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The Bluestocking - Raiders of the Lost Sparp

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lcakethereforeIam · 28/10/2025 22:55

Welcome everyone. Wipe your feet, it's been wet out.

Don't forget to namechange before posting if necessary.

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Boiledbeetlejuice · 08/11/2025 12:05

MyrtleLion · 08/11/2025 11:53

Thank you, Boily for explaining. I am actually reassured that the gerbils have somewhere warm close by as they may have issues in The Staunch Ally. And also the bucks are entitled to their own single sex spaces.

At least I don't have to engage Gnawmi Cunninchew. She's making a good name for herself in sows' rights and can be a bit pricey as a result. Though maybe she would accept a slice of Victoria sponge and some unsalted premium sunflower seeds as payment...

Whilst I haven't been inside (Gerbils only) I have innocently been walking by a few times when the door was open.

It's a lovely little space. Apparently it was built about 1860 and all the furniture is hand gnawed by beavers.

Also, whilst I haven't seen it, there is a rumour that a secret passageway does exist into the Bluestocking. But it's hidden somewhere in the female toilets and only opens when it detects female gerbil fear or complete boredom pheromones.

DeanElderberry · 08/11/2025 12:16

AsWithGlad · 08/11/2025 11:38

I saw this post elsewhere on FWR yesterday, written by someone I’ve seen here.

I thought that I was back in the Bluestocking for a moment before I realised that this conversation is too mad even for there.

We’re not at all mad, are we?

I saw that too and simply could not imagine what she meant.

nobody mad here

confusion now, that's a different matter

The Bluestocking - Raiders of the Lost Sparp
The Bluestocking - Raiders of the Lost Sparp
FarriersGirl · 08/11/2025 12:27

Sorry to have missed last nights performance but good to see so many rave reviews!!

MyrtleLion · 08/11/2025 12:27

I read this story in The Guardian today and it reminded me of when the Walrus and I first moved in together. His DD, who now lives with us, was 23 and visiting us for Christmas. Before she even took off her coat, she said, "My mum says I have to ask you what your house rules are."

The Walrus and I had moved in only a fortnight before and were still navigating what that meant. I was startled by the question and said, "we don't have any house rules; we're just nice to each other".

DSD told me a few weeks ago that she hadn't believed me when I said that, but now she's lived with us for eight years, she realises it's true.

Nine years and it's still the only house rule.

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/nov/08/worlds-longest-married-couple-advice

World’s longest-married couple reveals key to a lasting relationship: ‘We love each other’

Eleanor Gittens, 107, and Lyle Gittens, 108, of Miami met at a basketball game in 1941 and have been married for 83 years

https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025/nov/08/worlds-longest-married-couple-advice

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 12:29

La...la-la...<gasp>...la-la...lah!

<collapses in chair>

I've...just conga'd all the way from Darlington.

Could I have a large basin of warm water, please. With something in it that's good for sore feet.

Yes! A big pot of tea would be lovely. Not for the basin though?

Now, let's see. A ham and cheese toasties with skinny chips and some pickled gherkins. Thank you bar gerbil. Could I have some Monster Munch while I'm waiting?

Did you see all the bouquets the gerbils brought back with them?

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AsWithGlad · 08/11/2025 13:28

Before she even took off her coat, she said, "My mum says I have to ask you what your house rules are."

Actually, I quite like that. Presumably it was practical things like whether you take your shoes off when you come in. I remember if you were staying overnight at my aunt’s house you didn’t flush the loo during the night to avoid waking others up, but we did at mine.

It shows that her Mum wanted you all to get on, and not cause offence. I don’t think we have any house rules, either, and being kind and nice to each other should be a given. But my children may tell me there are rules, but perhaps they are customs rather than rules.

I still remember something which happened when I was about 6. It may be relevant that we lived on the edge of a council estate, which was basically a long road with wiggles in it. At our end the houses on one side of the road were lived in by relatively senior people who were employed by the council - town clerk, headteachers and so on - but they were still tenanted council houses. On the opposite side of the road at this point were privately owned houses, with a grassed play area between them.

We lived in one of the council houses. Once I went over to the house opposite to play with the girl who lived there: we were not at the same school so I didn’t know her very well. After a while her very irate parent marched me back to my house and said I’d been stealing.

In my house, if you wanted a biscuit you went to the pantry and helped yourself: certainly if you had a guest you’d offer them to your visitors first. Not so in their house. As an adult I’d know better, but as a small child I was just doing what I normally did. I even think the girl had mentioned that she wanted a biscuit but I’m not sure.

