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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 14:41

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NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 19:08

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:05

Seriously impressed with grade 8 violin - please accept a knighthood!

MY PRONOUNS ARE SIR/DAME tshirt please @ProfessorBoiledbeetle 😂 (am kidding pls dont feel obliged to go to AI when we could do it ourselves if we really wanted to!)

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 19:09

Blimey Belfast is a small world.

In this case, SD is there, and the KC for the NI gov re transgender policy in prisons is the above friend of RM, Laura McMahon!

https://archive.ph/CaOQb

(All nothing to do with SM and BFF of course.)

CriticalCondition · 17/11/2025 19:09

The Outburst outburst felt like a tweaked template to me. It seemed too structured and considered somehow. I would love to run it through that software they use to detect plagiarism in essays and see if there is a level of similarity with the other responses.

I have no idea if it works this way but am amusing myself with the thought that the software can give a percentage 'match' DNA style. And red lights start to flash.

Domesticatednottamed · 17/11/2025 19:09

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:05

Seriously impressed with grade 8 violin - please accept a knighthood!

Kneels expectantly.

I was pondering Empress but could go with the gender bending, child of the 70s.

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:11

Domesticatednottamed · 17/11/2025 19:09

Kneels expectantly.

I was pondering Empress but could go with the gender bending, child of the 70s.

Luckily enough i am the king! I hearby knight you empress - chief child of the 70s. You may rise dear empress :-)

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 19:12

Can people who are more familiar with ETs speak to whether the quite shocking rudeness and inappropriate jokes are a regular feature of witness testimony. I can understand a bit of snippyness under stress but here, and in the Fife case, we have seen a fair amount of sarcasm or hostility, as though witnesses don't seem to bring their basic 'work manners' to court with them?

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 19:14

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 19:02

To be fair to you all, I think that after seeing the way SP was buoyed up by all the support postcards she received then, as Fife's first and only Professor of Support Postcards, I will obviously be a shoe-in for the CEO role. But if you all apply with your doctorates in crossing roads safely and making elegant forward rolls, then everyone in Fife can know that I beat off a high level of competition for the role.

I look forward to removing the problematic datix system, and inviting the local Scout troops to implement an internal postcard system for the safe collection of clinical and organisational data.

I will pay the Scouts in Snickers bars, and promote the best of them to befriend anaphylactic children and encourage them to remain in the waiting area until the kind emergency doctors have finished crying and are ready to see them.

I think you'd be perfect for CEO.

Also can you sort Ulysses whilst you are sorting datix. It's just as shit and what they used in Darlington I think.

LondonProfessor66 · 17/11/2025 19:15

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 18:48

Please may we all send our newly enhanced CVs to NHSFife HR dept by way of applying for the newly vacated CEO post?

I did a red cross childcare certificate 45 years ago where we were taught the difference between girls and boys. I could apply to be CEO or as an alternative I could apply to be an A&E consultant as I know more anatomy and genetics than some of the rest of the team.

socialdilemmawhattodo · 17/11/2025 19:20

CriticalCondition · 17/11/2025 19:09

The Outburst outburst felt like a tweaked template to me. It seemed too structured and considered somehow. I would love to run it through that software they use to detect plagiarism in essays and see if there is a level of similarity with the other responses.

I have no idea if it works this way but am amusing myself with the thought that the software can give a percentage 'match' DNA style. And red lights start to flash.

It does do to some extent. I used a free one recently - needed to check a newsletter submission. It came back as 19% - I wasnt sure where that left me!

PachacutisBadAuntie · 17/11/2025 19:22

I went to Brownies, once.

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 19:22

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 19:09

Blimey Belfast is a small world.

In this case, SD is there, and the KC for the NI gov re transgender policy in prisons is the above friend of RM, Laura McMahon!

https://archive.ph/CaOQb

(All nothing to do with SM and BFF of course.)

