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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:34

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:28

The maternity rights of trans men have never been under any threat and it's not something that has been of concern to that community.

Had the SC judgement gone the other way transmen would have lost their maternity rights as they would have then been, for all purposes, men. And men don't have maternity rights.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 19:35

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:23

Yes. I do. Where it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

It is my firm belief that this is what the SC judgement intended to provide
for- to allow exactly this.
Not to mandate a total prohibition on women's organisations ever being allowed to be inclusive/ welcoming of trans women. I do not believe they intended/ contemplated the latter for a second: because it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy.

TRAs have focused on infiltrating every single women's only group. Including breastfeeding groups ffs.

Perhaps if they hadn't, there wouldn't have been the pushback.

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:35

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:24

and?

And what?

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:38

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:33

So you consider yourself to be a trans man but not a man?

I didn't say anything about trans men considering themselves to be "naturally male", that's not something I would say. People use words in different ways. But the fundamental aspect of what makes a trans man a man is that they see themselves as being/ feel themself to be a man.

Do you consider yourself to be a trans man and do you support the consequences of the SC judgement and the prohibition on women's organisations that include trans women and men's organisations that include trans men? If so, you are wildly out of step with the majority of your community.

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Of course! If I were a man, I couldn't be a trans man, could I?

That's what "trans" means: that I'm not a man but I want to live like one as much as possible anyway.

You edited your post while I was replying...

Yes, I know I'm out of step with "the community". That doesn't mean I'm wrong and the community is right. The community cannot even properly define what a man and a woman are, so really...

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:38

MalagaNights · 03/12/2025 19:28

Groups open to general membership have to have clear rationale or aim to justify discrimination aginst a protected group.

What would be the rationale for discriminating against men who weren't trans in joining 'Sisterly Souls'?

It's for people who...what??
Explain the rationale for discrimmating against men who aren'tt transwomen who want to join because they also like jam and knitting?
There isn't one, that's why you can't do it.

You can't discriminate just because you want to. That seems to be Puppys issue.
Just because we want to isn't a lega; argument.

What would be the rationale for discriminating against men who weren't trans in joining 'Sisterly Souls'?

There is no reason to exclude them. The expectation is that only like minded men will join as the group is for people who believe in gender identity.

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:39

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:34

Had the SC judgement gone the other way transmen would have lost their maternity rights as they would have then been, for all purposes, men. And men don't have maternity rights.

In the 10+ years the Equality Act has been law was one trans man denied maternity protection?

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:40

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:38

Of course! If I were a man, I couldn't be a trans man, could I?

That's what "trans" means: that I'm not a man but I want to live like one as much as possible anyway.

You edited your post while I was replying...

Yes, I know I'm out of step with "the community". That doesn't mean I'm wrong and the community is right. The community cannot even properly define what a man and a woman are, so really...

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In what ways do you live as a man?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:41

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:31

I think you are confused about the difference between the rules for services and organisations.

There is no legal requirement to demonstrate a 'proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim' for a club to be single sex. This was specially discussed in court, using the example of a lesbian walking group.

The thing that you are complaining about is the law that prevents sex discrimination. Any organisation can completely exclude men or women. What they can't do is have different membership conditions for men and women.

I didn't understand this sorry.

What I believe the court intended was to allow for the separate treatment of (cis) women and trans women because of biological differences. Not to mandate it.

spannasaurus · 03/12/2025 19:42

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:41

I didn't understand this sorry.

What I believe the court intended was to allow for the separate treatment of (cis) women and trans women because of biological differences. Not to mandate it.

It's not mandated as organisations can choose to be mixed sex

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:42

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:39

In the 10+ years the Equality Act has been law was one trans man denied maternity protection?

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The small numbers of trans women who give birth mean that it's impossible to make a general statement about their treatment, but that doesn't mean that they don't need clear rights.

FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 19:42

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:31

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

I don't. I'm a woman. I have XX chromosomes in every one of my cells. I have a vagina and a uterus and a vulva. I had to have my breasts removed so now I have the scars. I'm a mother who gave birth. I have had a female socialisation. I know nothing about what it's like to grow up as a boy and to become a man.