EdithStourton · 08/11/2025 13:37

Glad to hear that it's onwards and upwards, Myrtle, but sorry it's so slow.

Gnawmi😂😂

Magpiecomplex · 08/11/2025 13:59

Sounds like you'll be joining Cake in the conga line before you know it, Myrtle! Although I'm impressed Cake managed to conga all the way back from Darlington.
I'm not sure I was in Blackpool last night after all, unless the local accent is particularly difficult to understand? The locals kept shrugging at me when I tried to communicate. Still, I managed to find a helpful gerbil called Gauloise who put me on a train home.

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 14:10

I don't think I'll be conga-ing again for a while. Glad you made it back Magpie. I knew some Pierres in Blackpool. A family, North Pierre (the quiet one), South Pierre and Central Pierre.

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Magpiecomplex · 08/11/2025 14:15

The Pierre family sounds charming, I'll have to visit next time I'm there. Although I am now imagining the Baby Names thread...

AsWithGlad · 08/11/2025 14:20

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 14:10

I don't think I'll be conga-ing again for a while. Glad you made it back Magpie. I knew some Pierres in Blackpool. A family, North Pierre (the quiet one), South Pierre and Central Pierre.

Wonderful!!!

There were theatres in the Pierre family’s back yards, weren’t there?

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 14:33

There was all sorts. They were generally very sociable.

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knittedsloth · 08/11/2025 15:06

AsWithGlad · 08/11/2025 11:38

I saw this post elsewhere on FWR yesterday, written by someone I’ve seen here.

I thought that I was back in the Bluestocking for a moment before I realised that this conversation is too mad even for there.

We’re not at all mad, are we?

miranda hart GIF

Mad?!

knittedsloth · 08/11/2025 15:12

FarriersGirl · 08/11/2025 12:27

Sorry to have missed last nights performance but good to see so many rave reviews!!

Truly brilliant piece of theatre and the Quiet Sloth and I recommend going back up the thread and replaying it in slow motion ❤️

knittedsloth · 08/11/2025 15:19

Dear @AsWithGlad I felt very sad when I read about your biscuit-taking humiliation as a child. One good thing about being a sloth is that nobody gets marched anywhere ever.

ErrolTheDragon · 08/11/2025 16:32

My dd would sometimes solemnly instruct her little friends on ‘house rules’ which included :
shoes off inside
you may bounce on the sofas and make cushion mountains and dens
dont eat any plants in the garden except from the herb tubs unless Mummy specifically says you can and stay away from the corner where the Wolfbane thrives.
And don’t try to pick up and carry the dog.

I think that was about it.

Boiledbeetlejuice · 08/11/2025 17:30

Germoleen is currently crying and rocking in a corner.

Poor lamb has been tasked with writing the script for the Health and Safety at Work Act 1974 musical

It's hard going.

🐾 “The Act That Guards the Whiskered Soul”
A surreal recital for community hall and gerbil ensemble

[Scene: A draughty hall in Lower Tiddlewick. The audience is mostly pensioners, toddlers, and one confused vicar. A velvet curtain twitches. A gerbil in a tiny hard hat steps forward. Fog machine wheezes. Accordion hums softly.]

Gerbil Narrator (earnestly):

In nineteen seventy-four, it came,

A scroll of law, not just a name.

To guard the paws, the claws, the tail,

To keep the work from turning frail.

[Gerbil Chorus enters, dragging a miniature ladder and a clipboard the size of a postage stamp.]

Chorus (chanting):

Section Two! Section Two!

Bosses, heed what you must do!

Provide the gear, the training wheel,

Even for a rodent’s zeal.

[A gerbil in a fluorescent tabard attempts to operate a stapler. It explodes confetti. Applause.]

Gerbil Narrator (with rising emotion):

Section Three, the world beyond,

Not just your staff, but those who bond—

Visitors, ghosts, and passing moles,

All deserve safe working roles.

[A mole puppet is lowered from the rafters. It nods solemnly.]

Chorus (in harmony):

Section Four, the building’s bones,

The pipes, the tiles, the haunted zones.

Keep it clean, keep it bright,

Even when the fuse box bites.

[Lights flicker. A gerbil faints. Another fans it with a risk assessment form.]

Gerbil Narrator (whispering):

Section Six, the tools we wield,

From whisker comb to sword and shield.

Design with care, and mark with grace,

So no one falls into disgrace.

[A gerbil unveils a tiny wheelbarrow labelled “Ergonomic.” The crowd gasps.]

