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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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Stopbringingmicehome · 03/12/2025 14:25

well I've just put my head above the parapet and sent this off to the WI Inclusion officer.

I've just seen your announcement that you will still use resources that should be reserved for women to enable men pretending to be women to continue associating with the WI groups .
Could you confirm that men pretending to be women will have to fully fund their own activities and be a separate unit to the female membership.
I am so pleased that I can now attend WI activities without the possibility of running into a man acting out some misogynistic impression of woman hood.

RedToothBrush · 03/12/2025 14:28

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/12/2025 14:21

That's a very good point. I suspect that the number of trans widows who would like to join will vastly exceed the numbers of trans identifying males who are being ejected.

I didn't join a women only outdoor network on the basis of their display at an event I went to and the domination of a male.

We'd just had a presentation about barriers women face to outdoor adventure. It was all about biology, physical size, child care and sexism. Then some dude with a beard rocked up and asked 'can I join too?".

There were no more questions after. DH was with me and was appalled at what happened. Thank fuck.

Grammarnut · 03/12/2025 14:28

nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:36

You've spoilt the news on two threads now!

Edited

I don't listen to Women's Hour but I notice that the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/12/2025 14:35

ScoldsBridal · 03/12/2025 12:14

I wonder if Petra Wenham will be spearheading these ‘sisterhood’ groups. If there’s an appetite for them they’d be better off forming a Trans Women Institute surely?

The fawning article on "Petra" can be found in the article on Page 6 of the July & August 2021 edition of "WI Life". Trigger warning it is simperingly uncritical.

Apollo441 · 03/12/2025 14:36

From the WI statement;

  • For example, in April 2026, we will be launching a national network of local WI Sisterhood groups, which will offer monthly opportunities for all people, including transgender women, to come together to socialise, learn from each other, and share their experiences of living as women.

So it seems it will be open to everyone. Can't see how it corresponds with their articles though.

LiveToTell · 03/12/2025 14:39

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:09

Certainly looking less and less like a democratic one

Why are you replying to your own post? Did you try to change name? You can’t do that.

KetchUpWithEverythingPls · 03/12/2025 14:41

@Stopbringingmicehome please update the reply when you get it!

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:44

LiveToTell · 03/12/2025 14:39

Why are you replying to your own post? Did you try to change name? You can’t do that.

It was an additional thought/ comment I wished to add on to the previous post, so I linked them .
Why are people so suspicious about that ? it's really very odd.

Kassiopeia · 03/12/2025 14:44

W.I should never have allowed T-I-Ms in in the first place - the clue is in the title - Women's Institute. I hope the membership goes up.

Lougle · 03/12/2025 14:46

MarieDeGournay · 03/12/2025 11:43

Men's Sheds are another example, like men's health projects, of how men can have their own stuff, but women have to be 'people with....'

The UK Men's Shed website is a bit coy about being men-only, this was all I found:
Who can attend a Men’s Shed?
Men’s Sheds are community spaces that aim to be inclusive and welcoming to men of various backgrounds and experiences. Many Sheds also accept Women members. While specific policies may vary from one Men’s Shed to another, the general idea is to create an environment where men can come together for socialisation, skill-sharing, and mutual support.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) | UKMSA | Men's Sheds Association

I think they could probably argue that their aims e.g. improving mental health, are such that they can legitimately claim exemption from the EA, and good luck to them.
But they should be upfront about that, and the same should apply to similar women's groups.

The Irish Men's Shed website doesn't mention women at all, so in a country which is so depressingly TWAW and 'birthing-parent'-ish, men can set up their own group, promote it as a men's group, get public funding for a men's group, etc etc. Not a problem😒

They've also misquoted the nine protected characteristics in their EDI policy:

"What are Protected characteristics?
Under the Equality Act 2010, there are nine protected characteristics, usually referred to as
“the protected characteristics”:
• age
• disability
• gender
• gender reassignment
• marital or civil partnership status
• pregnancy and maternity
• race (including colour, nationality and ethnic or national origins)
• religion or belief
• sex or sexual orientation"

https://menssheds.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/UKMSA-EDI-Policy-2024-25092025.pdf

It should read:

• age
• disability
gender
• gender reassignment
• marital or civil partnership status
• pregnancy and maternity
• race (including colour, nationality and ethnic or national origins)
• religion or belief
• sex
• sexual orientation"

https://menssheds.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/UKMSA-EDI-Policy-2024-25092025.pdf

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:46

Grammarnut · 03/12/2025 14:28

I don't listen to Women's Hour but I notice that the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women.

the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women

Correct. They disagree with you. As many people do. This surely can't be news to you?

