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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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eyeses · 03/12/2025 19:20

I wonder whether perhaps people should stop feeding the puppy.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 19:20

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:15

If you think it bothers me what you think of me you are very much mistaken.

That pp is demanding I engage in a conversation with them about how they see trans women: I have declined as I know very well it is futile. Their mind is made up and their intentions are entirely insincere:
it's immaterial to the point that I joined this thread to make which concerns the principles of a democratic society.

Do you think women should legally be allowed to hold a group without trans women in it? Any group?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:20

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

Trans men are affected and harmed by the consequences of the SC judgement along with trans women although it is easier for trans men to pass and continue to use male facilities / services as they wish. Please stop using trans men as a shield to justify your exclusion of trans women.

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:21

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:15

If you think it bothers me what you think of me you are very much mistaken.

That pp is demanding I engage in a conversation with them about how they see trans women: I have declined as I know very well it is futile. Their mind is made up and their intentions are entirely insincere:
it's immaterial to the point that I joined this thread to make which concerns the principles of a democratic society.

I don't think anything of you, you aren't that important.

Joeninety · 03/12/2025 19:21

Can women still be SAS members ?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:23

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 19:20

Do you think women should legally be allowed to hold a group without trans women in it? Any group?

Yes. I do. Where it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

It is my firm belief that this is what the SC judgement intended to provide
for- to allow exactly this.
Not to mandate a total prohibition on women's organisations ever being allowed to be inclusive/ welcoming of trans women. I do not believe they intended/ contemplated the latter for a second: because it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy.

RanchRat · 03/12/2025 19:23

Very glad that the Sisterhood will provide a space for the the elderly trans women who are going to lose their support network in the WI.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:24

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:21

I don't think anything of you, you aren't that important.

and?

spannasaurus · 03/12/2025 19:24

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:20

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

Trans men are affected and harmed by the consequences of the SC judgement along with trans women although it is easier for trans men to pass and continue to use male facilities / services as they wish. Please stop using trans men as a shield to justify your exclusion of trans women.

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Transmen maintain their maternity rights as a result of the SC judgment.

If FWS had lost, transmen with grc would have had no maternity protection as they would be considered men for the EA

Transmen are women and if they give birth they are legally (as well as factually)the mother of that child.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:25

MalagaNights · 03/12/2025 19:16

If there's a group for Chinese women and a white bloke with evidently no Chinese heritage joins, the group are legally allowed to exclude him.

If then a black bloke with evidently no Chinese heritage wants to join and they let him, then they have discriminated against the white bloke.

They either let them both join and admit it is not a group for Chinese women, and anyone of any race and sex can join, or they maintain the criteria for Chinese and women.

Yes Chinese heritage has more fluid boundaries than sex but it's not nothing.

Do you really think anyone can identify as Chinese andChinese people have to accept that as reality?? Really?

I think race discrimination is always illegal, but a society can certainly restrict its membership on the basis of ethnic origin or nationality.

RogueFemale · 03/12/2025 19:25

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:17

Do you really think trans men want to join the WI? Would they actually be allowed to join or would the part of the judgement that says you can exclude a trans person from a space of their birth sex be used?

I doubt trans-identifying-women long to join the WI, - that's not the point, though.

If one of them did, they'd be legally entitled to join. Can you quote the part of the judgment you refer to, that may say otherwise?

eatfigs · 03/12/2025 19:25

RanchRat · 03/12/2025 19:23

Very glad that the Sisterhood will provide a space for the the elderly trans women who are going to lose their support network in the WI.

It's not sisterhood though. These are elderly men.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 19:27

What you are specifically seeking to prohibit/outlaw is any women's group that includes/welcomes transwomen

Well yes. I can't believe it's necessary to say this, but women's groups, by definition, aren't actually going to welcome men as members, are they?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:28

spannasaurus · 03/12/2025 19:24

Transmen maintain their maternity rights as a result of the SC judgment.

