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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women's 'Private Spaces'

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Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 03:45

Clearly private spaces for women are considered a necessity by many due to a propensity for male sexual violence. Given this threat is much greater by orders of magnitude in the work place as opposed to public bathrooms, isn't it inconsistent not to demand private spaces there as well?
Thoughts?

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Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:08

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:05

"The same piece of legislation that expressly permits single sex spaces?"

That never happened. Policy permitted that decision. The legal ruling only said the word 'sex' for purposes of anti discrimination was based on reproductive differences. The legal ruling does not green light the discrimination of trans people. Policy interpretation does which means it can be legally challenged.

Hang on.... are you now trying to explain the UK Supreme Court judgement?

Really?

Fuck.... that is hilarious.

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:09

Ereshkigalangcleg · 26/08/2025 12:59

This poster is basically phoning it in, with all their best Reddit talking points. A few new twists, but not enough to be interesting. 3/10 for effort.

It really is getting hilarious now.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/08/2025 13:14

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:08

Hang on.... are you now trying to explain the UK Supreme Court judgement?

Really?

Fuck.... that is hilarious.

He's a mansplainer extraordinaire.

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:14

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:05

"The same piece of legislation that expressly permits single sex spaces?"

That never happened. Policy permitted that decision. The legal ruling only said the word 'sex' for purposes of anti discrimination was based on reproductive differences. The legal ruling does not green light the discrimination of trans people. Policy interpretation does which means it can be legally challenged.

Please gain some understanding of not just safeguarding but also legitimate and illegitimate discrimination. As well as how this works in not just a country's legislation but human rights.

There is a significant difference between legitimate and illegitimate discrimination for safeguarding purposes. Legitimate means include sex segregation based on historical risk assessment.

Legitimate discrimination is allowed for safeguarding, this is not just 'subjective discomfort levels'. The basic human rights that people in the UK, and Australia, can expect from public toilet providers is that they are sex segregated for safety and privacy and dignity away from people of the opposite sex. No male person should expect that they have any additional right to have a toilet provision that excludes other male people. And no female people should expect to have any additional right to have a toilet provisions that excludes other female people.

It is important to remember that male people who have pubertal male physical advantages have been proven to not lose those advantages after any stage of transition. The UK prison statistics show also that this group of male people do not have the same rate of committing sex and violent crime as the general female UK population.

Merrymouse · 26/08/2025 13:14

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:05

"The same piece of legislation that expressly permits single sex spaces?"

That never happened. Policy permitted that decision. The legal ruling only said the word 'sex' for purposes of anti discrimination was based on reproductive differences. The legal ruling does not green light the discrimination of trans people. Policy interpretation does which means it can be legally challenged.

Trans people are not suffering discrimination if they are being treated exactly like anyone else of their sex.

You could certainly argue that there should be reasonable accommodation for people who don’t want to use single sex facilities, but any argument would have to be balanced against the rights and needs of people who do need single sex facilities.

You are on a much shakier footing when you argue that some people have the right to use opposite sex facilities, because at that point they just become mixed sex.

AnSolas · 26/08/2025 13:15

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:05

"The same piece of legislation that expressly permits single sex spaces?"

That never happened. Policy permitted that decision. The legal ruling only said the word 'sex' for purposes of anti discrimination was based on reproductive differences. The legal ruling does not green light the discrimination of trans people. Policy interpretation does which means it can be legally challenged.

You are a bit lost

The law for single sex spaces have been in place for years in the UK

1992 had a consolidation on workplace regulations:

1992 No.3004
HEALTH AND SAFETY
The Workplace (Health, Safety and Welfare) Regulations 1992

Now the law can be voided by the Court or but it can only be changed by a majority vote

Pharazon · 26/08/2025 13:18

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 06:04

I'm not referring to bathrooms in the work place. I am referring specifically to being alone with men in the workplace. Nor am I suggesting there should be separate work spaces. I'm simply questioning the inconsistency in approaches to being in the company of men given the risk factor is present in both scenarios & significantly more at work.

Can't have it both ways?

Of course you can have it both ways. Segregating toilets is a reasonable, affordable, and achievable solution to a problem, and one supported by the vast majority of women. Segregating entire workplaces is none of these things.