Edited

You couldn't make that up, could you??
NI is a very very small place on a very small island.
I suppose the justice system works as long as everybody maintains a high standard of honesty and ethics and compartmentalising, and I expect/hope most people do.
There will be exceptions, of course😏

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DrBlackbird · 17/11/2025 19:24

So the J denied the request to recuse MM, but my god all those documents listed and organisations cross referenced re NISPI precisely highlights how deeply gender ideology is embedded in and embodied by union/s.

It took decades for this to take hold and it’ll take decades to prune it back to something reasonable.

CriticalCondition · 17/11/2025 19:27

socialdilemmawhattodo · 17/11/2025 19:20

It does do to some extent. I used a free one recently - needed to check a newsletter submission. It came back as 19% - I wasnt sure where that left me!

I think you can sleep easy with that result! For the purposes of civil evidence I'm saying 50% would satisfy a balance of probabilities test. <Identifies as an employment judge and bangs gavel>

Madcats · 17/11/2025 19:28

ProfessorFanOfBen · 17/11/2025 18:13

Possibly outing as so unusual these days, but as someone who does not own a car and has offspring at university, I was shocked to find that (at least, where offspring is) these days they have to move out of their rooms completely every term, with no possibility to leave anything stored at university. Fortunately there are storage services marketed at students for exactly this eventuality, which will take boxes away for you and bring them back for the next term! Offspring has developed a usefully stringent approach to what Stuff is necessary.

Is that a catered hall, Prof FOB? most Unis have a few enterprising blokes who make a business of shifting boxes of stuff to/from storage. I suppose the days of being able to shove everything into a locked cupboard in a room, leaving an empty wardrobe for conference visitors are long gone.

Back in my Uni days, there used to be a hefty guards van for bikes, trunks and all sorts of random stuff. I remember a stud Corgi used to get sent off in his “box/crate” from my station. Presumably he had a minder, but I don’t remember one.

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:29

There was the email upthread. Sent to MD. I read it but can’t find it just now. It talks about posy Parker as being fascist and homophobic and ……. I could be more specific if i could go back and find it. Meanwhile in the real world. She just believes like we do that men need to not be in women’s spaces. Anyone putting their heads above the parapet gets shot. She has put herself forward and has been attacked. But she just seems to believe in absolute common sense?

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 19:33

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 19:22

You couldn't make that up, could you??
NI is a very very small place on a very small island.
I suppose the justice system works as long as everybody maintains a high standard of honesty and ethics and compartmentalising, and I expect/hope most people do.
There will be exceptions, of course😏

Absolutely mad that every click has people linked with the next (and in this case the KC is defending putting TiM in women's jails and SD is the defence for the TW - presumably the cab ranknrile could have seen both on the opposing sides though?).

EdithStourton · 17/11/2025 19:47

ProfessorFanOfBen · 17/11/2025 18:13

Possibly outing as so unusual these days, but as someone who does not own a car and has offspring at university, I was shocked to find that (at least, where offspring is) these days they have to move out of their rooms completely every term, with no possibility to leave anything stored at university. Fortunately there are storage services marketed at students for exactly this eventuality, which will take boxes away for you and bring them back for the next term! Offspring has developed a usefully stringent approach to what Stuff is necessary.

My offsprings did not.
They ended up in awe of my car-Tetris ability to fit the most incredible selection of Stuff into a confined space.

Maybe I should get a 'Prising stuff into spaces' professorship.

thewaythatyoudoit · 17/11/2025 19:48

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 18:48

Please may we all send our newly enhanced CVs to NHSFife HR dept by way of applying for the newly vacated CEO post?

I’m going for the BBC job, I’m vastly over-qualified for Fife (prize-winning poem about a photo of chimpanzees under an umbrella, published in Princess magazine)

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:49

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:29

There was the email upthread. Sent to MD. I read it but can’t find it just now. It talks about posy Parker as being fascist and homophobic and ……. I could be more specific if i could go back and find it. Meanwhile in the real world. She just believes like we do that men need to not be in women’s spaces. Anyone putting their heads above the parapet gets shot. She has put herself forward and has been attacked. But she just seems to believe in absolute common sense?