If FWS had lost, transmen with grc would have had no maternity protection as they would be considered men for the EA

Transmen are women and if they give birth they are legally (as well as factually)the mother of that child.

The maternity rights of trans men have never been under any threat and it's not something that has been of concern to that community.

MalagaNights · 03/12/2025 19:28

Groups open to general membership have to have clear rationale or aim to justify discrimination aginst a protected group.

What would be the rationale for discriminating against men who weren't trans in joining 'Sisterly Souls'?

It's for people who...what??
Explain the rationale for discrimmating against men who aren'tt transwomen who want to join because they also like jam and knitting?
There isn't one, that's why you can't do it.

You can't discriminate just because you want to. That seems to be Puppys issue.
Just because we want to isn't a lega; argument.

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:29

ByCraftyMaker · 03/12/2025 19:17

Do you really think trans men want to join the WI? Would they actually be allowed to join or would the part of the judgement that says you can exclude a trans person from a space of their birth sex be used?

In reality the majority probably wouldn't want to. But some might. And as it's the WI and not a rape crisis centre I don't think they'd be able to use the fact that they'd grown a beard and looked like a man to exclude them.

I think the scope to exclude some transmen based on their presentation was more geared towards the possible upset and stress caused to some woman who was trying to talk about her sexual assault in a rape crisis centre in front of someone who appeared to be a man.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 03/12/2025 19:29

Catiette · 03/12/2025 16:40

Puppy, please stop appropriating all these very serious and necessary words. Fundamentalism. Prohibition. Phobia. Segregation. Authoritarianism. Woman!

Just like we need a word for the class of people locked in their homes in Afghanistan, we need words like those above to remain meaningful.

Telling trans-identifying males that they can't sing Jerusalem once a month is not the same as the Deep South of the '30s, apartheid South Africa and fundamentalist terrorism.

I actually have a lot of sympathy with transwomen caught up in this right now, but your posts are so extreme that they make it harder to take this seriously.

You don't need to implicitly appropriate other issues or civil rights movements, any more than you needed to take our word, "woman".

To do so is disrespectful to the people who suffer/ed under genuinely authoritarian and abusive regimes, and it's disrespectful to the (now nameless) group who were deprived of the vote a mere 100 years ago.

Fight this battle honestly, on your own terms! Let transwomen be proud to be transwomen, in their own right, and let trans cause speak for itself, with more honesty and self-respect.

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I've really liked your posts on this thread, but this one is great! The sad thing for me is that TIM just won't discuss women's issues like restrictions in Afghanistan or sexual assaults or childcare etc etc. They genuinely dont give a stuff about real women's lives. And their (male) lack of honesty about that makes it very hard to support their entitled views. But you are so right if this male-led movement had been honest from the start how different this all would look. AND I am not wanting to read the weird word waffle salad rubbish this poster has been posting all day. Just random words in a random order.

spannasaurus · 03/12/2025 19:30

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:28

The maternity rights of trans men have never been under any threat and it's not something that has been of concern to that community.

How would they have been able to claim those rights if they were legally men? Men don't have maternity rights.

The situation about transmen and maternity rights was discussed in the SC judgment - you should read the judgment

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:31

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:20

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

Trans men are affected and harmed by the consequences of the SC judgement along with trans women although it is easier for trans men to pass and continue to use male facilities / services as they wish. Please stop using trans men as a shield to justify your exclusion of trans women.

Edited

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

I don't. I'm a woman. I have XX chromosomes in every one of my cells. I have a vagina and a uterus and a vulva. I had to have my breasts removed so now I have the scars. I'm a mother who gave birth. I have had a female socialisation. I know nothing about what it's like to grow up as a boy and to become a man.

There's exactly nothing about me that's naturally male. I'm a woman who feels she's a man, but that doesn't make me male in any way.

And I'm not the only trans man thinking that way.

