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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 14:41

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Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:48

So fed up of this crap by TRAs - the current witness stated (according to Nick's tweets)

'As you'll know "I'm standing up for the rights of women" is the
argument used by conservatives and religious people in several countries, and a new staple of the anti-LGBTQ anti-lslamic right. '

Every single normal woman who recognises reality of sex is tarred by these nutters.

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:48

From NW

[NC goes back to the bundle]
NC there’s no mention of the Caleb complaint being part of the iv
MTM correct

[Caleb was the person who went to Amie Martin, just to be clear]

NC if an employee is still at work after a complaint like that there’s risk she might do it again. She should be suspended
MTM it would be but she was not at point a danger to the organisation - the office was closing down, she

was going on holiday - and it’s only an allegation - we didn’t know it was true
NC you could pick up the phone to TP and ask them for advice, but you didn’t
MTM yes, theoretically, but the decision was to do the iv and “just get on with it”

NC there was no iv of this complaint becase no one ever really believed it was true
MTM I can’t speak for anyone. “I took it as a complaint. I neither believed or disbelieved it. If it was true it’s not really the way I would like someone employed by the Film Festival to act”

NC reads the Caleb email: “I drafted an email to you in November after having an incident with Sara Morrison during the
festival, and again on the 16th of April after Sara publically spoke at an anti-transgender rally in

Belfast city centre that was circulated online. On both occasions I opted not to send the emails,
feeling powerless and quite worried about the possibility of being exiled from the Belfast Film
Festival for speaking about my experience.” - this par is particularly implausible

MTM well you’re saying they had mental health issues and they’re young
NC there’s no way that a woman who identifies as a man would be abused by a TERF is there
MTM I don’t know what a TERF is - I have no knowledge of this whole debate - the letters, the different

factions etc etc - it is not an area that I have any expertise in
NC do you understand the terms sex realist or gender critical
MTM no

NC you’re telling the tribunal that you are giving evidence about a claim against the BFF for discrimination and you haven’t taken the time to acquaint yourself with the issues
MTM yes - an employee has done something which has caused complaints to be made, so I thought an

investigation was the best way to proceed. In the context of that process I might have learned
NC you stand accused of discriminating against someone based on their belief and you don’t know what it is

MTM “you may think me utterly blind or whatever”, but my starting point was that an employee had done something and it had caused problems for the org and we had to investigate it.
NC MD went off to get Equality Commission advice and you thought that was a good idea

MTM always think it’s a good idea
NC what protected characteristic did you think was being engaged?
MTM that SM might think she had the right to express views about trans people and that’s as far as it went

  • that she believed she had a protected right to express those views.
NC you’re a senior person, director of a company - experience MTM yes NC this has been a debate which has been going for some time

MTM yes I’ve read about it in the papers, but I’m not interested in it
NC would you not want to acquaint yourself with it more after being accused of discriminating against someone

MTM no - I didn’t care about her views one way or another - I wanted to protect the company and the best way to do it was an iv
NC so you say you wanted to do an iv but you hadn’t up til today taken an interest in it -

MarieDeGournay · 18/11/2025 16:51

Well done for getting a new job during the Cloudfare outage, weegielass!🍾

In stark contrast, I got a haircut and a parking ticket😒

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ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:52

From NW

I’m trying to think of an example - what if you had been accused of antisemitism - would you read up about that
MTM it’s “absurd” to say that antisemitism is any way equivalent- the world knows about antisemitism, the

holocaust happened. we have not being discussing trans rights and gender ID for 00s and 00s and 00s of year. I don’t do social media and largely the info I get is through the newspapers and its one of those areas I just glance through

NC you were until recently principle and CEO of Belfast Metropolitan College
MTM yes
NC And are you aware of BMC’s policies with regard to trans-identified people

MTM no because I left in 2020 and I don’t have a memory of discussing trans rights - discussing gender neutral toilets etc after I retired.

NC you knew Caleb’s allegation was made up. you knew it was offered up as support of your action against SM - that’s why you didn’t investigate

MTM it had to be taken seriously
NC Caleb is employed by Outburst arts isn’t he
MTM I don’t know
NC if he is, it's odd that three complaints come in quick succession from one org

MTM people talk to each other - not that surprising

[new subject]

NC do you not think you were not the best person to sit in on SM’s grievance appeal

MTM no
NC but part of the G appeal was about the decision to investigate and how it was taken - was it okay for you to be presiding over an appeal for a G provoked partly by an iv deicsion to which you were a party

MTM you’re saying that - I was supportive of the idea. with regard to the appeal I was there to listen and make commentary and note process. Mr Owens led it.
NC “was this not a bit too much like being judge in your own cause”