There's exactly nothing about me that's naturally male. I'm a woman who feels she's a man, but that doesn't make me male in any way.

And I'm not the only trans man thinking that way.

Hi seethlaw - I remember chatting to you on another thread (with a different name). Always good to hear from your POV Brew

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 19:43

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 16:47

I genuinely don't understand why they don't just become mixed sex if they are happy to welcome some male members

this is the problem in a nutshell. You are simply unable to comprehend that some women see things differently to you , and don't see trans women as being the same as men.

You are free to feel the way you do . I see it as narrow and prejudiced , but I can't stop you.

What is wrong is you are trying to make it completely illegal for any women's group to include trans women, because of how you feel about trans women.

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I think some women probaly view trans identified men in the same way as they view gay men, and are probably flattered by having male attention.

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:43

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:40

In what ways do you live as a man?

The usual ones: male name, testosterone, double mastectomy, growing a beard... Just, trying to present as a man as much as possible. A very average trans man, really.

Why?

MalagaNights · 03/12/2025 19:43

The law does not stop women and trans women meeting and socialising in groups, it just means they cannot use the law to call themselves a women only group, or use the law to exclude men who are not trans.

It's just clarifed the language around what a womens group which has menership criteria means. It means females and not males.

You can still socialise meet and commune with whoever you want.

The alternatibe seems to be: membership groups can define words for proteced groups however they want and exclude whoever they want.
What could go wrong...??

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 19:44

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:41

I didn't understand this sorry.

What I believe the court intended was to allow for the separate treatment of (cis) women and trans women because of biological differences. Not to mandate it.

If you allow for separate treatment on the basis of biological difference (eg a women's only group) you can't then also admit a specific group of men, because then you don't qualify for the separate treatment on the basis of biological difference.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 19:45

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:41

I didn't understand this sorry.

What I believe the court intended was to allow for the separate treatment of (cis) women and trans women because of biological differences. Not to mandate it.

The biological difference you refer to is the one that distnguishes males from females, men from women...and that is Sex. Being female is not a quirk of personality.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:45

spannasaurus · 03/12/2025 19:42

It's not mandated as organisations can choose to be mixed sex

I agree.

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:45

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:39

In the 10+ years the Equality Act has been law was one trans man denied maternity protection?

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But for the last 10+ years there has been immense confusion, so yes a pregnant 'man' called Dave was going to get maternity protection.

But the SC judgement was to be the final word on the situation.

Had the SC ruled the other way then legally they would not have been entitled to maternity protection and pregnant Dave wouldn't be covered if his boss sacked him for being pregnant.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:45

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:38

Of course! If I were a man, I couldn't be a trans man, could I?

That's what "trans" means: that I'm not a man but I want to live like one as much as possible anyway.

You edited your post while I was replying...

Yes, I know I'm out of step with "the community". That doesn't mean I'm wrong and the community is right. The community cannot even properly define what a man and a woman are, so really...

Edited

I'm not a man but I want to live like one as much as possible anyway.

So if you want to live like a man as much as possible, would you be very concerned with joining the WI?

Yes, I know I'm out of step with "the community". That doesn't mean I'm wrong and the community is right.

Absolutely. But you can't claim to speak for the broader community. Thanks for acknowledging you are out of step.

Ultimately , people describe their experiences in different ways and that makes total sense:

The salient point is- however we use words or understand sex/ gender- Do you support the total prohibition on any women's organisations that include /
welcome trans women? And the exclusion of trans people from using services/ facilities according to their gender?

MalagaNights · 03/12/2025 19:46

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:38

What would be the rationale for discriminating against men who weren't trans in joining 'Sisterly Souls'?

There is no reason to exclude them. The expectation is that only like minded men will join as the group is for people who believe in gender identity.

Thtas the expectation but legally it will have to be a mixed sex organistaion won't it? Any man could join?

TheHereticalOne · 03/12/2025 19:47

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:39

In the 10+ years the Equality Act has been law was one trans man denied maternity protection?

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Not as far as I know.

