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EHRC has now sent its new guidance to ministers

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Charabanc · 05/09/2025 08:01

Here we go...

ETA it's not "guidance" any more, it's the new Code

Equality law regulator submits updated code of practice to Minister for Women and Equalities

Baroness Kishwer Falkner, Chairwoman of the Equality and Human Rights Commission, said:

“Over the past two years the EHRC has undertaken a major project to update the entire statutory code of practice, which was published in 2011, to reflect over ten years of new legislation. Following the Supreme Court ruling in For Women Scotland Ltd v The Scottish Ministers in April, some additional sections required further revision.

“We have now submitted an updated draft of the code to the Minister for Women and Equalities. The government is responsible for laying it before Parliament. Once Parliament has considered its content, I look forward to the EHRC publishing this guidance, fulfilling our statutory role to provide clear information that protects everyone's rights under the Equality Act 2010.

“We have been clear that service providers, associations and public functions should not wait for the code of practice to be published to make any changes needed to comply with the law. As duty-bearers they must assure themselves of their legal responsibilities in their own specific circumstances and seek independent legal advice where necessary.”

Following ministerial approval, the UK Government must lay the draft code before Parliament for 40 days before it can be brought into force.

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/media-centre/equality-law-regulator-submits-updated-code-practice-minister-women-and-equalities

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feministmom4ever · 07/09/2025 12:28

WandaSiri · 07/09/2025 08:06

The trouble is, the provision of GN options wouldn't make that cohort of TiMs any less likely to try to use women's toilets. They want to use the toilets which are labelled female, and which women use. The driver for this cohort is the thrill of transgression or the urge to be validated as a real woman. GN toilets won't cut it for them.

Have you ever seen a newspaper report of a TiM being assaulted in a men's communal toilet facility or changing room?
Regarding toilets specifically, GN/mixed sex toilets wouldn't mitigate this (virtually nonexistent) risk because they are less safe for everyone. A man could push another man into a single-user self-contained cubicle, or even break down the door (the doors are - by design - openable from the outside for safety reasons).

As you've probably gathered by now, I don't think any good will come of pandering to the idea that people with special beliefs need special toilets or changing rooms. 😁

To go back to the original point, though: if there are loads of toilets, by all means convert a block into a row of GN/mixed sex cubicles for any people who have undergone such extreme body modification that they feel they might get stared at or cause distress in the single sex blocks. It's just that I felt 4 toilets was way too low a number and that supplying the needs of disabled people, or parents with kids, etc should come before GN toilets.

Your points are valid. I’m curious if you think there is anything that could be done to convince TIMs to voluntarily self exclude from female only spaces?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 07/09/2025 12:33

feministmom4ever · 07/09/2025 12:28

Your points are valid. I’m curious if you think there is anything that could be done to convince TIMs to voluntarily self exclude from female only spaces?

No. Their entire world view depends on a fundamental point, trans women are actual women. No crack can be allowed in that because then the entire thing falls down. This leads to obviously false claims like, sport is segregated for sexist reasons, (not factual differences in lung capacity and average bone length).

there is no scenario where trans people accept third spaces.

WandaSiri · 07/09/2025 12:54

I think the fact of it not being pandered to, being expected to obey the rules, or providers getting tough - eg banning transgressors from the gym - would deter all but the most determined. Beyond that, the behaviour of other TiMs/TiFs who do respect single sex spaces might be persuasive. Restoration of the social contract. Not perfect but on the whole it works. And women wouldn't be in trouble for raising the alarm.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 07/09/2025 13:18

Yes, I agree. I just want organisations to be obliged to make it clear that our spaces are either single sex female only or fully mixed sex. And all workplaces in particular, because I think that will move it along.

RapidOnsetGenderCritic · 07/09/2025 20:39

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 07/09/2025 12:33

No. Their entire world view depends on a fundamental point, trans women are actual women. No crack can be allowed in that because then the entire thing falls down. This leads to obviously false claims like, sport is segregated for sexist reasons, (not factual differences in lung capacity and average bone length).

there is no scenario where trans people accept third spaces.

there is no scenario where trans people accept third spaces.