I have found the email from outburst to MD on 4th July. (Upthread). They accused posy Parker of being anti-trans and anti-queer. So sorry i should have found it before commenting. I don’t believe she is anti-trans and anti-queer. Although she may be. I think she is just not wanting men in women’s spaces same as ourselves. People can dress as they want and do as they want so long as it affects no one else.

rebax · 17/11/2025 19:52

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 18:12

Thank you to you and socialdilemmawhattodo.
I know I'm swimming against the tide, but a few things have seemed a bit... tenuous, a bit of a reach, and therefore a bit unfair, and I had to say so.

I am a fan of NC too, and any time I've slightly doubted her in the past, she has proved me precipitous and wrong, and I hope she proves me wrong again.

But she'll have to produce something very convincing to justify bringing up three women's relationship status [not just MD and Ruth, but the uninvolved partner is now part of this too] in 2011...

edited to say this was in reply to a post which didn't get quoted when I thought it did!

Edited

You have to bear in mind that NC needs to get into the record things that will be useful, even after the re-direct, and outside Belfast if there are appeals.

Working with someone for a couple of years, some 10-15 years ago can be easily be downplayed as "barely knew her"; on the other hand "took her boyfriend" implies a much closer relationship which extended outside work.

"took her boyfriend" also shortcuts a difficult line of "how well did you know her" questioning, which the judge could easily shut down.

Was it nice; No. Was it important; Yes.

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:54

rebax · 17/11/2025 19:52

You have to bear in mind that NC needs to get into the record things that will be useful, even after the re-direct, and outside Belfast if there are appeals.

Working with someone for a couple of years, some 10-15 years ago can be easily be downplayed as "barely knew her"; on the other hand "took her boyfriend" implies a much closer relationship which extended outside work.

"took her boyfriend" also shortcuts a difficult line of "how well did you know her" questioning, which the judge could easily shut down.

Was it nice; No. Was it important; Yes.

Ps i think it was her girlfriend. Not boyfriend.

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:55

Namechanged999999 · 17/11/2025 19:54

Ps i think it was her girlfriend. Not boyfriend.

No judgement there. Just saying.

CriticalCondition · 17/11/2025 19:56

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 19:33

Absolutely mad that every click has people linked with the next (and in this case the KC is defending putting TiM in women's jails and SD is the defence for the TW - presumably the cab ranknrile could have seen both on the opposing sides though?).

SD was defending the TW in the criminal proceedings and McMahon was acting for the government in the judicial review on the policy. Different kinds of proceedings, quite different kinds of law. Unlikely to find the barristers on opposite sides in the same case because their specialisms are different.

FallenSloppyDead2 · 17/11/2025 19:56

rebax · 17/11/2025 19:52

You have to bear in mind that NC needs to get into the record things that will be useful, even after the re-direct, and outside Belfast if there are appeals.

Working with someone for a couple of years, some 10-15 years ago can be easily be downplayed as "barely knew her"; on the other hand "took her boyfriend" implies a much closer relationship which extended outside work.

"took her boyfriend" also shortcuts a difficult line of "how well did you know her" questioning, which the judge could easily shut down.

Was it nice; No. Was it important; Yes.

Was it nice; No. Was it important; Yes.

Nice was what got us into this mess in the first place. I'm over being nice.

Blue Peter badge for a joke about a goldfish

NoBinturongsHereMate · 17/11/2025 20:09

MD said the oddest thing. When she was offered to finish up today and be released from oath she said something along the line of - It’s been long and it’s exhausting being under oath and not being able to talk to anyone. So the normal follow on would be, let’s get this over with (since she’d only been on the stand 40mins or so). Instead she said so I’m happy to be under oath again tonight.

Yes, that struck me too. The proposal was a brief break then another hour or so, but she chose another whole night of waiting.

I also noticed in the "verbal gymnastics" answer she said (rather snippily) "I've already said, there are men and women and transmen and transwomen." But I'm pretty certain she hadn't. MC said that as part of his evidence. (Witnesses can be in the room when others are giving testimony, MD was there for all of MC's cross.)

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