And why would they have been when the Equality Act recognises that a women who has the protected characteristic of gender reassignment by virtue of proposing to undergo, or actually having undergone, a process for the purpose of changing physiological "or other attributes of sex" (no, me neither) remains a woman for the purposes of the Act?

Another2Cats · 03/12/2025 19:47

RogueFemale · 03/12/2025 19:14

@puppymaddness You said earlier in this thread "In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans".

This has been corrected several times by PPs, that is - in law, trans-identifying-men are not being excluded because they are trans, but because they are men, and the WI is, by choice, a single sex organisation for women.

And that is the law, as established in the Supreme Court, that, in law, sex means biological sex, woman means biological woman, - not how a person may 'identify'.

I know the discussion has moved on, but it is worth reiterating. Because it is notable, and revealing, than neither you nor the WI seem to have ever considered trans-identifying-women (so-called 'transmen'). Trans-identifying women are legally entitled to join the WI, a women-only organisation, because they are biological women, and cannot be discriminated against by the WI. Why aren't you cheering this on, that 'transmen' can join the WI? [without a legal battle].

Because of course, nobody thinks of it or cares, because 'transmen' are merely women and don't matter. Trans-ideology is invariably centred on trans-identifying men and men wanting to invade biological women's spaces, sports, etc etc.

Again, also previously pointed out, the WI choose to be a single sex organisation. They could avoid all the hand-wringing today by simply changing policy to be open to both sexes, which would allow trans-identifying-men to join. Simples. The law isn't forcing them to do anything.

"Because it is notable, and revealing, than neither you nor the WI seem to have ever considered trans-identifying-women (so-called 'transmen'). Trans-identifying women are legally entitled to join the WI, a women-only organisation, because they are biological women, and cannot be discriminated against by the WI."

My DH started a claim for sex discrimination against the WI back in May. It was (is? the case is still ongoing) a core part of their defence that their membership criterion is not based on sex.

DH and I totally agree with you that trans-identifying women can join the WI, but the WI argued otherwise. They explicitly said in their Defence:

"...women (as defined under the EqA) who choose to live as men are excluded by the Defendant’s membership rules"

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:48

FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 19:42

Hi seethlaw - I remember chatting to you on another thread (with a different name). Always good to hear from your POV Brew

Hi! I had to stay away from here because I got very depressed over the state of trans affairs in my country ("Hey, let's just make all the same mistakes other countries did before, even though those countries are now walking back on them because they have disastrous results!"), so I just blocked everything while I digested it all. I'm slowly getting back into it now.

BonfireLady · 03/12/2025 19:48

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:23

Yes. I do. Where it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

It is my firm belief that this is what the SC judgement intended to provide
for- to allow exactly this.
Not to mandate a total prohibition on women's organisations ever being allowed to be inclusive/ welcoming of trans women. I do not believe they intended/ contemplated the latter for a second: because it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy.

Yes. I do. Where it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. It is my firm belief that this is what the SC judgement intended to provide
for- to allow exactly this.

Great! On this you are aligned with the Equality Act and the majority of people on this board. A space/service can only be single-sex if it meets this criteria.

Not to mandate a total prohibition on women's organisations ever being allowed to be inclusive/ welcoming of trans women.

If an organisation lets in members of the opposite sex, it is no longer a single-sex space/service.

Yes, it's legal to have mixed-sex spaces/services. No, it's not legal to claim that they are single-sex.

I do not believe they intended/ contemplated the latter for a second: because it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy.

This makes no sense. You are now no longer in agreement with the first two sentences in your comment, because you're now saying that it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy to have single-sex spaces.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 19:49

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:41

I didn't understand this sorry.

What I believe the court intended was to allow for the separate treatment of (cis) women and trans women because of biological differences. Not to mandate it.

What the Supreme Court ruled was that the common, everyday usage of the word 'woman' related to biological sex, and that is the understanding which formed the foundation of the Equalities act when it came to the protected categories of Sex and Sexual Orientation. Gender -Re-assignment as a protected category does not over-rule the biological meaning and application of the category of 'Sex' .

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