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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Well, hello Emma Watson

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crumpet · 24/09/2025 22:11

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-15130209/Harry-Potter-Emma-Watson-treasures-J-K-Rowling-trans-rights.html

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ChocolateTriflefortwo · 25/09/2025 14:37

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:26

why do trans people get so upset when women assert their rights to sex based spaces?

They don't get upset about this at all.

What they get upset about is the exclusion of trans people (specifically trans women) from these spaces.

You understand the exclusion of trans women as necessary to protect women's sex based rights. So does JKR. I don't. Neither does EW. That's what the disagreement and upset is about.
We are not going to agree clearly, but we can at least be honest about where/ what the disagreement is.

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Men can never be in female spaces, regardless of how they identify. When they enter such a space it is no longer a female space.

Are you trying to argue that sex does not exist? How do you think we reproduce?

ArabellaSaurus · 25/09/2025 14:37

SionnachRuadh · 25/09/2025 13:49

Laurie Penny has a degree from Oxford. Just saying.

I am genuinely surprised.

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:39

Namelessnelly · 25/09/2025 14:31

But women exclude males with a trans identity from female spaces because they are not female. What part of single sex spaces confuses you? The only criteria to be a “transwoman” is to be male. So why would they be allowed in female single sex spaces?

Nothing confuses me - I understand your opinion/ logic as you recount it here entirely. I also disagree with it entirely.

You seem to be confused at the idea that not everyone shares your opinion/ logic... Why is that? Why is it so impossible for you to even accept that some people have a different perspective on this subject to you?

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:40

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:26

why do trans people get so upset when women assert their rights to sex based spaces?

They don't get upset about this at all.

What they get upset about is the exclusion of trans people (specifically trans women) from these spaces.

You understand the exclusion of trans women as necessary to protect women's sex based rights. So does JKR. I don't. Neither does EW. That's what the disagreement and upset is about.
We are not going to agree clearly, but we can at least be honest about where/ what the disagreement is.

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No 'trans people' are being excluded.

Because womens sex based rights are based on SEX. A transwoman is a male. Therefore, they need to be legally excluded from female SEX based spaces.

Again, you don't get to muddy the waters by calling males 'trans people'. They are still male. And therefore, are legally not allowed to enter female single SEX spaces.

If they get 'upset' it's only because they know that re-badging themselves as 'trans person' doesn't change the fact they are M.A.L.E male.

The issue is not 'trans people'. The issue is male vs female.

QuickNameChange22 · 25/09/2025 14:40

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:26

why do trans people get so upset when women assert their rights to sex based spaces?

They don't get upset about this at all.

What they get upset about is the exclusion of trans people (specifically trans women) from these spaces.

You understand the exclusion of trans women as necessary to protect women's sex based rights. So does JKR. I don't. Neither does EW. That's what the disagreement and upset is about.
We are not going to agree clearly, but we can at least be honest about where/ what the disagreement is.

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But transwomen are male, why do you think they belong in spaces reserved for females?

ChocolateTriflefortwo · 25/09/2025 14:41

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:39

Nothing confuses me - I understand your opinion/ logic as you recount it here entirely. I also disagree with it entirely.

You seem to be confused at the idea that not everyone shares your opinion/ logic... Why is that? Why is it so impossible for you to even accept that some people have a different perspective on this subject to you?

How do you think humans reproduce if sex does not exist?

Namelessnelly · 25/09/2025 14:42

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:39

Nothing confuses me - I understand your opinion/ logic as you recount it here entirely. I also disagree with it entirely.

You seem to be confused at the idea that not everyone shares your opinion/ logic... Why is that? Why is it so impossible for you to even accept that some people have a different perspective on this subject to you?

Forgot no. I’m asking you why you seem confused as to why women are excluding trans identified males from female spaces. Surely you’re not that dim as to think males with a trans identity should be in female spaces. The clue is in the words male and female. They are different things. We learn this in primary school. Did you skip that part?

ThatCyanCat · 25/09/2025 14:42

usedtobeaylis · 25/09/2025 14:35

Framing it as 'trans exclusion' is so utterly dishonest that I can't believe anyone gets away with it, especially is a feminist context. It's a crock of utter horseshit.

They don't. Nobody is fooled by it, including themselves. But some of them invested so much of themselves into thinking this made them superior people that they can't climb down because their egos don't permit it, while others do just think women have a moral duty to shut up and submit when men want something, and the damage and losses they sustain as a result are the cost of freedom.

Nowherefast4 · 25/09/2025 14:42

I think Emma is making quite a reasonable statement.

