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To find it heartening that despite so many famous people being anti JKR, their are still so many who are prepared to work on HP?

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PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 01:26

The end credits on the full cast audio takes 13 minutes. Hugh Laurie, Carl Prekopp, Mark Addy, Indira Varma.....and so many many names!

Then the TV series. Nick Frost, Warwick Davies, John Lithgow, Janet McTeer, Katherine Parkinson and (my favourite) Daniel Rigby.

I feel that the actors and crew are saying that they agree with her (or at least, dont disagree), without actually saying that they agree, if you see what I mean.

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334bu · 25/11/2025 07:03

Denying psychological, behavioural & cultural commonalities is as silly as denying biological realities so I'm not interested in being drawn into that.

Of course you're not.

TwinkleTwinkleLittleBatgirl · 25/11/2025 07:07

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/11/2025 05:19

Funny how your argument doesn’t stand on its own merits so you have to appropriate someone else’s oppression, isn’t it, “godtierKaren”?

Yes, I don’t quite get how if the “cubicles in toilets allow” for the privacy, why not just use the toilets for your sex? @godtierKaren has clearly stated trans people can get the privacy they want there?

BunfightBetty · 25/11/2025 07:18

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 03:59

I would maintain civility but can't imagine maintaining a close relationship with a friend who didn't have any empathy for human rights violations. That would be a very bright red flag of a problematic future in my experience. Lack of empathy tends to be a deal breaker in friendships.

But I suspect the very nature of acting requires empathy for those "who know not what they do" & that's perhaps why Fiennes, Knightly & Laurie haven't turned away from JKR.

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Yes, I know what you mean. I find misogyny and all the attempts to take away the rights of women - the oppressed sex - in favour of men - the oppressor sex - so disgustingly abhorrent and morally bankrupt, that I find it difficult to feel the same about people once I know they’re full on TRAs.

However, I try to remember that some to them do so out of ignorance, thinking they’re being ‘kind’, and don’t fully understand the impact on women, or the terrible harms being done to confused young people. Most people don’t seem to know much, if anything, about the lifelong medical harms like infertility being visited on vulnerable young people in the name of profit.

There are also those who are too craven and cowardly to do anything other than jump on the bandwagon, as they see this as advantageous to them. Those I have less sympathy for.

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:25

TwinkleTwinkleLittleBatgirl · 25/11/2025 07:07

Yes, I don’t quite get how if the “cubicles in toilets allow” for the privacy, why not just use the toilets for your sex? @godtierKaren has clearly stated trans people can get the privacy they want there?

By this logic toilets don't need to be separated but clearly they do for safety reasons that applies to both trans women & women. And given there's no evidence statistically of trans women being a safety risk to women then sharing toilets only makes sense.

Maryberrysbouffant · 25/11/2025 07:26

I’m sure plenty of famous people are pro JKR anyway, they’re just too scared to say it out loud.

TwinkleTwinkleLittleBatgirl · 25/11/2025 07:28

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:25

By this logic toilets don't need to be separated but clearly they do for safety reasons that applies to both trans women & women. And given there's no evidence statistically of trans women being a safety risk to women then sharing toilets only makes sense.

who do trans women have risks from in the male toilets?

BlueEyedBogWitch · 25/11/2025 07:29

I’m always thoroughly heartened when I visit King’s Cross station and see the massive queues outside the Harry Potter shop.

The Christmas tree is Diagon Alley themed this year, with a shop on each face of the plinth thingy it’s on.

There were young people taking pics last week, saying “Make sure you get one of each side!”

Warmed my terfy cockles, it did.

TheNightingalesStarling · 25/11/2025 07:33

Why is it always about toilets... not open plan changing rooms, or domestic violence shelters, or asking for your rape counsellor to be the same sex as you?

Toilets a merely a gateway drug.

