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ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:23

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:20

It has been very muted. I don't think people want to look. You pull at a thread and then it all unravels.

Dr. Laurence McKeown - Mark Cousins - they just can't see themselves. Living off tax payers money and focusing on their Green LGBTQ agenda.

I want to start a sex realistic loyalist association and approach them to put on a showing of Mary Poppins on the BIGLY SCREEN. Because you know at the minute they do community outreach to everyone except sex realists and loyalists.

To be fair (and that's why we are better than them is it not 😉) they don't get paid for being on the board I don't think.

I'm sure both access public funding in other roles but not this one.

DrRevProfCriticalConditionETC · 19/11/2025 19:23

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 19/11/2025 19:16

When they were talking about comments, for some reason I thought they were on about comments made on you tube about the event separate to the recording of her talking!

Yup. Because there is nothing in SM's 'comments' ie that could be described as 'appalling'. I also initially wondered if it was another 'dirty by association' smear.

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 19/11/2025 19:24

ickky · 19/11/2025 12:21

From NW

NC if the complaint in that email is true it's v serious
LB yes it's v serious
NC we're in gross misconduct (GM) territory
LB can't say
NC you would have a grasp of what constitutes GM
LB it's certainly v serious
NC yet it wasn't followed up with a disc iv
LB we were already...

... investigating.
NC but this came in on 7 July and I would suggest it needed an urgent iv if anyone thought it might be true
LB there was an iv
NC that gives the game away doesn't it - you were already on track to get SM out - you didn't need an iv on an allegation which
... looked on the face of it, untrue.
LB no this would need to be scrutinised before any disc action

[let me see if I can copy and paste the complaint again: "Hi Michele,
I hope that you are keeping well.
My name is [xxxxxx] and my short film Homebird was screened at the 2022 edition of the
Belfast Film Festival. I was also a key crew member on the feature film Ballywalter directed and
written by my good friends Prasanna Puwanarajah and Stacey Gregg.
I want to preface this letter with the fact that I am an openly transgender man, but my work does
not focus on this topic. Nor did the films I was representing at the festival have anything to do with
me beings trans. I also want to preface that until this interaction, I had never met Sara Morrison.
I drafted an email to you in November after having an incident with Sara Morrison during the
festival, and again on the 16th of April after Sara publically spoke at an anti-transgender rally in
Belfast city centre that was circulated online. On both occasions I opted not to send the emails,
feeling powerless and quite worried about the possibility of being exiled from the Belfast Film
Festival for speaking about my experience.
At the Belfast Film Festival in November 2022 - during the after-screening drinks of Ballywalter in
the Cineworld foyer, I was approached by Sara Morrison. I had never met Sara before, and had to
google her after the interaction, shocked that she was listed as the Audience Development and
Inclusion Officer.
Sara initiated a conversation with me by name, knowing who I was. This conversation quickly
became incredibly uncomfortable, turning into what felt like borderline targeted harassment. She
insisted on making it known to me that she was a TERF, standing for 'Trans Exclusionary Radical
Feminist' — repeating this to me multiple times, adding that I "probably hated her, hated her guts,
thought she was a cunt" etc. despite having never met her before. It clicked with me then, that it
was because I was transgenderthat she was telling me this -creating an intentionally antagonistic
conversation.
Several negative comments were made in relation to me being trans and that despite this (me
being transgender) she still enjoyed my short film Homebird and thought that young gay people
should see it. She also alluded to the fact that she had my film removed from competition by alerting
the programmers to a private screening that Homebird had for cast and crew in the QFT a year prior,
with our co-founder Outburst Arts - but I don't know if she had the power to do this or if she was
just saying this to be oddly antagonistic.
I was genuinely quite shocked that someone would approach a stranger and to their face tell them
that they didn't like trans people, and I awkwardly removed myself from the conversation with the
help of my partner and my producer, who witnessed the whole thing - equally angry and completely
baffled at what had just happened. This left me very upset and quite powerless on what should have
been a night of celebrating Ballywalter, causing me to have to excuse myself for a while before rejoining.
When my own short film was screened on the 6th of November, I had to be convinced to
attend by my partner and producer who had my back, because I was scared to be approached again
— feeling like I wasn't welcome or didn't belong at the festival.
I truly think that given the very open and vocal viewpoints that Sara holds about transgender people
(both in person and online) coupled with my experience and potentially the experiences of others — I
don't feel she is fit for the position she holds. I would hope that the Belfast Film Festival be a place to
encourage minority communities across Northern Ireland to contribute, but with an Inclusion Officer
that is loudly anti-trans, I don't feel safe sharing my work or celebrating film at my local festival
anymore. I am really saddened that Sara is someone whose purpose is to create equal opportunity
and engagement for audiences regardless of who they are, but holds contempt for people like me. I
absolutely love the Belfast Film Festival and have been honoured for my work to take part, but I feel
unwelcome.
Thank you for your time as this is quite a lengthy letter, but I hope it can be of use to hear from a
trans person that was directly affected by Sara's behaviour as an audience member, filmmaker, and
lover of film in Belfast.
All the very best,
[xxxxx] (He/Him).]

