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Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 14:41

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ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 20:11

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 19:08

MY PRONOUNS ARE SIR/DAME tshirt please @ProfessorBoiledbeetle 😂 (am kidding pls dont feel obliged to go to AI when we could do it ourselves if we really wanted to!)

Tshirt? A postcard surely!

Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4
ProfessorofSelfPortraiture · 17/11/2025 20:25

PachacutisBadAuntie · 17/11/2025 19:22

I went to Brownies, once.

Anyone else read this in a forlorn Sir Andrew Aguecheek kind of way? 😂

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 20:34

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 19:09

Blimey Belfast is a small world.

In this case, SD is there, and the KC for the NI gov re transgender policy in prisons is the above friend of RM, Laura McMahon!

https://archive.ph/CaOQb

(All nothing to do with SM and BFF of course.)

Edited

Sorry brain is slowing down - unpack the initials pretty please 🙏

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 20:34

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 20:11

Tshirt? A postcard surely!

God I need this so badly

DowagerDuchessLadyAirCommodoreCrocsNotDocsVC · 17/11/2025 20:37

I’m probably late to the party as I just woke up in Australia but I manifested in my sleep last night and am now who I always have been.

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 20:39

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 20:34

Sorry brain is slowing down - unpack the initials pretty please 🙏

SD = Seán Doherty/BFF
RM= Ruth s? can't remember her surname sorry of Outburst who wrote a letter possibly at the behest of MD
Laura MacMahon =friend of RM

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ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 20:47

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 20:39

SD = Seán Doherty/BFF
RM= Ruth s? can't remember her surname sorry of Outburst who wrote a letter possibly at the behest of MD
Laura MacMahon =friend of RM

Sorry yes.

So Ruth McCarthy who wrote the email on behalf of Outburst.

Is best friends with a barrister called Laura McMahon

Who was the KC representing the NI government in a legal challenge from a TW that Sean Doherty defended on an assault charge. The TW was housed in a female jail in line with the NI gov policy.

ETA - originally went to a male jail and then mounted a case for a judicial review

archive.ph/kwG0x

Redshoeblueshoe · 17/11/2025 20:53

DowagerDuchessLadyAirCommodoreCrocsNotDocsVC · 17/11/2025 20:37

I’m probably late to the party as I just woke up in Australia but I manifested in my sleep last night and am now who I always have been.

You manifested well. Your Highness

Easytoconfuse · 17/11/2025 21:11

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 19:12

Can people who are more familiar with ETs speak to whether the quite shocking rudeness and inappropriate jokes are a regular feature of witness testimony. I can understand a bit of snippyness under stress but here, and in the Fife case, we have seen a fair amount of sarcasm or hostility, as though witnesses don't seem to bring their basic 'work manners' to court with them?

I thought those were their basic work manners as in 'I don't waste time on people like you... (imagine sneer) There are the elect and those who deserve to burn in hell and they don't waste time, effort or sympathy on the second group. In fact, they keep a box of firelighters handy to help the flames get good and hot. (Apologies to all the various professionals who fight the odds for the people they're supposed to help. You are valued and appreciated and not allowed to admit that you know what I mean.)

Easytoconfuse · 17/11/2025 21:14

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 20:11

Tshirt? A postcard surely!

Does anyone else watch Dr Who? If so, do they remember The Meep? They didn't have pronouns. They were the definite article. I rather fancy that, especially the bit when cute and fluffy said 'oh, to hell with it and grew fangs.' In our household, that is now called channelling our inner Meep.

Lunde · 17/11/2025 21:23

All this talk of Brownies reminds me of doing my "Hostess" badge in the 1960s when I was 7 or 8 - judged severely by the ladies of the church who used me as free labour at a Christmas do (I even had to wear a little pinny).

I learned some useful skills ....
Making pots of tea
Being sent to the house of "dragon woman" to learn how to make peppermint creams and how to stuff marzipan into those sticky "Eat Me" dates
How to fold napkins into a "Bishop's Mitre" shape

borntobequiet · 17/11/2025 21:27

I trained as a proper silver service waitress and am proud of my napkin folding skills. I daresay I should be Vice Chancellor of something. Maybe a catering college.

PachacutisBadAuntie · 17/11/2025 21:28

ProfessorofSelfPortraiture · 17/11/2025 20:25

Anyone else read this in a forlorn Sir Andrew Aguecheek kind of way? 😂

😂 I didn't take to it at all! I was a wild little beast of the field. I was in the Girl Guides later though, that was fine.

