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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?

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nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:30

Apparently it will be a matter of the greatest seriousness and sorrow.

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FragilityOfCups · 03/12/2025 12:11

You cannot run a legal system that defines people's physical attributes by "what I claim I feel like inside".

To even get to this point they would need to define "woman" as something other than 'any adult' because otherwise all you're saying when you "feel like a woman" that you feel like any adult, male or female.

At some point the definition of woman needs to refer to being female, at which point it's automatically transphobic.

Or it refers to "feminine " which is laughably sexist.

DrUptonsGardenGnome · 03/12/2025 12:12

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:41

The leadership of the women's institute who are free to set/ determine the values of their organisation like any other, and should be able to do so without anti democratic restrictions/ interference imposed by the State.

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By 'interference imposed by the State" I premise you mean the law?

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:06

Personally I want to live in a society that is based on material reality but you do you

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 03/12/2025 12:13

what independent , objective measure can we use to determine women from men?

There's case law FFS 😠

TinselAngel · 03/12/2025 12:13

By going out of their way to accommodate our exes they’re still saying fuck you to any trans widows who might have wanted to join.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:13

EasternStandard · 03/12/2025 12:01

@puppymaddnesswhat are your views on those billionaires in the first line?

That that claim is completely fabricated, ridivulous bollocks.

ThatCyanCat · 03/12/2025 12:14

WhatterySquash · 03/12/2025 12:09

what independent , objective measure can we use to determine women from men?

While there are simple, quick tests to distinguish a male from a female, there don't seem to be any to distinguish a "real" or genuine trans woman from a) all other males and b) males claiming to identify as trans with an ulterior motive such as predatory access to victims. The only evidence someone is trans is "because I said so".

You cannot run a legal system that defines people's physical attributes by "what I claim I feel like inside". That is not an objective definition and as the legal system constantly deals with people who aren't telling the truth, it's a ludicrous and unworkable basis to make policy on.

You can easily see this if you imagine we allowed people to self-define as innocent, having an ethnicity they do not, having an age they do not, and just accepting what they say as fact. It's not workable. This is why the SC made the judgement they did - because it was the onlt possible interpretation that could practically work.

It was also obvious from the fact it also provided protection for trans identities. If a transwoman was a woman as per the law's wording, it wouldn't have been necessary to protect a trans identity.

MaryLennoxsScowl · 03/12/2025 12:14

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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Your argument boils down to: men are the oppressed. Ours boils down to: men are not the oppressed.

The Supreme Court agrees and so does the law. You can fight for the right to claim men are oppressed if you like. But you’re like the KKK claiming white people were oppressed.

EasternStandard · 03/12/2025 12:14

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:09

It’s a mystery. It’s almost as if they are being disingenuous but of course that would be unkind of me to suggest that and as a mere woman I must always be kind and put myself last.

I think it’s a childlike you can’t tell me what to do. It’s the law so they have to follow it. They can’t be rational about it.

ScoldsBridal · 03/12/2025 12:14

I wonder if Petra Wenham will be spearheading these ‘sisterhood’ groups. If there’s an appetite for them they’d be better off forming a Trans Women Institute surely?

I wonder what the WI are going to announce on Woman's Hour in the next few minutes?
Boiledbeetle · 03/12/2025 12:15

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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"In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans. "

FFS!

It's not because they are trans. It's because they are men.

turkeyboots · 03/12/2025 12:15

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:30

By state law I was referring to the laws of nation States.

Transwomen cannot join the WI, because they're men, and men are not women.

that is not the view of the women's institute, and does not express their values.

And when we allow people to hold different , competing opinions and values , and to express/ live those out, through a free and independent civil society and freedom of association , that's a core component of democracy wouldn't you say?

If the WI really really believed this, they would change their organisation rules allowing anyone to join.

WhatterySquash · 03/12/2025 12:15

LivelyFinch · 03/12/2025 12:09

I keep asking the same/similar question and no-one ever answers so hear I go again!

Why do these women in charge hate other women so much? Why are they so keen on pandering to men constantly? Why do they want to prioritise TIM?

There's enough people on this board shouting TWAW but strangely no-one ever answers my question 🤷‍♀️.

I think about this a lot too. I think it's because some women (like some men tbf) have a need to be seen as a good, caring person and they have been duped into thinking trans people are the most marginalised demographic ever and that it's just like being gay, by a very effective PR campaign.

The approved way to assert this goodness is by identifying naysayers and opposing them by doubling down, calling them bigots and pushing the "most oppressed victims" narrative in the face of mounting evidence to the contrary.

