I find EW annoying and incoherent, and think she should just hire a driver, given she's rich.
But I find the response to her harsh, given that she's endorsing a worldview that we'll all have to adopt en route to actual all-round sanity. Which is that TWAW and TWANW are two different belief systems whose adherents can nevertheless hold each other in esteem and affection.
TWANW people think that TWAW people (of whom EW is still one)have mistaken beliefs that harm just about everyone, and can get pretty frustrated, and criticise the beliefs as misogynistic, homophobic etc.
But TRAs think that TWANW belief is morally disgusting and an actual crime (see the recent Helen Joyce thread). That's a big difference and EW is moving away from that.
A future in which TW stick to their beliefs, and their lifestyle, but accept constraints necessitated, not just by their sex, but by other people's knowledge of their sex, is not just pie in the sky, but the only feasible outcome. And that means encouraging a pluralistic approach, not pinning our hopes on deprogramming all the believers.
TL;DR every little helps.