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Reem Alsalem, UN Special Rapporteur on VAWAG is a fucking disgrace

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CrocsNotDocs · 14/11/2025 13:43

I had all the goodwill in the world for her with her stance on gender ideology and was disgusted at the behind the scenes attempts to have her removed by my Australian government but she can go get fucked.

She has just stated on X that there is no evidence that rapes took place on October 7. The rapes that were filmed, live-streamed and celebrated by the perpetrators.

x.com/unsrvaw/status/1989315118358745148?s=61

Reem Alsalem, UN Special Rapporteur on VAWAG is a fucking disgrace
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Carla786 · 18/11/2025 22:50

Emilesgran · 18/11/2025 22:41

That's what I thought at the beginning but polls carried out in Gaza and in the West Bank show that Hamas is actually more popular than the PA, and while there is more support in Gaza for negotiation than 2 years ago, in the WB "the armed struggle" is actually getting more popular.

Obviously there are Palestinians who are against Hamas, but the only way a terror group would be able to keep such tight control of the population while actually losing a war and fighting for their very survival is if they still have a very significant level of support in Gaza. If a lot of people were geniuinely against them, that's when there'd have been an uprising. There wasn't because too many people still support them.

Sadly - and I was also pro Palestinian before Oct 7 - I think the reality is that a lot of Gazans really did prefer their government to try to destroy Israel rather than build a proper economy. And some of them haven't changed their minds.

This is from October 2025:

"Palestinian opinion is polarized: the Trump Plan is widely known but support is split, with Gazans more favorable than West Bankers. Majorities back Hamas’s response yet reject disarming Hamas; most doubt the plan will end the war or deliver statehood. A leadership crisis endures—dissatisfaction with Abbas and the PA, Marwan Barghouti leading, and Hamas outpolling Fatah.
Since Oct 7, support for the attack persists even as expectations of Hamas victory wane. Gazans are more open to negotiated arrangements;` West Bankers favor armed struggle. Across both, skepticism of external plans coexists with demands for elections and self-defense."

https://www.pcpsr.org/en/node/1000

Sadly, I expected that to be the case for the majority.

Re being 'pro Palestinian'. What do you mean by that? If you mean, thinking there should be a 2 state solution and that some of Israel's war tactics are immoral, I still think that. I just think it can never happen until they are debrainwashed, which will be a nightmare undertaking.

Every single adult in Gaza could be pure evil. I would still think that some of Israel's war tactics were immoral. You can't just say any tactic automatically becomes moral if the enemy civilians are all evil. Morality towards civilians HAS to apply no matter how bad and evil they may be in majority.

Not to mention that many of the Gazans are under-18s, including many under-10s. I don't view brainwashed under-10s as evil. They are not responsible for this horrendous situation at all.

Emilesgran · 18/11/2025 23:05

I completely agree that the children are the victims - it also horrifies me to see clips of men, and sometimes women, who grab tiny children to shout at cameras, presumably for propaganda. Tiny children crying. It must be completely traumatising for the children. I have never seen anyone doing that in other disasters, not even in a war.

So yes, they need to be debrainwashed, like Germans were denazified after the war. But I don't think that's going to happen, because so many people in the west seem to think that it's Israel's fault "really", for existing. I'm not Jewish BTW.

I don't know what the solution is. I'm not sure I believe in two states any more. Not as things are now anyway.

Emilesgran · 18/11/2025 23:10

And yes, I agree that there have certainly been multiple war crimes by the IDF, and indeed before this war, some of the stuff that went on in the West Bank was completely wrong and immoral too. And the fact that Netanyahu is corrupt and completely unscrupulous, and has put in place a far right government make things worse.

Although OTOH, since Hamas, and Gazan civilians, attacked the kibbutzim and even actual peace activists like Vivian Silver, I think if I were Israeli I would probably conclude that Palestinians had no interest in negotiating with peace makers in Israel and I don't know who I would vote for.

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 00:37

Emilesgran · 18/11/2025 23:10

And yes, I agree that there have certainly been multiple war crimes by the IDF, and indeed before this war, some of the stuff that went on in the West Bank was completely wrong and immoral too. And the fact that Netanyahu is corrupt and completely unscrupulous, and has put in place a far right government make things worse.

Although OTOH, since Hamas, and Gazan civilians, attacked the kibbutzim and even actual peace activists like Vivian Silver, I think if I were Israeli I would probably conclude that Palestinians had no interest in negotiating with peace makers in Israel and I don't know who I would vote for.

Agreed. Sorry, my response was rather aggressive-sounding- I think discussing it online has made me over suspicious. It's scary how many people seem to justify anything against Palestinians in general (although not as scary as people who think Hamas are not terrorists). I can see you didn't mean that

I think if I were in Israel - well for one thing I don't think I'd be brave enough to stay, those who do are incredibly brave. If I were : I'd almost certainly vote Netanyahu just because I think it's incredibly dangerous to give up on the Hamas war, while hoping that civilians can be safely moved somewhere. As I've said, the Palestinians are a violently radicalised population (exactly why Egypt, Jordan etc will not take them). I don't know how they can be safely deradicalised but I hope beyond hope it can happen.

Delphin · 19/11/2025 11:04

quixote9 · 17/11/2025 21:32

"No evidence"??? "No evidence"????? The videos were all just clever photoshop jobs? All made within hours of the atrocities?

(Especially ridiculous because Netanyahu's sexist and misogynist leadership didn't even care much about what happened to women. As I recall, it took them weeks and huge shouting on the part of women to acknowledge that oh-yes-there-were-crimes-against-women-going-on. If it really had been some kind of frame up, they would have been at it from the start.)

"The videos were all just clever photoshop jobs? All made within hours of the atrocities?"