At a deeper level, there's a man-pleasing element where women who do this convince themselves that they are being kind and caring towards a genuine (somehow) "woman trapped in a man's body" who is even more in need of their protection and support than a normal woman. But IMO unconsciously they are sucking up to what they instinctively know to be a demanding, potentially aggressive male in a female space.

PrettyDamnCosmic · 03/12/2025 12:16

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 11:18

Absolutely. And , in addition, as they clearly express and have done repeatedly, that trans women are women.

Whereas we all know that under the Equality Act 2010 as sex can only mean sex at birth that "trans women" remain the men that they were born.

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:16

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 11:58

Ah but that is where you are wrong (again). They are bound by the EA2010.

They could just conduct a poll of their members and if the members vote to permit men they could change their charter but they won’t do that.

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Yes of course, I agree , they are bound by equalities legislation. That is precisely the issue, that (interpretations of) equalities legislation have become increasingly anti-democratic.

ErrolTheDragon · 03/12/2025 12:17

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:12

Oh absolutely, me too. That's why I don't want to eliminate the possibility of being trans from society . Because being trans is both real and material.

Of course people can be trans.
They just can’t change sex.

JamieCannister · 03/12/2025 12:18

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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The law is promoting the inclusion of women in a group for women by removing men, men being the reason some women might feel excluded (perhaps victims of SA or religious women who are not allowed to join mixed sex groups).

SternJoyousBeev2 · 03/12/2025 12:19

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:04

Ah but that's an entirely inappropriate analogy . What we are dealing with is , in fact, the direct opposite , because of the outcome of the policy.

in one case you are prohibiting the exclusion of a group of people from an organisation because of their race.

In this case you are mandating the exclusion of a group of people (against the values of the organisation), because they are trans.

The appropriate analogy would be a new interpretation of law that said certain organisations- if they are designated for (say) British people - must be restricted to white people (because the state had decided that the definition of "british people" definitionally excludes those who are non-white) . This was then mandated/ imposed so that the membership of the civil society group was narrowed/ restricted against their values and purported objectives/ operations.

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You are utterly wrong. TW are being excluded because of their SEX. Because the WI relies on single SEX exemptions in the EA2010 to be for women only.

Derbee · 03/12/2025 12:19

crinkletits · 03/12/2025 10:35

Wouldn’t it be great if membership now went up.

I think everyone should boycott it. The statement clearly says that they believe the delusion that TWAW, and they are starting a programme in 2026 to circumvent the law, and allow men to attend groups, as “sisterhoods” simply without formal membership. Sounds like a slap in the face to me

SirEctor · 03/12/2025 12:20

Trans (and non-binary) people are still very much eligible for WI membership, as long as they are female. The protected characteristic in question is sex, not gender reassignment.

IIRC, the WI had previously stated that female trans people were excluded from the organisation, which actually was illegal discrimination towards those people on the basis of their protected characteristic of gender reassignment. Hopefully they will soon be able to clarify that this discriminatory policy is no longer in effect.

MaryLennoxsScowl · 03/12/2025 12:20

And the issue here is that (interpretations) of equalities legislation have become increasingly anti-democratic.

You do know that some rando’s ‘interpretation’ of equalities legislation isn’t as valid as the SC’s, right? That yours is an opinion and theirs is the law? It really sounds like you don’t. And, please, do campaign for a country-wide vote on whether or not TWAW, to make sure it’s thoroughly democratic.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 03/12/2025 12:21

ErrolTheDragon · 03/12/2025 12:17

Of course people can be trans.
They just can’t change sex.

Heavens, don't be stating actual facts now.
What about the poor men's hurt feelings?

EyesOpening · 03/12/2025 12:21

nauticant · 03/12/2025 10:55

According to Melissa Green almost no one within the organisation complained about including transwomen.

I know someone who is a member of the branch where that man who was on the cover of one of their magazines, gave a talk. She said that no-one was interested in his talk but they couldn't say because they have to be careful what they say. It would seem like those women would have expressed their disapproval if allowed to vote anonymously.

RedToothBrush · 03/12/2025 12:21

Excellent news

Is this the dominoes starting to fall for women's only groups?

I hope so.

SirChenjins · 03/12/2025 12:22

puppymaddness · 03/12/2025 12:16

Yes of course, I agree , they are bound by equalities legislation. That is precisely the issue, that (interpretations of) equalities legislation have become increasingly anti-democratic.

Edited

Not at all - it's restored democracy to women.

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