MTM “you might say that I couldn’t agree with you”
NC and you said Emmet Owens led the process, you were v much the senior partner in this pairing weren’t you

MTM I think we were equals in the process - he was very thorough, he led all the questioning on the day and he wrote the final report
NC appeal hearing on 30 Sep - you say you reviewed your notes - which notes did you review

MTM the package of things that were in front of us that day
NC appeal report in Nov and it was issued to C on same day. Didn’t see any drafts?
MTM no - we wanted to do it as quickly as possible

NC it’s quite a chunky report isn’t it
MTM it’s chunky enough, but an hour would take you through it - reviewing it against my notes I was very happy with his diligence
NC so you approved it unchanged

MTM yes
NC I am going to suggest you knew exactly what it was going to say as you were the senior person on this
MTM no

NC you did the appeal, LBD did the initial grievance so the two directors intimately involved in kicking off the investigation were now controlling the process.
MTM we were not intimately involved and we did not have any influence over the process. [stars waxing

lyrical about Mr Owens brilliance]
NC you got TP in to look impartial, but both the people you engaged had a board minder to ensure you got the result you wanted.

MTM I’ve already said what I’ve said and I think Mr Owens will tell you himself when he gives evidence
J he’s not being called
MTM in my experience he’s a v accomplished HR expert and was “very impressed by him and I’m not

easily impressed but I was very impressed by him”

MTM the reality is that a voluntary board did not have the time or expertise to undertake iv, so they were brought in to bring that expertise to us in the same way if we had a building contract, we’d bring in a

builder, if we had a legal issue, we’d bring in a lawyer - we didn’t have the skillset, so we brought in a company to ensure it was done properly and it was done in a very professional way.
NC no further evidence

[SD re-ex]
[SD picks her up on her agreement with NC about SM’s contract.]
SD Where does it say anything about regular employment
MTM now you mention it it doesn’t

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 16:52

MTM (3) If I remember correctly, her child is a trans woman, so she is misgendering her here (I might be wrong about that).

Bloody hell what does that say about MTM!??! She calls this troubling and misgendering?

SM is a mother FFS. How dare MTM judge SM for using the same words she has used about her own child all her life !?!? For seeing her own child with the same eyes she has seen him all his life?

What a prize expletive deleted MTM must be.

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:52

Also struck by this witness accusing the claimant of 'misgendering' her own child. As a mother myself , I think I know what sex baby I gave birth too- seems to me she really is looking to target the claimant in a deeply personal area where she is facing a lot of distress. I recall a really sad and moving mother of a trans identifying child taking about the depth of her hurt about this, when people tried to force her to lie about her own child.

In the UK (not sure about Ireland) the Gender Recognition Act only protects children of a trans ID man (ie he's always a father, and a mother a mother). Not sure where that leaves mums, but I think in the original parliament discussion MPs said they

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:53

@AmaryllisNightAndDay cross posts!

NoBinturongsHereMate · 18/11/2025 16:53

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 11:27

Hows MDs 'tone' in court today?

She has 3 notably different ones.

  • Fluent and expansive.
  • Verbose but with lots of hesitation, backtracks, repetition and contradictions.
  • Sullen monosylables.

You might infer that these relate in some way to whether she is:

  • Being truthful about an irrelevant diversion from the topic.
  • Engaged in an extended lie replying to an open question.
  • Backed into a corner with a closed question.

I couldn't possibly comment on which might be which.

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:55

From NW

SD what was the purpose of the iv
MTM to look at everything in the round - what had happened in the past and subsequently.
[re-ex ends]

And that was it! Fellow BFF co-chair Lisa Barrod D'Sa gives evidence tomorrow, then BFF director and founder Laurence McKeown and BFF employee Moyra Lock - proceedings start at 10am.

If you'd like a report concatenating everything which...

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:56

From NW

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ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 16:57

From NW

Thread ends! Thanks very much for reading. Hope you have a good evening. Same again (hopefully without a massive internet outage) tomorrow!

Nick

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 16:57

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 16:52

MTM (3) If I remember correctly, her child is a trans woman, so she is misgendering her here (I might be wrong about that).

Bloody hell what does that say about MTM!??! She calls this troubling and misgendering?

SM is a mother FFS. How dare MTM judge SM for using the same words she has used about her own child all her life !?!? For seeing her own child with the same eyes she has seen him all his life?

What a prize expletive deleted MTM must be.

I think this is MYM, on NC request, reading out MC email.