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:19

Tell me you have read neither the judgment nor the Equality Act without telling me...etc.

Um, the judges actually stated trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. Might help if you read the judgement.link

UK Supreme Court rules legal definition of a woman is based on biological sex

Judges say the "concept of sex is binary" while adding that transgender people will still have protection against discrimination.

https://www.bbc.com/news/live/cvgq9ejql39t

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Igneococcus · 26/08/2025 13:23

SUm, the judges actually stated trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. Might help if you read the judgement
Sure, and that's just how it should be, but for transwomen the comparator for discrimination is other men not women, and for transmen it's other women not men.

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:23

"Of course you can have it both ways. Segregating toilets is a reasonable, affordable, and achievable solution to a problem, and one supported by the vast majority of women. Segregating entire workplaces is none of these things."

Sooo your'e content with the abuse if it's 'inconvenient' not to be?

Locked cubicles with basins is also reasonable. Ask millions of restaurants that's been doing it for decades.

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Boiledbeetle · 26/08/2025 13:25

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:01

Mate, if you are relying on google to support your arguments, no wonder we have such poor offerings from you.

Don't forget the two links OP supplied to Wikipedia as well.

Keeptoiletssafe · 26/08/2025 13:25

AnSolas · 26/08/2025 13:15

You are a bit lost

The law for single sex spaces have been in place for years in the UK

1992 had a consolidation on workplace regulations:

1992 No.3004
HEALTH AND SAFETY
The Workplace (Health, Safety and Welfare) Regulations 1992

Now the law can be voided by the Court or but it can only be changed by a majority vote

There’s also Health and Safety 1974
Also the Sexual Offences Act 2003 which I think is relevant to some of the posts on here:

A person commits an offence if—
(a)he is in a lavatory to which the public or a section of the public has or is permitted to have access, whether on payment or otherwise,
(b)he intentionally engages in an activity, and,
(c)the activity is sexual.
(2)For the purposes of this section, an activity is sexual if a reasonable person would, in all the circumstances but regardless of any person’s purpose, consider it to be sexual.
(3)A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 6 months or a fine not exceeding level 5 on the standard scale or both.]

Reminder this clause was argued against by MPs because it would be discriminatory towards men. The justification being no lesbians have ever been prosecuted for having sex in a toilet.

I believe the latter accolade still stands. Well done women! 😁

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/08/2025 13:25

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:19

Tell me you have read neither the judgment nor the Equality Act without telling me...etc.

Um, the judges actually stated trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. Might help if you read the judgement.link

They are indeed protected from discrimination on grounds of their gender reassignment status.

They are also protected from discrimination on grounds of their sex.

However, the legislation contains some express exemptions to that principle, one of which is in relation to single sex spaces. The single sex exemption permits people to be excluded from single sex spaces for the opposite sex. This is direct discrimination on grounds of their sex, and it is permitted.

Denying trans women access to women's single sex spaces is not unlawful discrimination on grounds of their gender reassignment status. It is lawful discrimination on grounds of their sex. All other men are also excluded for exactly the same reason.

Might help if YOU read the judgment. And also if you could spell "judgment".

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:26

"The law for single sex spaces have been in place for years in the UK"

Yup that's why the court had to make another decision?🤪

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Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:26

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:19

Tell me you have read neither the judgment nor the Equality Act without telling me...etc.

Um, the judges actually stated trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. Might help if you read the judgement.link

Oh dear...

This is really embarrassing. It really, really is.

I suggest you read it.

Yes, the judgement said that trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. I think you actually mean 'direct illegitimate discrimination'.

There are whole sections in that judgement relating to where legitimate discrimination can be used.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/08/2025 13:28

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:26

"The law for single sex spaces have been in place for years in the UK"

Yup that's why the court had to make another decision?🤪

They didn't make another decision.

They confirmed that when Parliament debated and passed the Equality Act which contained some important provisions about sex, they must have meant actual sex rather than imagined sex (because no other interpretation would make any fucking sense).

AnSolas · 26/08/2025 13:28

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:19

Tell me you have read neither the judgment nor the Equality Act without telling me...etc.

Um, the judges actually stated trans people are still protected from direct discrimination. Might help if you read the judgement.link

Yes dear.