"I want to preface this letter with the fact that I am an openly transgender man, but my work does
not focus on this topic. Nor did the films I was representing at the festival have anything to do with
me beings trans. I also want to preface that until this interaction, I had never met Sara Morrison."

There were a lot of prefaces to the letter of 7 July but this one stands out as very possibly protesting too much. The complainant has a new film out in 2025 that is very much focused on being trans, and it was funded by Outburst via a funding application for Northern Ireland Screen 2023/24 funding round for which applications closed on 29 September 2023. And the application requirements would have involved a lot of work: web.archive.org/web/20230627142411/northernirelandscreen.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/Short-Film-Call-Guidelines-and-FAQs-2023-24.pdf

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:24

This is Michele very neutrally and not impactful to people who want to access film festivals ENDORSING a Sinn Fein politician

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=8118736368152081&surface_type=vod&referral_source=vod_deeplink_unit

43 reactions | It's great to have Michele Devlin's endorsement for this Thursday's Assembly election in South Belfast. Our Arts, Culture & Heritage sectors provide depth to our rich tapestry and I will continue to support their contribution to our com...

It's great to have Michele Devlin's endorsement for this Thursday's Assembly election in South Belfast. Our Arts, Culture & Heritage sectors provide depth to our rich tapestry and I will continue to...

https://www.facebook.com/DeirdreHargeySF/videos/8118736368152081/

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moto748e · 19/11/2025 19:25

It's the speech she gave at LWS I think. NW has posted a transcription of it. I think LW watched it via YouTube.

More great work in bringing communities together!

weegielass · 19/11/2025 19:28

is there a gardening thread / list of tribunals / decisions upcoming?

I will get withdrawal symptoms soon. Who knew tribunals would be the new 'not going out'?

ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:30

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:16

Sara was locked out of her email. She didn't have her passwords. Shut out of shared drive. She was ill. A cynic might say it was deliberate so she couldn't access the information to see what was happening.

I imagine she can't see the pattern in it all - until she has the bundle and the legal team.

The investigating lead was the inexperienced but concerned Lisa Barros D'sa - she didn't know the sector or the people. She wasn't the slightest bit curious. They just wanted to white wash it all.

It is telling though that she did nothing about the trans identifying woman who alledged Sara was transphobic. I mean actual evidence from a third party of Sara doing something sackable. But they all stood back from that steaming dung heap. I wonder why?

And I don't think she will have gone through the bundle as forensically as NC/ CE.

From her cross-examination at the start, I felt she agreed with more than she should have and on reflection I think that was because she didn't yet have full grasp of where NC and CE were going. I suppose they may not have wanted to get her hopes up incase their dastardly plan to exorcise the BFF gangsters failed.

