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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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Brainworm · 12/10/2025 13:57

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 12:59

Yes. That didn’t go well for Afghani, Iranian or Iraqi women.

I want all women and girls to have access to healthy and fulfilling activities in line with their male counterparts. I see this as being something that should be universal and transcend borders and cultures.

I acknowledge concern about imposing ‘western’ ideals on other cultures. The problem is the framing of what constitutes ‘western’.

Is the idea of requiring all gay people, disabled people and females to be treated with dignity, respect and equality, regardless of their race and religion, really evidence of colonialist thinking?

Many people who want greater equality have been fearful of expressing balanced views in anticipation of being accused of racism and bigotry. They know they will encounter unfalsifiable arguments claiming that anyone who fails to acknowledge that believing XYZ is racist/homophobic/transphobic is clearly racist/homophobic/transphobic.

People are waking up to this and pushing back, at the same time, those with more extreme view are also speaking out. These 2 groups are being lumped together as ‘far right’ and people are saying the far right is on the rise. Maybe it is, and maybe it isn’t, but until we start differentiating the two groups we won’t know.

Imnobody4 · 12/10/2025 13:57

Haven't read the thread but this is the 11th run, so it's not had any attention before. If it's a fun run this is discriminatory.

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 13:57

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 12:02

In sport this happens post puberty - testosterone advantages

what is it about the age of 12 for a charity / fun run ???

to protect girls / women from the effects of testosterone ….. mmm interesting!

We think of 13 is a kind of turning point into young adulthood surely.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:58

Another2Cats · 12/10/2025 13:51

"Can a fun run be gender affected?

Interesting to compare to park run, who say that they don't need to segregate any of their results by sex, because they are just a fun run, even though they provide a service by timing participants."

Parkrun certainly used to segregate their results by sex. They stopped doing this last year as women were complaining that trans-identifying men were entering the women's category.

Instead of restricting the women's category to just women they simply decided to take down all the category results from their website instead.

Here is a report from Athletics Weekly about it:

https://athleticsweekly.com/news/parkrun-ditches-course-and-age-category-records-1039975182/

But, to answer the question "Can a fun run be gender affected?" No, I don't think that they can in that sense (except where times are being recorded).

The quote from the DM was this:

Last night, an East London Mosque spokesman said: 'The suggestion that our event breaches the Equality Act is entirely incorrect.

'Single-gender sporting events are lawful under Section 195 and Schedule 23 of the Act, and are common across the UK, including the Women's Run Series, Nike Women's 10K, and gender-segregated swimming sessions at Orthodox Jewish facilities like Manchester Jewish Community Centre.

'The Muslim Charity Run operates under the same legal framework as these established events.'

They are likening themselves to single-sex women's timed events and also conflating this single-sex swimming sessions.

All very confusing.

Instead of restricting the women's category to just women they simply decided to take down all the category results from their website instead.

They still publish the results for each individual park run each week and the results are listed by gender. I think that perhaps they used to rank everyone running everywhere each week and they have stopped doing that? To be fair, I wouldn't expect them to be doing cheek swabs on the start line and I don't think they check people's ages, but I think the expectation should be that runners should give correct information... but that is another thread!

also conflating this single-sex swimming sessions.

Has just occurred to me - are there single sex swimming sessions for men? You would have thought that following the same logic, these should be provided?

upseedaisee · 12/10/2025 13:58

So, why hasn't this been challenged at all? This is a classic case of discrimination.

Greyskybluesky · 12/10/2025 13:59

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:49

Some muslim women have been oppressed and killed granted the vast majority aren't.
There's women in your culture that are oppressed to and killed too.
And we all live by rules. Everyday.
Most women are happy to live by these rules. You might not like it but that's a you issue.
And every community is conditioned.
Yours especially.
No community is perfect.

Who is the "you" and "your" here please?

GoldThumb · 12/10/2025 13:59

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:51

You're right. I fucked up there. I mean Muslim men vs non-Muslim men.

You meant what you said, you clearly don’t see Muslim men as British, and think they should be left to their own devices, while we worry about ‘our’ men.

Your meaning is clear as day.
Own it

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:00

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:25

Depends why they are single sex. I have already posted the reasons that a service can be single sex, and an association does not need any reason to be single sex.

We allow religions more leeway than other organisations, but there is a line that they can't cross.

What's not clear here is whether the muslim women aren't allowed to run in this race because it is considered wrong for them to run at all. It would be disingenuous to suggest that this concern is not justified.

I hear you but it seems like many on here are only happy with segregation if it's one way. I,e if it's women that benefit from it.

Tessisme · 12/10/2025 14:01

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:54

They have a choice. They have a choice not to go and go to the many women only events.

That’s not really a choice though, if they are deliberately excluded. Also, this is described as a FAMILY event. Are Muslim women not part of the family?

ThatCyanCat · 12/10/2025 14:01

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:00

I hear you but it seems like many on here are only happy with segregation if it's one way. I,e if it's women that benefit from it.

You have no idea what this sounds like, have you?

5MinuteArgument · 12/10/2025 14:02

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:53

female only safe spaces are long established as required for many reasons as well u will be aware

Why? Why are they so thing tell me.

