mention the word incongruence once, but it is clear what they are discussing is people who don't feel euphoric or dysphoric. They are not talking about core perception of self. And , again, they are not even describing their own experience, they are speculating about how others might feel.

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GDysph and GEuph were mentioned the same amount of times as incongruence. We can all see it.

Clearly they're not comfortable telling people who don't have Gender incongruence they're not trans.

But what do they know?

Also, think you might have missed the post that said "you're trans if you say you are, that's kinda it"

Helleofabore · 07/12/2025 20:51

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 16:27

Trans people may have certain kinks; just as there are cis people who do. I'm not here to account for the sexual practices/ preferences of every individual trans person. But AGP is not what makes a person trans. It is an entirely separate condition. What makes a person trans is having the experience that @Seethlaw described.

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This is where you keep limiting the trans experience to suit your personal position.

While other people, who have transgender identities, have stated that they have a different experience. Different posters keep pointing this out and and yet you just double down. While admitting you are not transgender yourself.

By doing this you have arbitrated who is and is not transgender according to your own personal definition.

Plus ca change.

TWETMIRF · 07/12/2025 20:52

TWETMIRF · 07/12/2025 19:29

Is Pips Bunce trans? Pips switches between Pips and Phillip during the week so does that class as persistently perceiving as other than his birth sex?

Any thoughts on Pips?

SigourneyHoward · 07/12/2025 20:53

@puppymaddness apologies if this has been answered already - but I presume you agree that male violence and abuse is an issue for women and that spaces for biological women are important?

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 20:54

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 20:48

GDysph and GEuph were mentioned the same amount of times as incongruence. We can all see it.

Clearly they're not comfortable telling people who don't have Gender incongruence they're not trans.

But what do they know?

Also, think you might have missed the post that said "you're trans if you say you are, that's kinda it"

I think we will have to agree to disagree on the substance of what they were discussing, its relevance or its reliability in understanding trans experience.

What matters is the testimony of trans individuals regarding their own direct experience of being trans- as well as what we can observe objectively scientifically-
although the latter is much more limited of course,

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 20:56

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 20:48

GDysph and GEuph were mentioned the same amount of times as incongruence. We can all see it.

Clearly they're not comfortable telling people who don't have Gender incongruence they're not trans.

But what do they know?

Also, think you might have missed the post that said "you're trans if you say you are, that's kinda it"

I particularly like this one:

"Generally speaking, it is transmedicalist to look for any medical/physiological reason for trans identity. It all boils down to the same problem. When you define something by a series of conditions, you will leave some cases out.

Let's say we presume that gender incongruence is the condition for being trans. You find someone who doesn't experience gender incongruence, no dysphoria, no euphoria, and they're still trans. What do you do then?

We don't fully understand it, and it's complicated. There could be many reasons why people want to live in a body different than their sex assigned at birth. What gives us the authority to determine any of those reasons are better or worse than any others?"

Completely at odds with Puppy's position.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 07/12/2025 20:59

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 20:12

She said her child knew at 9 months?

I would find that very unlikely. How would she determine/ evidence that?

This lying thing you guys like to weaponise though... it's weird. She probably wasn't "lying" why would someone do this? She's probably projecting a perception or belief. People do that a lot:

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How do you evidence that someone is trans? How do I know whether my son is trans, or just one of several stereotypes, one that I have imposed on him because I have told you that he says he's trans?

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 20:59

SigourneyHoward · 07/12/2025 20:53

@puppymaddness apologies if this has been answered already - but I presume you agree that male violence and abuse is an issue for women and that spaces for biological women are important?

Well, considering we can't get her to give us a definition of "male" or "women", I don't think this question will go anywhere.

Helleofabore · 07/12/2025 21:02

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 16:50

From their site:

Trans

A term to describe people whose gender is not the same as, or does not sit comfortably with, the sex they were assigned at birth.

Stonewall uses ‘trans’ as an umbrella term including (but not limited to) transgender, transsexual, genderqueer, genderfluid, non-binary, agender, trans man, trans woman, trans masculine and trans feminine.

There's no description of what type of feeling trans people need to feel to qualify. I would imagine that a non-binary or agender person, for example, would not feel as I do, that they feel inside as though they are the opposite sex.

Seethlaw, may I ask if in your conversations with others have you come across any coherent explanation as to how people interpret their belief about themselves event they describe themselves as genderfluid ?

I have seen people with that identity describe changing constantly throughout the day. Have you come across a coherent description of what these people are interpreting about themselves?

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:03

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 20:56

I particularly like this one:

"Generally speaking, it is transmedicalist to look for any medical/physiological reason for trans identity. It all boils down to the same problem. When you define something by a series of conditions, you will leave some cases out.

Let's say we presume that gender incongruence is the condition for being trans. You find someone who doesn't experience gender incongruence, no dysphoria, no euphoria, and they're still trans. What do you do then?

We don't fully understand it, and it's complicated. There could be many reasons why people want to live in a body different than their sex assigned at birth. What gives us the authority to determine any of those reasons are better or worse than any others?"

Completely at odds with Puppy's position.