I also speculated that she had been advised not to be combative or bolshy and get drawn into discussions or over explanations and I think, if so, that was really sound advice.

And I think elements have revealed themselves as the thing progressed. There was that disagreement about whether NC could question LB about that EMAIL because she had in xe confirmed she had agreed for it to be sent. However, NC then returned to her WS where she explained that she wasn't sure about it but felt under pressure to agree.

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:31

ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:23

To be fair (and that's why we are better than them is it not 😉) they don't get paid for being on the board I don't think.

I'm sure both access public funding in other roles but not this one.

Its not that they get paid to be on the board (although it appears to be a company rather than a charity so they might) - its that their stooge Michele (they've all worked together for 20 years) will create events where they get to show their movies, drink wine and have parties funded by the tax payer. They are then amplified and connected and likely get grants from tax payer. They then get press, get amplified and so on. Heck they even get on the BIGLY SCREEN.

https://www.blackboxbelfast.com/event/belfast-film-festival-presents-undisclosed-mark-cousins-project/

There are loads of examples - but this is one.

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SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:34

ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:30

And I don't think she will have gone through the bundle as forensically as NC/ CE.

From her cross-examination at the start, I felt she agreed with more than she should have and on reflection I think that was because she didn't yet have full grasp of where NC and CE were going. I suppose they may not have wanted to get her hopes up incase their dastardly plan to exorcise the BFF gangsters failed.

I also speculated that she had been advised not to be combative or bolshy and get drawn into discussions or over explanations and I think, if so, that was really sound advice.

And I think elements have revealed themselves as the thing progressed. There was that disagreement about whether NC could question LB about that EMAIL because she had in xe confirmed she had agreed for it to be sent. However, NC then returned to her WS where she explained that she wasn't sure about it but felt under pressure to agree.

Yes I think the case has unfurled as it went on. There was a case around the email but then the scheme to whip up fake complaints, work our way toward a final destination and the very bigoted approach of the board members to Green LGBT issues started showing up.

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spannasaurus · 19/11/2025 19:35

BFF is a registered charity which is incorporated as a company

ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:35

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 19/11/2025 19:24

"I want to preface this letter with the fact that I am an openly transgender man, but my work does
not focus on this topic. Nor did the films I was representing at the festival have anything to do with
me beings trans. I also want to preface that until this interaction, I had never met Sara Morrison."

There were a lot of prefaces to the letter of 7 July but this one stands out as very possibly protesting too much. The complainant has a new film out in 2025 that is very much focused on being trans, and it was funded by Outburst via a funding application for Northern Ireland Screen 2023/24 funding round for which applications closed on 29 September 2023. And the application requirements would have involved a lot of work: web.archive.org/web/20230627142411/northernirelandscreen.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/Short-Film-Call-Guidelines-and-FAQs-2023-24.pdf

Very good work there @NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard

I've also posted about the very revealing comment about the film being ditched for comp through SM's machinations. Which I think is at the coal face of the axe they are grinding ( sorry, it's late and cold) ie there are strict criteria for eligibility and one of the criteria is that the film has not been screened in NI before and they'd screened it at Queen's Theatre, here they claim it was private but I don't believe it was as much as I don't believe any of the other confected BS stuff.

SternlyMatthews · 19/11/2025 19:37

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 19/11/2025 18:38

It just happens by magic.

I just think

big

Then

bigger

Then

bigly!

etr failed test

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:38

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:24

This is Michele very neutrally and not impactful to people who want to access film festivals ENDORSING a Sinn Fein politician

https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=8118736368152081&surface_type=vod&referral_source=vod_deeplink_unit

And to close the loop on the Green LGBTQIA agenda - even the hashtag for women is undermined because it supports women who think they are men

Sara Morrison v BFF - thread 5
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ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:39

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:31

Its not that they get paid to be on the board (although it appears to be a company rather than a charity so they might) - its that their stooge Michele (they've all worked together for 20 years) will create events where they get to show their movies, drink wine and have parties funded by the tax payer. They are then amplified and connected and likely get grants from tax payer. They then get press, get amplified and so on. Heck they even get on the BIGLY SCREEN.

https://www.blackboxbelfast.com/event/belfast-film-festival-presents-undisclosed-mark-cousins-project/

There are loads of examples - but this is one.