I would agree if you had said all trans people, but I do know trans people who would accept third spaces. Indeed I know trans people who use third spaces - whether they always do, I don't know. I have heard a trans person suggest that third spaces would be a satisfactory solution, from their perspective.

feministmom4ever · 09/09/2025 20:20

Having considered the various points I have another thought. How important is it that gender critical/sex realist people be seen by the public as being open to offering reasonable solutions (in this instance third spaces), as opposed to taking the stance of “we are in the right and will therefore make no concessions”. I agree that there are a subset of TIMs that will never accept third spaces, but do you think this would help convince supporters of trans-identifying people that single sex spaces should be respected?

Charabanc · 09/09/2025 20:43

feministmom4ever · 09/09/2025 20:20

Having considered the various points I have another thought. How important is it that gender critical/sex realist people be seen by the public as being open to offering reasonable solutions (in this instance third spaces), as opposed to taking the stance of “we are in the right and will therefore make no concessions”. I agree that there are a subset of TIMs that will never accept third spaces, but do you think this would help convince supporters of trans-identifying people that single sex spaces should be respected?

It's not up to us to give "concessions". It's the law.

And as TIMs think they are biological females, and need our presence for their validation, they will hate third spaces.

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WandaSiri · 09/09/2025 21:24

feministmom4ever · 09/09/2025 20:20

Having considered the various points I have another thought. How important is it that gender critical/sex realist people be seen by the public as being open to offering reasonable solutions (in this instance third spaces), as opposed to taking the stance of “we are in the right and will therefore make no concessions”. I agree that there are a subset of TIMs that will never accept third spaces, but do you think this would help convince supporters of trans-identifying people that single sex spaces should be respected?

It's not up to us to come up with solutions for a problem which is manufactured. There are already unisex toilets. The problem isn't a lack of toilet provision, it's unreasonable and entitled people who don't want to use the facilities which are available and fanatical allies who support them. Many TiFs and TiMs do, to be fair to them, or use appropriate single sex facilities.

The vast majority of men and women prefer single sex communal facilities.

SouthWamses · 09/09/2025 22:59

I will present a solution: everyone stops pretending.

ThatBlackCat · 10/09/2025 02:35

feministmom4ever · 09/09/2025 20:20

Having considered the various points I have another thought. How important is it that gender critical/sex realist people be seen by the public as being open to offering reasonable solutions (in this instance third spaces), as opposed to taking the stance of “we are in the right and will therefore make no concessions”. I agree that there are a subset of TIMs that will never accept third spaces, but do you think this would help convince supporters of trans-identifying people that single sex spaces should be respected?

You're obviously new to this. We have offered third spaces as a solution for around 10 years. It is the trans activists that won't compromise and say third spaces 'out' them and 'other' them. THEY reject it. Take your compromise up with them.

Stripedlighthouses · 10/09/2025 07:58

I listened to the Tanya Grunwald podcast recently on this issue (highly recommend her This Isn’t Working podcast for anyone interested). I’m getting ever more irate that employers are claiming need for clarification via guidelines. It’s absolutely ridiculous.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/09/2025 08:44

I wonder if the leadership contest is going to delay this being laid before parliament? I’ve not seen any notification that it has been?

WandaSiri · 10/09/2025 09:04

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/09/2025 08:44

I wonder if the leadership contest is going to delay this being laid before parliament? I’ve not seen any notification that it has been?

It has been laid before Parliament - about a week ago iirc and will become statutory 40 days after that.

Charabanc · 10/09/2025 09:10

WandaSiri · 10/09/2025 09:04

It has been laid before Parliament - about a week ago iirc and will become statutory 40 days after that.

Has Bridget Phillipson signed it off yet? It won't be laid before Parliament until she does.

And now she is running for Deputy Leader of the Labour Party!

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Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 10/09/2025 09:15

Charabanc · 10/09/2025 09:10

Has Bridget Phillipson signed it off yet? It won't be laid before Parliament until she does.

