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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 14:41

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ProfessorBettyBooper · 18/11/2025 17:06

MarieDeGournay · 18/11/2025 17:01

NC you’re telling the tribunal that you are giving evidence about a claim against the BFF for discrimination and you haven’t taken the time to acquaint yourself with the issue

I thought this was a devastating q, but...water off a duck's back.
They all know they are 1000% right, don't they?😠

Agreed.

I think rather than doing their shiny investigation, asking SM about her views and actually processing the answers could have saved them a whole pile of do do.

As is raised again and again in these tribunals, if SM had been protesting to protect the rights of any other characteristic, this would never have come to court.

ProfessorVegemiteandhoneyontoast · 18/11/2025 17:06

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:04

The butter was in between the bread, was cut from a block straight from the fridge and as such more, much more, than suitably thick.

Can't have a chip buttie without butter!

Yeah, but it looks like the butter isn't spread up to the edges, which is A Sin!

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:09

NC you’re a senior person, director of a company - experience MTM yes NC this has been a debate which has been going for some time
MTM yes I’ve read about it in the papers, but I’m not interested in it

Well if that isn't the voice of privilege speaking.

I'm pretty sure SM didn't want to have to be interested in it either, until it showed up in her personal life in an un-ignorable manner.

OverTheWater28 · 18/11/2025 17:11

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:03

I fear it isn't. That seems quite a significant oversight, given that this person is a service user with an organization for people with mental health difficulties and is now being dragged into a very public tribunal.

Let's not go digging the dirt here please.

Caleb is a well known trans identifying female film maker in the area. There’s no digging required.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/11/2025 17:11

Madcats · 18/11/2025 12:41

It would be interesting to hear whether the observers thought that the Judge was losing patience with the MD.

Or maybe it is the way that Nick W is summarising things.

I think she was.

CraftandGlamour · 18/11/2025 17:13

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:09

NC you’re a senior person, director of a company - experience MTM yes NC this has been a debate which has been going for some time
MTM yes I’ve read about it in the papers, but I’m not interested in it

Well if that isn't the voice of privilege speaking.

I'm pretty sure SM didn't want to have to be interested in it either, until it showed up in her personal life in an un-ignorable manner.

This. In spades

WomanInnaWoods · 18/11/2025 17:14

MTM no - I didn’t care about her views one way or another

Clearly not.

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 17:14

There's an article here by a mum whose son says he's a woman in case of interest.
stilltish.substack.com/p/update-my-son

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:15

OverTheWater28 · 18/11/2025 17:11

Caleb is a well known trans identifying female film maker in the area. There’s no digging required.

Fair enough, but still seems unfortunate that there is no anonymity - unless Caleb waived this deliberately.

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 17:16

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:03

I fear it isn't. That seems quite a significant oversight, given that this person is a service user with an organization for people with mental health difficulties and is now being dragged into a very public tribunal.

Let's not go digging the dirt here please.

Agree with the concerns

Cailleach1 · 18/11/2025 17:16

I know they refer to a Company (the BFF). However, as far as I can make out, it just looks like a big taxpayer supported work scheme. They get the funding which covers some full time workers, and then there are volunteers. Are some of the part time positions funded as well?

There may be some money generated, but does that just pay for heating, petty cash, biscuit kitty etc.

Does that explain why they are just going around like ‘little ayatollahs’ pushing ideology and persecuting women who stand up for themselves, with no feeling they need to respect other people’s rights. There is no buck stop.

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/11/2025 17:17

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 14:42

From NW

MD she also had a docs ireland address
NC maybe, but she couldn’t see any BFF emails - and people might think she was being rude
MD or off sick, like she was
NC even off sick she could have put an ooo
MD or I could as I was doing all the IT

NC did you
MD no
NC and you removed her from the shared drive
MD that was not at the same time

NC it was around the same time - so she was effectively as a factory worker locked out of the factory
MD I don’t accept that

NC she had no email access, she was taken off the staff page, she was removed from the shared drive and then you asked for her keys - no wonder she felt she had been de facto suspended

MD says she borrowed SM’s keys and left them for her in the office and that SM could have come into the office at any time.