Very true. I think NC has commented in questioning to MTM that the position is voluntary and she seemed to be including the whole board in that. But he will very likely get travel and accom paid for, I'm sure, plus per diems or meals and his films will be waved through the selection process so he will get press and publicity which aids his standing and access to further project support from both private and public funds.

ProfessorTRex · 19/11/2025 19:41

ProfLargofesse · 19/11/2025 19:30

And I don't think she will have gone through the bundle as forensically as NC/ CE.

From her cross-examination at the start, I felt she agreed with more than she should have and on reflection I think that was because she didn't yet have full grasp of where NC and CE were going. I suppose they may not have wanted to get her hopes up incase their dastardly plan to exorcise the BFF gangsters failed.

I also speculated that she had been advised not to be combative or bolshy and get drawn into discussions or over explanations and I think, if so, that was really sound advice.

And I think elements have revealed themselves as the thing progressed. There was that disagreement about whether NC could question LB about that EMAIL because she had in xe confirmed she had agreed for it to be sent. However, NC then returned to her WS where she explained that she wasn't sure about it but felt under pressure to agree.

Yep. It's amazing that people who apparently pride themselves on being so socially progressive didn't factor power imbalances into their thinking at all. They replied as if Sara had equal power and agency in these situations which is obviously not the case. You can really tell MD etc. are very comfortable with giving orders and waiting for everyone to jump, yet zero introspection.

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:41

spannasaurus · 19/11/2025 19:35

BFF is a registered charity which is incorporated as a company

Got you - so not funded board positions. But for example Dr. Laurence was on the board for ScreenNI that funds BFF. So a total conflict of interest and also a big networking opportunity. The money is flowing from taxpayers to these groups who cost a fortune to distribute another fortune.

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SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:45

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 19/11/2025 18:42

@SexRealistic

ˢᵒᵐᵉᵗᶦᵐᵉˢ ᴵ ᵃˡˢᵒ ᵗʰᶦⁿᵏ ʳᵉᵃˡˡʸ ˢᵐᵃˡˡ

𝘖𝓉𝒽𝔢𝒓 𝚝𝚒𝓶𝑒𝒔 𝗜 𝖙𝔥𝑖𝓷𝖐 𝙄'𝓋𝚎 𝔟𝖊𝚎𝓷 𝚔𝖎𝖉𝒏𝕒𝖕𝔭𝔢𝕕

Now come on thats just taunting me 👹

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ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 19/11/2025 19:48

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:45

Now come on thats just taunting me 👹

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Namechanged999999 · 19/11/2025 19:51

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 19/11/2025 19:16

When they were talking about comments, for some reason I thought they were on about comments made on you tube about the event separate to the recording of her talking!

I have just listened to this in full for the first time. Sara Morrison is a hero. She knew exactly what she was doing and the difficulties of that. She is on the right side of history and is part of the leadership. Going against certain cults and groupings in Northern Ireland is extremely dangerous. I hope they are scared of Sara. Love to her. She is brave.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/11/2025 19:52

Lunde · 19/11/2025 17:50

Lets face it they only really think about "diversity" in terms of the TRA lobby - we heard nothing about making bff accessible for other groups (many disabled people could not sit in a beanbag in front of the bigly screen for example)

This always needs to be the argument, and so sorry NI, I dont know if this applies to you. But the Equality Act 2010 has 9 protected characteristics. As a minimum these are the 9 that you need to assess. And for many organisations some will be a greater need than others, but be open about that.

ProfessorDrPrunesqualer · 19/11/2025 19:54

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:22

They do fund large drums for Orange Order associations from time to time - its muscial arts.

