The thing is Tandora, you have this habit of seeming to use the same words as the rest of us for page after page, so it's not clear what the disagreement is, then you do this Aleister Crowley type thing of saying "I'm using these common words with an esoteric meaning that you muggles don't understand", but you don't tell us what that esoteric meaning is.
This makes it rather difficult to have an exchange of views.
I think what you mean is that it's very important to have female spaces that are billed as "single sex", but it's much more important that male people with a certain philosophical belief should be able to access these "female" "single sex" spaces on their own say so.
Most people don't agree with this. It might be more useful to recognise that yours is the minority view, and think about how you might convince people that your view is the correct one.