And now she is running for Deputy Leader of the Labour Party!

Yes she has. It has gone before parliament & the 40 days are counting down. The deputy leadership competition is neither here nor there

I know we always look for "oh god what now?" scenarios but this is clear cut. Guidance is before parliament & if no serious objections as in 'this contravenes the law' not 'we don't like it wah wah are received' from MP then it will simply stand

Charabanc · 10/09/2025 09:28

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 10/09/2025 09:15

Yes she has. It has gone before parliament & the 40 days are counting down. The deputy leadership competition is neither here nor there

I know we always look for "oh god what now?" scenarios but this is clear cut. Guidance is before parliament & if no serious objections as in 'this contravenes the law' not 'we don't like it wah wah are received' from MP then it will simply stand

Oh cool! Well done Bridge.

Yes there is a very high bar to pass to get the debate and free vote that the TRAs and a few captured MPs are demanding.

#nodebate is what they wanted, and that's what they've got! 😆

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 10/09/2025 09:36

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 10/09/2025 09:15

Yes she has. It has gone before parliament & the 40 days are counting down. The deputy leadership competition is neither here nor there

I know we always look for "oh god what now?" scenarios but this is clear cut. Guidance is before parliament & if no serious objections as in 'this contravenes the law' not 'we don't like it wah wah are received' from MP then it will simply stand

Are you sure about that? I can;t find any news articles on it at all?

SerendipityJane · 10/09/2025 17:11

We have offered third spaces as a solution for around 10 years.

I don't think the disabled offered their spaces.. (See also: wheelchair spaces on buses). It was done on their behalf. Like taking sugar, I guess.

ThatBlackCat · 11/09/2025 02:54

SerendipityJane · 10/09/2025 17:11

We have offered third spaces as a solution for around 10 years.

I don't think the disabled offered their spaces.. (See also: wheelchair spaces on buses). It was done on their behalf. Like taking sugar, I guess.

I never mentioned disabled spaces. I meant gender neutral. Male, female, and gender neutral. Disabled spaces are not included in that.

Charabanc · 11/09/2025 07:36

SerendipityJane · 10/09/2025 17:11

We have offered third spaces as a solution for around 10 years.

I don't think the disabled offered their spaces.. (See also: wheelchair spaces on buses). It was done on their behalf. Like taking sugar, I guess.

I think you misunderstand. A third space does not have to be/should not be a disabled space. Blame companies and service providers for that, not women.

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · 11/09/2025 09:07

When do we get to see it? After the 40 days I assume?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 11/09/2025 09:17

GargoylesofBeelzebub · 11/09/2025 09:07

When do we get to see it? After the 40 days I assume?

40 days after it has been laid but I am not convinced it has been given not a single MP has said it has been (unless I missed it)

WandaSiri · 11/09/2025 09:42

The guidance has been given to the Minister responsible and it's for her to lay it before Parliament. It's a technicality and it would be seismic if it wasn't approved.

Charabanc · 11/09/2025 09:52

Theswiveleyeballsinthesky · 10/09/2025 09:15

Yes she has. It has gone before parliament & the 40 days are counting down. The deputy leadership competition is neither here nor there

I know we always look for "oh god what now?" scenarios but this is clear cut. Guidance is before parliament & if no serious objections as in 'this contravenes the law' not 'we don't like it wah wah are received' from MP then it will simply stand

As PPs have said, I can't find any evidence that she has laid it before parliament.

Also, it's forty sitting days, so would take us up to Christmas recess, I guess?

Surely, the minute she lays it, then MPs who don't like it will be publicising it? And that hasn't happened yet.

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SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 09:54

WandaSiri · 11/09/2025 09:42

The guidance has been given to the Minister responsible and it's for her to lay it before Parliament. It's a technicality and it would be seismic if it wasn't approved.

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Wouldn't be the first time that guidance has been ignored. The ACMD has been told to go away until it returns with the "correct" answer after doing it's job. And then ignored when it didn't.