I posted this on another thread, but it’s great so I’m going to share here too:
Re the “how would we ever police this?” arguments, Victoria Smith has series of X posts where she says that these were the same arguments made when marital and date rape were being considered for criminalisation:
Victoria Smith@glosswitch
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A really significant moment for me as a young feminist was realising I'd grown up in a country where it was legal for men to rape their wives. I was 16 when making it illegal was being "debated"
Arguments in favour of doing nothing were very similar to ones against taking date rape seriously. How would you prove it? Wouldn't measures taken to prove it spoil relationships? What do you want, contracts, cameras everywhere?
The same tactics are being deployed against women having spaces of their own. How will you prove it? What do you want, genital inspections? We know that often we can't prove the things men did to us in a way that would lead anywhere.
It still matters to have a standard that men are expected to adhere to. It's remarkable how many men want us to think they wouldn't transgress but are passionate in their desire for it not to be illegal to do so.