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:35

BunfightBetty · 25/11/2025 07:18

Yes, I know what you mean. I find misogyny and all the attempts to take away the rights of women - the oppressed sex - in favour of men - the oppressor sex - so disgustingly abhorrent and morally bankrupt, that I find it difficult to feel the same about people once I know they’re full on TRAs.

However, I try to remember that some to them do so out of ignorance, thinking they’re being ‘kind’, and don’t fully understand the impact on women, or the terrible harms being done to confused young people. Most people don’t seem to know much, if anything, about the lifelong medical harms like infertility being visited on vulnerable young people in the name of profit.

There are also those who are too craven and cowardly to do anything other than jump on the bandwagon, as they see this as advantageous to them. Those I have less sympathy for.

Yes, opinions differ that's why ultimately consensus expertise matters particularly on complex issues whether medical, ethical, judicial or psychological.

Unfortunately, everyone these days thinks they’re an 'expert'…

crazylizardsss · 25/11/2025 07:37

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:25

By this logic toilets don't need to be separated but clearly they do for safety reasons that applies to both trans women & women. And given there's no evidence statistically of trans women being a safety risk to women then sharing toilets only makes sense.

Anything you would like to say about Katie Dolatowski and the 12 yo girl he raped in a supermarket toilet?

Snorlaxo · 25/11/2025 07:42

People will like working on her projects for their own CVs and paychecks. The actors aren’t going to work and discussing women’s rights issues all day - they are turning up to make JKR’s magical worlds a visual reality. The hysteria online on places like X is created by activists who are tiny in number and angry that the excessive attention they get isn’t enough.
How many people work at minimum wage while the CEO is on millions? How many people have colleagues with very different political opinions but never discuss politics in order to maintain a working relationship? Same difference. Laurie etc aren’t expected to make public statements about trans issues- they are hired to promote the HP world.

SoftBalletShoes · 25/11/2025 07:42

TwinkleTwinkleLittleBatgirl · 25/11/2025 07:28

who do trans women have risks from in the male toilets?

Tbf, I suppose there are a lot of men who would harass or beat up a man in a dress, heels, and makeup. And if the trans woman was someone who was on the smaller side and had done the full transition, including the hormone therapy and breast surgery, it's also possible that they would pass as a woman and get harassed and maybe attacked for being a woman in the male toilets. And if someone tried to rape a trans woman, there's a risk of them visiting even more violence on them on discovery that they're a biological man.

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:45

crazylizardsss · 25/11/2025 07:37

Anything you would like to say about Katie Dolatowski and the 12 yo girl he raped in a supermarket toilet?

Females aren't exactly above committing sex crimes as well.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 25/11/2025 07:46

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:45

Females aren't exactly above committing sex crimes as well.

You’re a disgrace.

Namelessnelly · 25/11/2025 07:46

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:25

By this logic toilets don't need to be separated but clearly they do for safety reasons that applies to both trans women & women. And given there's no evidence statistically of trans women being a safety risk to women then sharing toilets only makes sense.

No. You’ve proved your point earlier when you said cubicles offer privacy. So cubicles in the men’s offer those men with a trans identity all the privacy and safety they need. Therefore there is absolutely no need for males to use female spaces. You sorted it with your previous post. Unless of course, there is another reason these men with a trans identity want access to female spaces….

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/11/2025 07:47

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:45

Females aren't exactly above committing sex crimes as well.

🤔

To find it heartening that despite so many famous people being anti JKR, their are still so many who are prepared to work on HP?
BunfightBetty · 25/11/2025 07:47

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:35

Yes, opinions differ that's why ultimately consensus expertise matters particularly on complex issues whether medical, ethical, judicial or psychological.

Unfortunately, everyone these days thinks they’re an 'expert'…

Quite. We’ve even got idiots claiming that men can become women if they have special feelings, and if they do claim this, we can remove decades of hard-won women’s rights AND drive a coach and horses through safeguarding provisions for children, who can be put at risk of sexual abuse if it suits the whims of adult men.