NC moves on to the trans-identifying man offering manicures and MD’s allegation was thaht SM said “urgh not with it”, calling the TiM it. Stand by it
MD yes
NC shocking and unpleasant

MD very odd - couldn’t quite believe I heard it
NC did you hear it?
MD yes
NC worse - that’s transphobia isn’t it - that’s what it looks like
MD yes

NC why not discipline her for it - could have reflected v badly on her
MD we were the only people in the room
NC and the man doing the manicures
MD the person who was part of the exhibit

NC but if he had heard that it would have reflected v badly on the BFF
MD I don’t know that
NC if she had behaved that way it was certainly misconduct
MD it was odd

NC are you asking the tribunal to believe referring to a TiM as “it” in his presence and in his earshot was not misconduct
MD I was trying to get my head round it - odd
NC it would be gross misconduct nad therefore dismissal wouldn’t it

Extra wrinkle on the keys.

SM's keys were taken back because MD needed them for an event. But this didn't deprive SM of office access because there was a spare key in the office.

DeanElderberry · 18/11/2025 17:21

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:04

The butter was in between the bread, was cut from a block straight from the fridge and as such more, much more, than suitably thick.

Can't have a chip buttie without butter!

You have no idea how relieved I am to read that. I was afraid you were weird.

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 18/11/2025 17:28

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:43

Thanks
@SexRealistic What was pretty important was that Michelle said she hadn’t seen the photo..she walked past as least 4 times a day in the lobby of their building... for six weeks.

Hadn't realised that. So she was probably lying then.

Walking past the described picture would make a pretty hostile work environment for someone who is GC

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 17:29

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 18/11/2025 17:28

Walking past the described picture would make a pretty hostile work environment for someone who is GC

Or anyone accompanied by children, or who keep their kinks and fetishes at home?.

Was it in BFF'S building?.

ProfLargofesse · 18/11/2025 17:30

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 16:52

MTM (3) If I remember correctly, her child is a trans woman, so she is misgendering her here (I might be wrong about that).

Bloody hell what does that say about MTM!??! She calls this troubling and misgendering?

SM is a mother FFS. How dare MTM judge SM for using the same words she has used about her own child all her life !?!? For seeing her own child with the same eyes she has seen him all his life?

What a prize expletive deleted MTM must be.

They are quoting from MC's email to MD, MTM did not say this. The issue is MC agitating the board to action beyond that of updating contracts which was MTM's position until then.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 18/11/2025 17:30

WomanInnaWoods · 18/11/2025 17:14

MTM no - I didn’t care about her views one way or another

Clearly not.

And it also begs the question, what exactly were they investigating? And what did the end report unveil?

If it was completely 'impartial', did they not consider whether there might also be some 'reputational risk' of being associated with organisations with which SM had concerns?

There is no way that was impartially about reputational risk if they did not go into this thoroughly and have this in the final report. In which case MTM would not be ignorant of the issues, as she signed it off.

ProfessorBettyBooper · 18/11/2025 17:31

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 18/11/2025 17:28

Walking past the described picture would make a pretty hostile work environment for someone who is GC

Or anybody with any decency, quite frankly.

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:32

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:48

From NW

[NC goes back to the bundle]
NC there’s no mention of the Caleb complaint being part of the iv
MTM correct

[Caleb was the person who went to Amie Martin, just to be clear]

NC if an employee is still at work after a complaint like that there’s risk she might do it again. She should be suspended
MTM it would be but she was not at point a danger to the organisation - the office was closing down, she

was going on holiday - and it’s only an allegation - we didn’t know it was true
NC you could pick up the phone to TP and ask them for advice, but you didn’t
MTM yes, theoretically, but the decision was to do the iv and “just get on with it”

NC there was no iv of this complaint becase no one ever really believed it was true
MTM I can’t speak for anyone. “I took it as a complaint. I neither believed or disbelieved it. If it was true it’s not really the way I would like someone employed by the Film Festival to act”

NC reads the Caleb email: “I drafted an email to you in November after having an incident with Sara Morrison during the
festival, and again on the 16th of April after Sara publically spoke at an anti-transgender rally in

Belfast city centre that was circulated online. On both occasions I opted not to send the emails,
feeling powerless and quite worried about the possibility of being exiled from the Belfast Film
Festival for speaking about my experience.” - this par is particularly implausible

MTM well you’re saying they had mental health issues and they’re young
NC there’s no way that a woman who identifies as a man would be abused by a TERF is there
MTM I don’t know what a TERF is - I have no knowledge of this whole debate - the letters, the different

factions etc etc - it is not an area that I have any expertise in
NC do you understand the terms sex realist or gender critical
MTM no

