No worries, I get that. I don’t usually post a lot on Mumsnet - I mostly come here to read up on things (like the BFF/Sara Morrison tribunal) where other people know a lot more than me, but I do, or did, post on other websites so I get when someone “new” suddenly rocks up to post on a controversial subject.
The only person I actually know in Israel is a former colleague (Jewish) who moved there about 15 years ago. I only got back in touch with them because of the attack in 2023, to make sure they were ok, so they aren’t best friends or anything. And in fact they were so happy that I was so clear in my support for them that now they do talk to me like best friends! The husband lost someone he thought was one of his best friends from here when he saw what he’d posted on Facebook in the days straight after the attack. He was really crushed by it. Anyway my point is that this family can’t stand Netanyahu, and are (always were and AFAIK still are) strong supporters of the two state solution.
While I don’t know how they’d vote in an election tomorrow, I do know that after the Hamas attack, they told me they had a lot of confidence in Benny Gantz so they were happy when he joined the original National Unity government (I’d never heard of him before that.)
Obviously Gantz has since left that coalition, but I don’t know if my friends would ever vote for Netanyahu. It’s not something we’ve discussed recently, as there’s no election planned and anyway I probably don’t know all the parties. But I imagine that a lot of people there are probably very unsure what the right direction is for the country.
But at no point did they ever say the sort of thing that I’ve seen people accuse Israelis of saying/thinking, expressing hate for Palestinians or anything like that. What they want is peace.