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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 12:22

Or do we want to live in a society where one side of a political debate imposes their understandings and definitions of things on the rest

No. That's why I don't want men in women's protected spaces.

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 12:22

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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Trans identified people are either male or female like everyone else. Single sex exemptions permit the exclusion of members of the opposite sex. Males are excluded from female only spaces, services and categories. This is legitimate. If the WI no longer wants to be a women's organisation then they should change their membership rules to makle it a mixed sex organisation. Until then, it is for women only.

JamieCannister · 03/12/2025 12:22

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

No-one is proposing that we gaffa tape up the mouths of men and women to prevent them from saying the magic words "I am trans".

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/12/2025 12:22

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:30

By state law I was referring to the laws of nation States.

Transwomen cannot join the WI, because they're men, and men are not women.

that is not the view of the women's institute, and does not express their values.

And when we allow people to hold different , competing opinions and values , and to express/ live those out, through a free and independent civil society and freedom of association , that's a core component of democracy wouldn't you say?

Transwomen cannot join the WI, because they're men, and men are not women.
that is not the view of the women's institute, and does not express their

It is however the law of the land which the WI must obey. If they don't like the law the WI do have an option to lobby for a change in the law but it's telling that they haven't.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:23

JamieCannister · 03/12/2025 12:18

The law is promoting the inclusion of women in a group for women by removing men, men being the reason some women might feel excluded (perhaps victims of SA or religious women who are not allowed to join mixed sex groups).

We can't start mandating all civil society organisations to exclude some people because some other people might "feel excluded" if they were there now can we?

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:23

LivelyFinch · 03/12/2025 12:09

I keep asking the same/similar question and no-one ever answers so hear I go again!

Why do these women in charge hate other women so much? Why are they so keen on pandering to men constantly? Why do they want to prioritise TIM?

There's enough people on this board shouting TWAW but strangely no-one ever answers my question 🤷‍♀️.

They identify as kind. They have swallowed the guff about TW being the most marginalised and vulnerable group in the world ever and they are terrified of being labelled as transphobic. So when a man who happens to be married to a senior women in the organisation the women who identify as kind stay quiet and more men join. And as more men join the kind women have to shut down dissent from the lowly women who thought they had joined a women’s group.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 12:24

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:23

We can't start mandating all civil society organisations to exclude some people because some other people might "feel excluded" if they were there now can we?

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Why not?
Oh, and you haven't answered my question from a few pages ago yet.

mysodapop · 03/12/2025 12:25

GrandmaMazur · 03/12/2025 12:10

One of them is married to a cross dresser.

Yep. It's the sunken cost fallacy in play with these handmaiden types. Almost as deluded as their husbands.

I actually think it would be great if there were trans identifying men and men in jeans and t shirts as the Sisterhood groups, plus a smattering of women to take notes and make the tea of course. It would promote understanding between the 2 types of men and show the men living as women they have nothing to fear from the standard men. Who might take the piss a bit, being blokey types, but mostly aren't homphobic, some of them being gay themselves, and show them that they wouldn't cause the TIM any grief in the male toilets. TIM would then be enabled to get back into male toilets, where they belong, and leave the women's toilets cleaner and safer for women, which is surely what all women want.

That is unless transgresing women's boundaries and invading their spaces and making them feel unsafe is part of the experience of living as a woman for such men?

Tatemoderndrawyourown · 03/12/2025 12:25

Sorry, I haven’t RTFT but is this due to the woman whose husband challenged the WI discussed here some months ago?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 12:26

Tatemoderndrawyourown · 03/12/2025 12:25

Sorry, I haven’t RTFT but is this due to the woman whose husband challenged the WI discussed here some months ago?

Yes.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:26

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

do you have a ‘thing’ for humiliation?

Shortshriftandlethal · 03/12/2025 12:26

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

'Trans' is a framing device..not a unique category of human being. It provides a word and a narrative to explain why some people want to present as the opposite sex to that which they are.