5128gap · 03/12/2025 19:31

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:15

If you think it bothers me what you think of me you are very much mistaken.

That pp is demanding I engage in a conversation with them about how they see trans women: I have declined as I know very well it is futile. Their mind is made up and their intentions are entirely insincere:
it's immaterial to the point that I joined this thread to make which concerns the principles of a democratic society.

I understand the point you're making. That the law appears to be draconian in telling women and TW they are not permitted to meet together.
Which when framed that way appears an overstep.
However what the law is actually saying is that such a group could not exclude men. Which is a protection of the rights of men from discrimination, rather than a removal of the rights of trans people.
I also understand that in order to stay within the law, the WI have made a choice that does exclude TW so from whichever way we examine the law, the outcome for TW is the same, so to draw the distinction might appear semantic.
However, this was not the WIs only choice. They could have chosen to continue to accept TW and also men, but they prioritised the exclusion of men over their desire to be inclusive of TW.
This is going to happen on repeat now as more and more agencies have to decide whether to open their doors to all males in order to include TW. Because that is their choice under law.
Faced with a choice between excluding males, including TW, or women losing spaces away from males, would you really think the first the least harmful option to the fewest?
Because I understand you believe TWAW, but the law does not and the law is where we are.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:31

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:23

Yes. I do. Where it's a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim.

It is my firm belief that this is what the SC judgement intended to provide
for- to allow exactly this.
Not to mandate a total prohibition on women's organisations ever being allowed to be inclusive/ welcoming of trans women. I do not believe they intended/ contemplated the latter for a second: because it's fundamentally antithetical to British democracy.

I think you are confused about the difference between the rules for services and organisations.

There is no legal requirement to demonstrate a 'proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim' for a club to be single sex. This was specially discussed in court, using the example of a lesbian walking group.

The thing that you are complaining about is the law that prevents sex discrimination. Any organisation can completely exclude men or women. What they can't do is have different membership conditions for men and women.

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:32

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:20

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

Trans men are affected and harmed by the consequences of the SC judgement along with trans women although it is easier for trans men to pass and continue to use male facilities / services as they wish. Please stop using trans men as a shield to justify your exclusion of trans women.

Edited

Stating biological fact that transmen are women is not using those women as a shield to justify excluding men.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 03/12/2025 19:32

Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 19:29

In reality the majority probably wouldn't want to. But some might. And as it's the WI and not a rape crisis centre I don't think they'd be able to use the fact that they'd grown a beard and looked like a man to exclude them.

I think the scope to exclude some transmen based on their presentation was more geared towards the possible upset and stress caused to some woman who was trying to talk about her sexual assault in a rape crisis centre in front of someone who appeared to be a man.

Yes, it's a Schedule 3 thing: doesn't apply to Schedule 16.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 19:33

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:28

The maternity rights of trans men have never been under any threat and it's not something that has been of concern to that community.

Good luck with that.

I wonder if the community is under the mistaken impression that women only need to be protected from discrimination when they are actually pregnant?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 19:33

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 19:31

trans men are important. They consider themselves to be men.

I don't. I'm a woman. I have XX chromosomes in every one of my cells. I have a vagina and a uterus and a vulva. I had to have my breasts removed so now I have the scars. I'm a mother who gave birth. I have had a female socialisation. I know nothing about what it's like to grow up as a boy and to become a man.

There's exactly nothing about me that's naturally male. I'm a woman who feels she's a man, but that doesn't make me male in any way.

And I'm not the only trans man thinking that way.

So you consider yourself to be a trans man but not a man?

I didn't say anything about trans men considering themselves to be "naturally male", that's not something I would say. People use words in different ways. But the fundamental aspect of what makes a trans man a man is that they see themselves as being/ feel themself to be a man.

Do you consider yourself to be a trans man and do you support the consequences of the SC judgement and the prohibition on women's organisations that include trans women and men's organisations that include trans men? If so, you are wildly out of step with the majority of your community.

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