Recent exchange on X:
Whittle: 'Some people, all too quickly, forget the promise they made when their baby was born “I will do anything for you to be happy” - a commitment to letting a child grow, boundaries that do not destroy their imagination, & make no expectations of them beyond becoming a good citizen'
Other Xer:( No one is telling children that they are not valued- growing up is confusing for many children & it’s the role of parents to help & support their children them And some that support may involve saying “no”)
Whittle: 'I have no problem with that, but good parenting also includes recognising a young person’s developing autonomy. How do we support their mental as well as physical wellbeing? By being open to many possibilities, with our hands outstretched. & ready to catch them when they fall'
I mean these are platitudes. But bear in mind the discussion in question is whether a two year old child shoudl be affirmed when he says he's a girl.
“I will do anything for you to be happy”
Is a strangely controlling and pointless phrase. One can't make one's child happy. One can ensure their safety, do one's best, nurture, coach, teach, care for them.
'By being open to many possibilities'
Yes. But changing sex is not a possibility.