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:43

usedtobeaylis · 25/09/2025 14:35

Framing it as 'trans exclusion' is so utterly dishonest that I can't believe anyone gets away with it, especially is a feminist context. It's a crock of utter horseshit.

It's cowardly. They think re-naming a male to 'trans person' will make a difference. It won't. A wolf in sheep's clothing is still a wolf. A male with a cock and ball sack is still a male. Even if you call him a 'transwoman'.

It is male vs female. That's it. Nothing else.

ArabellaSaurus · 25/09/2025 14:44

WinterTrees · 25/09/2025 13:12

My impression, as a detached observer, of Emma Watson is that she is someone who desperately needs to be liked. Her personality is that of a Good Girl - #BeKind isn't so much a slogan as her mission statement. It's a personality type I imagine lots of us recognise from school - the person who thrives on applause and gold stars, and being milk monitor, form rep, prefect, head girl.

How much of that is shaped by the character JKR wrote and EW was employed to embody from such a young age is interesting to speculate on. The fact is she was paid to perform from childhood; to parrot lines without thinking about their meaning, and getting head pats for it. I think that must have had a lasting effect on her. I'm sure global fame at such a young age brings huge pressure and her trauma response seems to be to fawn. (See that cringey interview with Paris Lees where she virtually prostrates herself at Lee's feet to assure him that she would willingly, gladly - nay be honoured - to share a toilet with him.)

But now the tide is turning. Common sense and critical thinking have entered the room. The prevailing narrative is being modified, and suddenly the girl who was a queen bee in the 'right-thinkers' gang is now looking round and realising she's a bit isolated; a lot of the clever, cool people are no longer standing behind her and she's left with... well, an awkward collection of characters.

She defines herself as being clever, being insightful and nuanced - a PhD in creative writing! - and she must be wondering if some of the fawning things she did to belong in the gang ('all bar one') now make her look a bit... unkind. A bit stupid.

With good reason. They do.

I'm guessing she now needs to find a way back. To continue being liked, living up to her privileged 'kindness' values, while also finding some way of staying relevant.

Very insightful.

She needs to do some more self reflection, away from the public eye.

There's bugger all honesty in the privileged TWAW bubble, which is why they flail about not knowing what's up - when everything is performative and nothing is informed by reality, it must be hard to have no solid ground beneath your feet.

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:44

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:40

No 'trans people' are being excluded.

Because womens sex based rights are based on SEX. A transwoman is a male. Therefore, they need to be legally excluded from female SEX based spaces.

Again, you don't get to muddy the waters by calling males 'trans people'. They are still male. And therefore, are legally not allowed to enter female single SEX spaces.

If they get 'upset' it's only because they know that re-badging themselves as 'trans person' doesn't change the fact they are M.A.L.E male.

The issue is not 'trans people'. The issue is male vs female.

However you justify it, and whatever the logic is, the factual result is the same.

You are advocating for the exclusion of trans women from women's toilets. That is what people are upset about - the exclusion of trans women from using women's toilets, not the idea that women's toilets should exist.

You think these two things are logically impossible:

  1. The inclusion of trans women in the use of women's toilets
  2. The existence of women's toilets.

You think 1 cancels out 2. I do not. You see 1 and 2 as mutually opposing/ exclusive. I do not.

That is where we disagree.

ThatCyanCat · 25/09/2025 14:45

ChocolateTriflefortwo · 25/09/2025 14:41

How do you think humans reproduce if sex does not exist?

Tandora will now accuse you of dehumanising reducing people to their sexual organs and reproductive ability. Because she does not understand that categories do not reduce anyone to anything, they simply find the common trait shared by everyone in that category and nobody outside of that category. There is plenty of diversity among women but their shared trait is that they are all female, and no man is female.

ThatCyanCat · 25/09/2025 14:46

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:44

However you justify it, and whatever the logic is, the factual result is the same.

You are advocating for the exclusion of trans women from women's toilets. That is what people are upset about - the exclusion of trans women from using women's toilets, not the idea that women's toilets should exist.

You think these two things are logically impossible:

  1. The inclusion of trans women in the use of women's toilets
  2. The existence of women's toilets.

You think 1 cancels out 2. I do not. You see 1 and 2 as mutually opposing/ exclusive. I do not.

That is where we disagree.

Then have your third space, additional unisex toilets and congratulate yourself for undressing and urinating among men, and let the rest of us who don't subscribe to your religion have the normal and legal spaces we need in order to be included in society. If you actually cared about inclusion, you'd be for adding options, not removing them.

Butchyrestingface · 25/09/2025 14:47

Never heard of this Laurie Penny person. Had to google. Wikipedia informs me:

Penny came out as genderqueer, pansexual and polyamorous in 2015.