The ruling decided that men are men and should not be forced to share toilet with women but the employer must provide toilets for men, failure to do so is direct discrimination and a breach of their Health and Safety responsibilities.

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soupycustard · 26/08/2025 13:28

Yes OP we know what the law says.
I would refer you to the many posts above and on other threads explaining both the law and the reasoning behind it. I think it would help also to read the post above about legitimate and illegitimate discrimination.

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:29

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:23

"Of course you can have it both ways. Segregating toilets is a reasonable, affordable, and achievable solution to a problem, and one supported by the vast majority of women. Segregating entire workplaces is none of these things."

Sooo your'e content with the abuse if it's 'inconvenient' not to be?

Locked cubicles with basins is also reasonable. Ask millions of restaurants that's been doing it for decades.

And we are now really close to that 'we all have gender neutral toilets in our homes' argument.

Yes. Some restaurants and small businesses have single lockable toilets that are effectively small self contained rooms.

Of course we understand they exist. It doesn't matter one fuck when we are discussing single sex toilets where there is a bank of toilets all meant for one sex that is enclosed in one room.

Your logic just continues to be outstandingly poor! Well done!

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:31

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:26

"The law for single sex spaces have been in place for years in the UK"

Yup that's why the court had to make another decision?🤪

It is indeed embarrassing that women had to take it to court.

All because groups such as Stonewall deliberately misinterpreted the law and advised organisations of false policy.

But, we now have clarity of the original law. No changes at all, just clarification on what the law said.

Did you miss the bits about legitimate discrimination though? You don't seem to have a Scooby what the fuck we are talking about, yet confidently plonk down soundbites with emojis thinking you are making clever points.

Keeptoiletssafe · 26/08/2025 13:32

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:23

"Of course you can have it both ways. Segregating toilets is a reasonable, affordable, and achievable solution to a problem, and one supported by the vast majority of women. Segregating entire workplaces is none of these things."

Sooo your'e content with the abuse if it's 'inconvenient' not to be?

Locked cubicles with basins is also reasonable. Ask millions of restaurants that's been doing it for decades.

So you have ignored the picture as well as my question.

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:34

I mean. Fucking Awesome OP!

You are really nailing this thread!

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:34

Howseitgoin · 26/08/2025 13:23

"Of course you can have it both ways. Segregating toilets is a reasonable, affordable, and achievable solution to a problem, and one supported by the vast majority of women. Segregating entire workplaces is none of these things."

Sooo your'e content with the abuse if it's 'inconvenient' not to be?

Locked cubicles with basins is also reasonable. Ask millions of restaurants that's been doing it for decades.

What abuse?

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:35

Helleofabore · 26/08/2025 13:05

That would also be a law based on human rights.

Could you please now point out which human rights you are relying on to support male people being included in female single sex spaces? And please, be careful to cut and paste ALL of the conditions of that human right, don't miss the significant and inconvenient bits.

Hey @Howseitgoin

Could you please now point out which human rights you are relying on to support male people being included in female single sex spaces? And please, be careful to cut and paste ALL of the conditions of that human right, don't miss the significant and inconvenient bits.

AnSolas · 26/08/2025 13:36

Keeptoiletssafe · 26/08/2025 13:25

There’s also Health and Safety 1974
Also the Sexual Offences Act 2003 which I think is relevant to some of the posts on here:

A person commits an offence if—
(a)he is in a lavatory to which the public or a section of the public has or is permitted to have access, whether on payment or otherwise,
(b)he intentionally engages in an activity, and,
(c)the activity is sexual.
(2)For the purposes of this section, an activity is sexual if a reasonable person would, in all the circumstances but regardless of any person’s purpose, consider it to be sexual.
(3)A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable on summary conviction, to imprisonment for a term not exceeding 6 months or a fine not exceeding level 5 on the standard scale or both.]

Reminder this clause was argued against by MPs because it would be discriminatory towards men. The justification being no lesbians have ever been prosecuted for having sex in a toilet.

I believe the latter accolade still stands. Well done women! 😁

I will bet there has been legislation and regulation for as long as the UK regulated public sanatation.

And to be fair to gay men the police officer proposing to spy in public toilets were overwhelmingly going to be blokes. Women would likely opt for policing the pervy blokes harassing women going about their daily lives.
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