Maybe you have a vested interest in pretending this is all perfectly OK. But increasingly, people aren't buying it.

You can't fool all of the people all of the time.

Neemie · 12/10/2025 14:02

I am surprised by the amount of women on here defending a charity event which seems to be run by a very narrow minded, out dated bunch of sexist men.

ThatCyanCat · 12/10/2025 14:03

Neemie · 12/10/2025 14:02

I am surprised by the amount of women on here defending a charity event which seems to be run by a very narrow minded, out dated bunch of sexist men.

I'd be even more surprised myself if all of them are women.

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 14:03

ThatCyanCat · 12/10/2025 14:01

You have no idea what this sounds like, have you?

😬

I mean if that poster can show 1 instance of mass oppression of men I’m willing to listen.

PreciousTatas · 12/10/2025 14:03

Neemie · 12/10/2025 14:02

I am surprised by the amount of women on here defending a charity event which seems to be run by a very narrow minded, out dated bunch of sexist men.

One of the posters on here arguing in favour of it the most is a man.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:04

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 13:38

Can you provide some links to details of the women's fun runs?

https://www.instagram.com/sistersactivitiesclub

There's plenty of things for women only in the uk.
Jobs,gyms,yoga classes,pilates,football games,martial arts classes etc

ThatCyanCat · 12/10/2025 14:05

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:04

https://www.instagram.com/sistersactivitiesclub

There's plenty of things for women only in the uk.
Jobs,gyms,yoga classes,pilates,football games,martial arts classes etc

And do you understand why they are needed?

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 14:07

Mr Khan – who responded to Mr Trump by calling him 'Islamophobic' and 'racist' – last night did not respond to a request to comment on whether Muslim Charity Run's rules were acceptable.

Thers’s your answer, folks. Even our most ‘enlightened’, progressive Mayor won’t comment.

Tirquoise · 12/10/2025 14:08

PreciousTatas · 12/10/2025 13:56

Did you think the trans movement was the only one where women are increasingly meant to accept their suppression with a smile under the guise of 'being kind?'.

Where deletions are meant to keep you from speaking against it, because it is beyond the pale to do so? And there will be violent and bloody hatred against those who speak out.

Women of the UK have a far more dangerous battle on the horizon now. But I have faith that you and we are up to the task. My family had to flee our home before because of radical Islam, we will not do so again.

The fight with radical Islam is around the same place on mumsnet as the fight against TRAs was back in 2016. I believe it will follow the same pattern.

Well said, Mumsnet didn't want feminists to speak about transgenderism but had to acquiesce eventually. Now we're trying to speak out against the even bigger danger of Islamism and they're repeating the same mistake.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 14:08

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:34

How do competing systems that have different values co-exist in one country?

The same way if you go to tower hamlets bricklane,whitechapel etc you see the muslim people covered,not drinking and you see british white people drinking,not covered co existing and leaving eachother alone.
I see it all the time in that area.
The muslims go to the market,the chai shops,muslim restaraunts,British white people go to pubs,and indian restaraunts down brick lane.
People don't exactly mix or talk as such but people coexist and leave eachother alone and are very respectful.

I'm talking about a country, the system that has approximately 65 million people living in it. A system that is based on secular values and not on religious values, a system that says women are equal to men (in theory at least) how does a religion who thinks a women is worth 2/3 of a man exist side by side.
Tower Hamlet is awash with tensions from what I read in the paper and perhaps illustrates that the 'communities' that have opposing values are not getting on and co-existing.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 14:09

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:00

I hear you but it seems like many on here are only happy with segregation if it's one way. I,e if it's women that benefit from it.

I think the general opinion on this board is that men also need single sex spaces.

However, when millions of muslim women are currently being deprived of basic rights, with religion as the justification, it's fair to wonder whether exclusion is being used to oppress.

LBFseBrom · 12/10/2025 14:09

I caught that while browsing the news online. It was, of course, in the Daily Mail who thrive on hyperbole. I thought when reading it, "At least they're leaving Meghan alone for once", but, no, they were not as I saw scrolling down.

It's not my business but Islam decrees men and women's sporting events should be separate. There's nothing to stop Muslim women doing one at another time if they want.

Given the current climate, I can understand this being enforced for the charity run. They don't want women and girls harrassed along the way, a group of fit men will be safe.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:09

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 13:41

your preconceived views mean you're utterly unable to see that this event is discriminatory. That's OK. Due to the liberal values we hold in this country people are allowed to be wrong about stuff and to hold views that disagree profoundly with mainstream opinion

good innit?

You are not as liberal as you think trust me.
As we've seen with the comments about the "poor uneducated muslim women"

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 14:09

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 13:53

female only safe spaces are long established as required for many reasons as well u will be aware

Why? Why are they so thing tell me.

I can’t bring myself to answer this … have u literally just been beamed down from another planet ????

ThatCyanCat · 12/10/2025 14:10

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:09

You are not as liberal as you think trust me.
As we've seen with the comments about the "poor uneducated muslim women"

Why should we trust you on what is liberal?

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