It's really not. They are simply speculating and theorising about definitions of things.

In a way I agree with them- it's like what I was saying about being female. you can say that all females have xx chromosomes , then you find one that doesn't. It's recognising that there is diversity, there is nuance, there are always differences and exceptions to every rule .

And yet still - being trans is a real thing - that we can describe / identify . It is a person who has a difference in the brain/ psyche whereby they perceive themself to be other than the sex they were assigned at birth.

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 21:04

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 20:56

I particularly like this one:

"Generally speaking, it is transmedicalist to look for any medical/physiological reason for trans identity. It all boils down to the same problem. When you define something by a series of conditions, you will leave some cases out.

Let's say we presume that gender incongruence is the condition for being trans. You find someone who doesn't experience gender incongruence, no dysphoria, no euphoria, and they're still trans. What do you do then?

We don't fully understand it, and it's complicated. There could be many reasons why people want to live in a body different than their sex assigned at birth. What gives us the authority to determine any of those reasons are better or worse than any others?"

Completely at odds with Puppy's position.

Quite.

Not the right kind of trans experience these trans people are having.

Absolutely crackers that posters on a famously hard-line sub Reddit are more relaxed in their definitions of their own identity.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:05

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 07/12/2025 20:59

How do you evidence that someone is trans? How do I know whether my son is trans, or just one of several stereotypes, one that I have imposed on him because I have told you that he says he's trans?

I don't know if your son is trans, however, I believe you said he changed his name and pronouns and insisted you see him as his daughter? And he has basically cut contact because you won't? I'd say that is pretty strong evidence that he is trans.

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 21:05

I think might have gone insane.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 07/12/2025 21:06

God, Queer Theory is boring as shit. I can't believe how it took over academia. I guess it was an opportunity for third rate minds to say any old crap and then refuse to define terms.

CorvusPurpureus · 07/12/2025 21:06

Punctuation 'tells' are always fascinating, I find.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:07

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 21:04

Quite.

Not the right kind of trans experience these trans people are having.

Absolutely crackers that posters on a famously hard-line sub Reddit are more relaxed in their definitions of their own identity.

Not the right kind of trans experience these trans people are having.

They.aren't.discussing.their. experience 😂🥴🤭

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 21:07

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:03

It's really not. They are simply speculating and theorising about definitions of things.

In a way I agree with them- it's like what I was saying about being female. you can say that all females have xx chromosomes , then you find one that doesn't. It's recognising that there is diversity, there is nuance, there are always differences and exceptions to every rule .

And yet still - being trans is a real thing - that we can describe / identify . It is a person who has a difference in the brain/ psyche whereby they perceive themself to be other than the sex they were assigned at birth.

Ah, I see, we're playing "I have my own definition, which doesn't align with anyone else's definition" again, right?

What they call "gender incongruence" is precisely "a difference in the brain/ psyche whereby they perceive themself to be other than the sex they were assigned at birth". And they explicitely say that it must not be considered necessary to be trans. So no, they don't agree with you, at all.

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 21:08

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:07

Not the right kind of trans experience these trans people are having.

They.aren't.discussing.their. experience 😂🥴🤭

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And you're not fucking discussing yours either!!

murasaki · 07/12/2025 21:08

FallenSloppyDead2 · 07/12/2025 21:06

God, Queer Theory is boring as shit. I can't believe how it took over academia. I guess it was an opportunity for third rate minds to say any old crap and then refuse to define terms.

Quite. Puppy is just Butler without a thesaurus.

murasaki · 07/12/2025 21:09

I'm still offended that Puppy told me I'm not trans. I am if I say I am.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:10

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 21:07

Ah, I see, we're playing "I have my own definition, which doesn't align with anyone else's definition" again, right?

What they call "gender incongruence" is precisely "a difference in the brain/ psyche whereby they perceive themself to be other than the sex they were assigned at birth". And they explicitely say that it must not be considered necessary to be trans. So no, they don't agree with you, at all.

I think we've discussed this as far as we can.
These people are not describing their experience of being trans; they are discussing their definitions/ theories about things. Trans people have a range of opinions , just like cis people do. You are gender critical; which I think is nonsensical. You also have lots of ideas about other trans people that I don't agree with. None of this has anything to do with your own direct experience of being trans .

Seethlaw · 07/12/2025 21:11

Helleofabore · 07/12/2025 21:02

Seethlaw, may I ask if in your conversations with others have you come across any coherent explanation as to how people interpret their belief about themselves event they describe themselves as genderfluid ?

I have seen people with that identity describe changing constantly throughout the day. Have you come across a coherent description of what these people are interpreting about themselves?

Sorry, Helle, I have no experience with genderfluid people. I can imagine what they mean from what I've read (ie. what it would mean to me to be genderfluid), but I've never discussed it with one of them.

puppymaddness · 07/12/2025 21:11

HousePlantEmergency · 07/12/2025 21:08

And you're not fucking discussing yours either!!

Certainly not! I never said I was:

SwirlyGates · 07/12/2025 21:11

Puppy, we're not fucking cis people.

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