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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

All girls' school - safeguarding and boys issue

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wejammin · 06/09/2025 11:08

My daughter has just started year 7 at a girls academy school. It appears (although this is only what she has told me and what I have seen for myself) that there are at least 2 boys attending who identify as girls. When I say I have seen it - one of the boys is visibly male.

The school's equality policy says "the school may exercise discretion in allowing admission of both male and female transgender students and supporting transgender students at any stage of their education at the school." I admit I hadn't read this until this week.

Given it's a girls school, I'm worried about safeguarding re sports, changing rooms, toilets and residential trips. I have an older teen boy - I know how big, and strong, they get, and how hormones kick in. I presume there are no boys toilets or changing rooms, but I don't know for sure. There are definitely no boys sports clubs.

Does anyone know the best way to approach this with school so that it is taken seriously? I mean no ill-will towards the male children. I just want my daughter to be safe.

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sashh · 29/09/2025 05:15

ScrollingLeaves · 28/09/2025 21:41

I have heard anecdotally of a very rare instance in a boys’ public boarding school, of a house master’s daughter being allowed to join the boys for lessons. (In the 1970s)

Perhaps this was the sort of thing they were thinking of at the time if drafting that EA sub-clause about how a rare exception does not change the nature of a single sex school.

Girls attended Eton in the 1980s, they were housed at girls' schools but attended lesson at Eton.

It's not uncommon for the children of staff to attend private schools that are single sex. Sometimes they will have their own classes so not mixing with the other sex.

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