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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

High Court rules that a trans man......

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theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 16:24

...... cannot be denied a gender recognition certificate because he is trying to conceive, in an important win supported by Good Law Project.

https://goodlawproject.org/win-victory-in-landmark-case-on-gender-recognition/

Apologies for the source, but it's currently the only free one.

WIN: Victory in landmark case on gender recognition

High Court rules that a trans man cannot be denied a Gender Recognition Certificate because he is trying to conceive, in an important win supported by Good Law Project.

https://goodlawproject.org/win-victory-in-landmark-case-on-gender-recognition/

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MarieDeGournay · 18/10/2025 16:41

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 18/10/2025 15:52

They would be ridiculed if they started suggesting dressing in pink or doing a bit of spot-welding.

Next time I do a bit of spot-welding I should dress in pink, if only to watch TRAs fall apart all around.

From the judgment:
In his statement, the Applicant says that he took up Taekwondo for a period in 2016. It struck me as rather a random remark. I note that this sport is equally popular with women and girls, but I sense that in mentioning it, the Applicant regarded it as a facet of what he perceived to be his burgeoning masculinity.

Spot-welding would have been a better choice, as it is not equally popular with women and girls, and would have been better evidence of 'his burgeoning masculinity' .
'Burgeoning masculinity'😆He really has a way with words, doesn't he?

I also liked
If I may inject a note of levity (which nonetheless illustrates a point), the England Women’s National Football Team, with back-to-back successes in the UEFA European Championship, conveniently illustrate that very few activities these days can be intrinsically associated with one sex rather than another. I consider such assumptions can only lead me into the quicksand of stereotyping.

I think his lordship can rest content that he has successfully steered past the Scylla of Football and the Charybdis of Taekwondo, though perhaps not the Quicksand of Stereotyping, nor the Serbonian Bog of Genderwoo😁

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 16:51

TBH I care less about this woman getting a certificate than about the care of the baby. Raising children is a lot of stress, work, and self sacrifice. She is relatively young, and seems to have a lot of issues. I hope sincerely that she has a LOT of support, people who can help out, guide her, and assist. The focus of the next few years may shift somewhat once a baby is born - that often tends to be the way with a newborn.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/10/2025 17:35

I learned to weld at one point. Mig, tig and torch. I'm still a woman in the original sex based meaning.

By genderism's neo sexist rules, I'm probably not.

Which is why (broken record time) it makes no sense to try to use the same language to label two totally different things.

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 17:39

I've only ever done a little light stick welding. Because I am a lady.

MarieDeGournay · 18/10/2025 17:53

I've only ever done soldering, which means I'm not even on the spectrum😢

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 17:56

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 17:39

I've only ever done a little light stick welding. Because I am a lady.

I believe this would only count as the activity of a lady if you perform it in a feminine way. Without this feminity, I believe it's difficult for anyone (including you) to know if you're a man or a woman.

This is similar to how the transman with the GRC will (I assume) perform giving birth in a masculine way, with masculinity. This would therefore then make it the activity of a man.

DustyWindowsills · 18/10/2025 18:11

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 17:56

I believe this would only count as the activity of a lady if you perform it in a feminine way. Without this feminity, I believe it's difficult for anyone (including you) to know if you're a man or a woman.

This is similar to how the transman with the GRC will (I assume) perform giving birth in a masculine way, with masculinity. This would therefore then make it the activity of a man.

I once built a stud partition wall. Now I'm worried I didn't do it femininely enough. Should I have painted it pink?

MurkyWeather2 · 18/10/2025 18:14

I find myself transfixed by the thought of giving birth in a masculine way, and what that might entail.

Reassembling all the bits after and finding you have one left over, maybe?

ChillBarrog · 18/10/2025 18:14

Elifane · 17/10/2025 16:54

It seems like this is a good thing? There's a higher principle here which is that the state cannot practice eugenics - the right to have children is a core human right and empowering the state to decide whether people are allowed to have children has led to many horrific violations in history. It's in everyone's interest to uphold this principle. If it makes a nonsense of a downstream law then that's to be handled in the nonsense legislation. We shouldn't undo the principle of the right to reproduce.

What has this got to do with the right to reproduce?

Elifane · 18/10/2025 18:26

@ChillBarrog asked and answered in this very thread already. Scroll up.

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 18:42

MurkyWeather2 · 18/10/2025 18:14

I find myself transfixed by the thought of giving birth in a masculine way, and what that might entail.

Reassembling all the bits after and finding you have one left over, maybe?

That might give mixed signals as it's equally possible to build things badly in a feminine way, perhaps with a shriek for example.

I reckon the best way to do it is to bring a toolkit and power drill along, then put some shelves up between contractions.

MurkyWeather2 · 18/10/2025 18:47

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 18:42

That might give mixed signals as it's equally possible to build things badly in a feminine way, perhaps with a shriek for example.

I reckon the best way to do it is to bring a toolkit and power drill along, then put some shelves up between contractions.

Surely if you are building something badly in a truly feminine way, you get a man to do it for you?

Greyskybluesky · 18/10/2025 19:15

How do you know he's a man though?
Do you police his genitals?