But nobody is actually the opposite sex to that which they are. It is therefore not a material reality; even if someone has extreme surgery to modify their body.
Being 'trans' is not a fixed reality, either.....that is why we have detransitioners.

nicepotoftea · 03/12/2025 12:27

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 03/12/2025 12:08

Yes, I fear that they will supplant the regular meetings, which will instead be scheduled at 2am and arranged to take place in a haunted mansion on an island in a crocodile-infested lake.

Isn't that up to the people who run the individual groups?

Seethlaw · 03/12/2025 12:27

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

Oh? I'm really interested: can you name a single material attribute that distinguishes between a man and a trans woman, or between a woman and a trans man?

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 12:27

Because being trans is both real and material

I don't understand what you mean by this @puppymaddness

ScarlettSunset · 03/12/2025 12:28

I am a member of a local WI group.
We've never had a TIM at ours - I wouldn't still be a member if we had.

I haven't read all of the thread or even all of the news (work getting in the way), but I won't be joining in with any 'sisterhood' activities from what I have seen so far.
Unlike the WI press statement, I firmly believe transwomen are men.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 03/12/2025 12:28

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:23

We can't start mandating all civil society organisations to exclude some people because some other people might "feel excluded" if they were there now can we?

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We can, and we have. You do know that there are all sorts of clubs for people with things in common, don't you? And equality law made a special exception for it.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 03/12/2025 12:29

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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'In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans'.

Nope. Noone is being excluded because they are trans.

Men are being excluded because they are men.

viques · 03/12/2025 12:30

Easytoconfuse · 03/12/2025 10:53

Exactly. Still, I can't wait to see the sisterhood groups. Anyone guessing how many groups there'll be and how many members they'll have. Will they need a church hall to meet in or could they make do with a phone box?

Maybe they could meet in the garden shed, or the bowls club, or the golf club for the TIM who want to straddle both camps.

They aren’t going to want to are they though, even if a few of the handmaids join them to sooth their troubled brow and assert that yes of course they are real women, just like the other real women with the body history that women have. Because it won’t be like being in a proper Women’s group will it. What are they going to have talks on that will keep them absorbed? Getting tights that fit, dealing with five o’clock shadow, male pattern balding, where to find nice court shoes in a size ten. How can it be a Sisterhood when the TIM have been thrust out into the cold hard world of biological reality.

ThatCyanCat · 03/12/2025 12:30

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:23

We can't start mandating all civil society organisations to exclude some people because some other people might "feel excluded" if they were there now can we?

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What on earth are you rabbiting on about now? Nobody is mandated to start a single sex civil society. It's just entirely legal for them to do so, and equally legal for others to start one for the other sex, or for both sexes. There are some legal requirements for single sex provision in the workplace and other public services but anyone can start a single or mixed sex activity group.

Ask yourself why the WI isn't prepared to include trans identified men by becoming openly mixed sex. That's an option, it would include them, it just wouldn't maintain the pretence that they're women and use the entire organisation as a validation prop. That's why they won't do it.

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:31

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:16

Yes of course, I agree , they are bound by equalities legislation. That is precisely the issue, that (interpretations of) equalities legislation have become increasingly anti-democratic.

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Point to the section in the EA2010 that would permit the inclusion of TW but the exclusion of other men.

JamieCannister · 03/12/2025 12:31

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:23

We can't start mandating all civil society organisations to exclude some people because some other people might "feel excluded" if they were there now can we?

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Yes we can.

The alternative is to leave some women without access to domestic refuges or gyms or rape crisis centres of leisure activities.

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 03/12/2025 12:31

Interesting that the WI chose to announce this on Women's hour - getting the message to the right people or captured safe space?

bibbadee · 03/12/2025 12:32

Wow this brownie leader has said she still happily will accept boys.

these people are absolutely bonkers

Ukefluke · 03/12/2025 12:32

nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:32

They haven't yet said what the announcement will be about. But it sounded something that will rightfully cause massive upset.

That biological sex is real? Devastating news.
Who knew.

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