NC you’re telling the tribunal that you are giving evidence about a claim against the BFF for discrimination and you haven’t taken the time to acquaint yourself with the issues
MTM yes - an employee has done something which has caused complaints to be made, so I thought an

investigation was the best way to proceed. In the context of that process I might have learned
NC you stand accused of discriminating against someone based on their belief and you don’t know what it is

MTM “you may think me utterly blind or whatever”, but my starting point was that an employee had done something and it had caused problems for the org and we had to investigate it.
NC MD went off to get Equality Commission advice and you thought that was a good idea

MTM always think it’s a good idea
NC what protected characteristic did you think was being engaged?
MTM that SM might think she had the right to express views about trans people and that’s as far as it went

  • that she believed she had a protected right to express those views.
NC you’re a senior person, director of a company - experience MTM yes NC this has been a debate which has been going for some time

MTM yes I’ve read about it in the papers, but I’m not interested in it
NC would you not want to acquaint yourself with it more after being accused of discriminating against someone

MTM no - I didn’t care about her views one way or another - I wanted to protect the company and the best way to do it was an iv
NC so you say you wanted to do an iv but you hadn’t up til today taken an interest in it -

Edited

I'm on catch up but need to say

Fuck me!

This is painful.

ProfLargofesse · 18/11/2025 17:35

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/11/2025 17:17

Extra wrinkle on the keys.

SM's keys were taken back because MD needed them for an event. But this didn't deprive SM of office access because there was a spare key in the office.

Very good spot.

If there was a spare key why didn't MD use that instead of taking SM's.

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 17:35

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:32

I'm on catch up but need to say

Fuck me!

This is painful.

Agreed.

But we dont know what the alleged incident is? Or why anyone would simply believe it not to be true?

All a bit Jason's fishing trip

We do know that this email was received AFTER the decision to 'investigate' though, so their reliance on it as a justification for investigation is untrue.

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:38

MTM I’ve already said what I’ve said and I think Mr Owens will tell you himself when he gives evidence
J he’s not being called
MTM in my experience he’s a v accomplished HR expert and was “very impressed by him and I’m not
easily impressed but I was very impressed by him”

Translation: I was ecstatic he was sufficiently pliable that we could get him to come to the decision we wanted him to reach.

ProfLargofesse · 18/11/2025 17:39

SlackJawedDisbeliefXY · 18/11/2025 17:28

Walking past the described picture would make a pretty hostile work environment for someone who is GC

It was very cleverly done of NC (natch) but it would seem that SM and MD were walking by it and SM made some comment of disgust at the art, perfectly entitled to be critical of any form of very graphic art, most folk do, then to serve her own ends MD re-invented this as SM describing a transwoman as 'it', which I do not believe she did for one holy minute.

I do believe she would say that she found it, meaning the art, disgusting.

It has a very different context and meaning and further confirms, to me at least, how at it MD was in the whole process and in her WS.

MarieDeGournay · 18/11/2025 17:41

ProfessorBettyBooper · 18/11/2025 17:30

And it also begs the question, what exactly were they investigating? And what did the end report unveil?

If it was completely 'impartial', did they not consider whether there might also be some 'reputational risk' of being associated with organisations with which SM had concerns?

There is no way that was impartially about reputational risk if they did not go into this thoroughly and have this in the final report. In which case MTM would not be ignorant of the issues, as she signed it off.

It's also interesting what 'reputation' they thought they - a film festival organisation, not a trans group - had to protect.

No worries, obvs, about their reputation as a film festival organisation which serves all parts of the community without fear or favour, which would be damaged if they did something awful like hounding an employee out of her job because of her WORIADS opinions...

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ProfLargofesse · 18/11/2025 17:42

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:38

MTM I’ve already said what I’ve said and I think Mr Owens will tell you himself when he gives evidence
J he’s not being called
MTM in my experience he’s a v accomplished HR expert and was “very impressed by him and I’m not
easily impressed but I was very impressed by him”

Translation: I was ecstatic he was sufficiently pliable that we could get him to come to the decision we wanted him to reach.

I think the panel are allowed to infer what they like from the fact he has not been called which is different from him being unavailable (unless I missed something where the court were told he was unavailable).

It is quite possible to infer by the fact that he is not being called that he, unlike the others, is not willing to lie about the fact that the chief whips were LSD and MTM and that he was expected to merely nod it through and make sure process looked fancy-pants HR enough.

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