DustyWindowsills · 18/10/2025 19:16

MurkyWeather2 · 18/10/2025 18:47

Surely if you are building something badly in a truly feminine way, you get a man to do it for you?

And then he'll paint a wavy line, break a drill bit or fold over a nail head, and then hand everything back and bugger off to the pub. Oh, and I forgot the bit where he demands a bacon sandwich before he even gets started. Or maybe that's just my lived experience.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/10/2025 19:25

MurkyWeather2 · 18/10/2025 18:14

I find myself transfixed by the thought of giving birth in a masculine way, and what that might entail.

Reassembling all the bits after and finding you have one left over, maybe?

Biting the cord with your teeth, smearing the blood in your beard and roaring I reckon.

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 20:15

FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/10/2025 19:25

Biting the cord with your teeth, smearing the blood in your beard and roaring I reckon.

Yes. That should do it.

I am actually now feeling a pang of guilt about my tongue in cheek embracing of gender identity belief.

Now that I'm a firm non-believer in the idea that we all have a gender identity, a gendered soul, I have to remind myself that some people really do believe that a man can have uterus and give birth - and that the way we know he's a man is because a) he's told us he is a man and b) he's demonstrating he's a man with his masculine actions.

As a non-believer, to me it's now utterly bonkers, but I do have to remind myself that it really is no more bonkers than believing that a child can be conceived without sperm and born to a woman who is still a virgin. I used to be a Christian and believed this too. Belief is incredibly powerful and defies logic.

However, I then think about the impact of gender identity belief on our language and on vulnerable people like the trans-identifying female that this thread is about. I definitely feel less guilty at that point.

It's so important that the impact of gender identity belief is shown up for what it is: a coerced belief in the idea that we all have a gendered soul that is separate from our body, enforced by the state as if it's fact with GRCs that allow official paperwork to be altered to match the person's belief and an NHS that is prepared to remove people's body parts and damage their endochrine systems forever so that their bodies more closely match their belief.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 18/10/2025 20:20

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 17/10/2025 17:25

@Elifane Yes, I think it's good that the courts are sort-of protecting these people from ruining their lives too much.

What about that poor kid's life?

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 20:25

giving birth in a masculine way

Doing it standing up?

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 20:26
birth seahorse GIF

Oh, wait, here we go. I should have known there was a gif.

MarieDeGournay · 18/10/2025 20:44

Greyskybluesky · 18/10/2025 19:15

How do you know he's a man though?
Do you police his genitals?

This exchange is making me laugh out loud, you are a funny lot😂

From having worked alongside men doing practical tasks, I suggest that in order to give birth in a masculine way, you'd have to whistle tunelessly through your teeth throughout the entire process😬

FlirtsWithRhinos · 18/10/2025 20:57

MarieDeGournay · 18/10/2025 20:44

This exchange is making me laugh out loud, you are a funny lot😂

From having worked alongside men doing practical tasks, I suggest that in order to give birth in a masculine way, you'd have to whistle tunelessly through your teeth throughout the entire process😬

Sadly my experience of many male colleagues is that they'd take the credit and leave a woman to do the work.

So actually, probably turns out it is pretty easy for men to give birth in a masculine way after all!

DustyWindowsills · 18/10/2025 20:59

ArabellaSaurus · 18/10/2025 20:26

Oh, wait, here we go. I should have known there was a gif.

MOAR babies!

Yep, definitely male.

DustyWindowsills · 18/10/2025 21:16

BonfireLady · 18/10/2025 20:15

Yes. That should do it.

I am actually now feeling a pang of guilt about my tongue in cheek embracing of gender identity belief.

Now that I'm a firm non-believer in the idea that we all have a gender identity, a gendered soul, I have to remind myself that some people really do believe that a man can have uterus and give birth - and that the way we know he's a man is because a) he's told us he is a man and b) he's demonstrating he's a man with his masculine actions.

As a non-believer, to me it's now utterly bonkers, but I do have to remind myself that it really is no more bonkers than believing that a child can be conceived without sperm and born to a woman who is still a virgin. I used to be a Christian and believed this too. Belief is incredibly powerful and defies logic.

However, I then think about the impact of gender identity belief on our language and on vulnerable people like the trans-identifying female that this thread is about. I definitely feel less guilty at that point.

It's so important that the impact of gender identity belief is shown up for what it is: a coerced belief in the idea that we all have a gendered soul that is separate from our body, enforced by the state as if it's fact with GRCs that allow official paperwork to be altered to match the person's belief and an NHS that is prepared to remove people's body parts and damage their endochrine systems forever so that their bodies more closely match their belief.

Agreed. Above all else, what horrifies me is the impact on young and vulnerable people. There was a time when it felt justifiable to pretend the emperor has new clothes. We are long past that now.

ChillBarrog · 18/10/2025 21:20

Elifane · 18/10/2025 18:26

@ChillBarrog asked and answered in this very thread already. Scroll up.

No. That's why I asked, after reading every post.

theilltemperedmaggotintheheartofthelaw · 18/10/2025 21:33

ChillBarrog · 18/10/2025 21:20

No. That's why I asked, after reading every post.

Did you disagree with the Judgment itself? The Judge explains at some length: I'm not sure what else I would add.

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