Thst is where the narrative falls down. The atrocities were livestreamed. Some of the livestreams were deleted post factum, but enough have been saved by various people all over the world.

Grammarnut · 19/11/2025 15:17

BluntPlumHam · 14/11/2025 16:18

Patten and her team, tasked to gather, analyze, and verify information on conflict-related sexual violence (CRSV) from October 7 onwards, documented clear evidence of severe sexual acts such as rape, torture, and humiliation. Incidents of rape and gang rape occurred at several locations, notably the Nova music festival, Highway 232, and Kibbutz Re’im.
The team found a patten of victims, mostly women, who were partially or fully naked, their bodies shot and mutilated, across multiple locations.
While acknowledging the circumstantial nature of this evidence, the team concluded it indicates deliberate sexual violence, including sexually motivated torture and cruel treatment. The team was also convinced that this violence persists against the remaining hostages.

There are still no witness statements.
There are still no statements from victims.
There is no mention of forensics.

‘information’ and ‘circumstantial evidence’ which there is no mention of isn’t evidence.

For the record I’m not saying it happened or didn’t happen. I’m just pointing out that without Israel providing the admissible/reliable evidence to an independent investigator there will always be question marks on this.

Most of the victims are dead. Sexual violence always happens in wars. Men who hated Jews invaded Israel and the mutilated bodies of women were found. What do you think happened to them?

Grammarnut · 19/11/2025 15:28

ArabellaSaurus · 15/11/2025 16:08

Text from the substack she links to:

'Reem Alsalem, the United Nations Special Rapporteur on Violence Against Women and Girls, joins Heather Brunskell-Evans and Julian Vigo to discuss her mission as United Nations Special Rapporteur and the consequences, changing dimensions, and the greater challenges of her role. Responding to the criticism she has received for her views on gender ideology, on the one hand, and criticisms by feminists who view women in hijab as less deserving of human rights protections, Alsalem relates how occupation and colonialism impacts this demographic quite differently as she notes how both the degradation of women in hijab and women who “identify as men” are similarly rendered invisible through the very ideologies that pretend to speak for them. Alsalem tackles the divisive issue of the alleged rapes claimed by the Israeli government and legacy media on 7 October 2023 and the incoherence of Western feminism that parrots the debunked reports while simultaneously egging on a genocide. Analysing the report by the Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Sexual Violence in Conflict (SRSG-SVC), Alsalem underscores how the mandate for this report was not investigative noting that a later investigation, undertaken by the Independent International Commission of Inquiry in June 2024, issued a report that clearly states that it “has not been able to independently verify such allegations, due to a lack of access to victims, witnesses and crime sites and the obstruction of its investigations by the Israeli authorities.” Alsalem details how the lie that Israel spun regarding the alleged rapes of Israeli women on 7 October has been completely debunked by an independent body, while noting that the widespread evidence documenting Israel’s pattern of sexual violence towards Palestinian men and women has been completely ignored by Western media and governments.'

My question is: Why the constant addition of 'alleged' when discussing rapes of Israeli women, yet no addition of 'alleged' when discussing Israeli violence?

I am appalled, tbh.

Because of course the Israelis did horrible things. But anything done by Palestinians is 'alleged' because they have victim status.

ArabellaSaurus · 19/11/2025 17:07

Grammarnut · 19/11/2025 15:17

Most of the victims are dead. Sexual violence always happens in wars. Men who hated Jews invaded Israel and the mutilated bodies of women were found. What do you think happened to them?

The report from the UK APPG included refs to witness statemnts and mention of forensic evidence. And yes, absence of victim statements is because most of them were murdered after being raped and/or tortured.

Emilesgran · 19/11/2025 19:00

Carla786 · 19/11/2025 00:37

Agreed. Sorry, my response was rather aggressive-sounding- I think discussing it online has made me over suspicious. It's scary how many people seem to justify anything against Palestinians in general (although not as scary as people who think Hamas are not terrorists). I can see you didn't mean that

I think if I were in Israel - well for one thing I don't think I'd be brave enough to stay, those who do are incredibly brave. If I were : I'd almost certainly vote Netanyahu just because I think it's incredibly dangerous to give up on the Hamas war, while hoping that civilians can be safely moved somewhere. As I've said, the Palestinians are a violently radicalised population (exactly why Egypt, Jordan etc will not take them). I don't know how they can be safely deradicalised but I hope beyond hope it can happen.

No worries, I get that. I don’t usually post a lot on Mumsnet - I mostly come here to read up on things (like the BFF/Sara Morrison tribunal) where other people know a lot more than me, but I do, or did, post on other websites so I get when someone “new” suddenly rocks up to post on a controversial subject.

The only person I actually know in Israel is a former colleague (Jewish) who moved there about 15 years ago. I only got back in touch with them because of the attack in 2023, to make sure they were ok, so they aren’t best friends or anything. And in fact they were so happy that I was so clear in my support for them that now they do talk to me like best friends! The husband lost someone he thought was one of his best friends from here when he saw what he’d posted on Facebook in the days straight after the attack. He was really crushed by it. Anyway my point is that this family can’t stand Netanyahu, and are (always were and AFAIK still are) strong supporters of the two state solution.

While I don’t know how they’d vote in an election tomorrow, I do know that after the Hamas attack, they told me they had a lot of confidence in Benny Gantz so they were happy when he joined the original National Unity government (I’d never heard of him before that.)

Obviously Gantz has since left that coalition, but I don’t know if my friends would ever vote for Netanyahu. It’s not something we’ve discussed recently, as there’s no election planned and anyway I probably don’t know all the parties. But I imagine that a lot of people there are probably very unsure what the right direction is for the country.

But at no point did they ever say the sort of thing that I’ve seen people accuse Israelis of saying/thinking, expressing hate for Palestinians or anything like that. What they want is peace.

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