Searching for any intel onThe Arts Council fundings
Nothing so far
but this is a question on a questionnaire they put out to all organisations they fund

Speaks volumes !

Only gender !

Sara Morrison v BFF - thread 5
socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/11/2025 19:58

ProfesseurSciFiTitPump · 19/11/2025 18:10

Just to sum up, was there any complaint received prior to MC's meeting in the bar where he had a pop at Sara and then proceeded to instigate this, any at all?

Similar Q to the one I asked on the previous thread, but no reply. Did Prof DB ever recuse herself in the previous 35 years for health grounds ( or any other)? Its all about appearance.

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:58

ProfessorDrPrunesqualer · 19/11/2025 19:54

Searching for any intel onThe Arts Council fundings
Nothing so far
but this is a question on a questionnaire they put out to all organisations they fund

Speaks volumes !

Only gender !

Absolutley captured - the whole sector is. Sara didn't stand a chance.

And she can't get work in the sector because of how incestuous it is.

Michele has been in her role for 20 years get paid by the taxpayers.

Ruth McCarthy at Outburst has been in her role for 18 years and paid by the tax payers.

One woman suggests that womens groups shouldn't be trying to drown out the voices of women at the Let Women Speak rally? Start the witch hunt.

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SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 19:59

socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/11/2025 19:58

Similar Q to the one I asked on the previous thread, but no reply. Did Prof DB ever recuse herself in the previous 35 years for health grounds ( or any other)? Its all about appearance.

I am not sure that we would have a record of that or that it would be noted in judgments.

And you mean plain old Ms. Deborah Boyd.

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socialdilemmawhattodo · 19/11/2025 20:04

SexRealistic · 19/11/2025 18:56

No that’s exactly the point.

They’d clearly got advice saying LWS attendance was not important enough to sack. So when Daddy figure Mark Cousins tells them to sort it - the in-experienced chairs then hand wring a bit.

Bull faced I’ll fix it Michele went off and back channeled to Outburst. Interestingly one of Outburst’s former directors Cain Smyth was supporting Michele and BFF in person today.

https://find-and-update.company-information.service.gov.uk/company/NI603571/officers

Cain Smyth is the link between former friends - Michelle Devlin and Ruth McCarthy.

He joined the Outburst Board in 2011 and served alongside both Michelle for over a year, and clearly was a very close ally of Ruth McCarthy because he sat on the board for 9 years until 2020.

He is also named as a collaborator at Outburst at some

https://lgbtni.org/outburst-queer-arts-festival/#:~:text=Outburst%20is%20funded%20primarily%20by%20the%20Arts%20Council,Development%2C%20Age%20NI%20and%20the%20Public%20Health%20Agency.

FESTIVAL DIRECTOR: Ruth McCarthy
FILM PROGRAMME: Cian Smyth & Michele Devlin

Outburst is funded primarily by the Arts Council of Northern Ireland but is also sponsored by other key agencies such as Belfast City Council, the Department of Social Development, Age NI and the Public Health Agency. Together all these fantastic services have come together to allow us to bring you the best festival line up year on year.

He helpfully has a website - https://www.ciansmyth.co.uk/about

With Albert Maysles, he founded the Maysles Brothers Documentary Competition at the Belfast Film Festival in 2005 and was a co-founder (2007) and Chair (2013 -2020) of Outburst Queer Arts Festival.

He is formerly a board member of the Arts Council of Northern Ireland (2015- 2020)
So while he is Chair of the Outburst Queer Arts Festival he is also on the board of the Arts Council which provides the bulk of the funding for Outburst. The absolute grift of it all.

Circle jerk continues.

Other observers commented he was taking photos of Sara and her supporters in the room. I didn’t see it myself.

You are very involved aren't you? I mean you know and meet all the players in this tribunal. I hope you are OK and can speak out at home or in the workplace if you need to.

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