JanesLittleGirl · 17/11/2025 21:29

OK. I'm going to trump every story about getting to University for the first time. My Dad and I rocked up in the Hall of Residence car park and looked down at the little people carriers and Chelsea tractors that the other students had arrived in. Our vehicle was a giant in comparison: a Swedish V8 4WD delivering 530hp with 14 forward gears. Actually, it was a Scania 144 tractor unit pulling a refrigerated drag full of pork carcasses and my Dad was just dropping me off on his way but it was quite the entrance.

borntobequiet · 17/11/2025 21:32

Our Brownies was dire. We spent the first few months embroidering mats to sit on and then I got a washing up badge. Then one day my Sprite friend took umbrage at the Pixies sniggering at us as we two (it was the flu season) danced around the toadstool and kicked it up into the air in a fit of rage. All the pennies went everywhere. I laughed immoderately and we were both rapidly ejected, such a relief, it was excruciatingly boring.

Domesticatednottamed · 17/11/2025 21:36

borntobequiet · 17/11/2025 21:32

Our Brownies was dire. We spent the first few months embroidering mats to sit on and then I got a washing up badge. Then one day my Sprite friend took umbrage at the Pixies sniggering at us as we two (it was the flu season) danced around the toadstool and kicked it up into the air in a fit of rage. All the pennies went everywhere. I laughed immoderately and we were both rapidly ejected, such a relief, it was excruciatingly boring.

I honestly don't know how I stuck it out, what with the daft Snowy Owl and Brown Owl basically getting her housework done everytime anyone did a householders badge, tho we did have to bring our own socks for the sock washing, for which I am retrospectively devoutly thankful.
It might have been for the singing, if there was singing I'd put up with all sorts of boringness.

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 21:40

JanesLittleGirl · 17/11/2025 21:29

OK. I'm going to trump every story about getting to University for the first time. My Dad and I rocked up in the Hall of Residence car park and looked down at the little people carriers and Chelsea tractors that the other students had arrived in. Our vehicle was a giant in comparison: a Swedish V8 4WD delivering 530hp with 14 forward gears. Actually, it was a Scania 144 tractor unit pulling a refrigerated drag full of pork carcasses and my Dad was just dropping me off on his way but it was quite the entrance.

Yep! I don't think anyone can top that! 😘

ProfessorStlcakethereforeIam · 17/11/2025 21:44

I think we can vote for the terfy bunnies again.

ContentedAlpaca · 17/11/2025 21:58

DrBlackbird · 17/11/2025 19:24

So the J denied the request to recuse MM, but my god all those documents listed and organisations cross referenced re NISPI precisely highlights how deeply gender ideology is embedded in and embodied by union/s.

It took decades for this to take hold and it’ll take decades to prune it back to something reasonable.

Thinking how long it took me to go from thinking this one chap who says he's a woman seems ok, though a bit sad and vulnerable and therefore probably all the others are (around 2014), to a more neutral position, I don't think anyone who has undergone institutional brainwashing will get to a neutral stance in the course of one tribunal, even if they try not to have any biases.

MadeOneMistakeGotBurnedAtTheStake · 17/11/2025 21:59

I went to Brownies, my cousin went to Majorettes, I was mad jealous.

EdithStourton · 17/11/2025 22:04

JanesLittleGirl · 17/11/2025 21:29

OK. I'm going to trump every story about getting to University for the first time. My Dad and I rocked up in the Hall of Residence car park and looked down at the little people carriers and Chelsea tractors that the other students had arrived in. Our vehicle was a giant in comparison: a Swedish V8 4WD delivering 530hp with 14 forward gears. Actually, it was a Scania 144 tractor unit pulling a refrigerated drag full of pork carcasses and my Dad was just dropping me off on his way but it was quite the entrance.

Wonderful!

With all this chat about Brownies, I went to Brownies in Forrin Parts where we had none of this wet elves and sprites nonsense.

The most useful thing I learned was how to lay a fire, which has stood me in good stead. Unlike my efforts to get a deportment badge, or whatever it was called. I had no natural talent in that direction, and not much inclination to make an effort. Pyromania, on the other hand...

ickky · 17/11/2025 22:05

ProfessorEmerita · 17/11/2025 17:49

Possibly. The pellet with the poison’s in the vessel with the pestle.

No, I just liked the way it rhymed. 😀

socialdilemmawhattodo · 17/11/2025 22:06

LondonProfessor66 · 17/11/2025 19:15

I did a red cross childcare certificate 45 years ago where we were taught the difference between girls and boys. I could apply to be CEO or as an alternative I could apply to be an A&E consultant as I know more anatomy and genetics than some of the rest of the team.

Well hold on a min. I've watched religiously Holby, Doctors and Casualty for years. Reckon that qualifies me. I know the signs.

ickky · 17/11/2025 22:07

ProfessorStlcakethereforeIam · 17/11/2025 17:09

This was the type of imp badge I wore 😲 Fucking terrifying. MN might censor it. I wouldn't blame them.

What sort of Wicker Man shit is that?

Were they trying to traumatise you?

ickky · 17/11/2025 22:10

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 16:58

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