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 14:48

K425 · 03/12/2025 14:00

So as far as I can tell, they won’t accept people with a vagina and breasts but the wrong genes (how will they know? Blood tests and genital examination as part of the application process) but they’ll accept people with the right genes but with a beard and penis?

A neo vagina is not an actual functional female organ. It is a blind fistula which needs to be artifiically manipulated in order to stop it from healing over.

Lougle · 03/12/2025 14:50

It's all a bit baffling.

"The Supreme Court the highest court in the UK has said X, so we consulted our local lawyers, who have sadly said that yes X does mean X and so we do have to do what it says. We're only going to do it from April 2026 though so everything lines up neatly with our finances and we don't have to refund any premiums."

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 14:51

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:46

the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women

Correct. They disagree with you. As many people do. This surely can't be news to you?

People believe all kinds of things, but what matters here is the law.

GrandmaMazur · 03/12/2025 14:52

Lougle · 03/12/2025 14:50

It's all a bit baffling.

"The Supreme Court the highest court in the UK has said X, so we consulted our local lawyers, who have sadly said that yes X does mean X and so we do have to do what it says. We're only going to do it from April 2026 though so everything lines up neatly with our finances and we don't have to refund any premiums."

“And then we’re going to introduce some new extra groups for the special women and we somehow believe that isn’t against the law”

DeanElderberry · 03/12/2025 14:53

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 14:48

A neo vagina is not an actual functional female organ. It is a blind fistula which needs to be artifiically manipulated in order to stop it from healing over.

Edited

Any more than a transman will have a penis, no matter what has been constructed by a surgeon.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 14:53

K425 · 03/12/2025 14:00

So as far as I can tell, they won’t accept people with a vagina and breasts but the wrong genes (how will they know? Blood tests and genital examination as part of the application process) but they’ll accept people with the right genes but with a beard and penis?

Vanishingly few women seek to have an artifiicial penis contructed - using the skin of their forearm. It is not really a functional male organ.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/12/2025 14:55

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:46

the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women

Correct. They disagree with you. As many people do. This surely can't be news to you?

A minority of people may genuinely believe that transwomen are women. But surveys show the majority disagree with them. And the law is clear that they’re not women.
Surely that can’t be news to you?

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/12/2025 14:55

Greyskybluesky · 03/12/2025 12:39

IIRC, the WI had previously stated that female trans people were excluded from the organisation, which actually was illegal discrimination towards those people on the basis of their protected characteristic of gender reassignment.

You do recall correctly SirEctor - their current EDI policy states "all women who live as women" [whatever that's meant to mean, they never defined it...]

Transmen live as men and so are not eligible

The WI admit that their DEI policy was written by Gendered Intelligence.

FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 14:57

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:46

the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women

Correct. They disagree with you. As many people do. This surely can't be news to you?

Yes, they believe dangerously sexist principles and I don't.

We've acknowledged that. You seem to find it very difficult to state whether or not there is anything whatsoever that differentiates men and women.

As I said, we all know why. You either think both words are meaningless - as in you can't actually come up with a consistent meaning - or you don't want to say because we'd all see what you actually think.

Chersfrozenface · 03/12/2025 14:57

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 14:51

People believe all kinds of things, but what matters here is the law.

And provable, observable fact.

Grammarnut · 03/12/2025 15:07

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 14:46

the WI doesn't seem to realise that transwomen are not any kind of women

Correct. They disagree with you. As many people do. This surely can't be news to you?

They are disagreeing on a matter of fact (as well as law). Transwomen are men. You can't change your sex and gender is just personality. Wearing a frock and liking macreme doesn't make you a women (I am doing neither of those currently and I am most definitely a woman).
They might as well disagree that the earth goes round the sun. They are provably wrong.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 15:08

Grammarnut · 03/12/2025 15:07

They are disagreeing on a matter of fact (as well as law). Transwomen are men. You can't change your sex and gender is just personality. Wearing a frock and liking macreme doesn't make you a women (I am doing neither of those currently and I am most definitely a woman).
They might as well disagree that the earth goes round the sun. They are provably wrong.

If they don't know they are men every engagement with medical care must be life threatening.

OdeToTheNorthWestWind · 03/12/2025 15:08

NotInMyyName · 03/12/2025 11:34

The real prospect of legal action has twisted their arm to take action.

This must be as a result of the RECENT high profile ETs and court cases.

Maybe the tear stained statements are to ward off the male backlash? 😭😭😭

That's exactly what I was thinking, both for the WI and the GGs.

Stopbringingmicehome · 03/12/2025 15:09

The U3A is a very similar set up to the WI and is mixed sex, so there already is an alternative grouo for men to join

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