Utter madness.

BlueEyedBogWitch · 25/11/2025 07:48

SoftBalletShoes · 25/11/2025 07:42

Tbf, I suppose there are a lot of men who would harass or beat up a man in a dress, heels, and makeup. And if the trans woman was someone who was on the smaller side and had done the full transition, including the hormone therapy and breast surgery, it's also possible that they would pass as a woman and get harassed and maybe attacked for being a woman in the male toilets. And if someone tried to rape a trans woman, there's a risk of them visiting even more violence on them on discovery that they're a biological man.

This is why we need a third option.

Men’s safety isn’t women’s responsibility. We’ve got enough on keeping ourselves safe.

Namelessnelly · 25/11/2025 07:48

SoftBalletShoes · 25/11/2025 07:42

Tbf, I suppose there are a lot of men who would harass or beat up a man in a dress, heels, and makeup. And if the trans woman was someone who was on the smaller side and had done the full transition, including the hormone therapy and breast surgery, it's also possible that they would pass as a woman and get harassed and maybe attacked for being a woman in the male toilets. And if someone tried to rape a trans woman, there's a risk of them visiting even more violence on them on discovery that they're a biological man.

But that’s not women’s problem. Why does the fact that some men are in danger from other men mean that men should have access to female spaces? Maybe the trans activists could start a campaign encouraging men to be kinder to men with a trans identity.

Kimura · 25/11/2025 07:49

PyongyangKipperbang · 25/11/2025 01:26

The end credits on the full cast audio takes 13 minutes. Hugh Laurie, Carl Prekopp, Mark Addy, Indira Varma.....and so many many names!

Then the TV series. Nick Frost, Warwick Davies, John Lithgow, Janet McTeer, Katherine Parkinson and (my favourite) Daniel Rigby.

I feel that the actors and crew are saying that they agree with her (or at least, dont disagree), without actually saying that they agree, if you see what I mean.

I feel that the actors and crew are saying that they agree with her (or at least, dont disagree), without actually saying that they agree, if you see what I mean.

They're saying nothing of the sort. They're professionals, getting paid to star in one of the biggest media franchises of all time.

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:50

SoftBalletShoes · 25/11/2025 07:42

Tbf, I suppose there are a lot of men who would harass or beat up a man in a dress, heels, and makeup. And if the trans woman was someone who was on the smaller side and had done the full transition, including the hormone therapy and breast surgery, it's also possible that they would pass as a woman and get harassed and maybe attacked for being a woman in the male toilets. And if someone tried to rape a trans woman, there's a risk of them visiting even more violence on them on discovery that they're a biological man.

True, but according to Gender Critical logic 'that's a man problem'.

'Social responsibility for me but not for thee.'

TwistedWonder · 25/11/2025 07:53

Igneococcus · 25/11/2025 06:18

Getting your dick out in female only spaces is not a human right.

Apparently it’s absolutely fine as long as it’s a girl dick and the owner has lady feelz

Thats how ludicrous the argument gets

Namelessnelly · 25/11/2025 07:53

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:50

True, but according to Gender Critical logic 'that's a man problem'.

'Social responsibility for me but not for thee.'

Ummm. But it is. Why is male on male violence women’s problem to solve? We’ve got enough to do dealing with male on female violence. Let men sort themselves out. They got this. I believe in them.

godtierKaren · 25/11/2025 07:53

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 25/11/2025 07:47

🤔

So you agree statistical percentages matter? That's progress. Now do trans women v 'biological' men.

BlueLegume · 25/11/2025 07:54

I’m thinking godtierkaren is possibly the same as howesitgoin - another professional thread derailer.

Humans cannot change sex. Gender critical is the slur used. Sex realist is how I refer to myself. I am not ‘critical’ of anyone except the adults peddling nonsense to children about being born in the wrong body. That is racketeering.

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