So the words are MC, describing his interaction with SM in the bar

ProfessorMyAmpleSheep · 18/11/2025 16:58

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 16:52

MTM (3) If I remember correctly, her child is a trans woman, so she is misgendering her here (I might be wrong about that).

Bloody hell what does that say about MTM!??! She calls this troubling and misgendering?

SM is a mother FFS. How dare MTM judge SM for using the same words she has used about her own child all her life !?!? For seeing her own child with the same eyes she has seen him all his life?

What a prize expletive deleted MTM must be.

How is it possible for MTM both to have an opinion about "misgendering" and still claim ignorance of trans controversy?

NC you’re telling the tribunal that you are giving evidence about a claim against the BFF for discrimination and you haven’t taken the time to acquaint yourself with the issues
MTM yes - an employee has done something which has caused complaints to be made, so I thought ...

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 16:58

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:52

Also struck by this witness accusing the claimant of 'misgendering' her own child. As a mother myself , I think I know what sex baby I gave birth too- seems to me she really is looking to target the claimant in a deeply personal area where she is facing a lot of distress. I recall a really sad and moving mother of a trans identifying child taking about the depth of her hurt about this, when people tried to force her to lie about her own child.

In the UK (not sure about Ireland) the Gender Recognition Act only protects children of a trans ID man (ie he's always a father, and a mother a mother). Not sure where that leaves mums, but I think in the original parliament discussion MPs said they

I think this is MYM, on NC request, reading out MC email.

So the words are MC, describing his interaction with SM in the bar

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 17:00

Dod we get detail of 'the Caleb complaint' somewhere?

Hoping Caleb is a pseudonym or something otherwise that anonymity request has rather passed them all by

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 18/11/2025 17:00

That was a lot!

I considered doing a screen recording to show you how I do it, but thought it best just to get the posts out there. You may have to reread one of them as I posted two bits in the edit.

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 17:00

Thanks @ProfessorOfAllTheThings

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 18/11/2025 17:00

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 16:58

I think this is MYM, on NC request, reading out MC email.

So the words are MC, describing his interaction with SM in the bar

Bless MC he really can love everyone, can't he? 👀

MarieDeGournay · 18/11/2025 17:01

NC you’re telling the tribunal that you are giving evidence about a claim against the BFF for discrimination and you haven’t taken the time to acquaint yourself with the issue

I thought this was a devastating q, but...water off a duck's back.
They all know they are 1000% right, don't they?😠

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AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 17:03

Chariothorses · 18/11/2025 16:52

Also struck by this witness accusing the claimant of 'misgendering' her own child. As a mother myself , I think I know what sex baby I gave birth too- seems to me she really is looking to target the claimant in a deeply personal area where she is facing a lot of distress. I recall a really sad and moving mother of a trans identifying child taking about the depth of her hurt about this, when people tried to force her to lie about her own child.

In the UK (not sure about Ireland) the Gender Recognition Act only protects children of a trans ID man (ie he's always a father, and a mother a mother). Not sure where that leaves mums, but I think in the original parliament discussion MPs said they

You'd think that even if MTM totally believed TWAW she'd find some empathy for a mother's feelings. You'd think most normal adults would recognise that their offspring deciding to transition would come as a mighty shock to most parents. No matter how liberal the parents felt about trans people in general.

Clearly not. Some people are so deep in they even stop thinking and feeling.

(I am finding this hard to get past)

InvisibleDragon · 18/11/2025 17:03

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 17:00

Dod we get detail of 'the Caleb complaint' somewhere?

Hoping Caleb is a pseudonym or something otherwise that anonymity request has rather passed them all by

I fear it isn't. That seems quite a significant oversight, given that this person is a service user with an organization for people with mental health difficulties and is now being dragged into a very public tribunal.

Let's not go digging the dirt here please.

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 18/11/2025 17:04

DeanElderberry · 18/11/2025 16:29

People's food choices are people's food choices and I envy anyone who can eat proper sliced white bread, but is that not seriously butter-deficient?

The butter was in between the bread, was cut from a block straight from the fridge and as such more, much more, than suitably thick.

Can't have a chip buttie without butter!

Madcats · 18/11/2025 17:04

MTM I’ve already said what I’ve said and I think Mr Owens will tell you himself when he gives evidence
J: he’s not being called

The Judge has stolen NC's line: "Well we would ask him, but the Respondants haven't called him"

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 18/11/2025 17:04

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 18/11/2025 16:58

I think this is MYM, on NC request, reading out MC email.

So the words are MC, describing his interaction with SM in the bar

Ah OK, thanks Prof! Then I will shift my revulsion to MC.

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