His behaviour reminds me of when older 'living as a woman for 30 years' men come on here.
Their posts are overly long and flowery, i think its in part talking every opportunity to behave 'woman' in public and thinking chatty is a womans trait. But its also not being able to justify their beliefs and actions, so are trying to detract from them, all the time wanting to be the centre of attention.
He knows he doesnt pass, people will, at best, see him as a man who wants to be a woman. But i think that is also the appeal. I think the idea that these men just want to fit in was used to push laws in and reassure women that the majority of men wouldnt use womens spaces because they didnt want to stand out.
For a start, a man not wanting to be noticed wouldnt wear a dress, and the reveal is the fetish.