Dear Lord, how tedious.

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:47

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:44

However you justify it, and whatever the logic is, the factual result is the same.

You are advocating for the exclusion of trans women from women's toilets. That is what people are upset about - the exclusion of trans women from using women's toilets, not the idea that women's toilets should exist.

You think these two things are logically impossible:

  1. The inclusion of trans women in the use of women's toilets
  2. The existence of women's toilets.

You think 1 cancels out 2. I do not. You see 1 and 2 as mutually opposing/ exclusive. I do not.

That is where we disagree.

I am advocating for the exclusion of MALES from FEMALE toilets.

A male with a cock and balls in a dress is a male. That he pretends to be 'transwoman' doesn't change the fact he is male.

Female facilities are based on SEX. Not 'identity'. Therefore, all males, regardless of their identity, must stay out of FEMALE spaces.

How hard is that for you to understand?
That putting a fully intact male in female spaces, breaches female HUMAN RIGHTS, and the law? And you advocate for the breach of the female human rights.

Explain to me, in your own words, how including a male in FEMALE spaces, does not cancel out keeping female spaces female only?

Namelessnelly · 25/09/2025 14:48

So how can it be a woman’s toilet if it’s allowing men in? Surely then it would be a mixed sex toilet. So all men can come in. I mean, you can’t exclude some men and include others. That’s discrimination. So you would effectively have no women’s toilet. And males with a trabs identity would be required to share toilets with the very men they claim to be afraid of. So it’d be a bit of an own goal wouldn’t it?

ArabellaSaurus · 25/09/2025 14:48

It seems hugely significant to hear this coming from Watson.

The arts have been lost, and have shown few signs of returning to sanity - this is very heartening, if slightly uncomfortable to watch. The most fervent adherents are the ones with the most to lose.

ChocolateTriflefortwo · 25/09/2025 14:48

ThatCyanCat · 25/09/2025 14:45

Tandora will now accuse you of dehumanising reducing people to their sexual organs and reproductive ability. Because she does not understand that categories do not reduce anyone to anything, they simply find the common trait shared by everyone in that category and nobody outside of that category. There is plenty of diversity among women but their shared trait is that they are all female, and no man is female.

Funny how he is ignoring my question 🤔

ArabellaSaurus · 25/09/2025 14:50

Butchyrestingface · 25/09/2025 14:47

Never heard of this Laurie Penny person. Had to google. Wikipedia informs me:

Penny came out as genderqueer, pansexual and polyamorous in 2015.

Dear Lord, how tedious.

Penny claims to be a feminist. Look into her response re the Wiki Spa; its enlightening. She said girls faced with a naked erect penis in their spaces should nit be rude and look away, to paraphrase.

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:51

@Tandora Explain to me, in your own words, how including a male in FEMALE spaces, does not cancel out keeping female spaces female only?

WandaSiri · 25/09/2025 14:51

@ThatCyanCat

"others do just think women have a moral duty to shut up and submit when men want something, and the damage and losses they sustain as a result are the cost of freedom."
Yes. Spot on. It's an unwritten rule. Many of the people who believe that are "feminists" of the women-are-men-with-tits persuasion. They are shocked by other women reneging on the "contract".

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:53

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:31

You and I have conversed at length across multiple threads about what I believe the impact on those things to be, so why are you pretending otherwise? A rhetorical strategy perhaps?

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I don't know Tandora, why are you still pretending that the inclusion of trans identifying men in women's spaces doesn't have a negative impact on women?

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:54

ThatBlackCat · 25/09/2025 14:47

I am advocating for the exclusion of MALES from FEMALE toilets.

A male with a cock and balls in a dress is a male. That he pretends to be 'transwoman' doesn't change the fact he is male.

Female facilities are based on SEX. Not 'identity'. Therefore, all males, regardless of their identity, must stay out of FEMALE spaces.

How hard is that for you to understand?
That putting a fully intact male in female spaces, breaches female HUMAN RIGHTS, and the law? And you advocate for the breach of the female human rights.

Explain to me, in your own words, how including a male in FEMALE spaces, does not cancel out keeping female spaces female only?

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How hard is that for you to understand?

Again, I am very familiar with your arguments, and they are not at all hard to understand.

I entirely disagree with them.

It is possible for someone to both understand an argument and also to disagree with it.

Are you able to acknowledge this?

Tandora · 25/09/2025 14:55

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/09/2025 14:53

I don't know Tandora, why are you still pretending that the inclusion of trans identifying men in women's spaces doesn't have a negative impact on women?

because I don't believe that it does. This is not a pretence, it is my sincerely held opinion, based on reason, judgement and evidence.

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