Chorus (now in minor key):

Section Seven, workers too,

Must act with care, not just chew glue.

Don’t endanger, don’t ignore,

Even if the snacks are poor.

[Snack table collapses. A gerbil in a judge’s wig appears.]

Gerbil Judge (booming):

Section Thirty-Three, beware!

Break the rules? You’ll face my glare.

Courtroom drama, tiny fines,

And possibly revoked designs.

[Finale: All gerbils gather. One plays a triangle. Another releases a balloon shaped like a clipboard.]

Gerbil Narrator (tearfully):

So let this Act be more than law,

But something felt in every paw.

A pact of safety, fur and grace,

In every hall, in every place.

Chorus (softly, fading):

For every shift, from dusk to dawn,

Let no good gerbil be withdrawn.

The Act shall stand, the whiskers proud,

Health and Safety — say it loud.

[Curtain falls. A single gerbil remains, sweeping the stage with a toothbrush. The audience weeps. The vicar claps twice.]


FuzzyPuffling · 08/11/2025 17:43

Poor Germoleen. I think she needs a hot chocolate and some help.

Boiledbeetlejuice · 08/11/2025 17:49

FuzzyPuffling · 08/11/2025 17:43

Poor Germoleen. I think she needs a hot chocolate and some help.

She tried it as rap first. I suspect that's what tipped her over the edge to be fair.

🎤 “Safe & Sound (HSWA Flow)”
Rap song based on the Health and Safety at Work etc. Act 1974

[Intro]

Yo, it’s the 1974 law that laid the track,

Health and Safety at Work — got your back.

From the office to the site, from the lab to the street,

We keep it safe, keep it tight, keep it legally neat.

[Verse 1: Employer’s Duty]

Section 2, what it do? Employers, listen up,

You gotta guard your crew, no ifs, no buts.

Provide the gear, the training, and the plan,

Risk assessments tight like a mic in my hand.

Consult your team, keep the dialogue real,

Safety reps in the mix, that’s the deal.

[Hook]

We stay safe, we stay sound,

HSWA lays it down.

From the top to the ground,

It’s the law that wears the crown.

Workplace strong, no fear allowed,

Health and Safety — say it loud!

[Verse 2: Employees & Self-Employed]

Section 7, employees got a role,

Take care of yourself, keep control.

Don’t mess around, don’t endanger the crew,

Follow procedures, know what to do.

Section 3, self-employed in the zone,

Protect others — even when you work alone.

[Bridge: Premises & Emissions]

Section 4, if you run the place,

Keep it safe, clean, no toxic trace.

Section 6, manufacturers in the game,

Design it right — safety’s the aim.

Section 8, emissions in the air,

Control that flow, show you care.

[Verse 3: Enforcement & Power Moves]

Inspectors roll in with Section 20 might,

They ask, they test, they check it right.

Improvement notices, prohibition too,

If you breach the Act, they’ll come for you.

Section 33 — don’t break the code,

Or you’ll face the court, heavy load.

[Hook Repeat]

We stay safe, we stay sound,

HSWA lays it down.

From the top to the ground,

It’s the law that wears the crown.

Workplace strong, no fear allowed,

Health and Safety — say it loud!

[Outro]

So whether you’re a boss or a worker on the grind,

HSWA’s got your back, peace of mind.

Respect the Act, let the safety shine,

1974 — still ahead of its time.

lcakethereforeIam · 08/11/2025 17:50

Word!

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Magpiecomplex · 08/11/2025 17:51

Is it awful that I'm now pondering making my students create a HASAWA 1974 based rap as a way of learning what's in it?

FuzzyPuffling · 08/11/2025 18:03

Magpiecomplex · 08/11/2025 17:51

Is it awful that I'm now pondering making my students create a HASAWA 1974 based rap as a way of learning what's in it?

I think that's an excellent idea. The only downside is you'd have to listen to them.
I'd go haiku. Much shorter.

FuzzyPuffling · 08/11/2025 18:05

Gubbins wants to know when she can go "DING"?

And if anyone is datascraping this, "BOG OFF, YOU MAN".

AsWithGlad · 08/11/2025 18:20

Wonderful work, Gemoleen! I hope the hot chocolate did its job and you are feeling much better now.

Is section 5 subject to an Official Secrets Act?
I’ve had to sign an Act four times in the past. Is it an offence to say so?

Magpiecomplex · 08/11/2025 18:20

Gubbins, darling Gubbins, you can DING whenever you want. You are an amazing star!

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